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She's a total hottie and has a smoking vibe so I trust her opinion. You need to be careful with taking the opinions of extremely hot girls. They are not like most girls and they can afford to be choosier because they are in high demand. Other women may view you completely different. She said I had many good qualities, but I had no sexual vibe. I may be able to translate this. You are boring and you dont have anything that women really want. With you it's obviously because you have self-esteem is…
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:18 PM
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I think your problem lies with what your goals are. In order to answer this question, you need to know what you want.
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:07 PM
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Maybe the lesbian wasn't a lesbian. Maybe she wanted you to do the team. Either way progress is progress.
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:59 PM
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Because the best advice is free
/r/seduction26/03/20 10:10 PM
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No
/r/seduction26/03/20 10:05 PM
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Ladyboy?
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:33 AM
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Their other options aren't available?
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:29 AM
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You failed the test. If she is talking to someone else, they are winning.
/r/seduction27/12/19 11:43 AM
2

Sometime the uniform gives you an advantage. Sometime it doesn't. The answer is yes
/r/seduction27/12/19 01:52 AM
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What do you mean by move? I honestly thinks she is looking to be entertained. All evidence points toward it. Make a move but don't be boring.
/r/seduction26/12/19 11:59 AM
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Friends don't really have sex. You are in something that is similar to a relationship but will less rules.
/r/seduction26/12/19 11:54 AM
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I deserve to have groupies.
/r/seduction26/12/19 11:39 AM
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What friendship?
/r/seduction26/12/19 11:39 AM
2

