Women, why you do that?

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omega05 · 2022-09-15T16:03:43+00:00

Are you owed a response from her because she looks at your stories? Move on bro. Make those stories so good she and other women will be begging to talk to you

iamkoosh · 2022-09-15T16:39:48+00:00

aint no way this is real💀

KimchiAndButtercups · 2022-09-15T15:58:13+00:00

Looking at a guys IG stories has absolutely nothing to do with how badly I want to talk to him

sparklingwinepapi92 · 2022-09-15T15:42:23+00:00

Wrong sub to ask

Imaginary-Score7574 · 2022-09-15T16:23:47+00:00

You, as that guy should grow up and know the fact that not everything she does is about you, and if she wanted to talk she would.

This is a fact, girls follow many guys and they just look at their stories but they dont even like them. That's normal

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-09-15T16:04:35+00:00

Watching your stories doesn’t mean she wants to talk with you.

People on instagram just like to stalk everyone including people they are not attracted to, because Instagram is not just about stalking people you like it’s about seeing what the rest of the world is doing with their lives while you are bored at home.

They post pictures not because they want you to realise that they are ignoring you as if you were in their minds when you do it, they naturally post stories or anything regardless of you texting them or not.

In other words, they are not posting stories because of you, they do it because they like posting photos…

It’s just you who is interpreting that as some kind of personal attack or move to make you upset, as far as you know there are many other guys who she also ignores, and she is not thinking of anyone in particular, she just treats you all like fans, nothing deeper than that.

GlitteringPause8 · 2022-09-15T16:22:19+00:00

Lmfao why are you making it about you???? She probably watches everyone’s ig stories and probably has like 20 guys trying to dm her. She’s not posting stories “just to let you know she’s online”, she’s just living her life and posting on her ig. She’s just not interested in you and was never. She’s not doing anything to you and clearly you are just not on her mind..she’s not playing some game with you.

yanonotreally · 2022-09-15T16:03:06+00:00

You think women watching your IG stories mean they’re signaling something to you? This is a virtual equivalent of “she touched me with her boobs”

She’s not “doing” anything. Don’t ask why. You’re reading into it too much. Some people watch everyone’s stories for no reason other than just because.

grindforthegold · 2022-09-15T15:35:18+00:00

cuz there’s probably a bunch of other simps doing the same . i don’t use social media with girls unless the girl is adamant about it

Kokadison · 2022-09-15T16:50:29+00:00

…you seriously think someone watching your stories means they wanna caboodle with you? I watch plenty of peoples stories in social media and follow lots of people, doesn’t mean I wanna sleep with any of em or that I’m interested in them.

wave_hello · 2022-09-15T16:09:16+00:00

They just want the attention dude.

Woujo · 2022-09-15T15:38:18+00:00

Who gives a fuck go approach women in person

TruSiris · 2022-09-15T16:15:27+00:00

No one owes you anything just cause you sent a message. Get over yourself, it's not about you.

IlickedMyOwnAsshole · 2022-09-15T16:38:26+00:00

I dm'd an actress on insta and she hasn't even read it yet, I don't know what the hell is going on

tinasnow-poty · 2022-09-15T16:50:41+00:00

Watching someone’s story means nothing for 99% of people. She could have replied to you out of politeness, but following someone back and watching their stories are not indicators of interest AT ALL

Preteuss · 2022-09-15T17:07:51+00:00

How dare she live her life while you simp her in dm…wtf bruhh

DragonfruitDefiant33 · 2022-09-15T16:51:54+00:00

She doesn't want to fuck you

jsbach123 · 2022-09-15T15:52:06+00:00

Women love orbiters.

atomant88 · 2022-09-15T15:22:32+00:00

what does this have to do with game?

squincherella · 2022-09-15T16:45:16+00:00

I follow people back for many different reasons, like if I enjoy your workouts, if you post your dogs, if you post stuff that catches my attention. Some peoples stories I watch because it’s interesting to me, some because I know them, some I click through really quick without really watching 🤷🏻‍♀️ none of that means I want to talk to you, none of that means I’m into you. People have a variety of different reasons they do things, my answer may not be someone elses. Social media is more a form of entertainment to me, and just because you entertain me doesn’t mean I’m into you. Don’t take it personally. Doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. Just realize it’s probably not about you.

Splitje · 2022-09-15T16:50:49+00:00

Bro I always have to watch all insta stories of everyone I follow to make the colored bar go away. It's just OCD. It has nothing to do with you and she probably barely knows who you are and isn't even aware of what you think she is "doing".

BroDudeClubFerda · 2022-09-15T18:01:21+00:00

I can’t tell if this is a troll post or not. But if it’s not, OP you are definitely a serial killer in the making. Women don’t owe you shit just for being a “nice guy.”

SpookyKG · 2022-09-15T16:53:11+00:00

Why are YOU doing this low yield behavior and simping about it like a low-value guy?

Liberaler · 2022-09-15T15:51:37+00:00

Women's biggest weaknesses are their need for attention and their curiosity. They even want the attention of guys, they are not interested in, and are curious about their life.

plaaya · 2022-09-15T16:13:29+00:00

I think Instagram is like tinder. Most girls just use it for validation

puma085 · 2022-09-15T16:08:25+00:00

Since when does it mean a woman the following somebody on Instagram means that they want to talk and are interested in the person they follow?

