Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculine

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unswunghero · 2024-05-02T17:31:56+00:00

Some examples would be nice, most of us probably don't even notice since we know nothing else

SmokyOtter · 2024-05-02T17:32:50+00:00

Social media definitely fuels a lot of women’s aggression and cynicism towards men in the USA if thats what you mean

CoffeeandMJ · 2024-05-02T17:39:22+00:00

Quiet I love my warrior queens absolute freaks in bed as well

Lacy1986 · 2024-05-02T17:56:17+00:00

Yes all American girls are exactly like the ones you met in the last 2 days….

imfjcinnCRAAAAZYHEY · 2024-05-02T18:01:00+00:00

Mm. Turn around, and you'll realize you'll have 49 more states to reclaim your statement. You're hypothesizing about a little puddle, you're kneeled down, studying.

TexRetroTech · 2024-05-02T18:20:14+00:00

My mom was European. I would say Europe also has its fair share of females like you're describing, but women can behave and dress however they want so that's not my problem If you take some time and investigate the United States there are some really wonderful women here.

Capt1an_Cl0ck · 2024-05-02T18:33:24+00:00

If you’re out at clubs and bars yes you will find the drunk, loud, tattooed, party girls. And yes they will be brash and rude because that’s what social media has done for them.

frecklie · 2024-05-02T18:32:32+00:00

Welcome to the big leagues! Lets destroy your assumptions for a bit - Austria is about 84k sq. km and has a population of 9 million - The USA is 9.8 MILLION sq. km and a population of 333 million. We have as many square km as you have people.

So your statements about what American women are like.. lets review. On a visit in whatever part of the country you are in, whatever bars you have gone to, you have decided that you understand this CONTINENT that dwarfs you in every single way.

You have no idea what American women are like little buddy. This is a big big place and you are from a small place. Could you cut it here with your fearful general mentality? Probably not. Best to go back where there are no 'masculine' women to scare you.

But never forget that whoever is making assumptions about 300+ million people based on a visit out, is probably an idiot.

kinkpants · 2024-05-02T19:19:34+00:00

I will say North America (actually no just Can/ US- Mexico is totally different) is much colder from all genders towards meeting new people. I blame the lack of walkability.

But based on your other issues it just sounds like you’re looking for a 1950s housewife to do your dishes for you.

FantasyTwistedDark · 2024-05-02T18:15:24+00:00

Sub is dogshit now

honeyydripping · 2024-05-02T19:05:56+00:00

Wife beater mentality

IamaThrowAwway · 2024-05-02T18:07:55+00:00

Those are the traits of an asshole (excluding being tatted up) not a gender. If you think that's what masculinity is you're part of the problem with men.

BW2Dat · 2024-05-02T17:59:45+00:00

More American women are subscribing to the feminist, independent, anti man movement due to social media influence. It’s not all American women but if you go out to clubs and bars you’ll see this often.

sakuragasaki46 · 2024-05-02T18:43:25+00:00

"Masculine" like in? Beefy with mucles? Geek? Tomboys? Adventure seeking? Wearing baggy clothes? Non-shaved?

ZenoGeno · 2024-05-02T18:39:39+00:00

I don't think there's this much of a divide between America and Europe as you might think(excluding some eastern European countries). At the same time I don't see why those things you mentioned are masculine traits, tattoos weren't an only male thing, they were a prisoner thing before becoming more mainstream to both genders.

curiouzzboutit · 2024-05-02T19:52:57+00:00

Sees one type of girl, are they ALL like this? Dude America has the most diverse group of people by x100. You can find any girl from any race/nation/height/size/demeanor/attitude/etc. Why do I answer stupid fucking questions? I don’t know.

roronoaxzoro · 2024-05-02T18:38:44+00:00

You sound insecure af lmfao

PM_Teeny_Titties · 2024-05-02T18:31:24+00:00

You just described my dream girl.

007upyours · 2024-05-02T18:25:32+00:00

Yes they are

opper-hombre1 · 2024-05-02T17:47:11+00:00

Yall hang out with the wrong girls

Phuffu · 2024-05-02T18:15:37+00:00

Idk man you’re kinda describing exactly my type 😂😂

DaSpurdOfStonkStreet · 2024-05-02T18:19:36+00:00

This is hilarious. American man here who has no problem getting dates but a problem liking the dates I’m on. After traveling abroad to multiple countries in various continents I’ve realized that I’ll probably be single until I leave the USA.

There are definitely gems here, but I might find one girl I actually like out of 50 dates. Abroad, if I go on 5 dates, I’ll genuinely like 4 of them.

I find that masculinity has a negative connotation here, and tbh it’s not all women’s fault. Men are just as much to blame. The issue is we don’t work together…but that’s a rabbit hole for another time.