Cold approach is about having little to no data. It works in all environments once you get the hang of it.
/r/seduction25/12/19 03:27 PM
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You need to find things to do if there isn't much to talk about. Sometime it isn't about talking. It's about spending time. Play games or something. You don't always have to question a girl. You can complement or talk about anything. I can't explain everything to you. You simply have to make decisions. It helps if you lead or create the situations but sometimes you just have to work with what you got.
/r/seduction06/02/19 08:42 PM
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When you aren't good at talking, you don't talk. I recommend touching her in sexual ways and etc. Car sex can be complicated. I recommend looking into a few good locations before meeting her. Everything is trial and error. Make sure you know how to properly use condoms.
/r/seduction06/02/19 08:21 PM
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This totally situational.
/r/seduction25/01/19 02:06 PM
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I believe in order to have a very good first date you need to be a leader. This means making a lot of decisions. In order to get anywhere, you have to escalate through trial and error.
/r/seduction20/01/19 07:53 PM
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I do what I think is right in the moment. Normally there is no reason to talk if there is loud music and dancing.
/r/seduction18/11/18 05:52 PM
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Women are everywhere. I recommend learning to become more social. This means talking to everyone and trying multiple things to pass the time. You can't wait on a perfect environment.
/r/seduction18/11/18 05:43 PM
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The problem of over thinking is strong with you. Like grinding grinding. When a girl does this, I normally dance with them and attempt to make some moves. I assume interest because the action is more direct. I don't ask many questions. I just go with it. Seduction is more about trying and responding. Good luck. It is always best to assume interest until something proves the person isn't interested.
/r/seduction18/11/18 05:35 PM
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when you approach a girl, she usually is more reserved? Again, this is situational. Where, what time, location or etc? The converasation looks almost like a 90/10 ration, you ask something and then she will reply with a short answer. In seduction, I like to separate theory, fantasy and reality. Conversation skills are basic social skills and it shouldn't make much of a difference between if you are talking to a girl or guy. I guess my question for this instance would be how to open up groups bet…
/r/seduction02/12/17 05:38 PM
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That question doesn't have a universal answer. It is more situational and requires more detail.
/r/seduction02/12/17 05:14 PM
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Did you read the sidebar?
/r/seduction02/12/17 05:02 PM
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This stuff reads like an advertisement. Why do I have to leave reddit to get more information?
/r/seduction01/12/17 04:14 PM
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approached in over 8 months This is a seduction horror story. You should approach a lot more.
/r/seduction30/11/17 05:36 PM
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You can't make anyone do anything. Your best option is to accept it.
/r/seduction13/11/17 07:23 PM
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Everything is boring and not boring. It is simply how you use it and how others view it. Working out can be boring if you go to the gym everyday by yourself and workout in the corner and never talk to anyone. It can be interesting if you do nude yoga or dancing with strangers and friends. Every girl is called cute. In reality, it isn't even a compliment any more. If you want to be interesting and not boring, you call her something that other guys don't call her. You could use spectacular or uniq…
/r/seduction12/11/17 08:47 PM
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Boring is a broad word that is used in the place of many others. Now lets examine the stuff you have submitted. Video games This tells me nothing. What kind of gamer are you? Do you game alone or with friends? Do you play games that everyone else plays? What makes you different from other gamers? Lets take this a step further. Can this be applied to seduction. Can you use this with women or when dating? If not, its boring and only good to you. I will be honest and say most of the stuff you descr…
/r/seduction12/11/17 08:31 PM
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I think I learned the most Spanish when I dated a Spanish girl. I have dated a few girls who spoke little to no English. The funny thing is you learn to communicate by any means necessary. I highly recommend learning the language. I have lived in a few countries so I can tell you that learning a language can be challenging but in the end it is very rewarding. I am not fluent in any language. I have long forgotten a few languages. The one language that has stuck with me is German. I highly recomm…
/r/seduction12/11/17 08:19 PM
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I can give you some insight on this. Maybe asking to give them a ride is the wrong thing to do. They dont know you and you not black or familiar. I recommend trying to seduce them outside of the whip. Its hard establishing trust in a hostile environment when you have nothing to prove you aren't a serial killer.
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:27 PM
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Actually, you don't understand. I am not upset. I am simply stating that you are overthinking. I like women of all races and backgrounds but the basics apply to getting with them. If you see a girl walking and you are driving a car, what is the best option to talk to them. You have to stop the car. It doesn't matter if she is black, asian, hispanic, indian, native american or so on. I have been to multiple countries and I can say without a doubt that a lot of the information you mentioned is sim…
/r/seduction06/11/17 06:51 PM
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I don't know what I just read. What is a good way to do this? Trial and error. difference is that I am an educated man with a good paying job. This doesn't mean anything. Its all about how you use this that is important. It doesn't make you better than the next guy because of your education or salary. Simply find girl x and try. A black girl from the hood is just a fetish to me and I want to stroke my own ego by picking one up successfully in this type of scenario to add another notch to my belt…
/r/seduction06/11/17 06:30 PM
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Unknown variables are common when it comes to almost anything. Perfect is often a situation where everything is covered. Often this does not happen in real. A lot of people don't do whatever. Most of them adjust and make things work. If I watched 100 hours of videos about how to talk to girls in the perfect way, would I be more successful than if I talked to 10 girls? I believe that your issue lies with the word perfect. There is no universal perfect way. You simply have to learn to do it. Watch…
/r/seduction06/11/17 12:12 PM
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https://youtu.be/DL_dlm_KNVM
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:05 PM
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People who believe this bs are bound to fail. The reality is that men ruin the dating game for other men. This is called competition. Women do the same thing to other women. They are in high demand I think you got this wrong. Certain women are in high demand, like certain men are in high demand. I am not going to entertain this theory. There are all kinds of holes in your theory. The problem is that most guys go for a certain type and ignore women of the other type. Women do the same thing. Ther…
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:33 PM
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I am going to say something that may sound crazy but females do have male friends. texting, snapchatting me selfies, inviting me to things, etc This is stuff they can do with other friends. yet I get completely blindsided when I find out they are involved. Are you making your intentions know? Are you trying to actually seduce these women or are you just working your way up to seduction? Since I have said the above stuff, I can say some crazy stuff now. Some women have what I call female privileg…
/r/seduction27/10/17 03:15 PM
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I believe with enough skills or value, anything is possible.
/r/seduction25/10/17 06:32 PM
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Judging by your post history most of your problems are mental.
/r/seduction25/10/17 12:03 PM
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. I am an eloquent, nice guy that respects female What does this even mean? older age Are you sure? next week on school High school, college? Being the smart guy I am I realized she wanted me to WORK FOR IT so I kept my head high and knew that this girl likes me. What? This was one of very many attempts of me trying to attract a female, but so far I have yet to succeed in anything particular, what could this be? I believe you are not understanding seduction. high school Something about you doesn…
/r/seduction25/10/17 08:39 AM
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The best tips I can give you for day game is to develop a habit of talking to strangers. This can be from asking the time or simply small conversations to pass the time. The more you do it the better it will become. Once you are comfortable, then you can move on to making your intentions known.
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:41 PM
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Correct me if I am wrong but are you a troll?
/r/seduction04/10/17 09:55 AM
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risky You seem to have a fear of failure or something similar. You may fear what people think of you. The greater the risk, the greater the reward. You can't mess up too much Seduction is about accepting failure and learning to get past it. On Tinder, for example, you at least know a girl is interested in being talked to, maybe not by you but at least in general. This is twisted logic. I believe your inner game may need some work. People in general are social creatures. risky and difficult, if I…
/r/seduction04/10/17 09:54 AM
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she's shy and dont talk much and i dont know how to keep conversations going with her. Then don't talk much. Do a lot of activities.
/r/seduction29/09/17 01:41 PM
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Actually I don't think it is the age that is making things better. I believe it's the women he targets or talks to.
/r/seduction29/09/17 01:30 PM
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My advice is trial and error. You need to actually get out there and talk to women. Find any woman and slowly work your way up to talking to every woman.
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:47 PM
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ow, couple of month of that, I'm wondering if I should text her again. My opinion is why did you wait a couple of months and is this oneitis? Plus, I am not one to live by rules. It simply means I do what I want. If you want to text her, text her.
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:44 PM
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When you get better at seduction you will learn to think on your feet and make better choices. Either way this is a good field report. She does have a place tho. If you cannot use your place, you need to consider the other options. If she has a place, find an excuse other than sex to see it. Then work from there. Example, maybe she has a pet or something. You could always rent a hotel or cheap room. There are always options, you just have to think a little. Some of the stuff I have done back in …
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:28 PM
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I get stuck on responding back. I always forget. I normally have to set a reminder.
/r/seduction24/09/17 03:14 PM
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but can't be totally sure You have to guestimate and test for appropriate response. . Is there some kind of hint I can drop or way I can find out if she's single or feels the same without being too direct? Being direct is a good way to save time. Just ask her out.
/r/seduction24/09/17 03:12 PM
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I will remove it. Sorry.
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:09 PM
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Learn the language.
/r/seduction22/09/17 02:08 PM
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This is a question I would like to ask the ladies on reddit. I am a guy. For the past year or so I started falling for a girl I've know for about 8 years 8 year fixation on one girl always got this feeling that she fancied me So you had indications of interest and did nothing. Well about 2 years ago I got a new puppy and since we lived close by she would often call me to walk the puppy together and we'd spend about 2 hrs walking and chatting. So she found an excuse to be alone with you. The thin…
/r/seduction22/09/17 01:48 PM
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I recommend building a better connection or selling yourself better. You have gave little to no detail so I am going to assume that you are a boring person.
/r/seduction19/09/17 11:08 AM
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I believe you should test out different theories to see which one works for you. Some theories don't mix.
/r/seduction14/09/17 07:42 AM
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LMAO. This is not random. You are just the chosen mark. She has been testing you to see if you meet the standards.
/r/seduction09/09/17 04:50 PM
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I read the title and thought why are you talking in a club? Guys, after you open the conversation with a girl, what kind of a questions do you recommend to ask in a club? I prefer to go with actions over words. The important thing is to do. Dance and etc.
/r/seduction09/09/17 01:40 PM
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Learning how the female mind works can be helpful only if you also learn how to use it to your advantage.
/r/seduction09/09/17 01:33 PM
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I stopped caring about looks a long time ago. If ugly men can get girls than looks aren't everything. The thing that stops people in seduction is not trying. It doesn't matter much about how you look but how much you try.
/r/seduction09/09/17 01:31 PM
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Trial and error
/r/seduction02/09/17 06:37 PM
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Then we talked about how she's doing with the Calculus online homeworks and I said that if she needs help with this week's homework that I would help. Let me explain how people friendzone themselves. They do friendship things hoping to get things other than friendship. Helping someone with their homework will not help you much in seduction. Calculus she doesn't even look my way I believe that she is struggling in calculus and has a hard time focusing on anything other than learning. Should I tex…
/r/seduction31/08/17 07:33 PM
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I like to use the hey I am Iwriteforgroupies line. I then follow up with a direct or indirect method. Sometime I go with I think you are in my seat. Other times, omg I hate iphones. Other days I go with is your boyfriend checking up on you? Its all about saying something and trying.
/r/seduction24/08/17 04:28 PM
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This is r/seduction not r/askreddit. I will explain it to you since I have worked 60 plus hours while going to college at one point in my life. If you want to get with women you make and manage your time. You also stop making excuses and put in the work. It's like getting a degree or getting certified in something. You work toward it until you get it or you become an expert on the subject.
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:47 PM
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Have you spent time approaching people and talking to them?
/r/seduction20/08/17 12:31 PM
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It depends on the woman. Some women are cheaters and some are not.
/r/seduction17/08/17 04:04 PM
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I would stay away from buying girls drinks. Imagine 8 girls slapping you for a drink.
/r/seduction17/08/17 04:03 PM
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My advice is don't see for what you don't want. Also invest more time in other females. She needs to know you have options.
/r/seduction15/08/17 08:37 PM
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If I may ask, what kind of dates do you go on?
/r/seduction15/08/17 08:34 PM
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If I may ask, what kind of dates do you go on?
/r/seduction15/08/17 08:34 PM
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Most people want a secret. The truth is there is no secret. You just do it. You go out there and put in the work. Anyone can find an excuse not to do something.
/r/seduction11/08/17 06:44 PM
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It's ashame you don't know what a pua is.
/r/seduction10/08/17 06:58 AM
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The best answer is to avoid her. You don't want to lose your job.
/r/seduction07/08/17 06:59 PM
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You need to start dating doctors or women with intelligent careers or hobbies. I once dated a girl who spoke 7 different languages fluently and had a memory that was damn near perfect. She was batshit crazy but damn it was fun.
/r/seduction05/08/17 08:49 AM
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Intelligent women are hard to find. Intelligence is often not considered an attractive trait. Some women play dumb to appear more attractive. Just look at all the seduction theories on alpha and betas. A lot of people think women should be submissive and dumb. I, myself, love intelligence and creativity.
/r/seduction05/08/17 08:32 AM
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You need to strengthen your mind.
/r/seduction05/08/17 07:43 AM
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My problem is I think most people I meet are idiots.
/r/seduction05/08/17 07:41 AM
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I think that is a waste of perfectly good time to find women.
/r/seduction01/08/17 07:22 PM
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Give me a good definition and I will tell you.
/r/seduction01/08/17 11:16 AM
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What's that emoji that looks like a penis? There is not enough information to properly answer this question.
/r/seduction01/08/17 11:15 AM
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You really don't read everything on this subreddit. You treat her no different from any other girl. You make your intentions known and you try. There is no guarantee. You might fail. That's life.
/r/seduction01/08/17 11:13 AM
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God I wish I was RSDTyler, but I'm not, I'm just an average guy trying to get good at the "game". It doesn't matter who you are. It is about how hard and often you try.
/r/seduction29/07/17 02:34 PM
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Get a wingman. Also submit a field report. Last change your routine.
/r/seduction02/07/17 03:27 AM
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I feel like people don't know how to use an internet search engine sometime. I think the best way for you to figure this out is to go to one or find some type of review of the meet ups.
/r/seduction01/07/17 07:02 PM
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I think most people forget to learn about their target. Seduction is about having a toolbox of skills that can be used at anytime. Back to the target. When you want to get get better at math you study math and you practice it. The problem with math is that it can be broken down into many subjects. Women are the same. You study them but you focus more on the subjects that interest you. In math there are unsolvable problem just like there are impossible women. Attraction is something I tell most g…
/r/seduction30/06/17 11:09 AM
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I don't read B's like this. People make a lot of money off of divorce.
/r/seduction18/06/17 06:25 PM
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How many women do you talk to in a week? How many of those women are strangers? Are you practicing seduction techniques?
/r/seduction15/06/17 05:23 PM
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here that the way to get good this stuff is to basically, approach, approach and approach. To quote Yoda,"Do or do not, there is no try." In order to get with girls you have to talk to them. That's been a problem for me as recently in the summer, I've spent way more time on building some semblance of a social circle, and joining a sports team. These tools are useless unless you actually talk to women. So approaching has been the last thing on my mind. Well, if you don't talk to women, there is a…
/r/seduction15/06/17 05:19 PM
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or is there something i'm missing People think the world should work a certain way but in reality nothing is certain. You are actually missing a lot. This guy probably has a skill that most guys don't. That or he tries a lot more than the average guy. Getting with women can sometime be described as a skill. The more you practice, the better you get. I work with this guy who is literally the biggest douche I've ever met Women often like guys who are not like other guys. This guy probably fits tha…
/r/seduction08/06/17 08:38 PM
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Not a psychic. Please explain your game.
/r/seduction31/05/17 05:01 PM
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My personal opinion is you should not do this. 1500 I honestly think you can find cheaper and better. You could easily invest your money in social activities and learn things through trial and error. Bootcamp or no bootcamp you will still have to put in the work. This means approaching women and building your social media. Im currently saving up to go on a trip, so I'd probably just charge it to my credit card. If you cannot afford to do this without charging it to a credit card, I would not do …
/r/seduction23/05/17 11:12 PM
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so I act it too. You don't have to lie to us. for somethings its great but for dating it can be difficult. Dating is as difficult as you make it. we met at a cafe, she is 23 and I am 20. Okay. Because of living in the US i technically cant drunk yet, so we have been doing picnics where i supply the wine. So you have illegally aquired alcohol and drank it with someone who doesn't know that they can be blamed if anything goes wrong. she is unaware of how old i am, its just never come up.... Just t…
/r/seduction15/05/17 02:27 PM
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I am a nerd at heart.
/r/seduction15/05/17 08:08 AM
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For the love of God, get off Reddit and approach.
/r/seduction15/05/17 06:26 AM
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Proper and acceptable do not exist. To quote Captain cold, "There are only four rules you need to remember. Make the plan, execute the plan, expect the plan to get off the rail … Throw away the plan." To quote Captain Jack Sparrow,"The only rules that really matter are these: what a man can do and what a man can’t do." Stop thinking in terms of acceptable and start thinking of what you can do and what you can't do. I can recommend that you learn how to use a search engine. There are plenty of tu…
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:18 PM
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I agree. This person needs writing lessons.
/r/seduction02/05/17 07:58 PM
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Try, you are doing x activity and she can join if she likes.
/r/seduction02/05/17 09:58 AM
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The title.
/r/seduction27/04/17 07:08 PM
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"I know this is kind of weird but you look really familliar, do I know you from somewhere?" Exact quote, she doesnt really look familliar at all. I honestly believe that if she didn't look familiar you should have said something else. I told her that it was my bad and left afterwards. So you lied and then left. Okay Was i being too "personal" asking her high school before her name? Well, no you weren't. Some people actually look like other people. I have been mistaken for other people before. I'…
/r/seduction27/04/17 07:07 PM
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I believe it is easier not to care when you have something to focus on that motivates you. I have my hobby of writing that keeps me grounded. As long as I can write, I find it easier to not let things bother me. Some guys use the gym, some run and etc.
/r/seduction27/04/17 05:38 PM
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"it doesn't matter. she said no so op should have quit. chasing girls with boyfriends and those who've already said no is almost a guaranteed loss." This is mostly true. Everything beyond this is manipulation and lies. Stuff we don't talk about in r/seduction. I made a right choice by not wasting anymore time and energy to plow and being rather straight to the point if she's up to having sex with me. You ever heard the phrase what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Anything is possible. I believe …
/r/seduction27/04/17 04:15 PM
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You are trying to make a girl naturally cheat. This means you want to put her in a situation where she temporarily lose her morals for your advantage. I am sure you have heard of anti-slut defense. This means girls will do whatever it takes to make themselves not look like a slut. When she asked if it mattered if she had a boyfriend, you should have answered yes. It is obvious through your text that you only want her for sex. Anyone who snatches her phone will realize that. I am not going to go …
/r/seduction27/04/17 03:47 PM
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But what happens with the idea of "women don't know what they want", This is theory. It may be true for some, but it isn't always true. maybe if I just got her out There were several mistakes in your text game. You made the big mistake of saying you didn't care if she had a boyfriend. Maybe if you cared, you would have had a chance of getting her out and then escalating from there. Truth is I think she saw through everything you were trying to do. Only the problem is that I wasn't super attracte…
/r/seduction27/04/17 03:35 PM
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Serious
/r/seduction27/04/17 02:49 PM
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I think I need to read some of RSD stuff to help me properly answer people's questions. Now my question is what are some cool frames to use for one night stands and how to progress. I will be honest with you and say that you may be a little too deep into the theory. For one night stands you need to focus on fun and not having expectations. In short, be yourself and try not to be needy. Try some natural game theories. It may change your game.
/r/seduction27/04/17 01:14 PM
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If I show up again and talk with her for a second Friday in a row, is that going to come off as creepy? Nope. You won't be showing up for her. She will be there as a result of always coming. You will be showing up to meet with other people, drink and have a good time. Your main focus should not be her.
/r/seduction27/04/17 01:09 PM
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Without more details, no one can explain.
/r/seduction26/04/17 01:38 PM
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In today's world you must be your own master.
/r/seduction25/04/17 08:05 PM
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Stuffing them in your jeans. Some cowboy boots are made for that. I rather get my boots covered in mud than my jeans.
/r/seduction25/04/17 07:13 PM
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I disagree with your advice.
/r/seduction25/04/17 06:37 PM
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I recommend building a social circle and approaching. Find many activities and start meeting people.
/r/seduction25/04/17 06:36 PM
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See from what her sister told me, Could be lying.
/r/seduction25/04/17 06:47 AM
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If you can't force yourself to do it, find a wingman to help you.
/r/seduction25/04/17 06:21 AM
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Ask her on a date.
/r/seduction25/04/17 06:20 AM
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There are many types of journals that a person can have. I keep an old fashion journal. I write everything in it from thoughts to how my day went. I keep goals, future plans and anything I can think of in it. I stay away from electronics when I journal. I use my favorite pen and in general, it makes me feel good. struggling with my inner game A journal can help with your self-steem and it is a good version of therapy. I recommend googling the different types of journaling there is and finding on…
/r/seduction24/04/17 09:07 PM
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I personally believe a quick guide on what to do in Seduction would be better. I feel like so many people are starting and have no starting point. Another thing I believe this place needs is someone who can properly explain the information that most of the people here are reading. Some people are just reading stuff and hoping they are understanding it.
/r/seduction24/04/17 06:44 PM
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I can only think of stuff by drake right now. I would just go through some stuff on Youtube and see what you like.
/r/seduction24/04/17 03:41 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ovn0w/life_hackspro_tipsbro_tips/
/r/seduction24/04/17 02:45 PM
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Seduction skills and seduction tools are important to maintain. Music I mostly listen to Hip Hop and R&B. I keep a variety of music on my phone for people of all taste. Normally, if I do not have the song a person wants to hear, I have an app on my phone that can get it. I recommend learning how to google. You can find all kinds of playlist and songs on google. There is a playlist for every occasion. Environment 've also bought incense and keep my apartment very clean. Just need more advice. You…
/r/seduction24/04/17 02:39 PM
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It depends on how you read t hem.
/r/seduction24/04/17 01:42 PM
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When I started journaling. It was amazing how much you learn when you write it down.
/r/seduction24/04/17 11:23 AM
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I believe this is bad. You shouldn't need people to boost your confidence.
/r/seduction24/04/17 11:02 AM
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I believe you should play the numbers game and live and learn. It was only two girls. I wish you luck.
/r/seduction24/04/17 10:59 AM
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/r/seduction23/04/17 08:47 PM
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I believe self improvement does not apply to seduction. I often tell people to avoid it. but the sheer amount of stuff I "have" to read makes me anxious. The problem with self improvement is that it is too broad. Its a never ending cycle of trying to improve yourself by doing things yourself. I often recommend people focus on things that can help them with women. Almost everything else in seduction is a distraction. Now I consider deleting most of the stuff. Anyone here in a similiar situation? …
/r/seduction23/04/17 08:10 PM
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you like to be in charge and be the authority You have to be careful with that. Some women like to make their own decisions and have power in their relationships. nd sex is pretty important to me but I havent has a single orgasm this whole time. and that didn't seem important to you I think she just giving you the tip of the iceberg. The sex thing can be fixed though. You just have to pay more attention. I mainly try to take charge since thats what the suggestions seem to be here, show her your …
/r/seduction23/04/17 06:37 PM
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I fucked a fat girl; so horrible! I will never do that again. Don't ever do it! People like you make me sick. The girl gave you sex and you insult her based of weight. f someone really wants to study the game they should try to move to an area with a lot of women to choose from. People could just travel a lot and do other stuff.
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:10 PM
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it's obvious we are wildly incompatible so I should just bring up the elephant in the room". When you say this, I assume you two have nothing in common. I'm just not romantically interested in you" So it is time to move on. I just feel in a lot of pain how people think they are so different from me. What? Everyone is different from everyone. I'm pretty career oriented and do a lot of self improvement stuff but also a bit of an addict So you have a job you plan on keeping. That's good. Self impro…
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:05 PM
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Compromise
/r/seduction23/04/17 12:52 PM
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Any advices how to steal her and should i doing it at all? My personal opinion is that you should respect her boundaries and set some for yourself. Please have some morals.
/r/seduction23/04/17 09:31 AM
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Would a walk along the river be too casual? I mean i don't know how she looks and she not how i look so if that would offer a quick possibility to ditch easily rather than bowling for 2 hours... Thoughts? I would actually prefer bowling over the walk. The river walk would have to have some interesting stuff along the way. Bowling doesn't have to be two hours.
/r/seduction22/04/17 09:35 PM
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Yes. That means plan a date that has some type of action in it. That way it won't get too awkward just talking. Also, make sure the date has a set time limit for escape if possible.
/r/seduction22/04/17 09:29 PM
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I read that wrong. I haven't had much sleep today. A first date is a first date. You don't know what to expect. It could go horribly wrong or it could go completely right. The main problem people have is that they suck at planning the date.
/r/seduction22/04/17 09:05 PM
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You said meeting up wasn't possible. Now you are just confusing me.
/r/seduction22/04/17 08:58 PM
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It is possible. It is common among penpals.
/r/seduction22/04/17 08:52 PM
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Especially if both parties know that a meeting could happen? (I'm talking about texting with girls in your area/ same age and also students) I feel like this is basis of all scams. You will think you are talking to a girl, but it will be some old man catfishing.
/r/seduction22/04/17 08:25 PM
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I generally act a lot like RSDTyler This is your first mistake. You have to be you and not someone else. What works for them will not always work for you. My concern is that my jokes have a glass cannon effect where yes, they may be very funny and I'm the likable funny guy, but I never end up with any real results Being funny is a great skill to have for meeting women but you still have to escalate and make your intentions known. Laughing might open the door but you still have to walk through it…
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:29 PM
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/r/seduction22/04/17 03:33 PM
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Do people even read the side bar? Please delete this. Commercial advertising.
/r/seduction22/04/17 03:25 PM
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I believe the person they think they are getting is not the same as the person that they are actually getting. This means you are not living up to who they think you are.
/r/seduction22/04/17 02:41 PM
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Your situation is not interesting. riends with girl for long time. Has always generally be considered out of my league (in regards to appearances alone). I read this story everyday. Leagues don't exist. I'm a closeted crossdresser Everyone has something weird they do. I like to write erotica, but I really don't post it anywhere. She also knows I'm 100% straight. I will just believe you on this one. I now use a tone of being uninterested and try to change the subject to project a more alpha perso…
/r/seduction22/04/17 02:24 PM
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Maybe you should have someone review your Tinder profile.
/r/seduction22/04/17 02:05 PM
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be the DJ, I rather be the guy she dancing with. bar be the bartender, I don't drink, I rather be her ride home. if she's at the gallery show be the artist Why can't I admire her like the art? in other words have a life. I have a life. I am just saying, I didn't get what you just said from what you originally posted.
/r/seduction22/04/17 12:07 PM
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I think I need a secret decoder ring to understand some of the stuff posted on this subreddit.
/r/seduction22/04/17 11:59 AM
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You are in Germany. You just need to practice German. The dialects are complicated.
/r/seduction22/04/17 07:26 AM
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To answer your question, no it is not. There is no best. I recommend learning how to read a situation and make a decision. This means cold reading, warm reading and hot reading. On top of that, you need to practice your approach and learn which type of approach is better for different situations. Good luck.
/r/seduction21/04/17 07:12 PM
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Women form an opinion of you whenever they get to know you. They always tell me they don't want a relationship at this point and don't seem to be interested in men in general Most of the time this is because you did not meet a standard or you just aren't worth dating. But as soon as that girl sees me talking and flirting with other women she is suddenly interested in me. This is because it is possible what they thought about you wasn't true. Some even reach out to see if it isn't true. But I do …
/r/seduction21/04/17 12:20 PM
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A majority of guys have anxiety or think too much when it comes to women. They don't know what to do or if you like them. You have to give them major hints and do most of the work for them. Giving hugs and touch them. Smile. A woman can easily get men if she learns how to communicate interest to them in a way they will understand.
/r/seduction21/04/17 12:12 PM
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Lmao. I dl Tinder but they all seem to want to go for coffee instead of just wanting to fuck me. Most of them want sex, they just need an excuse to do it. Find a reason to go to their place. Example, I haven't seen etc on Netflix. Dropping hints and arranging situations that lead to sex will improve your game. Learn to flirt.
/r/seduction21/04/17 11:41 AM
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"Do or do not." Yoda
/r/seduction21/04/17 10:01 AM
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Deutschland is an amazing country. The nightlife is spectacular. You need to learn German in Germany. A lot of young people speak English but most people will feel a little more comfortable if you spoke German. Cutting the story short, could you all give some tips for success in such a scenario? Also any culture specific advice would be much appreciated! ;) You want success, learn German. Germans are very strict about their culture. This means you need to learn their ways and traditions. You nee…
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:37 AM
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Once you are calm, you can shift your focus on the conversation.
/r/seduction20/04/17 04:55 PM
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When your brain is going crazy or running a mile a minute, a common technique to calm it down is to focus on one thing. Focusing on that one thing helps slow your brain down and makes it easier to meditate or do things. This is just a strategy or suggestion to help a person clear their head for meditation. The moral of the story is you need to learn how to focus. If you have anxiety, you need to focus on something that can calm you down and help you with communication.
/r/seduction20/04/17 04:21 PM
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I don't think you understood the video.
/r/seduction20/04/17 04:00 PM
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People should start posting where they get their theory from. I think this is a mental thing to help some people. It is not true for all people.
/r/seduction20/04/17 03:21 PM
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Keep the number in your phone for another three months and move on.
/r/seduction20/04/17 03:03 PM
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I don't really know how should I describe her but this happens to any girl I talk to so I guess this is not a problem for a specific girl : If you know someone and can't describe them, this is a huge problem. Most people can describe a person's personality or interest. I recommend focusing on learning about the people you are talking to in order to tailor conversations toward them instead of the general public. y argument I believe you mean a fun chat about something that we have opposite opinio…
/r/seduction20/04/17 09:31 AM
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Keep in mind that I want to start a conversation with a girl, who I've been talking to for a while and we've been through the basic "Do you like sports, books, movies etc." kind of topics! I don't know much about the basics. These seem like things people talk about when they are bored or fishing for things to say. If you have been talking to a girl for a while, then you should know stuff about her. How about adding some conflict and arguments to make life more fun. Throw in some wild cards and p…
/r/seduction20/04/17 09:16 AM
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It's usually more comfortable being with my guys/a wingman as it adds more "credibility" or whatever you wanna call it to you. Its not hard to find wingman when you go out. You just have to find the guys with social anxiety and afraid to approach women. Then you just do a little approach magic and include them.
/r/seduction20/04/17 07:47 AM
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The red pill is highly hated by people because of their negative views on women. I recommend removing red pill stuff and focusing on seduction.
/r/seduction20/04/17 05:58 AM
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Yea.
/r/seduction19/04/17 04:46 PM
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If you don't feel comfortable, then don't continue.
/r/seduction19/04/17 04:06 PM
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In your town and outside of your town.
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:19 PM
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What you are talking about us theory. and I recently saw articles and researches that said that men and women can be just friends without any kind of feelings or sexual attraction. I think the can should be a can't. This is theory and there is no concrete evidence. I have a female best-friend and she told me that a lot of her male friends fell in love with her. Well most theories are based off of something. A lot of guys are not good at getting with women and often take what they think is the ea…
/r/seduction19/04/17 12:17 PM
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Isn't self love called masturbation. Isn't too much of that a bad thing?
/r/seduction19/04/17 08:44 AM
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I recommend taking some time and learning cold reading. It is an excellent thing to learn for seduction. No real hobbies (gaming and anime). Those are excellent hobbies. I would own them. I am into anime, manga, comics and all kinds of things that people think are nerdy. I even plan on going to see power rangers. short Short is not a negative. You have to own your height and make other people it is their problem not yours. Eating out with a friend. Saw a group of friends (3 girls and 1 guy). The…
/r/seduction18/04/17 12:28 PM
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Take an Italian class and after that, go do night game.
/r/seduction17/04/17 10:42 AM
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I believe you figure it out, unless you want to die a virgin.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:40 PM
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You have to motivate yourself. People can't do it for you.
/r/seduction16/04/17 03:30 PM
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Leagues don't exist. Approach and go from there.
/r/seduction16/04/17 03:21 PM
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I think you should research birth control if you decide to continue.
/r/seduction16/04/17 06:57 AM
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So you are telling me self improvement has nothing to do with self? The self is only because the person did it by themself.
/r/seduction15/04/17 11:10 PM
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You didn't cite any sources. You expect me to believe your theory.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:59 PM
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Well, actually this is psychology. You talk about emotions and all kinds of stuff, but it contradicts evolution. Alpha are normally the first to die because of they are the weakest against change.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:56 PM
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Let's ask the real questions if you want to talk about evolution. Monism or dualism.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:49 PM
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I agree that the "purpose" of self improvement shouldn't be for seduction, but it does help. Like, a lot. The problem with self improvement is that it is not properly defined and is very broad. A person can easily improve on things that would not help them in seduction. On top of that if the skills aren't applied to women or can't be applied to women they are pointless to seduction. Women like fitter, more successful guys than fatter poor ones. Going to the gym and having a good job is not going…
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:45 PM
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My argument is that humans adapt to survive. Alpha and beta have little to do with seduction. The important thing is your ability to adapt. I can argue down to basic human nature and the real psychological theories on emotions. It doesn't take being an alpha to seduce a girl.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:31 PM
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My argument is that humans adapt to survive. Alpha and beta have little to do with seduction. The important thing is your ability to adapt. I can argue down to basic human nature and the real psychological theories on emotions. It doesn't take being an alpha to seduce a girl.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:31 PM
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Most of it is bs that causes people to do stupid stuff because they do not want to appear beta.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:10 PM
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No, I am not wrong. Self improvement is for a person to improve themself. The purpose of it had nothing to do with seduction. Most people hope that improving themselves will lead to them getting women but it does not. Improving things to get with women is not called self improvement.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:08 PM
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Well one, I hate the whole everyone has to be an alpha theory and the whole link to my website at the end. The website normally gas something for sell.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:05 PM
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I hate when people advertise bs.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:15 PM
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r/askseddit
/r/seduction15/04/17 07:04 PM
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I always get down voted when I say self improvement has nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction15/04/17 04:48 PM
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I am working on the idiot's guide to seduction. Once it is finished, I will send you a copy.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:49 AM
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Ask her on a date.
/r/seduction15/04/17 10:43 AM
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Learn 20 female names.
/r/seduction14/04/17 10:55 PM
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I use google contacts. I don't really automate text messages.
/r/seduction14/04/17 08:21 PM
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Hotel party.
/r/seduction14/04/17 07:14 PM
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Self improvement has nothing to do with seduction. It only has to do with you. If you wish to seduce women, you need to work on your seduction skills.
/r/seduction14/04/17 06:10 PM
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God, you are a troll. Paragraphs We are not here to be your psychologist.
/r/seduction14/04/17 05:09 PM
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I am specialize in using android to do anything. Any advice or apps for managing the influx of contacts you get through pick up? I assume you have a smartphone. You need to sit down with it and learn how to manage the contacts app. In there you can make groups and add all kinds of details about your contacts. Also suggestions on reminders to follow up with a text later, etc. There are several to do apps that can accomplish this. There are tons of automation apps for texting and so on. The main t…
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:49 PM
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There are a lot of details missing for your long text that should be in paragraphs. It could have all been in your head or he could have been flirting. Married people flirt. Also, there are plenty of people who find wearing rings annoying. The best way to find out if someone is in a relationship is to ask them. Even then, they can lie.
/r/seduction13/04/17 10:43 PM
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You lack the social skills and other skills that are normally passed down from generation to generation. You also do not know how to use a search engine. On top of that you ignore the majority of the advice that people give you. I partially feel that most people fail in seduction because they do not have a good teacher. I wish I could start an open source program for relationships and seduction. I just don't know where to start.
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:52 PM
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College is not what it use to be. You really don't know how to google. I thought they would have taught you that. https://support.google.com/websearch/answer/2466433?hl=en What I am asking you is how do you narrow down your search to find answers?
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:33 PM
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Yo don't have to give me stupid questions. I have read your other post and the responses you have got. Tinder is not the only dating app in the world. There is also night game. So now answer my question. How do you properly google cold reading? What would you put into the search bar.
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:21 PM
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A lot of people who pretend to be psychics use cold reading, warm reading and hot reading to predict and control the actions of people. They also specialize in knowing behavior and statistics when it comes to people. Information is a powerful tool when it comes to properly seducing someone. If I had to guess, your virginity is a problem that you think about a lot. It leaves you with a lot of frustration and energy that is hard to focus.
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:16 PM
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What is the best way to google cold reading?
/r/seduction13/04/17 09:05 PM
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I meant to say I don't know how to approach when the classes are over and I have nothing to talk about with them. I think you need to learn how to be a psychic. Cold reading, warm reading and hot reading are valuable tools in seduction. I like asking you questions. It helps me kill time while I work on seduction projects. Could you outline the average life of a college girl for a week? Simply what do you think the life of a college girl is like? And when I mean down, I mean dtf Are you a virgin?…
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:54 PM
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I have read most of your post, the ones you deleted, the ones that got deleted and so on. I have the pictures of how you look and probably enough information to find out anything I want about you. But it's hard to read signals and that stuff. Everything is hard until you learn how. It takes practice and research. Though at my age they should be more down for stuff right? I don't know what you mean. Down for what? Stuff is broad and does not tell me anything. It just don't know how to approach wh…
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:45 PM
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Except I am very nervous when approaching anyone in general to be honest. The mind is a mysterious thing. Most people have reasons for being nervous. You have to find the reason and conquer it. And it's true that most people aren't into you right? The truth is most people don't know you. They cannot be into someone they do not know.
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:21 PM
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However, I've also read that sometimes eye contact means nothing in terms of whether a person is single or not This is correct. o should just approach them Yes. There is no perfect moment.
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:01 PM
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The more you talk the clearer things become. I can talk to and make friends with these girls just fine. So you have a problem making your intentions known and actually escalating. Do you even flirt? I tried. Last month I even took a daygame boot camp. Cold approaching is not something that works with my personality. It favors extroverted and outgoing people. Lmao. I have never been considered an extrovert. I cold approach as much as I warm approach. I am more of a nerd, but I use that to my adva…
/r/seduction12/04/17 07:53 PM
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It's absolutely much easier to talk to a girl on the third time I've interacted with her versus the first. If this was true, you wouldn't be asking these questions. Simply because they are no longer a stranger and you have some commonality. If you ever decide to learn cold approaching, you will learn everyone has something in common. Learning to properly cold read is important for cold approaching. How do you let intention be known in a warm approach situation and how to proceed if things don't …
/r/seduction12/04/17 05:53 PM
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how to do a warm approach? Most people have fear when it comes to talking to strangers. They think talking to someone they know will be easier, but the truth is there isn't much difference. You take the information you have and you approach the woman. Above all, you make your intentions known. The problem with warm approaching is what happens after intentions are known. Things like picking up the girl you say hi to at the gym a couple days a week, or the girl that sits a few rows from you in cla…
/r/seduction12/04/17 04:39 PM
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I am asking what did you learn about the women from observing them before approaching.
/r/seduction11/04/17 12:29 PM
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I didn't say you did anything wrong. What did you cold read about the women?
/r/seduction11/04/17 12:19 PM
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I should recommend you a book on cold reading. Do you have money to buy books?
/r/seduction11/04/17 11:15 AM
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It seems like you have some issues. I recommend working on those before you continue your seduction journey. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/04/17 11:09 AM
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You are drunk. I understand. going into piano for my Master's. I guess this means you have some amazing skills. "chicks dig skills," This is a partial truth. Chicks dig certain skills. Your skill of piano may qualify for some women. so success with women will come secondary to that? Let me fix this. Skills do not guarantee women. You have to be able to apply those skills to women. If you cannot apply the skill, it is pointless in seduction. I don't want to use this as a crutch, but isn't it more…
/r/seduction11/04/17 07:01 AM
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I was watching a video the other day online that said that the future belongs to the people who know how to properly search the internet. I thought about it for a second and realize that I do mostly everything on android and I have apps for almost everything. I figured asking questions is okay but doing research is the key to survival.
/r/seduction10/04/17 07:29 PM
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I have a question for you. Do you know what advance search operators are?
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:37 PM
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People get as many chances as you give them. Life happens.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:17 PM
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I've read material on the sidebar Sometime I feel like this is a lie. So in the case where there are no common connections, Make a connection or find one. Here is a tip for a cold approach. Do a quick cold read, form an opinion and go from there. Good luck guy who shows trollish behavior.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:15 PM
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I google all the deals in my area. I then tailor my dates based on what I think will be fun and interesting. I like to go bowling, minigolf, carnivals, play pool and whatever I can find. I normally set my dates up for they can be an hour or 2 with a backup plan if the woman wants to stay out longer. Some of the stuff I do is free. I normally keep up with everything happening within 60 or 70 miles for I can plan properly.
/r/seduction10/04/17 04:10 PM
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I believe your problem is that the dates you set up are boring. You need something that is more fun. Action is also a major part of dates. You really want to get away from hanging out.
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:53 PM
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I've had a dozen or so dates Good. Where and what were these dates. Are you sure they were dates are were you just hanging out with a female? Did you use the word date? Were your intentions known.
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:42 PM
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Then you need to crush him with the truth. Then he must decide if he wants to change.
/r/seduction09/04/17 11:47 PM
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You shouldn't do anything. Just point out the truth. He will be a virgin until the end of time until he actually learns how to properly seduce women.
/r/seduction09/04/17 11:44 PM
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Think end game. What is the final goal? Get to know her, make a connection and if she's into me we go from there. This is a bs answer. Example. I go to the gym to lose weight. I might be there for many reasons, but that is my main goal. I am there to lose weight overall. So back to the question, what is your main goal when you approach?
/r/seduction09/04/17 11:40 PM
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So you don't know your goals. When you meet a girl, what is the overall goal?
/r/seduction09/04/17 11:27 PM
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I love responding to the guy who shows trollish behavior. since cold approaches require the 3 second rule. There are no rules for cold approach. The 3 second rule is for people who have anxiety or are constantly in their head. so after just talking about majors etc, conversation died quickly, so I ejected. You need to work on your conversation starters. You need to get away from the basics or common ground stuff and think ahead. So here is a question for the guy with a million excuses. What is y…
/r/seduction09/04/17 10:58 PM
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You could text her here and there while she is gone and even call her. The other option is to leave her alone for three weeks and just schedule a date for when she comes back. There is no right or wrong. Just pick something and try.
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:23 PM
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I can speak German, a little Spanish, and a little Russian. But yeah i guess i just gotta find out where they are and go. I guess im just used to beign surrounded by them since im from a big city thats got like 6 colleges Once you get use to getting out, everything becomes easier. I have been lost in over 8 countries. And i know a bit of italian but not that much. You are in a country full of italians, you can get someone to teach you. I prefer to go out and butcher the language until I get it r…
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:19 PM
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First, thanks for your service. I would like to inform you that when you are away from home, things always seem different. Europe in general is an amazing place to meet women. The thing is you have to get out and explore. You have to get lost a few times and above all, you have to increase your social circle. The biggest thing is trying and finding a good group of friends to go find women with. When you are in another country, you cannot expect women to know English. Some will and others will no…
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:02 PM
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What country are you in? What country are you a soldier for?
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:47 PM
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Reads the entire post and realize this is a possible scam. Consider this CL post Does he mean Craigslist? The meetings turned out to be of one of the infamous underground pick up groups -- BEFORE Neil Strauss' "The Game" exposed the scene to the mainstream. This is something that cannot be verified. He doesn't even give the name of the group. The guy has no account history. I honestly hope this post gets deleted. Also, it seems like this is a scam because a lot of scams start off with something …
/r/seduction09/04/17 06:32 PM
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16-75
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:17 AM
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Trolls are annoying.
/r/seduction08/04/17 05:57 PM
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Should I post your pictures for the subreddit to judge?
/r/seduction08/04/17 05:41 PM
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There is a over 30 group for everything. It is as hard as you make it. When you are older and more established, why do what the young ones do when you normally have more experience and money.
/r/seduction08/04/17 05:38 PM
1

