This shit is so addictive

ROBYoutube · 2023-10-24T06:13:02+00:00

Unrelated, but Neil Strauss - author of The Game - wrote a lesser known sequel where he opines about how being a pickup artist fucked his whole life up requiring years of active therapy.

norwegiandoggo · 2023-10-24T05:12:35+00:00

It is addictive and this is also dangerous to some degree. Over time it can be bad for mental health so my recommendation is to schedule in planned breaks from time to time.

lilrocketfyre · 2023-10-24T06:35:27+00:00

Wish I had this problem

advicefromhypocrites · 2023-10-24T04:54:47+00:00

I like the sex more than the hunt but it is wild how fast things can move when you get good with game

StopsTalkingMidSente · 2023-10-24T05:13:02+00:00

Just know that you can’t stop chasing what you set yourself up to chase

DearSail7885 · 2023-10-24T05:13:56+00:00

"I have but one passion in my life, Mr. Rainsford, and it is the hunt. And a big Latina booty. Don't forget that."

RickyRiccardos · 2023-10-24T07:13:19+00:00

It’s one of the exhilarating things a man can do and feel that’s for sure. The spontaneity of it all and putting yourself out there is unmatched.

In saying that it can be a double edged sword so make sure you stay grounded and keep your independence. Ie everything in moderation

kidsondrugs_xo · 2023-10-24T09:51:23+00:00

Same with me, the confidence boost it gives me that I just saw someone a few minutes ago, started dancing with them and now we are making out. Makes me feel like the biggest chad in the entire world.

It has actually gotten a bit unhealthy for me as I have started to relate my self worth with the amount of attention I am getting from women on the club dance floors.

FlynnRideHer1 · 2023-10-24T06:02:24+00:00

Ask yourself whether it's the sexual energy or the social energy that is exciting you

If it's social, there are other outlets. You could get into music promotion, or theater production, or maybe a job in sales. All of these activities are all about meeting people and establishing connections. Many of the basic skills are the same

EditorDesperate6096 · 2023-10-24T15:42:00+00:00

having a loving wife and kids is also pretty cool

Wonderful_System5658 · 2023-10-24T13:02:00+00:00

Probably what a cheetah feels before and after chasing down a gazelle. Thank you for sharing this.

lemonyprepper · 2023-10-24T06:02:56+00:00

I wouldn’t call the chase fun. I define the chase as going out and talking to people only to realize that 80% of people are bleh. But that 20% that’s fun. That’s not the chase, that’s you finding people in your tribe. When you vibe with a random dude instantly and you guys wing each other well, when you meet a cool chick who’s smoking hot and you guys drink and dance and make out. Those times are fun. But they are few and far between

Rufus_Anderson · 2023-10-24T23:14:21+00:00

I don’t see how people get addicted to sex.

As OP said, sex with randoms isn’t that great. Wearing a condom takes away the good sensation of sex.

I think the chase is the best part of seduction too

SarsaparillaCorona · 2023-10-24T05:46:54+00:00

It is incredibly addictive, but I can wholeheartedly recommend transferring that energy into keeping an active roster alive. Nothing screams power and outcome independence like knowing that you have a selection of options to engage and receive immediate sex.

And Blue/Black pill guys wonder why women don’t wanna give up the Cock Carousel for their needy low value ass…

CertifiedRomeoBoy · 2023-10-24T06:10:21+00:00

I strive to get better at the "game." Just found out about this subreddit. One step at a time, I guess.

Cloudy1824 · 2023-10-24T10:30:41+00:00

Love or lust?

itsonlybliss · 2023-10-24T15:45:36+00:00

CarpDezNuts · 2023-10-24T10:27:04+00:00

Couldn’t agree more. Very addictive and genuinely exhilarating.

Mall_Remarkable · 2023-10-24T12:41:18+00:00

Making out with a woman you met 5 mins ago ... I definitely want to learn how the fuck that happens ... What

brimmybucktooth · 2023-10-24T14:46:21+00:00

Do men genuinely think this is the highlight of their lives? Like I’m being genuine, is it not better to have 2, maybe 3 mutual FWB that you connect with rather than scoring 20+ girls that are probably just drunk and you guys are sure to forget each other? Is life really that short and fickle to most of you?

Will_Ling_Motivation · 2023-10-24T11:19:44+00:00

It's one of the few things in the modern world along with sales that simulates the feeling of the HUNT, which used to be your main job as a man in the prehistoric world.

Of course it's addictive because you're genetically wired to like hunting

vegancrossfiter · 2023-10-25T08:20:56+00:00

I started to appreciate less and less making out with random woman, its cool but purely physical and the experience is not amplified because there are no emotions

DeepHouseDJ007 · 2023-10-24T23:15:30+00:00

I feel the same way. When you get good at flirting and seduction It’s a lot of fun to go out and party with random people and get the hits of dopamine and ego boosts that coke from getting attention and feeling desired by attractive women, especially when you’ve had a few drinks.

Most of the time I don’t even need to actually bring a girl home to have a good night out, just the drunken flirting and making out are plenty of fun and the guys who are good at flirting usually have enough sex to not be desperate for one night stands, so I’m just fine with getting pizza after the bar and fall asleep smoking weed and watching Netflix.

UnifiedField9000 · 2023-10-25T08:31:35+00:00

Happy that you’re enjoying yourself. But in my experience yes it eventually does become a negative influence in your life. After say 10 yrs or more just chasing the high, and deliberately not trying to form meaningful long term relationships

Prestigious_Water336 · 2023-10-25T13:46:07+00:00

I love meeting a random woman I've never met before and within a couple hours, we're having sex. It's great.