But yes, I find I enjoy the company of women from abroad more often than in the USA.

WetBigSlap · 2024-05-02T17:44:22+00:00

If you had bad experiences in Europe too, where did you have good experiences?

nefthep · 2024-05-02T19:49:57+00:00

They seem to be very loud, drunk, immodest, tattooed up, etc. Almost like the stereotype of the British Royal Navy sailors in the 1800s. This can't be a real representation of how girls here are right?

No, that's about right; especially in that age group.

alee0224 · 2024-05-02T20:06:10+00:00

Not me. I’m super feminine, don’t drink, barely leave the house, just stay home and take care of my house, and cook all day 😂😂😂 very old school traditional lady.

JustinR8 · 2024-05-02T17:33:53+00:00

I’ve got a love/hate relationship with assertive women

TerminatorReborn · 2024-05-02T18:37:50+00:00

Talking loud, drinking and having tattoos is manly? what??

pick up women at the church, it seems like you will see more of what you want there.

madtrap3211 · 2024-05-02T17:48:57+00:00

honestly i'm kinda into it -- proud us citizen

STANDonBUSlNESS · 2024-05-02T19:09:21+00:00

lol some people are mad but op is 100% right. if you like more feminine women the usa is not a great place to find them. wether that is a good or bad thing depends on your taste in women.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-05-02T18:24:56+00:00

So you're mad that women like to drink, fuck, and have tattoos?

Lol. GTFOH.

Always makes me laugh when dudes come on a Seduction subreddit and complains about woman who love to fuck. And then you wonder why you're not getting laid.

KazOmnipotent · 2024-05-02T19:23:14+00:00

I live here and yes, a lot of girls are more masculine here and I feel the trend slowly increasing. Most of them don’t realize it either. I feel bad for them because they’ve been sold a lie by the hyper/extreme feminism movement. On your point about being immodest, girls in todays age lovveeee hyping each other up while having their ass and tits out “wear what you want girl!! Pop off!!!!” - sure, no debate and I certainly won’t be telling anyone, man or woman, how to dress. That said, don’t be surprised when men think of or look at you a certain way. I know some white knights will say “that’s shallow!!! They shouldn’t do that!!!” Not disagreeing but it doesn’t change that it’s a fact. Men look at girls who dress a certain way, a certain way. Oh, and while I’m ranting, the whole “I’m wearing this for me, not for attention” shit is also ridiculous. It’s both for yourself and attention. For example, on a nice summer day I’ll be in a tank top or fitted shirt. Yes, I’m wearing this because it’s comfortable but also because it’s flattering and I enjoy women looking at me. I’d be lying if I said otherwise.

My friends who are girls have told me there is this pretty popular book out there called why men love bitches, or something stupid like that. Haven’t read it and I’m sure the author has some nuggets in there but that premise is dumb. Most guys I know that are of value (in shape, make decent-good money, treat people the right way) don’t want to be with a bitch that stresses them out, but there’s a pot for every lid I suppose.

Back to why I feel bad for them - they fail at attracting/keeping a partner and wonder why. Fact is most men are relatively masculine and for yin yang to work, feminine energy needs to balance that out. That said, a more masculine lady could work if the man is naturally more feminine. The truth is there has to be both masculine and feminine energy, doesn’t matter who supplies it.

It seems like they’ve been sold this lie that because men are x, y, and z, not only can they but they should be like that too. Sure, I have no problem banging a hot chick who’s more masculine than she is feminine but fuck no would I want to date her. To each their own, but one of the reasons I’m with my girlfriend is because she’s feminine. I think the problem is in America ppl confuse feminine w/ being a doormat, and I assure you my girlfriend is not a doormat.

Edit - I do want to say this isn’t all doom and gloom. In fact I feel anecdotally most girls I meet are more feminine than they are masculine. Just commenting on the girls that act like dudes

keepinitreal567 · 2024-05-02T19:08:28+00:00

The key issue is that in America, dating is pretty much dead at this point. Our media is being controlled by globalists and elitists. Let us not forget that our media is incredibly degenerate, people are stuck in their own little bubble, we have too much of a Social Media obsession here in the USA, the social skills are down the drain to the point it is not even funny.

You have to be really smart in how to build your profile up on dating apps and some girls (not all) are not good to deal with on cold approach. I do much better involving cold approaches with girls at my school and we have good communication. But it didn't translate into long-term communications.

I feel like I need to go abroad, better my conversation skills and see where I can go from there.

Western Europe may have its BS but it is not as problematic as here, some parts of Latin America are starting to get a tad bit problematic because of Simps from America, but elsewhere is the way to go.