Just modify your game and try again.
/r/seduction08/04/17 04:37 PM
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Morals. Some people don't have them.
/r/seduction08/04/17 04:36 PM
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I've been working on my figure (I wasn't fat to start with, I just mean adding more muscle), and getting regular haircuts, trimmings, wearing nicer clothes, just basically looking very VERY good every single day, OK? So what is the real reason you are doing this? How does it benefit you in seduction? ? Well, because when I look my very best, I feel like my expectations go up, Expectations for what? Expectations for yourself or expectations for women? Sure, I get more looks from girls when they f…
/r/seduction08/04/17 10:35 AM
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The main thing this subreddit can do is to push you to get out and practice interacting with with females. After that, we can teach you theory. If you have any questions that aren't too broad, we can answer those.
/r/seduction08/04/17 10:16 AM
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Yes. Your goal should be to talk to over a thousand women in a year. That is a reasonable goal.
/r/seduction08/04/17 09:22 AM
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Hey guys my story is really weird I highly doubt that your story is weird. 19 years old and have never dated but i have gotten in the pants of a bout 17 girls Some people aren't good at dating. I know several guys who are masters of the one night stand. Help please? I believe this is a personality thing. You may have a bad reputation. I recommend fixing your reputation and letting girls know what you want. Its also a numbers game. So try another hundred girls. Good luck.
/r/seduction07/04/17 10:52 PM
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What? Value is a construct that people make using their mind and imagination. I already know how the result is gonna turn out. Actually, you don't. You need to push through a couple hundred approaches and get your head together. If you want women, you need to put in the work and time. There are two ways to get women, the hard way and the smart way. Unless you are good at reading people, that leaves the hard way. This simply mean try and try again.
/r/seduction07/04/17 10:44 PM
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For very long time I studied seductuon but didnt practice it. Practice is more important than theory. I dont have experience with women at all. I assume you have a mom and female family members. That means you have some experience with women. I can only guess, but you probably have female friends. I often follow girls I like on instagram. Most of them dont follow me back. And then there are girls whom I tried to open through facebook. Most people don't respond to strangers online. They don't kno…
/r/seduction07/04/17 10:27 PM
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I often get downvoted for saying what is the truth. Self Improvement has nothing to do with seduction. It is for you and if you want to practice seduction, you should not practice self improvement. The only improvements you should do in seduction are the improvements that help you get with your targets. t seems as though to be attractive you need to put all your time into yourself and improve yourself. Most people don't do the proper research when it comes to what women or men view as attractive…
/r/seduction07/04/17 07:06 PM
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The problem with a lot of people is they want to talk. They forget that most of body language is nonverbal. You need to tease people with your actions and show interest with your body language. You need to touch or kino. People often focus too much on verbal words. If you want to talk, do it while doing other things. I often recommend that most people limit the talking and get to doing other stuff.
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:46 PM
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I can't remember if it was Toastmasters or speech class that taught me everything you are speaking of. Either way what you are doing is not trolling. The first thing you are doing is an ice breaker. It is not trolling, it something that a lot of people do in common communication.
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:42 PM
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Was about to give some good advice, but then I read the whole thing. couldn't - girlfriend was there I been working on my morals. I can't give you advice on how to cheat.
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:22 PM
2

You are correct.
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:18 PM
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You might want to work on your wording. I have read over 50 books on manipulation and you are coming very close to the line of manipulation. Either way I understand what you are saying.
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:16 PM
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Well, I am happy for you. I still recommend that you secure your phone. Good luck.
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:12 PM
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Have you read what you have typed? Its just a watered down version of manipulating people to get a certain outcome.
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:07 PM
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Be an internet troll. A hobby of mine is blocking trolls or destroying their social media life. You have to be skilled troll to survive on the internet and even more skilled to survive in real life. Walk into that room full of people and pretend they are users on reddit. I treat my brothers and sisters from reddit real good. They help me pass time when I am bored. Here is how to be a successful troll in real life: I don't want to be a troll. Awkwardness is an uncomfortable situation that no one …
/r/seduction07/04/17 05:58 PM
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parties Yeah this social situation is not about talking. then after a bit the convo goes no where and we end up awkwardly separating This is because the talking is just an ice breaker. Next is the action or where you two do something. Normally people party. I'm not asking unique enough questions that are boring or is it something else? Thank you You need to add action to your talking and you should be fine. Dance, sing, smoke, darts, beer pong, escalation, eat, drink alcohol, flirt or etc. Good …
/r/seduction07/04/17 05:43 PM
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It doesn't work that way. After you use it you have to prepared to make the next step and the step after that.
/r/seduction07/04/17 02:38 PM
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The fastest way to do it is to put in the work. This means multiple sites and using automation and apps to your advantage.
/r/seduction07/04/17 02:30 PM
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First, remove all pictures from your phone and computers. Second, check her I.D. and confirm her story. She could easily be lying. Third, when you think someone is underage, don't send or receive nudes. Fourth, pray to God she not lying. with a community college on it and I get a huge smile then tell her that i stopped messaging cuz i tho I know plenty of girls in high school and middle school who have community college clothes from their parents, friends, family members and etc. Please check th…
/r/seduction07/04/17 09:19 AM
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Antalya. I was there for vacation. I think if you don't look like the local men and make conversation, all will go well.
/r/seduction07/04/17 06:37 AM
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I visited Turkey once. It was amazing. Met a lot of cool people. I believe it is possible to get women there and if you have money it is more than possible.
/r/seduction06/04/17 06:56 PM
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I cannot read minds but so everything I type is a guess. If she is being genuine, should I go for her friend she basically recommended? I believe some women have a code or strong friendship between each other. This simply means she will not takes what she believes belongs to another. It is your choice if you want to talk to this other girl. as a "cute couple" with another girl, I guess this other girl likes you and you have no idea how to read the clues. Also, this Field Report does not read lik…
/r/seduction06/04/17 08:59 AM
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It is mostly about seduction, but a lot of people in this subreddit need self improvement. Rejection is a major thing that make a lot of guys question themselves. If you want I can prove that your title is mostly correct.
/r/seduction04/04/17 03:28 PM
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The problem with a lot of people in this subreddit is that they are broken and cannot handle the side effects of seduction. Have you not read half the post here. You should notice how Self improvement and seduction are separate. That means this subreddit focuses on two different things.
/r/seduction04/04/17 03:26 PM
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Improving yourself for yourself will have the “side effective” of growing your attraction. Even if you don’t do it for others, it will affect others. This is a huge misunderstanding for most people. When you say side effect, this is a hope and often something most people cannot observe. Plus when you say self improvement, you are saying something so broad that most people do not understand it. It also leads to people being highly offended and left lost when they don't have any results with women…
/r/seduction04/04/17 03:24 PM
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Without improving yourself in some way, what do you have to show to a woman? You ever heard of running blind. Self improvement benefits you. It does not benefit the target you are trying to seduce. Specific improvement toward your target is another story. Improvement that is not for yourself is not called self improvement. You ever wonder why there are guys out there practicing self improvement and not getting laid? Its simple the stuff they are doing is not for seduction. They are hoping if the…
/r/seduction04/04/17 03:08 PM
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So, improving yourself has nothing to do with how you present yourself, your self-confidence, what you aim for, setting up goals, for example? Self improvement is for yourself. That's why they use the word self. It is to benefit you and not others. Improving yourself for others is not called self improvement. That is it doesn't matter what you improve in seduction if it is not geared toward your target. Example, going to the gym does nothing for some girls. Some girls do not want muscular guy.
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:49 PM
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Self improvement has nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:32 PM
1

Just friendzone her like girls do guys. Make her your bff and take advantage of it.
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:31 PM
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Building a social circle and reputation is apart of seduction.
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:29 PM
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0 fucking results. I I think you need to stop following people and start practicing seduction. Then submit some field reports. Should i learn some more techniques, or set my frame control right because todd says the words aren't that much of a deal, but the place where are coming from Do you even understand the stuff that you are reading? Here is my advice. Get away from the research for a while and go practice. Practice a lot and use research to help. Stop following people, you are not their gr…
/r/seduction03/04/17 04:42 PM
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Pulls out psychic pen and lets it bleed all over my keyboard. If he was getting laid, he would have said yes. So the answer is no.
/r/seduction03/04/17 04:38 PM
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You did realize this was a date, right? Not only did you take forever to get here, but you figured it's be okay to bring your sister, too? The moment you realize you are the good friend.
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:54 PM
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Wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:28 PM
1

I would like to write the worlds most popular seduction book. How do I do that?
/r/seduction02/04/17 10:16 PM
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So you aren't giving things away?
/r/seduction02/04/17 10:05 PM
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If you feel good about yourself, no matter the circumstances, then I will give you everything you could ever dream of. I would like a billion dollars and writing contract for my future book on seduction. Thanks.
/r/seduction02/04/17 09:45 PM
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You act like other guys won't do this. People do it all the time. There are no rules. you hadn't seen in person or talked to I'm 5+ years? This is a good reason to get a coffee together, meet at a bar or anything else. This is the perfect excuse to catch up and escalate. but you would just randomly ask out a girl I do this all the time and so do other guys. This is a major thing in seduction.
/r/seduction02/04/17 08:57 PM
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Just ask her out. There is no perfect formula. Just ask her to something simple. Then if she accepts, just go from there.
/r/seduction02/04/17 08:38 PM
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depends how much time u spend on it A lot of time. If u listed just it I considered it as your major hobby and spending most of the time alone writing is pretty introverted. Who said I wrote alone most of the time? I write with friends as much as I write alone. I let people loom over my writing and I often. Look over theirs. I don't spend hours a day by myself in a room writing. What else do u enjoy doing? Analyzing people.
/r/seduction02/04/17 01:39 PM
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I don't really keep the links. I just google what I need and narrow it down to reddit.
/r/seduction02/04/17 01:28 PM
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Some find it interesting and others do not. Also, this hobby can be for both introverts and extroverts.
/r/seduction02/04/17 01:25 PM
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I don't spend money. I google everything I need. I learned how to use search operators a long time ago. A lot of the books the subreddit recommend can be found on reddit. What kind of books are you looking for?
/r/seduction02/04/17 01:24 PM
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Google.
/r/seduction02/04/17 01:07 PM
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I write.
/r/seduction02/04/17 01:06 PM
1

This is because they do not truly understand the logic.
/r/seduction01/04/17 10:44 PM
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Anything is possible.
/r/seduction31/03/17 02:13 PM
1

Are you talking to other women? Are you talking to other women sober?
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:45 PM
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It doesn't bother me. I was bored when I wrote half of that stuff and a lot of it needs improvement. I am open to corrections if you have any. I can say that if I saw a woman I liked on a bus, I could approach her and at least say hi.
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:44 PM
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Going against others seems to work fine in 2017. Its okay. Seduction isn't for everyone.
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:43 PM
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This created a spore in my mind an idea(that keeps growing). You doing way too much thinking here. ut the idea kept growing, my mind starts to like this girl. You don't even know this girl. You saw her on a bus and didn't even talk to her. No hi or anything. I believe your actions are starting to get creepy. It would be best to work on other women. As I said if I fail, ok I can move one. You have already failed. You don't have enough social skills to approach her in public. You are hiding behind…
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:36 PM
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You are developing an obsession that leads to crazy and dangerous behavior. She has rejected your two friend request and she has seen you in public. If you continue to advance toward a girl that has no interest in you, it will be viewed as harassment or stalking.
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:12 PM
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I think you should avoid oneitis and stalking women. This could end badly for you. Forget about her.
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:00 PM
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I am not an expert on the Muslim religion but this could play a part. I recommend googling it or asking her.
/r/seduction30/03/17 07:12 PM
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You want to know what normal is? I can't tell you that, but I can tell you that people show affection many different ways. Some people are not touchers. They may touch every now and then but other than that they don't do it much. It all depends on the type of girl that you are with. Experience could play a part, religion or even culture. I don't know how your relationship with this person is. I can only assume that this may be normal for her.
/r/seduction30/03/17 06:45 PM
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Are you good at conversations in real life?
/r/seduction30/03/17 05:36 PM
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I like to pretend that I am a magician. I work intellectual magic with everything that I do. I use a lot of the skills that magicians use to get laid. Cold Reading Mentalism Magic Tricks Hypnosis Mnemonics Everywhere I go I carry my wand (pen). You never know when you will have to show a woman your magic stick. Some women don't believe that I am a magician, so I tell them I am a future professional seduction writer that specializes in writing stuff on Reddit.
/r/seduction30/03/17 03:26 PM
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Then pretend you don't know what it means. Say the shirt was a gift.
/r/seduction30/03/17 12:19 PM
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Its like pain from the gym, you have to work through it. If you let every excuse stop you, you will never succeed.
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:59 AM
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Do more than you study. This is the key. You have to do a lot more.
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:55 AM
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You might want to leave her alone and find someone to tell you what really happened at the club.
/r/seduction30/03/17 10:09 AM
3

Ask a thousand girls what they think of you. This includes family and friends. Have a few watch the way you interact with others. Do the same with guys.
/r/seduction29/03/17 07:49 PM
2

language
/r/seduction29/03/17 07:47 PM
1

A valuable tool you could learn is cold reading, warm reading and etc. Once you master this skill, you can do amazing things.
/r/seduction29/03/17 04:28 PM
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You have to learn to read a situation and make a decision. When you become more advance, it is about controlling the flow.
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:29 PM
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Not r/askreddit.
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:18 PM
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There are no rules. Just situations you must master.
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:18 PM
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There are no rules. Just situations you must master.
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:17 PM
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I am so proud of you. I just don't what to say. Indirect approach. I didn't use any kino since we just met and it was in a classroom, wonder if not asking for a meetup in the future ruined my chances. Or if not saying I enjoyed this conversation, you seem cool we should hang out, instead of going directly to coffee as I was a bit nervous at this time. You did good. Talking to girls is normally hard. I am not a fan of the coffee date, so I think hanging out would have been better. Kino was not ne…
/r/seduction28/03/17 08:09 PM
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I am impressed. Still waiting on the Field Report. I am working on a beginner guide for you as we speak. Give me three days and I should have something that should be able to help you.
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:46 PM
1

What books did the side bar recommend reading?
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:39 PM
1

Waiting. I will be googling you until then.
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:04 PM
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I don't care about weird. I just want you to do. I will wait all day for this report and watch everything you post.
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:02 PM
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I don't think OP has anyone to push him and I am getting annoyed that he is ignoring advice.
/r/seduction28/03/17 02:01 PM
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How am I spamming when I am inexperienced and just trying to get help? I'm not trying to troll, I just have a ton of questions and I'm sorry if I offended anyone recently with "spamming" too many posts. And I'm trying not be annoying as I'm still relatively new to this. Again I'm just very anxious regarding this stuff What books have you read? What have you done? Go submit a field report or I will just be a jerk.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:53 PM
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I will take your word for it.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:51 PM
1

googled the keywords and I didn't have what I was looking for. What did you google? I don't believe you. Maybe I can help you with your googling skills. his is ridiculous if you're just going to post that all the time, and not give advice. I tried that with you, that didn't work. I have some free time today. I think I will go through Toronto social media and so on. I just want you to try and actually submit a field report. You said you were 5'10 right?
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:50 PM
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lol. Maybe he is a little slow. I just know that most of his questions will go on forever until the person he is writing makes his decision for him.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:47 PM
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Yep, thats him. I have collected all of the pics he has posted and I am following him online because he keeps spamming r/seduction and r/askseddit. I am trying to figure out if he is a troll, but it seems more like he is just annoying.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:43 PM
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For everyone who wants to know how this guy looks, here is one of the pics he posted on reddit https://m.imgur.com/RtSooYq
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:40 PM
1

Google it. You said you knew how to google.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:38 PM
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For everyone who wants to know how this guy looks, here is one of the pics he posted on reddit https://m.imgur.com/RtSooYq
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:28 PM
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or r/askseddit. Thank you.
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:26 PM
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For everyone who wants to know how this guy looks, here is one of the pics he posted on reddit https://m.imgur.com/RtSooYq
/r/seduction28/03/17 01:09 PM
1

Man here. This is not r/askwomen.
/r/seduction27/03/17 06:57 PM
2

Its all about building your social skills. Activities are always recommended because people are willing to socialize.
/r/seduction27/03/17 02:29 PM
2

You need to approach women and get out of your comfort zone. There is day game and night game. You can go out to bars and clubs to meet women or you can meet them in everyday life. This means conversing with women everywhere.
/r/seduction27/03/17 02:14 PM
1

Why don't you narrow down your search results to reddit then?
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:44 PM
1

Do you know how to google?
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:39 PM
1

Do you know how to use a search engine?
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:20 PM
1

I feel like the guy doesn't have the ability to make decisions for himself and cannot do his own research. He's got an extreme version of a problem a lot of guys have: he thinks that if he reads enough stuff on the internet, he'll "figure out" how to get girls and he can just go out and do it whenever he wants. This is very true. He doesn't realize that pick-up is 99% subconcious emotion that can only be perfected with practice, the shit you read is just 1%. The problem with reading a lot of pic…
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:19 PM
2

I am starting yo think you are a troll.
/r/seduction27/03/17 01:04 PM
1

Conversations don't normally work that way.
/r/seduction27/03/17 10:42 AM
1

I am male. I cold approach females almost every other day.
/r/seduction26/03/17 02:33 PM
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Go for the meet up soon as possible. Don't waste time.
/r/seduction26/03/17 02:18 PM
1

The answer is yes and yes. do girls ever like it Cold approaching is a skill. Many guys do not know how to do it properly.
/r/seduction26/03/17 02:13 PM
2

Is English your second language? The best way to meet girls is to find activities or cold approach. The important thing is you have to get out and go to different places.
/r/seduction26/03/17 01:32 PM
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The problem with your advice is that you assume what the other person wants. Everyone is assuming. Do you think bad boys come off as natural when they approach women? Do you think that everything is natural? I don't even go for natural no more. I prefer crazy and interesting.
/r/seduction25/03/17 04:14 PM
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I like to ignore the advice of strangers and make my own rules. So far life is great.
/r/seduction25/03/17 04:05 PM
1

Learning.
/r/seduction25/03/17 04:03 PM
6

This is situational.
/r/seduction24/03/17 10:05 AM
1

Posting the same thing under different usernames will make people think you are a troll.
/r/seduction23/03/17 04:46 PM
2

Posting the same thing under different usernames will make people think you are a troll.
/r/seduction23/03/17 04:46 PM
1

Well, looks aren't your strong point. You need to focus on fun and exciting. This needs to be in your profile. Also, make sure you get some fashion advice and a nice haircut.
/r/seduction23/03/17 01:32 PM
2

I want to start my own subreddit for seduction. I am mainly researching this subreddit and a few others.
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:23 AM
1

Are you grown? What is stopping you from joining the military or anything? All I hear is excuses. I doubt you are a minority raised in a poor family with 3 or 4 other siblings and no father figure.
/r/seduction22/03/17 09:13 PM
1

Then submit some field reports and pictures. I really believe your situation can be fixed, but you have to first start with your inner game or mental game. I'm sheltered as sheltered can be. You are an adult. You do not have to be sheltered. I would also like to say I have seen guys that have it worse than you and still manage to make it.
/r/seduction22/03/17 09:02 PM
1

This is mainly because of the way you think and act. It's pathetic as an introvert. Introversion has nothing to do with it. You just lack skills and traits that other people have. My handwriting sucks but it gets better everyday with practice.
/r/seduction22/03/17 08:47 PM
2

I always have standards.
/r/seduction22/03/17 08:32 PM
1

You need data on yourself to improve your game. You can always verify your data. I understand if you are afraid of what they may say.
/r/seduction22/03/17 08:31 PM
1

Ask them what they think of you?
/r/seduction22/03/17 08:10 PM
5

sometimes you're just destined to never be with a woman? This statement is not true. For some people, getting with women takes a little bit of work. Well, do you have male or female friends?
/r/seduction22/03/17 04:37 PM
2

I will say that I disagree with your opinions. You do not have to be high status or an alpha male.
/r/seduction22/03/17 09:24 AM
1

Learning to not care what she thinks. Who cares if you seen her on Linkedin? If she gets notified, its not going to ruin your life. She does not know you. You also said it was a small school. You could have easily viewed her page and plenty of other girls too by just browsing. Please redefine the word creep.
/r/seduction21/03/17 10:25 PM
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Well, I normally walk outside and do my daily to do list. On the way, if I see a cute girl, I talk to her. Girls are everywhere, you just have to open your eyes. Also, bars are open on Wednesdays.
/r/seduction21/03/17 09:58 PM
1

What do you think you should do?
/r/seduction20/03/17 07:17 PM
4

I always judge by the boundaries. I see how close a woman will let me get and then I normally go for it. Simply put, in most cases if a woman lets you get within a inch of her lips, there is a good chance she will let you kiss her.
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:45 PM
2

There is no exact formula.
/r/seduction20/03/17 05:40 PM
1

I can only recommend that you start going by your nickname and find women that are further away from home. After that, I recommend a social media and internet purge or thorough cleaning. The last thing you can do is screen your women to make sure they are not the stalker type. I will say that most women I meet these days do a little bit of cyber stalking. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/03/17 04:21 PM
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I believe your hunting grounds are too close to home. Even if you don't have social media, that does not mean that you aren't on social media. You could be apart of your gf and family members social media. They could be posting happy couple pictures and etc.
/r/seduction20/03/17 03:57 PM
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YOU WONT IMPROVE IF YOU DONT TAKE ACTION! When I was in high school, I had a coach that use to make fun of people every day. Many people didn't like him. He would say practice doesn't make perfect. People think if you practice you will improve, but that isn't always the case. It is totally possible to do something wrong a hundred times and not know why it fails. Sure, you can learn tons of stuff from those but taking action beats them all. Not every book is there to teach. Some are there to expl…
/r/seduction20/03/17 12:11 AM
2

Set time limits.
/r/seduction18/03/17 08:33 AM
3

Become deep as an ocean.
/r/seduction18/03/17 08:29 AM
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I can see this advice going wrong for so many guys.
/r/seduction17/03/17 09:53 PM
1

There are plenty of articles and books you can read.
/r/seduction17/03/17 04:26 PM
1