The just ad you to have more followers. It does not mean that are interested in the person they follow.

Again it is just about FOLLOWERS. Do not invest any emotion in that kind of women.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2022-09-15T16:14:00+00:00

My question is why do you care?

ipeekintothehole · 2022-09-15T16:47:22+00:00

Get off socials. 4ever. Lol.

dobbs1997 · 2022-09-15T16:59:18+00:00

why do you care ?

Wise-Ad-4291 · 2022-09-15T17:01:03+00:00

Maybe you should ask yourself what your doing wrong to not attract a girl enough to get a response bud is it your text game is it your clothes game is it your health do you maybe look boring or weird are you going after girls that are out of your league you gotta remember girls on social media get hit up by tons of guys and if you ain’t that guy you ain’t getting a answer point blank period can’t be mad that you need to improve your game as a man

Legitimate_Ad8171 · 2022-09-15T17:07:15+00:00

I think because it took you too long to hit DM !!

Crixusgannicus · 2022-09-15T17:08:11+00:00

Why do you care?

Some will.

Some won't.

NEXT!

CowgirlBebop575 · 2022-09-15T17:10:48+00:00

A follow isn't that deep. Strangers usually aren't doing things out of spite, they are carrying on with their lives as usual. A lot of people go through a lot of random stories when bored in bed or on the toilet, it doesn't mean they want to talk to anyone.

MrBlack__ · 2022-09-15T17:13:05+00:00

For men instagram is like a business card… for women it’s like… a media website… with some kind of Social aspect… a social media if you will.

So you only only people you are interested in speaking with… they follow… people who might be interesting to them for whatever reason.

You expect a mutual balance of interest like swapping business cards… but with someone who doesn’t have a business 😂 they don’t care about replying to strangers

RightTrack44 · 2022-09-15T17:14:24+00:00

This is entitlement bro

spinshootimpress · 2022-09-15T17:14:39+00:00

It’s not that serious

Fearless_Disaster_20 · 2022-09-15T17:16:44+00:00

Quit stalking on insta. It’s not real. Focus on yourself.

hhngo96 · 2022-09-15T17:20:34+00:00

Sometimes, it's a signal of interest, sometimes it's not. Every woman is different, what works with s1 might not work with others. You shoot your shot and fail so the only correct thing is to move on and not overthink. She does not owe you a date just bcs see follow and see your stories

Blackmagic213 · 2022-09-15T17:21:19+00:00

Because you care….once you’ve passed the age of 30, random stuff women do just don’t bother you ☺️

I literally could care less, I don’t even have an IG.

MrJakobe · 2022-09-15T17:26:15+00:00

Seems like you just think simple things like looking at someones story makes someone interested in you. You think everything a girl does makes her either interested or not interested in you. She’s not posting pictures and stories to make you jealous, she’s just living her normal life and also isn’t interested in you.

RSNK10 · 2022-09-15T17:29:18+00:00

You are not entitled to a response. Why do you think that?

Imaginary-Score7574 · 2022-09-15T17:30:24+00:00

No i dont hate it, i think im the kind of person who can practice spirituality with religion

Competitive-Link-912 · 2022-09-15T17:31:28+00:00

She followed you back from numbers and she watches everyone’s stories. Her stories are not aimed at random dude that followed, they are aimed at dudes she met and have a connection with.

rollinlikelarry · 2022-09-15T17:31:55+00:00

Man you are OVERTHINKING way too hard!

tdroylshy · 2022-09-15T17:45:04+00:00

Holy shit bro, go outside and touch some grass.

freespirit1963TJ · 2022-09-15T17:51:43+00:00

It sounds as if you believe things follow a natural chain of events. Too much internet reading. If you don't anticipate something happening, you won't be disappointed.

PhysicsObjective6875 · 2022-09-15T17:51:52+00:00

They want a badass

learn to be one.

AdmiralLubDub · 2022-09-15T17:54:46+00:00

Nobody looks at stories on Instagram that seriously bro lmao. I’m pretty sure a lot of people like myself flip through when we’re bored. It’s Instagram brobro don’t take it so seriously.

c4rdc0llector11 · 2022-09-15T17:56:16+00:00

literally move onto the next girl. ignore her. don't let these girls occupy your brain space

distawest · 2022-09-15T17:58:31+00:00

Why should you care?

Just start dealing with more interesting issues in your life

MountainGoatSC · 2022-09-15T18:03:02+00:00

Looking at someone's stories doesn't mean shit and she isn't posting stories and pictures just to let you know that she is online.

moneyy777 · 2022-09-15T18:05:13+00:00

Instagram really be the heartbreak tbh

aitaix · 2022-09-15T18:05:31+00:00

She doesn't owe you a reply.

GotThaAcid5tab · 2022-09-15T18:07:06+00:00

Cause instagram is trash and trash people use it

Title	Women, why you do that?
Author	Horizon-seeker2
Upvotes	23
Comments	134
Date	September 15, 2022 3:20 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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