I heard that American men regardless of race have a x3-4 times lower divorce rate by dating foreign women.

Myagooshki2 · 2024-05-02T19:12:43+00:00

What part of America were you visiting? American women act very differently across the country.

Marinaraplease · 2024-05-02T19:32:52+00:00

I was once talking to this girl at the bar and next thing I know she was fucking me in the ass

PlKKA · 2024-05-02T19:51:41+00:00

As a Portuguese dude I can say we definitely have many beautiful girls here , and if you approach them with the right manners, most of them are kind and will respond in a nice way, but like everything there's exceptions too of course. And it also depends what places you frequent, I bet any girl at the supermarket or a café will be nicer than a girl in a night club or disco

ConjunctEon · 2024-05-02T20:02:59+00:00

American women have evolved (or devolved, depending on your perspective) along with the total cultural fabric, over the past few decades. When I was growing up, there was a saying of only two types of people had tattoos: sailors and criminals. The change is illustrated by a movement of women who want to be married young, stay home, raise a family. And they are looked at as peculiar. It used to be the norm.

AnthonyPillarella · 2024-05-02T17:58:41+00:00

How are you going to describe a bunch of fantastic qualities and act like it's a bad thing??

Also, of course America is not a monolith. Different people are different, and different states have different cultures. If you want women who have been pressured into fitting a narrow, "traditional" view of femininity, Utah's right over there.

Have fun with the religious trauma!

SuddenAlfalfa6049 · 2024-05-02T18:56:04+00:00

It’s funny how american men and women will always be upset over this, but the people that actually go outside the states will attest to these stereotypes.

It’s very much true, but it’s gender neutral when it comes to the character of Americans in general. It’s a me-first country

RisingSunMan · 2024-05-02T19:04:40+00:00

Why is it that when guys describe a woman as "masculine", it's stuff like being rude, drunk, hostile, mean-spirited, etc cetera? Can someone help me out here?

captainfiddle · 2024-05-02T18:28:03+00:00

You made a really broad generalization about American women from a short trip to shitty bars that are most likely full of young people having fun. Or alcoholics.

CrazyinLull · 2024-05-02T19:47:35+00:00

When did having tattoos become a ‘masculine’ thing?

MephistosFallen · 2024-05-02T18:38:55+00:00

My dad was raised by Hungarian parents, and I was raised by him to be the woman I am. I swear, I have tattoos, and I could probably beat your ass. If that bothers you that’s a YOU problem, not a problem with women. Because despite those things, I can also do the “feminine” shit.

Oh, and the stupid feminine and masculine stereotypes your using aren’t even HUMAN specific. Plenty of cultures around the world had equality between men and women and didn’t have a checklist of masculine and feminine. There is no One size fits all for a human being. Women were “kept” because of sexist laws and lifestyles.

American women don’t need men to live a fulfilling life because they don’t need them to own property, have a bank account, have a social life, etc. We are not your toys to play with as you please. We are not computers to be programmed for your benefit. Sorry not sorry.

Real-Quality9409 · 2024-05-02T18:18:07+00:00

Yeah, American girls are terrible and unapproachable. Your not missing much here.

CoconutHoney · 2024-05-02T19:40:03+00:00

Stop.

supercalifragi123432 · 2024-05-02T18:18:07+00:00

A lot of people are trying to shit on you in these comments, but you’re not wrong 😂 US women are trash

acwire_CurensE · 2024-05-02T18:36:41+00:00

Always so nice to see that true unbridled euro sexism in the wild. The casual and decisive tone is what really does it for me.

navyvet27 · 2024-05-02T18:43:46+00:00

What city in USA did you visit?

videogames_ · 2024-05-02T18:50:04+00:00

American women can be like this but you went to a bar in one city and judged a whole country? Lol American women in Miami versus Seattle are quite different for example.

ZenitPM · 2024-05-02T18:54:44+00:00

Listen the Lenny Kravitz’s lyrics to “American Women”

trailhopperbc · 2024-05-02T19:36:37+00:00

You need to go to Quebec. Those women will make you a man in no time

Alfalfa_Informal · 2024-05-02T19:49:55+00:00

im at work. someone remind me to check later please

FlightAttendant9 · 2024-05-02T19:56:10+00:00

I went to school in the USA 15-20 years ago. I noticed the exact same thing during that time. Different specifics than you mentioned obviously because of age range but it was so bizarre to me. I still visit for work every few months and still notice it - The way they walk, talk, hold themselves, dress, the boisterousness. In general I agree with you.