I think you need to learn some seduction skills.
/r/seduction17/03/17 04:00 PM
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hard introvert t A person who thinks a lot and is often in their own head. My biggest problem is that I usually will have no problem starting the conversation, I can work with this. I think I already know what I need to tell you. but I quickly run out of things to say. I think you need to stop talking after a while and start doing. This means kino and escalating. Dance, kiss, flirt and stuff of that nature. mixer tonight, This means people will be drinking and trying to have fun. This isn't abou…
/r/seduction16/03/17 08:21 PM
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I am going to skip whatever you wrote. If you like the girl, just ask her out. There is no perfect way to handle the situation.
/r/seduction16/03/17 06:24 PM
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If you don't get laid, I am taking away your seduction license.
/r/seduction16/03/17 03:58 PM
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Its sounds like you just making more excuses to me. You should be able to find women somewhere. It is no point in waiting months.
/r/seduction15/03/17 06:58 PM
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one main issue, i live in a small town so its kinda too l8 here allready. This is what I call an excuse. This is a mental trap. Who cares if it is too late? Try anyway.
/r/seduction15/03/17 03:18 PM
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When im actually more attractive There are always other guys who are just as attractive or more attractive. You also have to realize looks aren't everything. Females aren't like males. Looks don't always drive them to mate. , I go too the gym (6months), dress well, eat healthy etc This stuff is only good for you. If you actually want to get with females, you have to talk to them, try and make your intentions known. And the gym has also helped alot on the selfconfidence A few years back I use to …
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:30 PM
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This is when you wait a while and suggest another day. If they can't make it then, then you move on.
/r/seduction14/03/17 09:35 PM
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It is all about keeping interest and having a purpose. in regards to texting People don't live to text. Texting is a side effect of life. Think of it this way, when you text, you have to have a purpose. Most people text to meet up and to pass time before they meet up. o they go cold cause I'm not pressuring them to go out for a drank or something? I don't know. I recommend submitting some field reports. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/03/17 09:31 PM
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If you don't have a license, just be upfront. You can always meet her there or take a taxi. I personally don't like taxis, so I normally use other forms of public transportation. I prefer the cheap rout.
/r/seduction14/03/17 06:40 PM
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I think you need to first ask her out.
/r/seduction14/03/17 06:38 PM
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What is the reason that you fidget?
/r/seduction14/03/17 11:45 AM
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This question is too broad. Does the girl even know you are attracted to her?
/r/seduction12/03/17 06:02 PM
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Most of the time, in the club, you can tell who friends and who aren't friends. You got to get to know your environment. Most females do not go to the club alone.
/r/seduction11/03/17 08:25 PM
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Get to know your environment and talk to everyone. When a friend approaches, introduce yourself.
/r/seduction11/03/17 08:14 PM
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Maybe she means exactly what she is saying.
/r/seduction11/03/17 07:31 PM
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Are you talking to the friends?
/r/seduction11/03/17 05:01 PM
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They eithet label me as creepy for some reason or ill talk to them and then they just go cold. Most people have a reason. I'm a pretty chill guy and i dont talk much but i have fun. I think im attractive and have been told im attractive Most people don't know about your personality from looking at you. Also, the way you think you are may not be how you actually are. When it comes to looks a lot of women play with the truth. How should i act just to test it out I think you should pretend to be a …
/r/seduction11/03/17 12:39 PM
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You really don't understand seduction. It applies to men and women.
/r/seduction11/03/17 10:43 AM
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This may go against a lot of people in this sub, but self improvement is designed to help you and not actually help you get women. I have never heard of someone who has literally EVERYTHING else going for him, It doesn't matter what you have going for you if you don't actually understand women or try to be with them. t seems that common "it will happen naturally" advice doesn't apply if you have nowhere to start from. When someone says naturally, they often mean certain conditions have to be met…
/r/seduction11/03/17 09:28 AM
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It is about a combination of body language and words. In most cases it is easier to try to get the woman to an activity or isolate her. Think of it this way, you meet a cute girl and you must decide if you are going to go indirect or direct. Direct means voicing and making your intentions known. Indirect means not making them known right away. Once you are talking to her, you try to get her to dance or go do something with you.
/r/seduction11/03/17 09:17 AM
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Practicing communication skills is always a valuable thing. Most people don't have the simple ability to just talk. Some lose this skill over time.
/r/seduction11/03/17 08:51 AM
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So you want to know which is better for college, indirect approach or direct approach? The truth is it does not make a difference. Post some field reports and maybe we can help you.
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:54 PM
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Common Inappropriate Posts * Overly Broad / Beginner Topics Things like: How do I approach How do I get a number I'm in college, how do I talk to girls How to kiss a girl
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:34 PM
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* Asking for Advice Any calls for specific situational advice with a specific female should be directed to /r/askSeddit. Note that is askSEDDIT, not askREDDIT.
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:29 PM
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Why don't you just ask the girl if she will be comfortable?
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:06 PM
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When the account is new and doesn't make any sense.
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:45 PM
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I think you may have performance anxiety. If you have a lot of female friends, just ask one of them to take your virginity. Some girls get off on this.
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:17 PM
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The biggest question you need to ask yourself is why are they looking at your lips? Then after that you have to come to a conclusion and test it.
/r/seduction08/03/17 05:33 PM
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Situational.
/r/seduction08/03/17 02:16 PM
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I am free on x date. If she don't respond quickly, delete the number.
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:20 PM
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End of last year I realised I've never actuvely tried to get with any girls, and even rejected quite a few attractive ones who tried with me during the past years. I am going to assume that you are a logical thinker who may be an introvert. I just feel too old to make any mistakes This is the wrong mindset for getting relationships of any kind. People make mistakes. I realise on an objective level that these are just tremendously stupid rationalisations You read my mind. my originally fairly wel…
/r/seduction08/03/17 01:14 PM
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What do you think you should do? It doesn't make a difference weather you text her or not. I do not know the person and do not know if they will respond or even go on a date with you. The only thing I can say is that the person is inconsistent and this may lead to nothing. I also hope that you are talking to more than one female. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/03/17 12:58 PM
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Oneitis is bad. I recommend finding other girls to seduce.
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:23 PM
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Reading didn't really help me in day game. What helped me the most was getting to know what people thought of me when they saw me. I think I asked about a hundred people what they thought of my looks and personality. It was harsh information but it helped.
/r/seduction07/03/17 12:52 PM
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The success of seduction has nothing to do with your looks. It is about using what you have and making it work. Think of it this way. Most guys are afraid to approach. If you can do this you are better than most guys. Most guys spend too much time trying to figure out the best way to get a woman. If you can learn to not waste time, you will be better than most guys. So to answer your question, you do not need to bulk up to be successful. You simply need to learn some seduction skills and put the…
/r/seduction07/03/17 12:41 PM
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I feel like I have read this before. That means people have answered you and you still seem to post the same thing. Is there something in particular you are looking to know about seduction?
/r/seduction07/03/17 11:25 AM
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Ask her.
/r/seduction06/03/17 10:25 AM
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Best part of this post. Oh fuck it, I'm eighteen and she's 22 and gorgeous. I'm just going to message her what I have in mind I believe you have a good future ahead of you.
/r/seduction05/03/17 01:58 PM
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You have to learn to be happy with who you are.
/r/seduction05/03/17 01:56 PM
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That is one way to say it. In English, we use the word date. Another way to say it may be,"I would like to show you that we can be more than friends by spending some alone time with you. Would you like to go to dinner or bowling and get to know each other?" There are may ways to say it. So you'd just go "Hey, wanna hang out as more than friends"? I have said stuff like this back in the past and it has worked. I have told girls that it is impossible for me to be friends with them.
/r/seduction05/03/17 12:03 AM
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There are no rules. You state your interest and see if she is willing to give you a chance.
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:45 PM
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I want to figure out IF I want to be more than friends... This is the point of dating. You try or test your relationship to see if it can be more. That is why I called it a trial period.
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:36 PM
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You want to try being more than friends. Its a trial period.
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:23 PM
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Then say more than friend in your language.
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:02 PM
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Use the word date.
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:01 PM
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God. Please stop over thinking. Seduction is not about hiding who you are. Its about being you and still getting women. Women will never be more important than your kid. Most people will respect this. My advice is simple. Stop over think. Women will not like you for plenty of reasons. Some will like that you have a kid and others will not. Stop caring. Date and talk to women as much as you want. If they don't like you having a kid, it is their lost. Also, you are allowed to have friends. This me…
/r/seduction04/03/17 03:03 PM
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I believe in security. I don't randomly add no one.
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:39 AM
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You want something that is indirect game. You need to learn to talk and make her do the work for you and the project. I recommend asking her to lunch with the excuse of work. Once you are at lunch find a reasonable topic to talk about. You need more information about her to find the best approach to seducing her.
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:36 AM
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Then wait until the project is over.
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:23 AM
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Then wait until the project is over.
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:23 AM
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Beware of sexual harassment.
/r/seduction04/03/17 10:01 AM
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Do you know how to properly google?
/r/seduction03/03/17 01:57 PM
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I think you mean despite being honest. Improvement involves honesty and that can be harsh.
/r/seduction03/03/17 01:43 PM
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Please post a field report with dialogue.
/r/seduction03/03/17 12:47 PM
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On what book you are looking for.
/r/seduction03/03/17 12:01 PM
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It primarily takes something that you know and uses it to memorize everything else. Most people use a place that is familiar like their home or their town. Then after you have the place, you put things in the place to remember them. If you want to remember things in a certain order, you use a certain route that you know very well or you can do it with rooms in a certain place. It mostly uses imagination, location and things that you are familiar with. Example, say you use to walk to school every…
/r/seduction02/03/17 09:25 PM
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I will wait 30 minutes, but no longer. After that, I will move on.
/r/seduction02/03/17 12:51 PM
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If you change your mind or get bored, I will be at X. Maybe throw in that you will be out with a few friends too.
/r/seduction02/03/17 12:49 PM
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I said this earlier to someone. Learn the memory palace. There are books out there on learning it. It is also called the method of loci. It is one of my favorite memory techniques.
/r/seduction01/03/17 10:27 PM
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Avoid oneitis. Talk to multiple girls. Learn to not care and above all, try.
/r/seduction01/03/17 06:40 PM
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A well developed memory palace can help you remember almost anything. Learning the techniques has helped me remember names and phone numbers. It is one of the things that really helped me in seduction. I read a lot of books from time to time and it helps to have a place in your head to keep the important information. I will say after learning the technique, I do remember things that I am not trying to remember. I also use the technique sometime as a party trick.
/r/seduction01/03/17 06:35 PM
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You have the ammo, you just don't know how to use it. Basic means something. It could mean that they are shy and do not want to stick out. It could mean they are mature. You have to take what they give you and see if it matches the norm. After that you can come up with something. Think of it this way when you cold read. Age, gender, clothes, place, friends, and anything else that you can find. After that test your theory.
/r/seduction01/03/17 03:25 PM
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A good pen and piece of paper does it for me. Something about turning nothing into something.
/r/seduction28/02/17 11:27 PM
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It is all about hinting and controlling the environment. Sometime you have to take the lead. It all depends on the women you talk to. Some women aren't going to suck it unless you let them know in one way or another. You don't have to say it, you simply have to hint it good enough.
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:42 AM
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You can't learn everything you need to know in a few days. I recommend learning to relax and just have fun. That is all you can do.
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:37 AM
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I recommend reading a book on cold reading and body language. Now about that memory. Learn the method of loci or the memory palace. It has done wonders for my crappy memory.
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:35 AM
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A sales person studies their customers and makes decisions. The second they see you they are sizing you up. They don't have a script, they have a strategy for common people.
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:32 AM
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I don't always recommend starting with a compliment. Some people aren't paying attention and other people get stuck on the first thing you say. You tell a hot girl she is hot and she will ignore it because she already knows. You tell an ugly girl she is hot and she will spend a lot of time focusing on the compliment because it is hard to believe. This is situational and it is better to decide your approach on the spot after a quick cold read.
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:31 AM
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Well people are more than their culture or appearance. You are attracted to an idea that may not actually be her.
/r/seduction28/02/17 07:51 AM
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Talk about bagels.
/r/seduction27/02/17 06:56 PM
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Good luck getting answers. I feel a lot of people on reddit value their privacy.
/r/seduction27/02/17 11:26 AM
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The book is available many places online. It can be found on reddit. The problem is that people cannot give out links on this subreddit because the book is copyrighted. That means any link that you are given is involved in piracy. Many subreddits are not a fan of piracy.
/r/seduction27/02/17 11:25 AM
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But say theres a girl i litterally just want to have as a fuck buddy. How do i let them know this is my intentions without hiding it but also not being too direct? And how long does it usually take for something like this to come about? Same day? a week? a month? Your questions are almost impossible to answer. Most of this is situational. If you want a fwb, learn to screen for them. This means testing girls to see if they meet your standards. This is all trial and error. Its about trying and ref…
/r/seduction26/02/17 05:19 PM
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Well it depends on whether you are dealing with hoes or not. In my personal opinion, a hoe does not have much value. She is only good for getting rid of sexual frustration. I like to rank all relationships. This makes life easier for me. Here is a rough draft of what my process looks like. Number 1 will always be wife material women. Number 2 will always be my girlfriend. Number 3 will be close family and friends. Number 4 will be friends Number 5 will be hoes. Number 6 will be associates Some p…
/r/seduction26/02/17 05:00 PM
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You should not be practicing seduction if you do not understand the consequences of sex or sexual activity. In short, touching a person can give you a std. Their are many different ways a person can contract diseases. Please educate yourself on sexual activity.
/r/seduction26/02/17 01:34 PM
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I am being honest. Most people can point out a problem, but most people rarely ever point out a solution.
/r/seduction26/02/17 10:31 AM
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Then make your own subreddit.
/r/seduction26/02/17 09:54 AM
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Hard work and time.
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:30 PM
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I recommended not playing with your life. If you have ED problems, talk to a doctor.
/r/seduction23/02/17 06:57 PM
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This is a yes and no. Normally, it is not one thing that stops a woman from getting with you.
/r/seduction23/02/17 06:24 PM
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I think you need to google this or even better, ask a doctor.
/r/seduction23/02/17 06:23 PM
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I learn to change my logic.
/r/seduction23/02/17 06:22 PM
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I am not recommending a book. I am recommending an activity. Books are okay, but getting out there and doing is good for experience.
/r/seduction22/02/17 12:40 AM
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btw she broke up with me because she has a lot of stuff going in her life right now and no time for a boyfriend. I don't believe this one. She has time to snapchat, she has time for a bf. I believe there may be information that you are missing. s it a bad idea to keep in contact with my ex? If your ex gets in the way of you talking to other women, then it is a problem. She is single and could be talking to other men. She may not have time for a bf, but she could have time for dating and even one…
/r/seduction21/02/17 11:49 PM
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Find some books on cold reading. Youtube it and learn it. It is a very valuable skill.
/r/seduction21/02/17 11:44 PM
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What is the most rational, and preferably right thing to do for me as of now? Thanks The most rational thing for you to do is to work on other women. You can plan another trip to Ireland. Should I text her (added her on facebook), and try to keep contact? You can do this and see if she responds. If she does not, there are billions of other girls in this world. The one I slept with and I had an unbelievable connection, eyecontact, empathy, and honesty. We were both on MDMA, and everything was eup…
/r/seduction21/02/17 11:42 PM
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I recommend public speaking.
/r/seduction21/02/17 11:39 PM
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Looking for IOI is always complicated. I recommend testing people to see if they are actually interested. A friend of mine said she is nice to everyone but you. Why don't you just ask her out?
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:37 PM
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Actually people meet strangers all the time. This is how most people make friends. Most people don't even think about it. The truth is all about how you approach approaching a stranger. Some people are naturals at it while others are terrible at it. Mastering the approach is a hard thing to do in seduction. It requires reading a situation just right and responding. I often approach lots of people but I mostly do it on common ground. I find something that makes me appear more safe than stranger d…
/r/seduction20/02/17 07:22 PM
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Skills are useless unless you have goals. Things are normally done in steps. After the number normally comes the date. After the date normally comes the kiss. After the kiss normally comes some intimate touching. After some intimate touching comes sex. This is not the order that it normally happens. Skills are only good if they help you with your goals.
/r/seduction19/02/17 02:58 PM
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Its what you do after the number.
/r/seduction19/02/17 02:26 PM
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Well if you go to the club, you need to engage in club activities. You should try bars.
/r/seduction18/02/17 10:18 AM
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Talk to more people in life. Get a book on basic conversation. So mostly I go to club, Stop talking. Start dancing.
/r/seduction18/02/17 09:02 AM
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As fun as you make it.
/r/seduction18/02/17 08:58 AM
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As fun as you make it.
/r/seduction18/02/17 08:57 AM
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Well sometime keeping things a secret can help you avoid competition and relationship problems. Sometime that gives the girl opportunities to sleep with other guys who will also not tell.
/r/seduction17/02/17 01:28 PM
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Call me old fashion, but I believe married women should be left alone. I believe everyone practicing seduction should have some type of morals. Now let me look at you. n my mid 20's and there is nothing wrong So you should be able to get women that are your age or close to it. one is closing in on her 50s 20 year age gap. Why? Are you into GILFs or something? 30 years and their kids are grown up Do you really want to ruin 30 years of anyone's life? I just need to know how unlikely it is so that …
/r/seduction14/02/17 07:47 PM
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Well its more about luck, skills and situations. Seduction isn't something new. It is just a collection of something that is slowly becoming a lost art.
/r/seduction12/02/17 10:34 PM
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Have an opinion. When first went out with groups, I kind of let the group make the decisions. In short, don't always go with the flow, make it. Also, be yourself and have fun.
/r/seduction11/02/17 12:57 PM
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Some people are oblivious to how you feel about them. In those cases, it is better to be more direct with words.
/r/seduction11/02/17 12:40 PM
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This subreddit is not dedicated to oneitis.
/r/seduction11/02/17 12:38 PM
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This cultural and situational.
/r/seduction11/02/17 12:37 PM
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I don't really have opportunities to meet women, let alone women who would like me. I feel like you are lying to me because you have all these opinions that do not agree with the world. Right now I am down to online dating, but I can only offer selfies, so my matches are few and far between. Well, now I know you are lying. If you have a camera of any type, you can offer more than selfies. I am not a very social guy, so the big things like bars, clubs or parties fall out for me. Well, you can't r…
/r/seduction10/02/17 11:26 PM
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We know that men are logical thinkers and women are emotional thinkers. I know plenty of guys who are emotional thinkers. This is generally why men don't understand women. I believe most men try to apply the if it was me logic to women and that is why they do not understand them. haven't been able to learn how to think emotionally nor have I learned how to interpret women's actions. You don't need to think emotionally, you just need to redefine your logic. Data is everywhere. You just need to be…
/r/seduction10/02/17 11:18 PM
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It simply means they think you don't meet the standards to get with her.
/r/seduction07/02/17 02:38 PM
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Do you have hobbies or anything interesting that you do?
/r/seduction07/02/17 06:50 AM
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is girl and I have been talking for about two weeks So you barely know the girl. Moving slow, haven't done anything physical yet. So the future of your relationship with this person is still unknown. e had a terrible, terrible day yesterday People have bad days. so I thought what I would do is give her a package with a bottle of wine, a bunch of candy, and an Amazon gift card this evening. I honestly think that you should not do this. I say this because you barely know her and you have not done …
/r/seduction31/01/17 07:35 PM
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Say hello.
/r/seduction31/01/17 03:42 PM
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This is more of a mental thing for some people. For others this does nothing.
/r/seduction30/01/17 10:50 PM
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This is going to be some bad advice. Unless a girl is married, most relationships are temporary. Some women change statuses like clothes. I recommend trying with all women unless they are wearing wedding rings or other signs of being in a relationship. what would be the best way to figure out if they are in a relationship? The best way is to ask them. The problem is you will never know if they are lying or not. The next best thing is social media. It is a common thing these days for people to pu…
/r/seduction30/01/17 09:16 PM
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Here is my advice that you will ignore. Its the same as other people have told you. Forget about the girl and talk to other women. For everyone else. Check his post history and how new his account is. Then decide if you want to respond.
/r/seduction30/01/17 06:29 PM
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I will just ignore this post.
/r/seduction30/01/17 09:36 AM
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Trial and error.
/r/seduction29/01/17 10:55 AM
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No. Just be prepared for shit test about your age.
/r/seduction28/01/17 12:10 PM
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Without the entire text it is hard to get a feel for what she actually mean, but I don't think there is anything to worry about.
/r/seduction27/01/17 11:52 AM
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We don't know. May you should transcribe your text.
/r/seduction27/01/17 11:12 AM
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I use to be known as a player way before I knew about seduction. I recommend going somewhere that you actually need to go. Just wondering around trying to find women can look creepy sometime. If you are going to the mall, have a reason to go other than women. I like going to the book store and finding books. The dog that catches the most cats uses his head.
/r/seduction26/01/17 02:41 PM
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I believe you need to practice talking to girls. Increase your social circle and make friends.
/r/seduction26/01/17 11:08 AM
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I say keep going and escalate to see what happen.
/r/seduction25/01/17 07:07 PM
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Don't drink alcohol and leave the club at 1 or 0130.
/r/seduction25/01/17 04:25 PM
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You forget about it and focus on other women.
/r/seduction25/01/17 11:08 AM
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This is why I like this subreddit. Good conversations. trickery and hiding worked better for me in every situations The dark side of seduction. I wish most guys would learn the good side of seduction, but most people don't. Let's say Chad has 10 women in front of him and wants to get laid with all of them. If by being upfront you mean making your intentions clear and tell the girl that "I only want sex, nothing else" this will so so rarely work This is mostly true. Honesty mostly works if you ha…
/r/seduction24/01/17 11:52 PM
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You said that you are bringing value. In short, you aren't the valuable thing, its the thing that you are bringing. Believing that thing makes you valuable is what makes it false. Chad didn't use his own value to get donations. He used someone else's value. Its like buying drinks for some girls, as long as you are buying, they will talk to you. You aren't valuable, the alcohol is.
/r/seduction24/01/17 11:18 PM
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There is a dark side to seduction. One that many people choose to walk. You have to be careful with that because that can lead to things that most people do not want. Seduction can ruin people's lives. Some people have a hard time maintaining relationships after learning seduction. Some have sex addiction while others can't live without the rush of approaching and new thrills. You need to learn proper techniques and not just anything that works. Most people don't even understand why some stuff w…
/r/seduction24/01/17 11:13 PM
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I deleted the other reply to this comment. I thought I was responding to someone else. I let my intentions known right off the bat, I'm gonna get rejected. This is not always true. I can tell that you are insecure. You need to work on your mental game. For me, I have to take chads path and convince them my value is high through bringing value and overconfidence. I really don't think you understand Chad. Confidence is good, but fake value is not.
/r/seduction24/01/17 11:01 PM
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If Chad was upfront about what he wanted, he would be seen as a disgusting guy and he would never have sex. I disagree. I think Chad would get laid more often. Guys want sex, it is okay to be honest about it. I believe it is more about how you say it. I am pretty sure that %90 population of boys here have a "horrible mentality". I believe 90 percent of the population here have horrible mentors. You might think as you wish but i don't find my mentality horrible. You can want more sex and that's j…
