I get it you are THE MAN, you just went through 40 girls, and you have to tell all these pussies, how life works and how to fuck all the girls. The thing is, this style of writing and acting tough on the internet just ruins all your credibility and makes you look like a wannabe.

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I've been reading this sub on and off for a while now and this is a trend I'm seeing in almost half the posts here. Usually I read FR or top voted/hot topics, to see how others do the "game" or just get some tips to improve my style. I honestly prefer the find your own style, make your life interesting, have fun in life approach. Strangely in these posts it often really feels like you want to push this fake alpha/tough guy style on me. Your points may be valid and good, but when you tell me to "get up from your loser ass and go up to that chick you pussy", only has me sigh-ing and thinking that you are not a guy who has actual knowledge rather just some dude who read/watched some PUA gaming and now thinks he got it all figured out... It's really tiring, and look at all the good pick up artist, life coaches, they almost never you a bitch, and a pussy because that shit is demotivating and in the end you'll be telling yourself that you are actually weak and unworthy because in that moment you couldn't keep eye contact. It'll only lead to worse self-image and less confidence. For me this style is just exhausting and cringey, and usually stops me from reading the post any further. No alpha guy does it.

I often feel like there is a lot of irony in this style: You should never try to prove yourself to a woman, yet with this macho writing style you are trying to prove to the sub, that you are such an alpha male.

How it could be better: Just write your own experience and what you learned during your the years, how it benefited you and how it could benefit the readers as well.

Example1 (tough guy): Keep eye contact you fucking pussy, and wait for her to look away first, this will show you are an alpha guy and approach her you bitch. (I know a bit of an exaggeration)
Example2 (normal guy): Try to keep eye contact with her and smile, if she smiles back and looks down, she is probably interested and you have a good chance of grabbing her number if you approach her. (see no putting the reader down, and there is a posibble positive outcome for him)

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tl;dr: Your "macho" peptalk makes me think you are either a 14 year old teen, or an idiot wannabe, and makes me doubt any of your points (and stop reading it). Look at all the good PUA guys, they never call you a "fucking pussy, loser", they motivate people through positive reinforcement and feedback and not putting them down...