ThrowRahlly · 2024-05-02T19:56:59+00:00

You haven’t seen Arabic women then

Ok-Pound-3984 · 2024-05-02T20:06:37+00:00

“immodest”

Eagerforfreedom · 2024-05-02T20:10:41+00:00

Yeah my ex girlfriend literally broke up with me because I wouldn’t let her peg me

mysteryplays · 2024-05-02T20:20:26+00:00

How are the girls in Aussie compare to these bimbos?

bambibabycake · 2024-05-02T20:21:15+00:00

lol🤭

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-05-02T18:25:05+00:00

It’s very fitting that in 2024 the most popular post in a seduction Reddit is just one shitting on all women in an entire country. My god this place is just overrun with incel losers nowadays

Able-Bullfrog-7734 · 2024-05-02T19:22:49+00:00

Go back then bye

mte87 · 2024-05-02T19:14:30+00:00

After being oppressed their whole lives, some women will act like this.

I am nothing like them, probably the complete opposite. ( I do have small girly tattoos)

Women should and will be how they want to be. I choose to dress modestly, not party, get drunk or be very loud. It’s not for all women.

Those women who have those traits, aren’t necessarily masculine. A lot of men are intimidated by those women and keep talking down on them. You can have preferences without trashing women you don’t like.

habbo311 · 2024-05-02T19:46:56+00:00

They have misinterpreted what men want.

They have responded to men making them feel inferior with behavior that attempts to demonstrate their superiority.

The inferiority complex became a superiority complex. Both are ugly qualities in a person.

tigerlillylolita · 2024-05-02T19:02:44+00:00

Raise your hand if you been personally victimized by an Australian.

Wandering_Mindless · 2024-05-02T19:19:29+00:00

I agree. Having been to more than 40 countries around the world, American women have lost their femininity. It was a fair trade for the last couple of generations for sexual equality.

Women nowadays are not nearly as classy, empowered, or feminine like they used to be in the ‘40’s - 50’s.

When I mean empowered, I’m talking about the the Liz Taylor, Grace Kelly, Coco Chanel type of empowerment. They could walk into a room and command everyone’s attention with beauty and a formidable presence of femininity that is lacking in women today.

Where you are from, women still get dressed up to go grocery shopping. Here your comparable women would be in sweats or yoga pants

My_Name_Is_Priapus · 2024-05-02T19:36:30+00:00

European acknowledges differences in femininity between European countries, proceeds to make a blanket statement about a country the size of Europe

Nutter222 · 2024-05-02T17:51:12+00:00

OP is a beta male confirmed.

Cringe post.

ThunderWolf · 2024-05-02T18:28:41+00:00

PORTUGAL over here !!! 💪✌️👊

mister_k1 · 2024-05-02T18:36:35+00:00

...and still you didn't see the worst of it yet...lost hope on girls here, tonite a girl is coming over straight to my place to fuck...met her on tinder couple days ago...i don't even know who she is! hopefully sex will be good. and yeah she all tattooed up!

kjkjkj2 · 2024-05-02T18:54:35+00:00

French NBA player said the same. Victor Wembanyama: "I can’t date them. They’re too masculine. Paris women are soft and tender, American women remind me of NBA Young Boy."

Altec5499 · 2024-05-02T18:17:22+00:00

Why do you think they are?

Zackamite496 · 2024-05-02T19:17:52+00:00

This is why I’m currently dating a Venezuelan woman who moved to America a year ago. Screw American woman lol

Kackgesicht · 2024-05-02T20:03:55+00:00

What kind of incel shit is this? Voitrottel

Twister6900 · 2024-05-02T19:31:03+00:00

Your T levels must be through the fucking floor if you’re intimidated by women having a good time. Lmaooo. This sub is so fucking funny.

johan2424 · 2024-05-02T19:09:09+00:00

The American and British girls are not good and they are slutty

Prestigious-Aide7946 · 2024-05-02T20:19:39+00:00

Or your just soft

SaaSWriters · 2024-05-02T17:53:06+00:00

And, the men are incredibly masculine too. Confident, not scared to talk to women, and consistent with their actions.

Avocadoavenger · 2024-05-02T18:07:45+00:00

It's almost like we're tired of feminine men and have chosen just to live our lives.

ireallyloveoats · 2024-05-02T18:48:58+00:00

You're right. That's why we date foreign girls. Or have to go to other countries to date their women. Or girls from other cultures that were raised by good parents in america.

NotTomJones · 2024-05-02T18:58:05+00:00

America is naturally glorified because most peoples influence from social media and tv is this unrealistic perfect american life. Just like everywhere else, it’s mostly shit with sprinkles on top.

mr-sweetandsalty · 2024-05-02T18:48:41+00:00

Sad part is in the race with being equal they are losing their feminity and being more like men. They surely can do tasks what they like thats how they are becoming

Title	Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculine
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Date	May 2, 2024 5:26 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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