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:46 PM
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I have lost family members and friends to cancer. I understand.
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:29 PM
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When I read his story, I was shocked by the cancer comment. I told him to at least think of breast cancer.
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:11 PM
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Seduction is all about manipulating your sexual market value. I thought seduction was about increasing your sexual market value, not manipulating it. Chad isn't trying to find a soulmate for himself, he just wants a girl to go to bed with This mentality is horrible. How do you expect women to trust guys and give them a chance if this is how they are? But if you're considering LTR, then be your honest self like Jim. Jim shouldn't have problems getting a short term relationship. I say this because…
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:10 PM
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I prefer to be a Jimmy. Jimmy makes his intentions known and lets you decide whether you want to donate or not. Chad is manipulating you into his cause. You don't care anything about dog shelters. You are only donating to get with women. When the women aren't there, you are not going to donate or you won't want to donate. Now let me explain this from a seduction's point of view. Whenever you try to get with a girl, it is better to be a Jimmy. He makes his intentions known and there is no confusi…
/r/seduction24/01/17 09:37 PM
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I would send her a text just to make sure she is still coming.
/r/seduction24/01/17 09:18 PM
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end of class Sometime the end of class is the worst time to talk to someone. They may have places to be or whatever. You have to judge the situation right to make your approach count. it was clear right off the mark that she just wasn't interested in speaking Well, sometime you lose battles before you actually start. The important thing is that you tried. It gets better with practice. was trying to use the OCAT method This must mean you don't really talk to people. I recommend talking to working…
/r/seduction24/01/17 07:28 PM
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What is the OCAT method?
/r/seduction24/01/17 07:01 PM
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Sometime when I see the word throwaway, I think why should I waste my time typing.
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:49 PM
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Seduction is a game of trial and error. If you cannot handle rejection, I do not recommend it for you. this girl i love I have experienced heartbreak and I can tell you that it is not for everyone. Some of the advice on this subreddit may be able to help you and other advice may not. I will say that if you wish to practice seduction, you need to understand that there are no guarantees. The only thing I can tell you is to try. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:47 PM
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Do you have any tips on how to make conversations more random? I learned that it is best to get away from pickup sometime and focus on making friends. It often spend some days just meeting new people and learning about them. I do this everywhere from the bus stop to the grocery store. I also do my best to get out there and do different activities each month. I have this weird bucket list where I go out and try to do things I have never done before.
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:36 PM
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Learning to hold random conversations and not worry about numbers. A lot of people just approach. Not many people learn how to talk to strangers. After I got more comfortable talking to strangers, my game overall improved.
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:53 PM
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she likes cuddling and watching movies. The good old Netflix and Chill. You have a high chance of getting laid. However, she did also say in her bio that she's not about one night stands and while messaging me, she implied that she didn't want to have sex and instead "actually watch Netflix and actually chill and get to know each other". I could be wrong, but she does not want to look like a slut. This is actually means, you need to have a reason for her to be there and stay the night. The good …
/r/seduction22/01/17 08:24 PM
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he reason my ex and i broke up was really stupid and had nothing to do with our compatibility, so i want her back. In seduction, we normally move forward, not backwards. she texts me every day and sometimes wants to talk on the phone.from the things she has said i cant get a good reading on wether she wants to get back together or not Well, its hard to figure this out without knowing the reason you broke up or more details about your situation. ....i cant be sure though.my problem is i dont want…
/r/seduction22/01/17 08:14 PM
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r/relationships
/r/seduction22/01/17 01:20 PM
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Yeah I have had this happen to me a few times being the wingman. I normally end up sleeping with the other girl.
/r/seduction21/01/17 10:06 PM
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Never took improv, but I specialize in improvising. Its a useful skill to have when you ate out. Most people can't think on their feet.
/r/seduction20/01/17 04:00 PM
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It says it in the video. This is just hypnosis. Some people have been known to use covert hypnosis in seduction. I do not recommend you toy with stuff like this unless you understand it.
/r/seduction19/01/17 08:56 PM
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I should say that a date that focuses more on action, teamwork or competition is a good plan B date or even plan A. I don't know what you have in your area, but this could be something as simple as seeing the town where you walk around and visit different places. This is a good poor man date but you have to have good places to see. Going to the zoo, mini golf or etc can also work. Arcade dates, horse back riding or wine tasting could also work. You want to avoid dates where you are going to sit …
/r/seduction19/01/17 07:09 PM
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I think you did the right thing in some areas. who was much taller than me Height shouldn't affect the date. suggested she was alright looking and her interests/personality was what really appealed to me. I like this. This means that you seem to be down to earth. Looks can't be everything. ut she looked very little like her pictures. Bad skin, unhealthy paleness, and ... anyways. A lie is a lie. I believe that you could have left at that point if you wanted to. I am proud of you for staying. Tha…
/r/seduction19/01/17 06:49 PM
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lots of mixed signals Maybe you are bad at reading the signals. e had her hands in her pockets and did not want to hold hands. Maybe you are moving too fast. Hands in the pocket show signs of negative body language. Maybe she does not like this date or something you have done. I began trying to escalate with her. She moved a little bit away I have a feeling that she is uncomfortable, but you keep trying to touch her or force things to progress. She didn't seem to care my arm was wrapped around h…
/r/seduction19/01/17 06:27 PM
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I think skipped a lot of steps between.
/r/seduction19/01/17 03:23 PM
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In my personal opinion, if a girl does not make time for me, I will go to the next girl. There are too many women in this world to be stuck on one when there is another that will treat you better. 1-2 hours to respond 5-6. After a day
/r/seduction18/01/17 06:04 PM
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I love reading fiction.
/r/seduction18/01/17 07:57 AM
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There is not enough information to answer your questions. You need to submit detailed interactions.
/r/seduction17/01/17 06:26 PM
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I recommend submitting some field reports.
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:28 PM
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Seduction is not about manipulation. Plus I don't like wasting my time on throw away accounts. Also, why should I do your research for you?
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:15 PM
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I know the stuff you are talking about but I am not willing to teach it to any stranger.
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:08 PM
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Do you know what a shit test is?
/r/seduction16/01/17 06:02 PM
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I like to think of it as marking territory. The girl or the guy has to make it known to other predators that this prey has been claimed.
/r/seduction16/01/17 04:07 PM
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Now I can only see a dude saying “Good girl” the same way he does to a dog! Lmao. Now I can see some guy doing this and then buying a girl a collar or choker necklace.
/r/seduction16/01/17 04:05 PM
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I think your favorite pickup artist should be yourself. You should learn from everyone. Researching seduction these days is easy.
/r/seduction16/01/17 11:11 AM
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I like to use the Urban dictionary for terms I do not understand. It has an android app.
/r/seduction16/01/17 11:04 AM
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Touching.
/r/seduction16/01/17 11:01 AM
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best way to try and get her back to my place? The best way is the way that works. I have always believed there is no best way. You simply try many ways. Different girls respond to different things. I believe your biggest problem was you didn't try.
/r/seduction15/01/17 08:17 PM
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Does she like me? Or am I reading too much into a friendship? I don't know. A good way to find out is to ask her on a date. Facebook and likes my posts and pictures (pretty much most stuff I post now) and comments often. This could be friendship behavior. can't be sure whether she's interested in me Then you need to ask her out and figure it out.
/r/seduction15/01/17 08:14 PM
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Basic communication and social skills have been dying off for a while. Most people do not have them. This includes you. I was standing in line to the bar So everyone in this line was there to get a drink and probably has friends waiting for them. Ask her what she is drinking, make her laugh, taste her drink, just standard shit. You taste my drink, I get mad at you. So you try to game her. Did you find out if she was with any friends and what her purpose of being at the bar was? Did you communica…
/r/seduction15/01/17 03:17 PM
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Every girl you find attractive is fair game. Rejection happens and after it you have two options. You can keep being friends. You can stop being friends. The nature of the relationship after the rejection is situational. I think but it will be awkward if I have to see them again Situational. Some girls take it as a compliment and others take it different. The smart thing depends on how you handle the situation. If you treat her with respect and don't cause problems after attempting, most people …
/r/seduction15/01/17 02:58 PM
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Since this is a made up situation, I would tell that guy to work on his mental game and not worry about what people think. Also, women are situational and people change over time. The answer to your question can be many things. Some people graduate college early or at 22.
/r/seduction14/01/17 11:51 PM
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Wait 48 more hours.
/r/seduction14/01/17 07:34 PM
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You are not a woman, you will never understand. Women do what they think is right and safe. Also, if the woman is smart she can block text and calls from unknown people. Technology is amazing. American man here.
/r/seduction14/01/17 09:50 AM
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I think I spent the most time on hobbies. Everything else was done on the side.
/r/seduction13/01/17 11:56 AM
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Find another girl. At the pre drinks she was all over me, she was very drunk and clearly wanted to hook up with me; She seems to want to have fun and may be seeking attention. I personally don't believe in hook ups so I didn't do anything. This is your decision. I think you two may view the world different or have different goals. The fact that she wanted to hook up with me however, made this girl someone I was now interested in, and I got to know her and I liked her as a person as well. This sh…
/r/seduction13/01/17 09:09 AM
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For Germany, 10 is like when the doors open.
/r/seduction12/01/17 05:42 PM
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I think your chart has a few problems. Its a good start though.
/r/seduction12/01/17 03:14 PM
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Inbox me. First give me a quick summary of yourself and your methods. After that, tell me where you think you are struggling.
/r/seduction11/01/17 08:54 PM
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I understand you don't take seduction serious. 500 from age 25 to 27 and I'm still single 5 girls a week. That means 1 girl every five days and then a 2 day break. douche bag boyfriend that kept disappointing her. You shouldn't insult the guy. She kept going back to him. Also, it seems if you really valued this girl. Became depressed afterwards. Women should not be the source of your happiness. This is unhealthy. You should work on your mental game. I've read so much on this website and from sim…
/r/seduction11/01/17 03:17 PM
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American here studying German. girl i barely know. This means she should not be that important to you. she said "you´ve didnt look at me the whole evening" and we hugged until she left home. I think she wanted you to do more. Escalate more often and quicker. This means you should have tries earlier in the night and tries to go as far as possible. the upcoming week, i could´t stop thinking about that situation and my mind built a world, This is unhealthy. You have to stay in reality. i say, we ha…
/r/seduction10/01/17 01:27 PM
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Well lit is hard to answer your question, but I will say that most women do not want to be considered sluts. I have known girls in the past to lie about the number of sexual partners they have had. There is another thing you can consider and that is that some girls don't get laid often. This could be because they are picky or because they have a hard time finding the right guy. Either way, it is hard to tell what it is unless you truly know the woman.
/r/seduction09/01/17 08:04 PM
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Yes it could work in both situations. You just have to be good at reading people. People's opinions can be changed depending on what strings you pull.
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:29 PM
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I don't do those new year, new me things. If you have a goal, get to work to accomplish it.
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:16 PM
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Have you tried asking her on a date and escalating? Have you made your intentions known?
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:15 PM
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This is situational and it depends on the girl.
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:14 PM
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Is this a relationship question?
/r/seduction09/01/17 11:59 AM
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I approach getting female friends like I approach getting male friends.
/r/seduction09/01/17 11:57 AM
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I believe the best approach in seduction is a natural one. What works for one person may not always work for you.
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:58 PM
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Nope, they're only seeing each other from what I know. Why don't you just ask them? She's just out from a 10 year relationship so I wasn't feeling like jumping on her like a piece of meat really This is smart, but you got to move away from texting if you want to develop a relationship. And nope, it's not the same girl haha, I do talk to a few girls but she was kinda like a bestfriend. It may be that you are only friendship material to her.
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:55 PM
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This is not r/askmen. I recommend posting that over there and letting them respond. I could say the same thing you are saying to women.
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:21 PM
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Eventually, she started dating this guy and went from starting the conversations everyday and the fleet of snaps to barely answering a text. I can only guess this is her boyfriend and that she does not want to cheat. I can also guess that you did not make enough moves outside of texting. Is it because she doesn't want her date to be jealous or something? It's the second time it happened to me this year. I am not psychic. It could be that she is now in a relationship. Second time with the same gi…
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:20 PM
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I need to have a surge in sexual acquaintances once more in my life before settling down. You need to tailor your situation for your goals. You need meet as quick as possible and escalate quickly. I got quite good at reading their cues. This is the secret to seduction. If you can read clues, then you game is set. I just have to be resilient when they don't accept my behavior. Its not always about accepting. It is more about respecting sometime. I don't agree with half the stuff my friends do. It…
/r/seduction08/01/17 04:16 PM
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seems that it is women who generally hold all the cards. Actually, I hold all the cards. it's still her decision to allow things to go forward since you are the one pursuing. I might pursue some women, but if they do not meet my standards, I will stop and pursue someone else. It´s pretty much a shot in the dark Sometimes.
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:47 PM
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I am not sure what my goal is, exactly. I like attractive women a lot. So maybe it is related to that. Are you looking for a relationship? Are you looking for a one night stand? You need to narrow your focus. Once that is done, you can make better decisions on Tinder. I don't think I'm terrible at it. I know quite well how to do small talk. I can present How good are you at reading people? Body language, conversations, wants and etc? Most of my friends are nerds who are into psychadelics, mathem…
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:42 PM
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It seems to me most of my interactions are boring. Boring has many definitions. I assume that you do what most people do or you lack understanding when it comes to situations. On Tinder, I talk to some girl and it gets into a "witty" discussion about work Why would you even talk about work? What is your Tinder goal? but not the right kind of fun If you have a basic understanding of people want, you need to apply that to your conversations. Then I go out to the club, sometimes alone, go up to som…
/r/seduction08/01/17 02:40 PM
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There isn't any risk asking a friend or co-worker out Some companies have rules against employees dating. There are also risks. Sexual harassment in the work place and all kinds of stuff. People have to be careful when it comes to approaching people at work. Jobs are important to people and something as simples as flirting sometime can get people fired. Money is important.
/r/seduction08/01/17 12:26 PM
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That title sucks.
/r/seduction08/01/17 12:08 AM
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Never read the book, but you can be whatever you put your mind to. You may be better at one style than the other.
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:25 PM
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Let the woman choose. Say your name but then let her know that people normally call you by your nickname because it is easier.
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:09 PM
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It depends on how hard your name is to pronounce and if you commonly go by a nickname.
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:03 PM
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Women can be attracted to an idea or thought. So it is possible.
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:02 PM
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Why don't you just buy it?
/r/seduction07/01/17 12:21 PM
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If you or the girl cannot make time for each other, you simply cannot be together.
/r/seduction04/01/17 09:06 PM
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You should submit a field report.
/r/seduction04/01/17 03:34 PM
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There is no usual. I plan my dates according to many factors.
/r/seduction04/01/17 12:47 PM
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I will not give you my facebook, but we can talk on some other messenger. Private message me.
/r/seduction03/01/17 11:32 PM
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ing is she has already told me she was interested numerous times. If she is interested, you plan a date or you make a move. I feel like I just need to get her to a point where I don't seem as availible to her, so it doesn't seem to easy and she has to/wants to win my approval. What? You are confusing me. It seems like you are trying to play some game. What theories are you following or what is making you think you should do this? She already has your approval. She knows that you are interested. …
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:58 PM
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When you talk to a girl, you normally have a goal. Do you want her to be your girlfriend or your friends with benefits? Most people do not know how to text because they lack communication skills. This is the side effect of using social media and texting as a crutch.
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:49 PM
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I would normally tell people to walk down the road of seduction because it can help them develop as a person. I will not tell you this. got rejected, became really depressed and ended slashing myself real bad... If you cannot handle rejection, seduction is not for you. I believe you need to work on yourself and be happy with you. Now I`ve become very insecure and afraid to "approach" strangers of the opposite sex People preach approaching in this sub. You have to approach. Getting over approach …
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:45 PM
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This is simple. Everywhere. You need to get out and start doing things. Observe the world. I recommend exploring and getting out. Day game does work and so does night game. You just have to put a little more thought into it.
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:35 PM
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If she is very responsive, I believe that you have a communication problem mostly from your side. I asked her again yesterday but said she was busy but did not offer another time Did you offer her enough time to prepare for the date? Did you tell her in advance and did you give her another time that you would be available. It is not her responsibility to offer a time. She can to be nice, but you could have asked her when she was free or what her schedule was like. When do i ask her again? There …
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:33 PM
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You don't need money to date. You need ideas. Sometime watching a movie and going for a walk can be a date. Swimming and doing things together can be a date. You just have to be able to think and suggest.
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:28 PM
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I have already tried the traditional approach of seeming interested in her personally... trying to get to know her better that kinda stuff. I have never heard of the traditional approach. This is stuff I hear about on tv and maybe read in books. I believe that this approach would bore a person. the approach of giving her plenty of attention etc. didn't really work, probably because she is hot and used to it. Complimenting a person doesn't do much. Once the compliments are over, the person has to…
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:27 PM
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I feel like you have a lot of problems that a simple text cannot fix. I feel a professional may be the best thing for you.
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:12 PM
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I recommend finding a good psychologist.
/r/seduction02/01/17 09:25 PM
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Once when I was naked and another time when I was covered in dirt.
/r/seduction02/01/17 05:55 PM
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That's hard to do. Society has many definitions of a man.
/r/seduction02/01/17 10:21 AM
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I really think the best way to learn about seduction is to learn about women and yourself. I say this because practicing seduction will reveal your flaws and it is dumb to actually try to talk to women without actually knowing anything about them.
/r/seduction01/01/17 08:50 PM
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I recommend staying away from drugs. You cannot give consent or make proper decisions. It can also lead to dangerous situations.
/r/seduction31/12/16 08:31 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction31/12/16 01:50 PM
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Find a logical reason to go back to your place. Flirt with her and make intentions known.
/r/seduction29/12/16 10:32 PM
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Anti-slut defense. Also, what happens happens. Some people just need a good story to help them sleep at night. She does not exclude "sex-only-relationship" nor do I. Meet her in safe location. Build rapport and prove you are safe. Then find a reasonable excuse to go have sex. Also, escalate and kino.
/r/seduction29/12/16 09:19 PM
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The last time I checked, there are many types of guys. Black, brown, fat, skinny, poor, dumb, smart, rich, poor, short, tall and etc. The problem is that if you talk to any woman, they can find something or something wrong with a man. Some women do not date black guys, tall guys and etc. Your are fine the way you are and there is nothing wrong with your height. You have to accept who you are and learn to deal with people who give you shit test. You need to educate people and make them understand…
/r/seduction29/12/16 09:13 PM
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One you have more time to work on and the other you have less time.
/r/seduction29/12/16 04:07 PM
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Then I guess you will just have to go get better at it.
/r/seduction27/12/16 08:10 PM
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The problem is you think you know. You don't its clear that girls they try to approach, have no interest to engage. Girls can obviously tell the difference Unless you are a girl, you will never know. Confidence is more about trying and being sure of what you are doing. How does one distinguish this fine line? The thing is, I want to try faking confidence, until I make it, but I certainly don't want to look as ridiculous as some of my friends do. Ugh. Please help! You will never be perfect. You j…
/r/seduction27/12/16 04:20 PM
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I am going to say that you need to submit your Field Reports. There could be a hundred things that you could improve to fix this situation. No one can answer you question properly because there is so much we do not know about you. I recommend making a journal and learning from it.
/r/seduction27/12/16 03:16 PM
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I have a friend who married a girl from Latvia. The girl is a hustler and scammer, but so is my friend. They make a living scamming their family and everyone else. I would be careful. It could become sexual, but I think that will happen after some money has been spent.
/r/seduction27/12/16 01:36 PM
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she seems very sweet and gentle and I'm not sure this is the case. That's how most scams are. They don't appear to be scams until you are in the country. The whole point is to provide an illusion of companionship. By looking at the facts did you get the impression that it might be? If it is too good to be true, it might be a scam. What country are you visiting? I would research it and her. Check her social media and look for clues.
/r/seduction27/12/16 11:08 AM
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I don't know what country you are going to, but you never give out too much information. Some women are predators that prey on men. They will use you for money or claim they have sick family. Some will get you robbed. You can meet the woman, but I would take precautions. Don't show her your real hotel or hostel. Use a cheap hotel for sex. I am just saying be careful.
/r/seduction27/12/16 10:54 AM
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Be careful of scams.
/r/seduction27/12/16 10:36 AM
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This is not r/relationships r/relationship_advice r/askmen r/askwomen. This is r/seduction. You can break up for any reason you want to. Who cares if it is right or wrong? If you want tips on how to seduce women that are not your ex, I can give you some tips.
/r/seduction26/12/16 09:43 PM
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Well that is a hard question to answer. You have to realize that women are individuals and what interest them will vary. Also, age plays a part in how they live their life.
/r/seduction26/12/16 09:40 PM
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If you are not good at talking, them make the date more about action and location. Then go from there.
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:50 PM
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Can you swim? Its the perfect question to set up a next date. It also helps you get an idea of how they look without make-up.
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:46 PM
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I don't recommend guides. I let other people do that. I recommend learning to use a search engine. I also recommend getting out and doing.
/r/seduction25/12/16 10:39 PM
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Seduction is not about tricking women.
/r/seduction25/12/16 06:43 PM
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I recommend downloading a bunch of ebooks and using text to speech.
/r/seduction25/12/16 06:20 PM
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Doesn't seem active enough to actually subscribe to.
/r/seduction25/12/16 03:27 PM
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The most successful people in the world are not the beautiful, but the smart.
/r/seduction23/12/16 10:59 PM
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You know women are people. Its like saying I want money but don't want to work.
/r/seduction23/12/16 10:57 PM
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You know women are people. Its like saying I want money but don't want to work.
/r/seduction23/12/16 10:56 PM
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It is a start. You also need to get some true opinions of your looks. Fix your fashion if possible. I am going to say something that a lot of people will not agree with. Most guys do not try. If you take the time to learn and actually try to talk to women and be with them, you will be doing better than most guys. This means making your intentions known, approaching, going out and dancing, having fun, learning about females and applying what you learn. You can do it, I have seen guys that are fat…
/r/seduction23/12/16 10:52 PM
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You need to get out of your head. You don't know what people are thinking until you actually talk to them. Some of those eyes may be women that are actually attracted to you. If you really look young, take that as a good thing. Learn how to deal with shit test and go from there. You need to work on your mental strength.
/r/seduction23/12/16 10:49 PM
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Well, you need to start approaching. Do you have any skills? Do you learn quick? Looks aren't everything. You can still get with women if you have skills that make you fun and valuable.
/r/seduction23/12/16 10:46 PM
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Just forget about the guy and go out again. Most clubs have security. You should be fine if you are aware of your surroundings.
/r/seduction23/12/16 07:39 PM
2

