Instagram Model Reveals How She Feels About “Nice Guys” and “White Knights” on LAHWF.

ScorpyScorpy · 2019-11-01T03:20:44+00:00

She just said that she doesn't like boys who worships her, basically she wouldn't want a date a guy with no hobbies, a guy who would always put her 1st and not himself--- That's normal tbh.. I wouldn't date a girl whose obssesed with me, shit's exhausting if you ever had one

givemepilates · 2019-10-31T23:54:39+00:00

But can she code?

MuzikVillain · 2019-11-01T05:17:09+00:00

This doesn't indicate to treat woman like crap, this just means don't put pussy on a pedestal and have other interests in life

rich11111 · 2019-11-01T01:54:44+00:00

I wouldn't take dating advice from females. Especially good looking females. But she has a point. Don't treat women like crap tho and don't date someone who wants to be treated like crap. Find the balance between indifference and interest. Have abundance. Take to multiple women. Don't get too invested, especially early on. Don't put women on a pedestal.

ChrisDarmount · 2019-11-01T04:03:34+00:00

Similar to what me and my friends go through: we find a nice, supportive woman with no drama and we get bored.

Give us some crazy woman who fucks us till we’re silly and then makes our life miserable with drama, and that’s the woman we want to be with.

caesarfecit · 2019-11-01T16:16:33+00:00

What you'll likely find is this is an extreme and unusually self-aware example.

In my experience, women who go for guys "who treat them like crap" have very low-self esteem. That's why they want a guy who treats them like crap, it confirms their self-opinion. And when they're able to win over the guy, it represents a sort of moral victory for them. But it's a neurotic and self-destructive pattern as the relationship almost always devolves into her attempting to use sex as power and the guy either knuckling under and losing his value, or ditching her.

But to be fair, the girls who go for nice guys are actually worse. These women are usually narcissists who have issues with men and on some semi-conscious level want a doormat. That confirms their self-opinion (that they deserve worship and blind obedience) and their beliefs about men (that they're weak, thirsty, and spineless). A lot of men with issues regarding women behave in a similar fashion, seeking out doormats and needy people they can take advantage of, not realizing that they're actually screening for people who will make them even worse off.

This just brings us back to the age old truths that if you want harmonious relationships with the opposite sex, you need a harmonious relationship with yourself first. This is something that a lot of naturals and beautiful women don't have because they never needed it. They never had to do the hard work, and it costs them on the back end.

And as the video said, you need to strike a balance. Seeking out unbalanced people who treat you in an unbalanced manner is a sign of your own neuroses.

beto_747 · 2019-11-01T07:19:16+00:00

What do you do? “Idk guys wanna fak me”

thekouyatekid · 2019-11-01T12:06:45+00:00

“Don’t treat her like a celebrity cus she will treat you as a fan.”

HeavenPiercingMan · 2019-11-01T06:31:05+00:00

e-thots are cancer, but people who follow them are AIDS.

presobg · 2019-11-01T05:08:27+00:00

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mookyvon · 2019-11-01T02:24:29+00:00

In a way I feel bad for her. In 10 years she will be single or divorced wondering why every 10/10 guy she dated left her.

deepfriedbutt · 2019-11-01T05:29:03+00:00

Said an instagram model. Begone thot.

argus4ever · 2019-11-01T05:55:09+00:00

"I like people that treat me like crap where I need to fix them"

My cousin has referred to this in the past. The women that have chased after him have been the ones that he's been playfully mean to while also treating them just sweet enough that they feel valued, and in doing so, gives her hope for him.

Today, most men fawn after beautiful women TOO MUCH, some women more than others. And in turn, those women start being attracted to the few men who don't fawn after her, in hopes that she can FIX HIM.

I know some ppl on here are saying she has bad judgement, and maybe she does, but didn't our gender do this to her? Maybe if the majority of men knew how to "treat" beautiful women (treat not in the manipulative sense), they wouldn't be looking for the wrong thing.

NordRedditor91 · 2019-11-01T04:53:42+00:00

"I like people that treat me like crap where I need to fix them" ... Smh... see, it's not very easy getting motivated to get out there and get your game back on when there's WAY too many teenage bimbos in grown women's bodies (like her) in this world... Wtf happened to all the real, good women? Where did they go?

bidbidbid · 2019-11-01T10:52:51+00:00

This woman says she wants to "fix" her partner, that's a toxic idea derived from the lack of purpose in her life, I suggest you guys stay away from this kind of ladies.

tokixdoki · 2019-11-01T03:35:32+00:00

got it

Novatonavila · 2019-11-01T12:03:36+00:00

She basically said she wants a normal person. Someone who treats her good but doesn't worship her.

DimitriT · 2019-11-01T16:36:33+00:00

I think there there needs to be some unpacking to be done before an average Joe will understand what she is saying. She is not saying that she likes BAD boys who will abuse her and she is not saying that she likes psychopath. She is saying that the "nice guys" is not her type. What she really means is that she does not like guy who fake being nice just to be her friend, or guys who agrees with her 100% and does what ever she says. Some people may think that's nice but I don't think it comes from a good place.
If you really are a nice guy then you would not lie and tell bullshit. You will tell the truth and that involved sometimes hurting the feelings of each other and have arguments. Tell her shit she needs to hear, not what she wants to hear. If she drinks 9 in the morning she needs a man who is willing to put her on the right track, argue about it and tell her to fuck off and create a boundary for her. A normal "nice guy" would be thinking she has the right to do what ever she wants etc.
There is a high change people who just started the path of bettering themselves and they learn about social dynamics might think that being an ass-hole is the way to go. No it's not, that's not how you create deep connection and long lasting relationship. What she is really saying is that you have to man the fuck up to the point where you are not afraid of taking space and telling people the truth. Sometimes it can be interpreted as being ass hole even if you really have peoples best interest in mind. That does not mean you are an ass hole.