I love feeling the sexual tension rise between us and just knowing when the right time to kiss her is. My heart always starts to beat fast in anticipation. And when we do kiss it really gets me off.

Slashe3r · 2023-10-26T02:36:03+00:00

Ain't addictive for me because women don't find me attractive. Sucks but it is what it is.

Competitive_Mfucker · 2023-10-24T05:50:17+00:00

What are some tips “to be good at it”?

pepskino · 2023-10-26T11:23:40+00:00

I love it as well enjoy the benefits of gods gifts .. I don’t know how anyone can speak against it in the seduction sub 🙃 reddit is crazy

Forsaken-Junket7631 · 2023-10-24T15:53:19+00:00

I get that you like it, & that’s fine I guess, but I don’t think it compares to the positive feeling you will hopefully one day get from falling in love. Like, when you care enough for someone that their looks stop mattering it’s kind of a big deal. My partner could take on pretty much any form & id still be into em bc it’s their mind I care abt.

If you never have that, then that’s fine, but I promise it’s better than chasing something that you don’t want.

I never took it that far, but at the age when makeouts were abt as far as my peers were going I was quite a flirt with ppl & would get them to want to kiss me for a thrill. I didn’t even always go through with that part, just teased em by getting way too close.

I have no doubt that I could have had tons of meaningless chasing of intercourse if I hadn’t also been seeking romantic love as I got older.

Only reason I started chasing kisses like that was bc I thought I’d met the one & was waiting for her to come around.

Flirting became such a game to me that I would do it constantly w/anyone & everyone. It actually got easier to flirt once I’d found someone else to love bc the stakes were lowered significantly. I’d make sure to drop that I was in a relationship so as to not lead them on & hopefully let them know it was all in good fun.

Thing is, it caused pain. Someone married fell for me pretty hard & the fall out was messy. Now I try not to flirt at all. There are better ways to have fun getting ppl to like you.

Have you considered what your great game might be doing in regards to the women you succeed with? Bc I don’t think the adrenaline rush you feel will outweigh harm if you are making ppl sad just to get something that you do not want.

I’m not saying that you need to be puritanical & stop having sex until you are married, just that you should take care not to break a bunch of people’s hearts along the way.

I could never stand making ppl cry…well except once, but I came to regret causing those tears. I was outright applauded by a bus full of people for a dirty trick that led to tears.

It was a cheap trick too.

I even liked the person that I made cry.

Point is, we should do our best not to harm others in this world. As long as these women aren’t left saddened &/or diseased by your promiscuity, then it’s a harmless enough way to get dopamine. Quite the opposite even if you’re any good at it.

Good luck to you in life, but if you think this is becoming a problem, then seek out a therapist.

WaycoKid1129 · 2023-10-24T14:34:26+00:00

So jealous. Women see me and ignore me 12 feet away

excitement2k · 2023-10-24T06:01:18+00:00

Poor baby-we feel so bad.

zexwyomom · 2023-10-24T14:38:25+00:00

Unless your standards are very low or you’re godlike its unusual.

Duuud11 · 2023-10-24T20:49:15+00:00

I actually love it the opposite when they approach me and I reject

inittowinit292929 · 2023-10-24T12:45:44+00:00

Can someone explain how do you make out with a girl you met 5 minutes ago ?

Aktive_IV · 2023-10-24T16:18:30+00:00

Same

ComedianSquare2839 · 2023-10-24T18:37:47+00:00

Enjoy...

southass · 2023-10-24T20:10:36+00:00

" I love making out with a woman I just met 5 minutes ago " back when i was a horny teen partying hard year hell yeah, nowadays i wouldn't.

OnlyOVOandXO · 2023-10-24T21:05:30+00:00

I am having this issue right now. Every week I sleep with one new girl and mess up with another. This forces me to go back on the apps again and the ones I rescheduled for next week are still down to hangout. A loop I cannot come out of.

Ott0VT · 2023-10-24T22:42:28+00:00

You are fucked up in one way or another this is a trade off in life.

Kobe_curry24 · 2023-10-24T23:12:35+00:00

What did Batman say in BMVSM my parents first generation they were “hunters”

Yellow_Squeezer · 2023-10-24T23:25:38+00:00

I got so addicted to daygame that I had to quit my job and all hobbies and just approached all day.. it was fun and the results were great but it completely ruined me.

petkoTHEVIKING · 2023-10-25T00:33:43+00:00

Careful you don't fall down a bad headspace by doing this. You should be having fun, but an addiction is an addiction and if it impares you from being healthy and happy, you should look into it.

Also keep in mind that you're dealing with actual people end of the day. Not tools to feed you dopamine.

Aristox · 2023-10-25T01:01:11+00:00

Why wouldn't it be good for you?

Ok_Jellyfish_406 · 2023-10-25T03:49:47+00:00

You need help. Stop being a coward and confront your feeling. Find a person who likes you and spend time with them. Don’t run away.DONT

epimpstyle · 2023-10-25T08:53:18+00:00

I don't actually enjoy sex that much.

Here I stopped reading

Gaydame · 2023-10-25T11:10:47+00:00

You'll get over it

s1brzy · 2023-10-25T15:36:53+00:00

As for someone who’s struggling with this, can you share some insights on how you do this and tips?

Title	This shit is so addictive
Author	Affectionate-Bar9619
Upvotes	502
Comments	150
Date	October 24, 2023 4:47 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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