I feel you may be a troll.
/r/seduction23/12/16 11:46 AM
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Im texting a 20F After a few days even tho We haven't met since the day she saw me in her work. No one that I know of on this subreddit is a mind reader. If you want to date her, just ask her out. her co-worker (my friend) told me that she likes me. She already likes you according to the friend. The only thing you have to do is make a move. Plus she shares alot of her personal life with me, like about her work, family...) Be careful not to become a best friend. Always escalate. she was telling m…
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:35 PM
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I believe you are looking for a certain type of woman and you need to learn where to find them. After that, you need to increase your value and advertise more. I believe you could get women to chase you, but you need to find the women first. A good amount of women are not into submissive men. This means you need to learn how to find the ones that are. Good luck.
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:26 PM
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It is normally better to let a woman know when you are free. I normally like to give them two options. If they cannot make it, I find someone who can make it or do something else. I like to know things two days in advance. If a woman cannot let me know two days in advance, I normally just reschedule for next week or forget about her. My time is valuable. Should I just set the place and time and wait for her to let me know? I would wait to see if she is available. If she doesn't let you know in a…
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:23 PM
1

Ant-Slut defense in night game.
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:13 PM
1

There is a glossary of terms on the sidebar. Read through that and some of the stuff on this subreddit will be clearer.
/r/seduction22/12/16 06:54 PM
2

Cold approaches are about cold reading. You observe something and then you talk about it.
/r/seduction21/12/16 10:55 PM
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I recommend proving to her that she is not a 9 or a 10. I would take away her status and bring her down to the level of a 4. She flirts with every man she meets and has a tonne of guys trying to lick her heels and get with her. She's a solid 9/10 and everywhere she goes she'll be surrounded by guys who are solidly in the friendzone. Stop feeding her ego. Treat her like she is low class. Study her personality and find a weakness. Now I chose her as a target because she's hard. Everyone wants her.…
/r/seduction21/12/16 10:31 PM
1

It depends on the women rating you.
/r/seduction21/12/16 07:25 PM
3

Well, most people say sex sells. There are a lot of scams built around attractive women.
/r/seduction21/12/16 07:24 PM
1

You need to delete her and move on. The more you see her the more you think about her. A little space from her will help you. If you can't delete her, give a trusted friend access to your stuff and let them do it.
/r/seduction21/12/16 05:45 PM
1

Thanks for letting me know a new internet term. I will make sure to use it in the future.
/r/seduction21/12/16 05:42 PM
1

Link his free material. I will review it for the world.
/r/seduction21/12/16 05:03 PM
1

Another barely used account.
/r/seduction21/12/16 04:58 PM
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Does he teach a person how to use paragraphs? I can't trust anyone with an account that's not that old. Also, when people throw around prices, I normally think it is a scam.
/r/seduction21/12/16 04:57 PM
1

I think I wasted a good minute of my life reading that.
/r/seduction20/12/16 04:53 PM
5

You need to do a lot more interaction. I recommend night game followed by building a huge social circle. You need to approach people and make more friends. I say a good 60 to 100 approaches a month will help. Don't worry about number closes all the time. Make female friends. Also always escalate.
/r/seduction20/12/16 04:10 PM
2

Most girls don't know you and they will think stranger danger.
/r/seduction19/12/16 09:12 PM
5

Myself.
/r/seduction19/12/16 03:23 PM
2

No, you are stuck in a fictional world with no understanding.
/r/seduction19/12/16 03:12 PM
1

You have studied the bad versions of pickup.
/r/seduction19/12/16 01:56 PM
3

Why don't you just thank her for adding you?
/r/seduction18/12/16 11:37 AM
2

Well most girls don't believe the things you tell them or they think less of themselves.
/r/seduction17/12/16 10:32 PM
1

I have never had an interest in Japanese. Right now I am studying four different language. I am at B1 level German, which means I can talk and write in it. The other three languages I am studying are Russian, Dutch, and Spanish. I understand what you are saying when it comes to how emotion is expressed in different languages. I also understand that some things are impossible to write and translate. I figure with enough time and practice anything is possible, especially if you are in the country …
/r/seduction17/12/16 05:42 PM
1

Learn Japanese. There are sites for it. Learn to google. I don't know your issues. I recommend doing anything to take your mind off of it. Find a hobby.
/r/seduction17/12/16 05:09 PM
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I haven't read a book in a long time. I spend more time actually talking to females. Then I form opinions and research them online. I find that there is no one size fit all answer and doing things should be situational and more personal. Life isn't always about getting the number. Sometime daygame is about making your social circle bigger. If you see a woman in the same location multiple times, you don't always have to go direct. You can go indirect. I feel that the more you read the less you ac…
/r/seduction17/12/16 01:36 PM
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i've read is about being silly and fun, giving stupid answers to their questions, saying random shit, flirting heavily, lots of kino, grabbing them to dance with me etc. What have you been reading? pen directly, and go for the number. Since you are APPROACHING them, it's like flirting is almost implied and so it feels kind of natural. This is not always implied. People don't know why you approach them. They can only guess. BUT I find that when i'm in a non 'gamey' situation, I kind of feel lost …
/r/seduction17/12/16 12:08 PM
1

Game is not manipulation and lies. It is about you using what you have to succeed. You should quit game if you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction17/12/16 09:48 AM
2

Pure logic. You can't please everyone.
/r/seduction17/12/16 09:45 AM
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I would get out a sheet of paper and list all of the places where you can do things with a person. Activities, not things like coffee or eating. You want dates that force people to work together or against each other. I also recommend going out and exploring some of the places before you suggest them as dates.
/r/seduction16/12/16 10:37 PM
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Yes you can still do game and you can still kiss women. Stop being scared and go try.
/r/seduction16/12/16 10:32 PM
2

Almost anything can be a date. My question is are you located in a city or small town? Are there things in your area? I believe a person should tailor dates to the person and the area.
/r/seduction16/12/16 10:30 PM
1

How do you see this date playing out in your head? What is the goal?
/r/seduction16/12/16 10:28 PM
1

I can't really answer your question. There is not enough information. I recommend doing some field reports.
/r/seduction16/12/16 09:12 PM
1

Why don't you just get you a couple of close females friends that you don't have sex with?
/r/seduction16/12/16 02:01 PM
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Can you rewrite this I don't fully understand it.
/r/seduction16/12/16 11:54 AM
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Carefully. You have to day a lot of things without saying them.
/r/seduction16/12/16 11:52 AM
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There is no magic trick. Some people have what women want and others have to work at it. You can't really judge how many times people fail. Most people don't brag about it. It is often that the ones that are truly succeeding are the ones that have failed more times than you and your friends combined.
/r/seduction15/12/16 07:12 PM
2

Is this your first time on reddit?
/r/seduction14/12/16 11:13 PM
2

Do people even read the sidebar?
/r/seduction14/12/16 10:42 PM
3

I believe this is more about the friends you have. You need to work on making better friendships.
/r/seduction14/12/16 07:21 PM
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I feel like you aren't saying a lot. You didn't text her for a week. It is not her fault if she lost interest in you or if you are too shy to try to be with her. I feel like you may be jealous. Maybe she not talking to you because she think you are not interested. I would just leave her be.
/r/seduction14/12/16 07:04 PM
2

Stop making excuses. Make a plan and accomplish something.
/r/seduction14/12/16 06:25 PM
1

Well, who knows. I hope you have some type of plan.
/r/seduction13/12/16 07:04 PM
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You live and you learn. Next time make your intentions known and add a little more of a plan to it.
/r/seduction13/12/16 06:59 PM
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Every meeting with a girl is a date, and you always start in the friend zone. Everyone does not start in the friend zone. Some start after the one night stand. I understand that a social gathering between people can be defined as a date. I believe that this may be a platonic meeting and this guy may be wasting his time. I figured it would be better for me to ask them for him to drive three hours and be disappointed. Since you start in the friendzone, you must always escalate as best you can. Unt…
/r/seduction13/12/16 06:55 PM
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Are you sure this is a date?
/r/seduction13/12/16 05:43 PM
1

You need to rephrase your words to fit the situation. I believe it will be better to say she is outgoing person, who likes to have fun, someone who lives in the moment, a person takes advantage of her youth. You can call a girl a slut in a nice way.
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:28 PM
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You mentioned that most people never get out of ruts. What makes you say that? I believe that most people don't understand the problem. Even if they do understand it, they may not be able to solve it. Sometime what people view is the problem is not actually the problem. Then there is the side effects of solving the problem. Then there are temporary fixes. Then some people just get lucky and think that is the answer. Using seduction as the example, only a few people actually understand it. Even f…
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:24 PM
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I think you need to find a nice way to go partying with her or meet out of work. Then let things naturally happen. Good luck.
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:12 PM
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A lot of people are stuck in ruts. Most of them never get out. People may have similar experiences, but most of them will never be the same. You talked a lot about science but never did mention the scientific method or how to properly do an experiment. A lot of people need to learn how to experiment with different parts of seduction and find what suits them best. Your advice had good intentions, but there are plenty of people focusing on themselves and getting nowhere with women. Then you have t…
/r/seduction13/12/16 02:05 PM
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If you honestly want to help people, write a guide, make a video. Do something. Complaining about it is not going to do much. I started my own subreddit and I admit that it needs a lot of work. I am trying. r/seductionguides. I would love for you to post a guide there when you have time.
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:57 PM
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Yes it is possible. I would not use the weight as an excuse.
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:07 PM
1

That was a good laugh. It does not show how to get girls on facebook.
/r/seduction13/12/16 01:06 PM
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I had a good laugh reading your post and I will say that there is a lot of stuff that you do not understand. Also, when it comes to research, it is mostly affected by funding. You really want good seduction research, you need to have good seduction funding. It is kind of hard to take you serious when you quote wikipedia and youtube. Also, please stop using the broad term psychology. There are many fields in psychology that study behavior and some are more scientific than others. A lot of studies…
/r/seduction13/12/16 12:19 PM
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No, but I never got the rush. The rush comes with a certain mindset.
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:03 PM
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I approach women all the time. I just don't get a rush. I view approaching women like I view approaching guys. There is no real difference.
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:52 PM
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I don't get a rush.
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:40 PM
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How do I learn to create attraction? The same way you learned martial arts. How do I reclaim my confidence? The same way you do after you lose a fight. Most have been beating up at least once. How do I forget about my ex and move on? You ever been kicked in the balls or hurt really bad. The pain goes away after time. The best advice I can give you is not to keep reopening the wound. It may be best to cut all contact. Contact triggers emotion and that is not good. How do I build a new social circ…
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:55 PM
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There is so much missing information in this post that I feel that no one can answer it properly. You could be viewed as a friend or associate.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:46 PM
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Logic says that there are few princesses in the world. You should try treating them like they are any other person. Most of them have flaws and needs. Being nice does not guarantee you anything. These are things you do by choice.
/r/seduction12/12/16 11:10 AM
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Being a nerd is about embracing it and using it to your advantage. I am a huge nerd. What kind of thinker are you?
/r/seduction12/12/16 10:10 AM
1

But there aren't any single people in my social circle. Everyone has friends and family. You need to meet their friends and family.
/r/seduction12/12/16 08:03 AM
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Any resources you know of for finding that kind of stuff? Nope. Google it. Friends are all in their own relationships and never go out. So I'm boned there. Social circle game. ) I just don't get out enough. Stop making excuses. Force yourself to get out more and explore. Women are everywhere. You just have to open your eyes.
/r/seduction12/12/16 07:34 AM
2

Church, volunteer, through friends, sports, day game, anywhere.
/r/seduction12/12/16 07:19 AM
2

Do what you can afford.
/r/seduction11/12/16 06:04 PM
1

It is not much you can do. Learning seduction or proving your point may bring out other problems.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:08 PM
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It is not much you can do. Learning seduction or proving your point may bring out other problems.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:08 PM
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Google it.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:06 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/seduction11/12/16 12:05 PM
1

Just send her a message on social media. Stop over thinking and wasting time.
/r/seduction11/12/16 11:49 AM
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When people see you, they do not see your history and a good majority do not care. You could change your whole personality over night and most of the world would not notice. Your progress if up to you. If you truly want to get with women, you got to stop over thinking and start trying to date them, kiss them and be with them. Whoever invented the term introvert should have explained it better to the public. You can be an introvert and still do extrovert things. I believe that the majority of you…
/r/seduction11/12/16 11:08 AM
0

Have you tried talking to any girls?
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:55 AM
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Why don't you just talk to her in public? The safe rout will most likely fail and if she is popular, I am sure other guys are doing it.
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:52 AM
1

I think the girl will think you have cocaine.
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:31 AM
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Relationships are a contract. You simply learn what you can do and what you can't do. oneitis I don't think that applies here. You have chose to be in a relationship. This is not a girl you are trying to get in a relationship with. Should you completely stop flirting with every other girl? I honestly believe there is nothing wrong with harmless flirting. Again, this goes back to your relationship contract. Some women view flirting as cheating. How do you maintain your neediness at bay without 'g…
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:07 AM
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Some married people miss being single. They also want to know if they still got it. Then there are married women who want to cheat. Relationships are complicated. I believe there is nothing wrong with flirting, just be careful. Married women are in more invested relationships. This means that their husbands may do more crazy things to maintain them.
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:00 AM
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Anti slut defense. Most women do not want to seem like sluts. Also tender has somewhat become more of a dating app and some women even scam on it. Popularity has changed the app, but everything changes. You need to learn to adapt. Take no strings attached out of your profile to get more matches. Then you need to set up your dates and texting to screen for women who aren't looking for sex. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:58 AM
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Just talk to her and see what she wants. Don't throwaway other women until you know she wants a relationship too.
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:53 AM
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There are no rules. Be that guy. Sometime you have to take a risk and break the so called rules. You ever wonder why girls like bad boys?
/r/seduction11/12/16 09:51 AM
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I will be honest and say that all I hear is excuses. If you truly want to get something done then stop trying and do it. Physical Education teacher. I go to the gym 4 times a week with matches being once a week and training once a week Still live with parents. In an ideal world I would have my own online business that I can manage from anywhere in the world and travel. You can start your own business, but that is a lot of work. Also, you can travel. I don't have any pity for you. I feel like you…
/r/seduction10/12/16 10:43 PM
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It is all about doing and learning. You want to get better with women you talk to them more often and you learn about them.
/r/seduction10/12/16 08:32 PM
2

I never use lines. I use body language and boundaries to make an educated guess. Then I just hope I am not wrong.
/r/seduction10/12/16 07:36 PM
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This is fun. Coffee is something that you do with a friend. You sit across from them and you have to fill the time with conversation while they sip on a drink. Some people go on coffee dates and do not even realize they are on a date. Movie is something that people can do alone. This means you can sit beside her and focus on everything but her. There is not much interaction. Dinner is something where you can talk, but you will spend a good amount of time eating. You will probably sit across from…
/r/seduction09/12/16 08:07 PM
1

Maybe you are her friend.
/r/seduction09/12/16 11:15 AM
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Actually, most people do not understand. It seems that way because you are only focused on the success of the people that you are paying attention to. You are so focused that you do not notice everything else. Its like women and pregnancy. Everyone congratulates them when they are pregnant and notices that they are pregnant. Many people don't realize how many times they had to get fucked to get pregnant.
/r/seduction08/12/16 10:46 PM
1

I think you are mistaking value, talent and other things for natural skill. Seduction can be learned.
/r/seduction08/12/16 10:38 PM
1

You know how much stuff I am writing. I want to write a lot of stuff on seduction, I just need readers and people who can help me edit. Go to r/seductionguides. I would write a whole guide on cold reading, understanding women and etc, but I feel like I would be wasting my time.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:54 PM
1

You could pirate it.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:52 PM
1

You may actually be right, but I feel most guys on this forum approach seduction like they are a machine gun. They shoot a lot of bullets hoping to hit a target. Game would be better if they used a more accurate gun.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:46 PM
1

Actually these guys adapt to their situation. Game is broad and these guys have a huge tool box. When one things does not work they have another thing ready. What am I supposed to learn about them in particular? (and since, as you say, they are all individual anyway) are you saying about the women in my area, 'In general'? I assume you approach in a certain area and a certain city. I assume you approach a certain age range. I assume you approach women that mostly a certain race. I am trying to t…
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:44 PM
1

I meant to connect those two sentences. The one before it. I was typing way too fast. I am saying that people are running blind and say all kinds of bs without explaining it. Things work for a reason. I am saying that a person needs to have an idea of the life and personality of the women they are approaching. They to have an understanding of these women. They way they think and how they respond. Most guys are surround by women in their family and don't even understand what they go through. A lo…
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:29 PM
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This made me laugh. I am simply telling him that approaching women without some type of understanding is like running blind. You keep doing things and hoping they will work. I think someone needs to explain to him why these things work and why women respond the way they do. Have you seen the amount of failures he said he had.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:25 PM
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but game principles supposedly capitalizes on the majority which is enough for most of us. This is a horrible lie. You cannot apply game across countries and cultures. Hispanic women are different from black women and white women. Then you have bilingual women and so much more. You don't want a technique that is one size fits all. You will fail. You need to learn about the women in your area or the ones that you are going after. You need to narrow things down. I can be honest and say that most p…
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:21 PM
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It is nothing wrong with theory and game, but you need to understand that women are individuals. You cannot apply the same thing to everyone. You need to understand the women that you are talking to and have a general ideal of what their life is like, what their personality is like and how they will respond to things. Failure normally happens for a reason.
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:03 PM
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Creepy is a broad term thrown out by everyone. No one really explains it. They just lump together a lot of things and call it creepy. You ever wonder why some guys can approach women and get them and other guys cannot. Most people be like it is because they are handsome. Its because they talk to them with a certain tone and energy. Getting to understand women makes it easier to approach and get success. It also makes cold reading better. How many guys do you know that actually cold read a woman …
/r/seduction08/12/16 09:01 PM
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So you are a theory guy. I can understand why you have so many failures. I really don't list to pickup gurus. I study psychology and sociology. Most people on this subreddit do not take time to know women. They take time to actually learn techniques and theories. People are surrounded by mothers, sisters, aunties, cousins, friends and often don't take time to understand how they think. Technique and theory are cool, but understanding is everything.
/r/seduction08/12/16 08:57 PM
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You know a lot of guys can be confident, creepy and handsome at the same time. I notice a lot of people go out there and do hundreds of approaches without understanding the women they are approaching. They think if they do something bad enough a few times they will get better at it. In the end they end up getting lucky. Its the different between talent and skill.
/r/seduction08/12/16 08:52 PM
2

Okay, then let me ask you this. What do women think of cold approaches? How does a man do a proper cold approach?
/r/seduction08/12/16 08:40 PM
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Maybe she wants a relationship and not a one night stand. Some women put guys through hell to see if they are there for the sex or the relationship. Normally most guys will give up and pursue other women after waiting too long. This could simply be a test to see how you would be in a relationship. Relationships involve the public knowing about you. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/12/16 08:32 PM
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I love when people ask the hard challenging questions. There is long term game and there is short term game. When you are young, looks and personality can go a long way. When you are older, you need a lot more. What most people don't talk about is how your mentality and personality affect your life and body. If you have a negative attitude, it will affect your body language and posture. I will say that inner game is designed to help you become a better person and people hope that that will actua…
/r/seduction08/12/16 08:29 PM
1

Most things are situational. You need to work on your process.
/r/seduction08/12/16 07:07 PM
1

R/sex
/r/seduction08/12/16 07:06 PM
1

Not psychic.
/r/seduction08/12/16 04:08 PM
1

Not psychic. You can only try. Also stop making excuses.
/r/seduction08/12/16 11:12 AM
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what should I be aware off Your future plans and her future plans. How do I keep her interested? Only you can figure that out.
/r/seduction07/12/16 07:13 PM
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Oh my. I think you need to learn about boundaries. Also, you can actually be wrong. I know she likes me from her body language and some eye contact You assumes she likes you. You never actually know. like 6 seconds eye contact Maybe she thought you was staring at her. This does not mean she likes you. she looked scared as soon as I'm coming close to her She may have been actually scared. like I don't exist You are a stranger. She does not know you or owe you anything. so I grabbed her from her h…
/r/seduction06/12/16 08:22 PM
1

I sent you a message. I do not have a blog yet.
/r/seduction06/12/16 08:06 PM
1

I think better with a pen. Have you ever tried explaining something on paper? It is a hard process. I use a pen mostly to help me understand women. I write down everything about them and then I study it and write more. It is crazy. Right now I am trying to write a seduction book.
/r/seduction06/12/16 07:51 PM
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I don't base my hobbies off getting women. My hobbies are things that I enjoy. I will admit that writing in general helped me out with seduction.
/r/seduction06/12/16 07:21 PM
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I recommend visiting a doctor and having them run a few test. It is better safe than sorry. I recommend posting in r/sex.
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:17 PM
1

I believe it is easier to work things in steps. This means if your goal is to hang out you have in your mind a list of steps or goals from approaching a woman to hanging out.
/r/seduction04/12/16 03:15 PM
2

You should know that someone's 9 is someone's 6. That's how I treat women. I can always find a flaw.
/r/seduction04/12/16 12:28 AM
1

What I mean is when you get a girl's number, what is your goal?
/r/seduction04/12/16 12:21 AM
1

Just ask him in person if he likes you.
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:47 PM
2

Do you have goals?
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:46 PM
1

English?
/r/seduction03/12/16 07:00 PM
2

I think you should have went out with her.
/r/seduction02/12/16 08:15 AM
2

therapy I guess you have more than a few problems. Everyone does. This is normal. I'm a pretty big guy. African American, 5'9 @238 lbs but if you were to ask anyone I look like I'm 200 of muscle and a little bit fat but I'm still very built/somewhat athletic. Looks aren't the problem. I try to be as interesting as fuck This may be your problem. But no matter what I do I can't seem to close. I've made out with girls, flirted, dance, gotten so many numbers. I believe your problem is logic. I belie…
/r/seduction01/12/16 09:30 PM
1