Boodip · 2019-11-01T05:21:52+00:00

Basically just don’t be a pushover and don’t be a dick

Lamaje_Island · 2019-11-01T08:50:14+00:00

"Instagram Model". You missed the quotation marks there

IrishScamPatrol · 2019-11-01T14:24:40+00:00

toxic femininity.

princeOmaro · 2019-11-01T07:35:33+00:00

So basically, she doesn't want guys who too insecure and have no personalities. It's normal isn't it? Male or female, attractive or not, most of them avoids those kind of person.

Anyway, why do I feel like her dialog is scripted?

2019-11-01T13:14:31+00:00

I think she's absolutely right to search for somebody that is genuine, and does not agree with everything she says just because of her beauty. In my view she's just seeking a sincere, genuine human relationship.

whats_the_deal22 · 2019-11-01T14:41:23+00:00

Idk why I can't get out of this lately. I've fucked up every interaction being too nice. Meanwhile my ex told me during our relationship that she thought I was kind of an asshole before she got to know me. I played my cards perfectly and didn't give a fuck and it worked. Not sure why I can't pull off the same mentality a couple years later.

nuc1earwessels · 2019-11-01T16:19:26+00:00

I know a couple. The girl in the couple, is always lusting after her boyfriend. When I see them together she's always trying to get an arm around him, get close to him. He never moves away, but always acts a little detached and stays focused on whatever social situation he is currently engaged in when she's around. He's far from a bad boyfriend, in fact a good one, they communicate and spend good time together. But in public he always shows that he has obligations besides her, and after observing them for a year and half, I haven't seen an ounce of passion leave. The happy harmony seems to be one person attached, and the other suavely detached. Positive and negative.

Michelangelor · 2019-11-01T06:47:04+00:00

A man needs a name

Bobandjim12602 · 2019-11-01T09:43:31+00:00

So she wants a genuine human being and not a kiss ass who is only intimidated by her? Imagine that. Although I will say that "White Knights" and "Nice Guys" already have a bad rep. As they're only doing what they do to get laid, not because they actually care about the chick. Where White Knights fuck up is that they ALWAYS agree with the girl. Even when she says something dumb as fuck, they'll defend them to their dying breath. It's annoying from an outsider's perspective and comes off as desperate and submissive from her perspective.

Guys, the take away here isn't that you should just start treating women like shit. Just be fun, engaging, playfully mean, and confident in your stance on subjects. Also, you should always challenge others close to you in your life, regardless of whether or not they're people you're trying to lay.

scubasteve010 · 2019-11-01T01:25:33+00:00

Toxic as fuck female, don’t run home with this shit guys. Fuck her and move on. A true Alpha female wants a strong man not a project away from Instagram bullshit.

Take away the caption and she’s just another casting couch fuck

alec5280 · 2019-11-01T16:34:09+00:00

She's young and dumb. Going for guys who "treat you like crap" is garbage.

I agree that most intelligent, confident women don't want a doormat (i.e. "white knight"), but most well-adjusted women don't want a guy who treats them like crap.

NoChannel1 · 2019-11-01T05:19:32+00:00

It's kinda like life. It would be boring if you weren't a little stressed about challenges.

WillFireat · 2019-11-01T08:50:14+00:00

That's most of the female's type..

mcbeekov · 2019-11-01T10:53:06+00:00

She didn’t mention “white knights” at all, just “nice guys” vs assholes.

turkeyjizz007 · 2019-11-01T13:15:07+00:00

She can drive me around to make little chops!

Pexcel · 2019-11-01T13:50:12+00:00

"Instagram Model"

janaheyiloveyou · 2019-11-01T14:19:22+00:00

Link

kizor859 · 2019-11-01T15:31:20+00:00

Did I hear this dude tell her she needs a dad..or am i just hearing things lol.

dangsoggyoatmeal · 2019-11-01T15:58:15+00:00

Isn't that dude a pornstar?

Kviten004 · 2019-11-02T10:13:35+00:00

Free Todd V program on youtube https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKIaJfW2hUsxV_F0zdb-eF0YiK9SE-20L

dgeazy95 · 2019-11-03T20:10:16+00:00

girls only want guys who have great skills.

ex. nunchuck skills, bo hunting skills, computer hacking skills, etc

2019-11-07T01:23:56+00:00

She wants to date a bad boy that will beat her and cheat on her and talk shit to her.

She wants to date tall, handsome, good looking fuckboys that wear expensive shit and drive their dad's expensive cars around.

3ngetsu · 2019-12-03T12:31:41+00:00

Listening to what women want is pointless because women don't actually know what they want. All they want is Chad to fuck them relentlessly and their personality detectors switch the fuck off when around Chad. Anything else you tell yourself is pure cope and the Tinder experiments that have been done prove this unquestionably.

ColdCole8 · 2019-11-01T15:28:45+00:00

Cheat on her, take three days to reply to her texts, make sure to only see her when you want.

bringit2012 · 2019-11-01T04:36:17+00:00

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nameisahmad · 2019-11-01T06:42:54+00:00

All i see is a cute model, and thats a nice girl too

Brandonva804 · 2019-11-01T01:44:40+00:00

Her Jaw look crooked or face. Bet her head game trash with a face symmetrical like that

Means her jaw can’t deep throat 7 inches or above likely

Title	Instagram Model Reveals How She Feels About “Nice Guys” and “White Knights” on LAHWF.
Author	rydenoir
Upvotes	1057
Comments	154
Date	October 31, 2019 11:52 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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