I normally say when a person uses the word date. There has to be something to make it clear that it is above friendship. If there is nothing making it clear, then it is not a date. It is always important to make your intentions known.
/r/seduction01/12/16 09:09 PM
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I don't read minds. I don't know if you have been on an official date or not. I do know that you are wasting a lot of time. There is no right and wrong in seduction. Being needy is okay. Being too needy is not okay. If you really like the girl, ask her on a real date.
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:51 PM
2

Why don't you just be needy?
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:41 PM
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I am not a bag of hormones. I like to do a little more than sex. I like to actually seduce and romance a woman. Call me old fashion but I believe that sex by itself is boring and sometime weird. Don't get me wrong, I have had good one night stands, but the good stuff normally takes a little more.
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:35 PM
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r/sex
/r/seduction01/12/16 01:34 PM
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she is okay for one or two hook ups but I'm not really looking forward to going out with her anymore I don't even know how to properly respond to this. This would be like a girl getting ready to have sex with you and being like its not as big as I thought it would be. Its okay for tonight, but don't talk to me after this. Looks are not everything. The problem is, if I stop texting and not ask her out the reason will be obvious to her and I don't want to hurt her.. Sure. You don't mind hooking up…
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:19 PM
0

Why don't you go by yourself?
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:09 PM
3

This has nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:08 PM
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I am no psychic. I can only assume that you made a mistake at the bar. I can also assume that there is a difference between a random stranger and a person who actually knows you. Do whatever you feel like.
/r/seduction30/11/16 05:06 PM
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I've only tried magnum Trojans Then it may be time for you to invest in other types to try. It is very important to make sure the condom fits right. If a girl immediately had a super clean shaved pussy they strike me as a girl who takes care of themselves I need to teach you a scary word. It is called asymptomatic. This means that a person can have a std and not show any signs. The girl would not even know she has it. Also some stds have a period of time where they are dormant or they don't show…
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:39 PM
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You remind me of a friend I have. The guy has the worlds best luck. I recommend making sure your vaccinations are up to date. Talk to a doctor. I also recommend learning about the different types of condoms. There are many types. There is bound to be one that will work. You might want to post this in r/sex to get some more details. I recommend cleaning up the post to make it more suitable though.
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:28 PM
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I think you should put stuff like this in your online profile.
/r/seduction28/11/16 01:15 PM
1

Boyfriends are temporary. I recommend just practicing game with her and see what happens.
/r/seduction28/11/16 01:09 PM
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A lot of people use their social media more than their actual number. I recommend messaging her on facebook and going from there.
/r/seduction27/11/16 05:49 PM
1

There is a huge misunderstanding when it comes to people who learn seduction. A lot of these people are missing the things that most father's teach their son or things that mothers explain to their children. Most of the stuff that pickup artist talk about is nothing new. It can be learned in psychology and sociology classes. There have been men and women who have been studying women since the beginning of time. When I was in middle school, my dad use to wake me up every morning and tell me that …
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:56 PM
1

Then you should call yourself by another name
/r/seduction26/11/16 12:35 PM
1

This is not what women think. They think the guy is trying to get laid as much as possible by as many women as possible.
/r/seduction26/11/16 11:47 AM
1

Do you have any skills or talents that can make up for neediness?
/r/seduction25/11/16 08:50 PM
1

I would say that it is a bad idea, but you never know until you try.
/r/seduction25/11/16 06:25 PM
1

I did that a few years back. They are actually pretty fun, but I like public speaking.
/r/seduction24/11/16 08:59 PM
1

Take some lessons and join some groups. Keep at it and you will get better.
/r/seduction24/11/16 08:39 PM
1

You know if you get a gf you will have to talk to all her friends and so much more. If you have a mental barrier, you should focus on that. Communication is more than just talking to the girl, it is talking to everyone.
/r/seduction24/11/16 08:23 PM
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I recommend taking some lessons on basic communication and learning public speaking. A lot of people want to learn activities without actually studying. If I wanted to be a sniper, I would not just go buy a gun and shoot targets at a distance. I would learn how to work the gun. I may even start with close targets.
/r/seduction24/11/16 08:07 PM
1

I think I need a translator to understand what you are saying.
/r/seduction23/11/16 05:02 PM
2

Chocolate milk.
/r/seduction22/11/16 06:39 PM
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I like to think online dating is all about safety. You are a stranger and just messaging a cute girl will not in most cases get you a date. I say this because guys message cute girls all the time. I recommend having a good profile with plenty of good pictures. You need to sell the idea that you are a safe and fun person. Next, I recommend something simple. Read her profile and find something to talk about. If she responds build up your conversation and ask for a date. You can go direct and ask h…
/r/seduction21/11/16 05:53 PM
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I don't know. Google it.
/r/seduction21/11/16 05:39 PM
1

Its just like online dating. You don't have a chance unless you try.
/r/seduction21/11/16 05:33 PM
1

If you did not have condoms, you did not make a mistake. It is possible to be a first time father.
/r/seduction18/11/16 10:07 PM
1

I think you got you got your information confused and you said what came to your mind because what she said was unexpected. The truth is you should have tried to seduce her. It is normal for people to see in different places. Since you don't work with her it was not a problem. I believe you got focused the word work and it made you over think and respond wrong.
/r/seduction18/11/16 06:04 PM
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There was nothing wrong with the girl recognizing you. Most people do not recommend starting relationships with people you work with. It can be bad for your career or job if things go wrong.
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:59 PM
2

I think some people need a for idiots guide that explains everything in super detail. I can make that guide and maybe you can proofread it.
/r/seduction18/11/16 05:21 PM
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This has nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction18/11/16 02:44 PM
2

Give me two weeks and I will make a workbook.
/r/seduction18/11/16 01:04 PM
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I can make you a detailed guide but it will take a good week to write.
/r/seduction18/11/16 12:57 PM
1

I would just be truthful. Lies are hard to hide. Also, if you can fix things with your wife before your divorce, do it.
/r/seduction17/11/16 06:30 PM
1

I think so.
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:41 AM
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I recommend volunteering, going to church or any kind of activity that attracts a crowd.
/r/seduction16/11/16 10:27 PM
1

I don't believe in methods or canned game. I believe that true game is all about decision making and forming opinions. Once a person masters this, anything is possible.
/r/seduction16/11/16 10:21 PM
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College.
/r/seduction16/11/16 10:13 PM
1

I like to consider myself a Magician. If you don't believe in magic that is fine, most magicians don't believe in it either. If you ever look at what it takes to be a magician, you will learn that a lot of what they do can be applied to seduction. I normally like to practice cold reading on people and crowds. I do this on people everyday and normally test to see if I am right or wrong. I also practice reading body language and lie detecting. This normally helps me pick out girls during night gam…
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:57 PM
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I know that women think differently around the world. So you understand me when I say that some women do not look for looks. Doesn't change the fact that looks tend to bring prejudice. So what you are telling me is no matter how you much you improve your looks it will not matter because the woman may not like your looks. This is why looks are not important. And yeah guy 1 vs guy 2, we're assuming the only variable is the way they look, not their actions. Actually, you are the one assuming the wo…
/r/seduction16/11/16 06:01 PM
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I will say that you are a short term thinker. Looks don't matter, if you have something that is more valuable. I will say that looks are easier to sell, but when you have your life together and other skills, looks do not really matter. Looks are an indication of health, status, fertility, personality etc etc. You make me wonder how fat ugly people get married. The sad thing is that this happens all the time. Your theory may work mostly on younger people who are mostly hormonal driven, but when i…
/r/seduction16/11/16 02:25 PM
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You need to change the way you think. You need to think that the perfect opportunity is the one you make. When you see a girl you like, you make the opportunity and go from there.
/r/seduction15/11/16 08:59 PM
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There is no right answer. So I say smile.
/r/seduction14/11/16 06:02 PM
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A date is not about winning or losing. It is about doing something together. Teach her some trick shots and giver her a chance. I'm really competitive That is not the purpose of this date. You did not invite her out to beat her in pool. She is not coming out to beat you in pool. This is just harmless fun.
/r/seduction14/11/16 11:21 AM
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It not about being fun, it is more about being boring or like everyone else. Most people do not want to be interviewed. But how can I be 'fun' with a stranger who I know nothing The problem is that you know something, you just don't use it. It also about making educated guesses and testing them. Almost everything is situational. Do I need some 'fun routines' or something? A deck of cards I carry around? You need to learn how to read the situation and make a decision. Assume I open with a 'funny'…
/r/seduction14/11/16 11:18 AM
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I would have took it as a shit test and told her age does not define maturity or life status. I would have pointed out that it is immature and friendzoned her.
/r/seduction14/11/16 11:11 AM
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You never assume anything. You simply make an educated guess and you test it.
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:19 PM
1

I believe that a person should not be too flexible. This means, you give them two or thee times that you are free and that it it. If they are not available, you move on or wait until the next week.
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:17 PM
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But i get this feeling cold approach is more about getting laid versus building a long lasting connection This is definitely a lie. Cold approaching is more about seeing something you like and going for it. Is there some way to set up my life to where im just around women more often so it feels more natural instead of just cold approaching a random woman at the mall for example? You need to look for activities or groups that cater more to women. You should also be building your social circle. n …
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:13 PM
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If you want to be a better speaker, join a group that focuses on that. Do activities that force you to speak. nice guy syndrome Getting rid of nice guy syndrome is all about having wants and having expectations. It is also about realizing no one owes you anything. Every time you choose to be nice is your choice. No one forced you to do it.
/r/seduction12/11/16 03:26 PM
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I think I understand what she was trying to tell you. You should be more of a risk taker.
/r/seduction12/11/16 02:49 PM
2

Don't confuse confident with crazy.
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:38 PM
2

Think of it this way. He has never been on a date and has no date experience. When he finally gets that first girl that he is attracted to, he will be thankful that he has some experience and the date will go better than planned. The person is not getting into a relationship.
/r/seduction12/11/16 09:46 AM
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You have nothing to lose from a date other than time. I say do it and see what you learn.
/r/seduction11/11/16 09:06 PM
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Start out with yourself. What do you think of yourself and what can you improve. Then ask your family and friends the same questions. Get opinions on everything from looks to personality. Don't trust a single person. Verify everything.
/r/seduction11/11/16 09:05 PM
2

Approaching is not going to solve most of your problems. It will only introduce new ones.
/r/seduction11/11/16 08:45 PM
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Before you learn to approach, you need to figure out who you are and why you want to approach.
/r/seduction11/11/16 08:17 PM
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Do your research on the girl and make a summary. Most girls with daddy issues have a history with crappy guys. Find a pattern and look for weaknesses. Then make a plan and put it in action. I would look for things that trigger certain behaviors. These behaviors may be tied to different memories and strong beliefs or opinions.
/r/seduction10/11/16 09:17 PM
2

So you want to use manipulation to get what you want from a girl?
/r/seduction10/11/16 09:02 PM
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Its not about finding moments. It is about trying and letting the person know that you are interested.
/r/seduction10/11/16 07:20 PM
1

Maybe they care about having fun and getting out of the house or whatever.
/r/seduction10/11/16 05:06 PM
1

Germany has awesome public transportation. You can get almost anywhere with a bus or train. I have had success in multiple cities of Germany and I am a crappy dancer. I normally go to the clubs, dance and just talk to people. In most cases, I end up meeting a girl or making friends. Stop making excuses and get out. Do you have any friends in Germany?
/r/seduction10/11/16 03:18 PM
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I also speak a little German, a little Spanish and I am working on Russian. The club is a special environment. People go there to drink and have fun. The club is all about trying and having fun. I recommend learning some club game. It will pay off a lot for you. People in Germany are allowed to start drinking at 16 and the hard stuff at 18. They can go to clubs at 16 with a permission slip and at 18 they are adults. You are at the perfect age in Germany to get out there and enjoy the nightlife. …
/r/seduction09/11/16 10:24 PM
1

If you can dance, you have a good chance. You also speak English. Just learn a little German and let them know you speak English.
/r/seduction09/11/16 07:52 PM
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Like you can have fun and get girls or something? That is exactly what I mean. Be careful, sometime 16 year olds sneak in or they are there once a month.
/r/seduction09/11/16 01:28 PM
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Learn German. The nightlife in Germany is amazing. Also, make friends. If you are American, use that to your advantage.
/r/seduction09/11/16 12:05 PM
1

Its all about value and props.
/r/seduction09/11/16 11:26 AM
1

Its all about value and props.
/r/seduction09/11/16 11:25 AM
1

Then remember this. There are no rules unless you make them.
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:29 PM
1

The concept of backup makes no sense to me. If you are not in a relationship that requires you to be with only that person, then you are not required to do one thing at a time. A lot of people date more than one person. This is normal and a more efficient way to find a relationship. I cannot read minds, but if you want to date and communicate with this female, do it. Other than that, stop wasting time.
/r/seduction08/11/16 06:17 PM
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Yes, I have done this. Some people are only looks and not much personality.
/r/seduction07/11/16 03:08 PM
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I recommend educating your girl on what pickup actually is and how a lot of men and women use pickup without even knowing it. Most people have the wrong idea about what it actually is. So she broke up with me and I felt devastated. The past is the past and people should not be punished for it. If she has done anything wrong in her past I am sure she does not want to be judged for it. You did not do anything wrong and therefor you should not apologize or anything. relieved me mentally. You didn't…
/r/seduction06/11/16 09:03 PM
1

First you must tell us why you have no confidence. Then we can teach you our ways.
/r/seduction06/11/16 08:59 PM
4

That is your answer. If you believe you can do it, nothing is impossible.
/r/seduction06/11/16 05:08 PM
2

I use bar soap once to twice a day. Ladies love it.
/r/seduction06/11/16 04:57 PM
1

Why are you confident at work?
/r/seduction06/11/16 04:56 PM
1

I study behavior and psychology these days. It has done wonders for my game.
/r/seduction04/11/16 02:19 PM
1

Why don't you just do a hundred approaches and field reports for each approach? Do all of this on r/seduction and let people help you instead of a book. Edit: changed r/seddit to r/seduction
/r/seduction04/11/16 01:09 PM
1

This is a relationship problem not a seduction problem.
/r/seduction04/11/16 01:03 PM
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I realize there are things you can change and things you cannot. I accept the world.
/r/seduction04/11/16 11:12 AM
1

I assume that person works 40 hours a week. This means that the girl gets two guaranteed days. I figure the average person has hobbies, so I would say about 2 to three days out of the five work days goes to spending time with the girl. So I would say that the average person gets about 2 full days that may include overnight and 2 to 3 days that are partial. Partial can be from 3 to 6 hours before going home to prepare for work. Some people can replace the word work with school. The extra time tha…
/r/seduction03/11/16 07:38 PM
1

Scent is connected to memory.
/r/seduction03/11/16 02:59 PM
2

My life is not seduction. Seduction is something that I do from time to time. I recommend finding something that makes you happy and using that to lift your life. When I am out and I get rejected, it does not bother me because I am happy because of other things. Seduction is not everything.
/r/seduction02/11/16 07:53 PM
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I didn't read the whole thing, but I recommend everyone keep their nudes to themselves. I say this because the internet is huge and your nudes will be everywhere.
/r/seduction02/11/16 07:18 PM
2

I would go with a horror movie. Read some reviews and pick a good one.
/r/seduction02/11/16 07:15 PM
0

Its all situational. Asking sometime is bad.
/r/seduction02/11/16 06:49 AM
0

Its all situational. Asking sometime is bad.
/r/seduction02/11/16 06:49 AM
2

Most of the tips for younger people can be applied to older people.
/r/seduction01/11/16 04:16 PM
3

How to build a stink bomb.
/r/seduction01/11/16 04:15 PM
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I feel like you are a logic based creature that is trying to adapt in a world full of emotions. The good thing about logic is that there are patterns. We almost never fight This goes against most people's logic but this is actually a problem. Think of it this way, in order for something to grow it has to struggle. a difference between having a romantic night and having a cute date night. Romance is almost like an art. It is done to provoke certain feelings. It is more about the idea and the thou…
/r/seduction01/11/16 03:53 PM
1

Cold reading, hypnosis, mentalism, street magician, and similar stuff.
/r/seduction01/11/16 02:43 PM
2

Just talk to your girlfriend.
/r/seduction31/10/16 10:20 PM
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You cannot stop men from complimenting your woman. This will happen weather you want it or not. You have to trust that your woman is faithful and truthful. If you do not like this guy making comments, talk to your girlfriend. She can then choose weather or not to keep him on social media. Really at this point, they aren't compliments, they're clear attempts to "get" her, and they are consistently happening. This could be in your head. I really don't know, but you seem to have some jealousy issue…
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:50 PM
1

Flirt hard.
/r/seduction31/10/16 11:55 AM
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However, if interaction with these people would be good practice, then I'm certainly open to the idea of talking to them. It is very important to socialize and meet people. It helps you understand people and it also helps you get closer to your goal. hat's considered a type, then yes I have a type You have a type. The best way to find these types of girls is to think about their endgame and lifestyle. Once you have figured that out, you will have an easier time finding them. I recommend finding …
/r/seduction30/10/16 06:29 PM
2

Why don't you learn public speaking and communication? You seem to have a problem expressing yourself. This can be learned. I also recommend learning about body language. The subject of communication is amazing once a person learns how to do it properly.
/r/seduction30/10/16 05:38 PM
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If you want a relationship, ask her out. If you want to be more than friends, then try to kiss her. She did let you stroke her inner thigh. Above all, stop wasting time.
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:51 PM
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I don't go to the gym. My confidence is through the wall. I am not a gym person and never will be. It is important to be healthy. Being healthy seems to boost most people confidence.
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:49 PM
2

Escalate and read the situation.
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:47 PM
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The first rule of meeting smart people is actually being smart. stereotypical attractive airhead, but because they're "religious" they just tease and never put out I am going to assume you have a type. I recommend trying to talk to other girls that do not fit this description. I also feel like you have had some bad experiences that make you judge people and this could hurt your game. This leads me to my dilemma; where do I go to meet other smart girls like this? If you want to meet smart girls, …
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:46 PM
2

People be like teach me how to dance except I won't move my legs. There is not enough information to properly answer your question. Also, people are not mind readers. What does talking to her actually mean?
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:38 PM
0

Getting laid as a pretty girl is easy. I actually prefer to sleep with ugly girls. They are much more fun and they do a lot more. When it comes to time and effort, I rather go for the girls that are HB4-6. We'll say I'm a HB8.5. Most girls think they are cuter than what they are. I will take your word for it. One specific HG8 is a bit shy. Shy is a broad term to describe a person. It often doesn't explain why they are shy. It is the why that is the most important thing. The sad thing about hot g…
/r/seduction30/10/16 02:41 PM
1

Have you tried text to speech?
/r/seduction27/10/16 07:23 PM
1

We do it by talking to the girls and making friends.
/r/seduction25/10/16 06:20 PM
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This is not game. This is business. I recommend leaving this place and spending your money somewhere else.
/r/seduction25/10/16 02:39 PM
1

Without knowing the situation it is hard to tell. Maybe you should find out when the person is free for a date. Should I just propose another day or just cut it off? Always try to find a day that you both are free.
/r/seduction25/10/16 01:07 PM
2

I don't waste time with people who don't meet my expectations.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:57 AM
1

Often a date is not a date unless the word date is used. Coffee is something you can do with a friend.
/r/seduction25/10/16 07:55 AM
2

I need to preach field reports. People do not know your situations unless you explain them. Rejection is normal. You need to figure out why you are getting rejected.
/r/seduction24/10/16 08:43 PM
1

Dates work a certain way. Both people must participate in the date. A movie does not require you two to talk or do anything. For 2 hours people can completely ignore each other. What does watching a movie really accomplish? If this is just an excuse to get her to your place to sleep with her, then you may want to have some other stuff lined up to help progress your seduction. The movie is a good excuse for her to tell her friends (for she wont look like a slut and have a reasonable reason to go …
/r/seduction24/10/16 06:51 PM
1

I hate when people use this site to advertise stuff.
/r/seduction24/10/16 06:32 PM
1

The movie should only be a part of the date, not the entire date. It can be the beginning, middle or end. A standalone movie date is normally a bad idea, especially with a stranger.
/r/seduction24/10/16 06:29 PM
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I have a calendar for a reason. I date as many women as I have time for. Time management is a guys best friend. As a grown person, you are allowed to do whatever you please. If you are not in a committed relationship you can sleep with as many women as you want. You can date as many women as you want. There are no rules. The only exception is when a woman ask you to not date or sleep with other women. If they have not done that, then have fun and conquer the world.
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:44 PM
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Are you one of those guys who date one woman at a time? Date girl for 2.5 months and came out great after I broke up. This sentence confuses me. Were you dating or in a relationship? I believe you need to learn to accept things. Once that happens most of your problems will go away.
/r/seduction24/10/16 04:29 PM
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It is hard to explain. You kind of know when a woman wants to have a one night stand or it just happens. The key is to keep pushing your limits until it happens. You start off 3 feet away and by the end of the night you and the girls body are connected in multiple ways.
/r/seduction23/10/16 06:55 PM
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So I'm 23M, pretty shy and bad at talking to women, and I matched with a 20F on Tinder. I am going to guess you are in a European country. I asked her if she had thought about how cute our mixed-race lovechild would be This is good for an opener and it shows that you are looking for sex. The idea of constantly making children can scare some women away. I casually ask if she is doing anything this weekend and she mentions about going out on Saturday and Sunday. So the date should have been planne…
/r/seduction23/10/16 06:53 PM
1

When you say 'use seduction' in this context, are you talking about things like kino and teasing Whenever I say seduction, I mean whatever skills you use to seduce women. Sometime people forget that they can just talk and chill with people. Seduction is pretty much the skills you use to tempt women into getting with you. Sometime it is the skills you use to get with women. It depends on how you use the word. Seduction has many meanings. Yes, that was almost certainly the case - although I was fa…
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:34 PM
1

You seem like a thinker. I believe you need to develop a system that can help you tell if a girl is attracted to you are not and apply this to all females that you meet. This way you can be sure which females like you and which ones don't.
/r/seduction23/10/16 01:02 PM
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Do I just keep making assumptions/cold reads? You always make assumptions that are testable. The key word is testable. Nothing is set in stone until you receive confirmation. If you see a girl with a friend wearing a wedding ring, you can assume the friend she is with is in a relationship. You will not know, so when you approach you can use the wedding ring as something to talk about. Then you can be like, "I am surprised two married women are out without their husbands." The other girl will giv…
/r/seduction23/10/16 12:56 PM
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I agree with the other guy. Your questions were horrible. I feel like you almost interviewed them and hoped you would get lucky. Most of the interactions went along the lines of me opening with a comment about their drink or something they were wearing. This is a quite common way to open people. Its normally what you say after this that matters. It is also about reading the situation. I recommend reading some books on cold reading and learning a thing or two. I ask them how their night is going …
/r/seduction23/10/16 11:54 AM
2

I don't know about RSD, but most long term relationships end. Most marriages end in divorce and more males die before females. Relationships are complicated and can be affected by many things. Something as simple as a job can end a relationship. There are so many things out there that make relationships hard. Making it past a decade in a relationship is a challenge for anyone.
/r/seduction22/10/16 11:50 AM
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So next time you have to take them both home.
/r/seduction22/10/16 02:01 AM
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You look mature for your age. Then make an excuse to leave. You want to make sure the girl is legal. Breaking the wrong laws can ruin your life.
/r/seduction21/10/16 01:16 PM
4

Deodorant soap is not deodorant.
/r/seduction21/10/16 01:46 AM
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I use to have real bad acne. I switched to deodorant soap and it cleared up. This is not for everyone but it dried up my oily skin and helped a lot. It was the only thing that worked for me. I always struggle with over thinking.
/r/seduction20/10/16 10:52 PM
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You should be able to brighten your day without females. Your day should not depend on them. If it does, the problem goes beyond friendship.
/r/seduction20/10/16 09:05 PM
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I believe you suffer from having friends that you find attractive or semi attractive. This means over time a female friend with a good personality becomes more attractive or too attractive. I recommend a good dose of making rules for what you do with friends and spending less time with females that you find attractive. Puts away pretend doctor pen.
/r/seduction20/10/16 08:17 PM
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It can be many different ages depending on your part of the world, city or state. There are some laws out there that can seriously mess up a person's life for having sex 15, 16 or even 17. I always recommend people just simply ask someone instead of getting in trouble later on.
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:46 PM
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He is a senior, 17. I am a 15 Please check your local laws before doing anything sexual. Tell him you are shy and let him do the talking.
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:27 PM
1

Ask when you two are going to meet again.
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:22 PM
1

Cold reading is like guessing a life story off of everything you observe. Then you make a decision on how to approach. After that you judge her body langue and responses. You take that information and make decisions in the moment.
/r/seduction19/10/16 05:02 PM
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Have you tried looking her up on social media?
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:33 PM
1

Cold approach is all about cold reading. You have to make decisions and then keep going. Once you learn it, you will be amazed at what the world has to offer.
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:32 PM
1

I think the best way to find a cheap bootcamp is to offer to buy the drinks of a few guys for a few nights to learn how they approach and talk to women.
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:20 PM
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Why did you need a bootcamp?
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:18 PM
1

She may have been married or very nervous. I could have been her first Tinder date. You may never know. I recommend trying to meet some women outside of tinder while doing Tinder also.
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:17 PM
1

Which finger was her ring on?
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:09 PM
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Went on a date yesterday, got these IOI's, playing with her hair, giggling, giving me bedroom eyes if there was a pause in the conversation, reinitiating conversation, pulling her ring on and off, playing with necklace, stroking the stem of the wine glass, locking her fingers together and resting her chin on them So you telling me you went on a date with someone who wanted to get laid and you didn't try to get laid. Sent her a text after the date, didn't reply and unmatched me today on Tinder. T…
/r/seduction19/10/16 03:50 PM
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Normally I just walk outside and cold read people. I then make some educated guesses and approach.
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:49 AM
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If you are going to cold approach a girl, you have to decide the proper way to do it. You also have to read her body language and make decisions. Cold approaching has to be done with cold reading. If you do it without any thought it could end horrible.
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:16 PM
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Its all in how you read the situation.
/r/seduction18/10/16 09:58 PM
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The problem comes with what they think of pickup. If they think that it is all tricks and lies, then you are possibly telling them that that is how you are.
/r/seduction18/10/16 09:55 PM
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If you are good with time management, give her the gf treatment without actually being the girlfriend. Pick a few days a week and give her the option to come spend those days with you whenever she wants.
/r/seduction18/10/16 05:39 PM
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I am no translator. she's not sure if we're "compatible" I think she saying that she is not attracted to you or she think your relationship will not work. She may be trying to let yo down gently. Obviously I've dealt with that conversation now, but I'm wondering should I try to show her a side to me other than the fun-loving side, or just chalk it down to her being emotional that day and ignore it. I think you should prepare or already be talking to other women. I'm seeing another girl as well b…
/r/seduction18/10/16 04:57 PM
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Don't touch people you just met. I do what I want. Of course I always read the situation first and make a decision. You may not like being touched, but other people don't mind it. Instead dance by a girl but don't grind on her. My twirking skills are amazing and I grind better than some girls. I like having fun but I am respectful. I have been to parties and clubs in multiple countries where sometime grinding is cool and sometime it is not. I guess it depends on the girl. Approach the right kind…
/r/seduction18/10/16 04:21 PM
1

Help her move and picnic.
/r/seduction18/10/16 06:43 AM
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How long have you done this tinder thing? You could have come up with a better question than this. This is like asking her how many guys she has slept. This question just feels weird, like you don't really have anything to talk about. Last time was probably like 3 to 5 months ago. I guess this is a good response. lol, no, always trolls. and you? You are a guy on tinder. This app is made for women. You really don't choose the girls. They choose you. In short, guys are more desperate. lol not real…
/r/seduction17/10/16 07:35 PM
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Post the messages and maybe we can give you tips.
/r/seduction17/10/16 07:10 PM
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I'm studying in a foreign country. Which country? What country are you? but I wanna try for the first time ever to date someone. Welcome to seddit, your journey begins here. I tried cold approaching a girl on the street, but on the final second I scared myself. You need to do this again a few hundred more times until there is no fear. I was abused not only in school, but also in my home by my stepfather. I'm not searching for pity Okay, I will pretend you never typed this. I'm on some Zoloft, th…
/r/seduction17/10/16 07:07 PM
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If you show no flaws, you need to have something that they lack or desire. How else are they suppose to get seduced?
/r/seduction17/10/16 02:49 PM
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Being better doesn't always help. Sometime women want to be with guys who are just as flawed as they are or worse.
/r/seduction17/10/16 02:28 PM
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You ever heard of supply and demand. a guy with a good job, good healthy lifestyle, and i hope, good intellect cant keep a girl interested for 5 minutes. A good job doesn't help you meet a girl unless that job means you will be spending money on her or it puts you in a different social class. A healthy lifestyle is good only it makes you look like a model. Intellect is useless unless you can put it to use on things that are valuable. I honestly think that you may be a boring person. have become …
/r/seduction17/10/16 01:36 PM
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Yeah very few and the ones that do know me aren't interested in me. Like I said, the introverted boring loner isn't a huge hit with women. I really believe you are just guessing here. I wonder how do you look? If there was a women who is into weightlifting and would want to do it at the same frequency with the same routine as me then I really wouldn't have to do it alone, right. There are women athletes and women gym rats. I simply can't enjoy parties or drinking. I don't drink at all. I go to p…
/r/seduction17/10/16 12:45 PM
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With a study field and work that are both male centered, hobbies that are done alone and a disability So what you are telling me is there are females around you, you just chose not to talk to them. Male centered simply means that there are way more males than females. You do not have to do all of your hobbies alone. You can do them with people. A lot of people have disabilities. I have known guys with epilepsy, diabetes, eyesight problems and etc. They all managed to find women. Is this a typo? …
/r/seduction17/10/16 11:24 AM
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As long as you use the word date. Find out if you are dating and then we can talk kino.
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:57 AM
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Like I said you miss a lot of opportunities. I think your problems are mostly mental. I think if someone was to sit down with you and help you understand women, you would have less problems. The one question I really would like to know is what do you think of what you think of women. I would also like to know what you think of women? When is it appropriate for men and women to talk?
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:48 AM
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I am going to be honest with you and say that if she does not admit that it is a date, it is not a date. She could be using you or even better treating you as a good friend. So ask her if you are dating? A date is not a date unless two people agree that it is a date. You can do date like things with friends.
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:42 AM
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This is situational. You have to learn to read a situation.
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:28 AM
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This situation feels strange. It's been a month since our first date. That is a long time. Did you ask her on a date with the word date or is this a friend? We talked a lot during date activities, during 2-hour car ride. Pretty much everything. First dates are more about doing and getting to know the basics. Too much talking can ruin a date. However, she is not responding to my kino. She does not have to. She may not like you. we were on a trip over the weekend. So is this a date or a place you …
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:20 AM
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If you had a single Grandpa, you could have suggested a double date. I think you did everything right.
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:04 AM
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I suck with women because I don't get a lot of opportunities, You suck with women because you don't make opportunities. They are not going to do all the work for you. And the boring introverted loner is not exactly what they want. Women want guys. You are a guy. Some are more boring than you. But this is one of the few chances I will get to meet one, so I want to make the best of it. There are plenty of chances. You just chose to ignore them or you over think the situation. Stop making excuses. …
/r/seduction17/10/16 10:01 AM
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womanizer or PUA You want to take a girl home on the night that you meet her and you think you aren't a womanizer. Lmao. I doubt you have a plan where if she gets pregnant you will marry her and help raise the child. You have too many negative thoughts that don't add up. Go to the party. This subreddit is not dedicated to womanizers. Some people come here to build skills to find a gf. I really think you do not understand women. Women and men are social creatures that can perform multiple tasks a…
/r/seduction17/10/16 03:09 AM
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I am going to make an educated guess. First, the women you meet at the party will be strangers. You like women, so that is a reason to talk to them. Second, I assume you have no skills with women. This means you need to practice talking to them to get an understanding of what it is like to talk to them. , I would prefer to not molest people. You are not molesting them by simply talking to them. People don't need permission to talk to other people. I say hi and hello to women strangers all the ti…
/r/seduction16/10/16 09:35 PM
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You need to try to talk to women you do not know. , I don't think I will be in a situation where it is acceptable to approach a woman, before the party happens. Women are everywhere. Just try small talk. This can be during the day, at night or whenever. The situation does not need to be appropriate. Just find a reason to talk to them.
/r/seduction16/10/16 09:01 PM
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There is no cheat sheet but you can learn to use your intellect to your advantage.
/r/seduction16/10/16 07:49 PM
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Talking to people in person and nightclubs.
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:59 PM
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You know how some people pregame. This is pregaming before the night. It will help with anxiety and other problems.
/r/seduction16/10/16 06:55 PM
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Well you know enough to message her about law and dogs.
/r/seduction16/10/16 05:52 PM
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I mean you need to practice a little before the night. Approach strangers in stores and on the street.
/r/seduction16/10/16 05:38 PM
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If a person would learn how to use a smartphone, this would not be a problem. They can make groups and do all kinds of stuff. I will say that note taking is the best thing you can do when you learn pickup. So may people look alike and have similar names. Also, it is easy to get people confused.
/r/seduction16/10/16 04:15 PM
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The key is actually trying. You need to approach women before the party and start small conversations. Learn the basics of approaching.
/r/seduction16/10/16 04:11 PM
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r/socialskills I think you need to apply what you apply to males to females.
/r/seduction15/10/16 07:42 PM
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Wrong subreddit. Try r/askwomen.
/r/seduction15/10/16 12:56 PM
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You start with self improvement. While doing self improvement you work your way up to a 100 approaches. You need to fix the way you think. There is no such thing as leagues. Women are women and they all qualify as potential mates.
/r/seduction15/10/16 09:02 AM
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You have to look pass their looks and find the ugly. Once that is found you must hold on to it and eventually you will no longer look at their genetics.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:52 PM
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The major problem that most people have is that they have no skills with people. They do not know how to socialize and move a situation in a favorable direction. Seddit takes these skills that are taught almost everywhere including colleges, jobs, self improvement books and applies them to dating. People then call these things tricks or games when in reality they are just skills that most people have not learned or do not use well. You may be 19 and handsome but that means nothing if you do not …
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:48 PM
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As long as you dance is what matters. Your goal should be simple when you get into a club or bar. First, make friends and then go from there. If you are brave and skillful, go directly for the women. The best advice I can give you is make friends. This always helps. I normally find the guys who are chilling by themselves and chat them up. If you do this enough, you will have friends every time you go out.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:42 PM
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You know, basically a scam Some of the stuff out there is a scam, but a good amount of it is not. When you read a book or watch a video, you have to understand what works for some people will not work for others. If you read this subreddit, a lot of people recommend that you go and learn by doing. Self improvement is a major part of this subreddit. Also, social skills are helpful. I've almost completed a PUA book and even tho a lot of what is told there makes sense, Most of the stuff said in pua…
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:20 PM
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I will stop giving you trouble. I actually believe that you are a behaviorist and scientist. You remind me of a professor I had. The funny thing is I am a psychology major with five more classes to graduation. I am a huge fan of monism and dualism. This actually affect my thinking when it comes to psychology. I will admit weak evidence is evidence. That represents a black-or-white kind of thinking that doesn't belong in science. I have a bad habit of binary thinking. The study in question repres…
/r/seduction14/10/16 05:01 PM
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First, studies like this don't use psychology majors exclusively, but students in psychology courses like psych 101. I remember my Psych 101 class. Now I have a good idea of the sample that was used. This is still a fraction of the bigger picture, but it describes mostly single, young people in the age range of around 20 years old. The sample is still horrible. If they could have found people who were not in college and measured them too, it would have been better. This is pretty close to the ta…
/r/seduction14/10/16 04:06 PM
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A lot of skills are not taught these days. Most people aren't thinkers and were never taught how to think properly. People are different and what is and is not appropriate differs between them. This is very true and most people do not understand this. I think this person is stuck on routine that they hope to perfect. The problem is they cannot perfect it without understanding how people think or work.
/r/seduction14/10/16 03:29 PM
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I believe this experiment would have been more believable if the sample was not 256 psychology students. These are people who study behavior for a reason. It is easy to believe that a person who studies behavior would be more likely to weigh behavior or mental condition in a person's appearance. It could be because when they look at a person they see the results of the behavior.
/r/seduction14/10/16 03:23 PM
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Just because something says scientific does not make it true. Science is messy and often underfunded. The experiment is very flawed and cannot be applied to seduction.
/r/seduction14/10/16 02:55 PM
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In terms of base game, you have to be better than the competition. This means you need to have a decent reputation or something that they find of value. Also, if you live overseas, you have to travel and learn some of the language. It will help a lot with women. Women love attention, but they also are attracted to adventure and bad stuff. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/10/16 01:00 PM
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Pulls out psychic pen. I think you should have asked her on a date a long time ago. You knew she was single. What were you waiting on, her to get a bf? When you text someone, you normally do it for a reason. I would assume you were texting her to get to know her for you can ask her on a date. Conversation is a two way street. You have to give good conversation to get good conversation. Also, you cannot expect her to do all the work. You approached her, not she approached you. if she's interested…
/r/seduction13/10/16 09:19 PM
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Yes, but I am ugly. I just know how to have fun.
/r/seduction13/10/16 04:30 PM
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Never make your life about a relationship. Work on success and everything else will follow.
/r/seduction13/10/16 01:44 PM
2

Yes.
/r/seduction13/10/16 12:34 PM
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I think you don't understand club game. She stood there for like 2 hours more but I tried not to look at her side. You should have stayed with her. After I call her we went out and everything went OK but after the 3rd date the things didn't work out I think you was moving too slow. I've never had sex with a girl in one night stand so it's a bit new to me and I'm willing to explore. I think you should have escalated until you couldn't have.
/r/seduction13/10/16 12:06 PM
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I think I may be explaining things wrong. How would you sell yourself to a woman? Give me a quick paragraph and then tell me if that is something you would buy. You ever ask why women want tall guys. It is the idea of being safe and secure. Why is the beard so attractive? Its a manly trait that show masculinity. You need to think. It is not the traits, but the idea. The thoughts. Words are nothing without meaning and the same applies to men. Give yourself meaning and value. If the value cannot b…
/r/seduction12/10/16 12:26 PM
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I feel like I need a translator for field reports.
/r/seduction12/10/16 11:18 AM
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You just accept it and make better decisions.
/r/seduction12/10/16 11:16 AM
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This may sound crazy, but I think women are more seduced by the idea of something than the actual something. high school or university friends High school and University are more about your potential and the lifestyle you live. You don't have to do much. The environment does it for you. He's a tech artist, he's clever, funny, and has useful information to give people. Just the stuff you said about him can make me come up with an image and a million thoughts. I think the idea of him is what makes…
/r/seduction12/10/16 08:43 AM
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The question is not what do I do, but what do you do. Make a decision.
/r/seduction11/10/16 08:38 PM
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Sometime it is more about what you do and not who you are. You actually have to talk to women and try to understand them. If you do not try to be with women there is a good chance you will be single for a while.
/r/seduction11/10/16 08:37 PM
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I like to stay away from legally married women. Their relationships seem to be more permanent. There is also more trouble. The way I see it is, there are laws, assets, children and so much that go into marriage. Anything less than marriage is fair game in my opinion. I know for a fact that I cannot force anyone to cheat, but people do. I just believe that marriage is something that has been set up by the law and religion as endgame. That is something that is sacred and should be left alone. If y…
/r/seduction11/10/16 06:37 PM
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I stay away from married women.
/r/seduction11/10/16 06:02 PM
1

I recommend breaking up your wall of text into paragraphs.
/r/seduction10/10/16 04:06 PM
1

I recommend mentioning the word date to make sure that it is an exact 100 percent.
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:56 PM
1

This is something that could be done with a friend. Does she know that this is a date?
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:36 PM
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How can I ask her something like that? It's like saying "If you break up with me are you going to start a relationship with this guy?". Isn't that very weird? Just ask her does she have any feelings for him that are not platonic. Tell you care for her and you want to make sure your relationship is not threatened. You can ask her any way you want. Weird has nothing to do with it. You want to make sure your relationship is not threatened. The thing is, I get mixed signals I think it is time for yo…
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:30 PM
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I can see this going wrong in so many ways, but I guess it depends on the person. Can you give me a brief summary of the person you are trying to date and why this is an idea?
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:16 PM
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Pulls out deductive psychic pen. This is about a relationship, and not seduction per se. I am glad you said this. Six months ago I got into a relationship. My girlfriend started on college like 2 months ago, and it's like an hour with the train, so not too far. From this I can gather that this is a semi long distance relationship and you are feeling threatened by competition. She has met new friends in her class, which is okay. I feel like you are saying the opposite of what you feel. I have met…
/r/seduction10/10/16 01:12 PM
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Lol. People have no power over you. could easily fuck up any relationship I get into I have been everything from a gentleman to a ho. When a woman really likes you your past is irrelevant.
/r/seduction10/10/16 10:17 AM
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When it comes to seduction, you cannot expect women to do all of the work. You have to give them a reason to try. If you do not give them a reason, they will have no reason to continue. It is up to you to seduce her.
/r/seduction09/10/16 06:41 PM
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Pulls out magical psychic pen. had gradually gone down to the point of lacking content within our convos and her not really trying, what did this, and what can I learn for the next There is not enough details to properly answer your question. I am going to assume that you are boring and wasted too much time. Texting is a temporary thing that should be used to meet in person as soon as possible. Please provide a proper Field Report.
/r/seduction09/10/16 06:14 PM
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I don't drink, and the bar scene isn't my thing. I don't drink also. I am considered the world's best designated driver. This has help me accomplish a lot of things. I believe it is more about how you act at the bar or places with alcohol than what you actually drink. Any advice on other good places to meet people where you can strike up a conversation? I am going to assume you need a reason to go to places. I recommend activities like clubs (Organizations not night club), gym classes, dance cla…
/r/seduction09/10/16 06:03 PM
2

Germany?
/r/seduction08/10/16 03:13 AM
1

I actually think if you see a woman you like, you should approach.
/r/seduction07/10/16 10:23 AM
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I am going to be honest with you and say that relationships have a process that is always moving forward. You start off as strangers, then you become friends, then you become boyfriend and girlfriend, then you get engaged, next you get married, then you have a child or more, you raise your children, you kick them out, and so on. You have had five years to make progress. You probably could get back with her and marry her with a cheap ring. You could also stay single and hope that you find another…
/r/seduction06/10/16 08:30 PM
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Most people want shortcuts, but the truth is there are no shortcuts. I don't know how many languages you speak, but knowing the basics of a few can get you laid. Also, you can use learning a language to actually meet people and then take it from there. Culture is a very important thing. You have to know what cultures think of you. In certain countries yes is no and no is yes. I recommend you make a plan on what you want to accomplish and start slowly accomplishing it.
/r/seduction06/10/16 08:04 PM
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When I was in high school, I had this problem. I think i was more hormones than man and girls were everything. After college, I picked up a few hobbies and they became part of my life. If a girl didn't like me having my hobbies, I didn't like her in my life. I will say that I am a proud nerd that loves to write crappy fiction, watch cartoons and read comic books.
/r/seduction06/10/16 07:28 PM
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You cannot expect women to do all the work. You have to meet them more than half way. If you are into foreign women, you need to learn their language and culture. You also have to learn how to escalate and read situations.
/r/seduction06/10/16 07:20 PM
3

I think you have mistaken this subreddit for r/askwomen.
/r/seduction06/10/16 06:16 PM
2

She (unprompted) told me she's not the kind of girl to have sex on the first time out, but that she really wanted to go home with me later to fool around a bit. I am going to guess that this means she needs a reasonable excuse to not look like a slut. You should have gave her a good excuse to tell her roommate why she did not make it home at a reasonable time. After a bit, we changed bars, and a guy friend of hers came up to us and got into a long conversation with her about her girl's roommate …
/r/seduction06/10/16 05:50 PM
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Maybe you don't know what to do. Maybe everything you are reading is wrong. Honestly you don't know anything until you try?
/r/seduction06/10/16 05:38 PM
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First, calm down. Second take a few days to yourself. Relationships are a dangerous thing that most people are not ready for or understand. I often tell a lot of people that a relationship cannot be your everything. I recommend working on yourself and then making a decision. Good luck.
/r/seduction06/10/16 05:32 PM
2

Have you actually tried talking to women?
/r/seduction05/10/16 05:30 PM
6

I like to preach a binary system with quick decision making skills.
/r/seduction04/10/16 08:41 PM
1

I agree with you. I often tell people they need to learn to make decisions and think for themselves.
/r/seduction03/10/16 07:05 PM
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I don't know. She makes the test not me.
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:42 PM
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Indirect and direct approaches are situational things. You have to be able to decide which one to use. The important thing is how you act after the approach. Often failure can be attributed to the person failing to keep or gain interest after the approach. I think partly because they want to know WHY you are talking to them. If this is the reason you think it is, then give them the reason. Worth playing with? Everything is worth it. Experiment and learn.
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:40 PM
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I do not know the situation or person, but sometime women test a guy to see how interested they are. She could have mentioned the guy to get a certain response out of you.
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:29 PM
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We are close friends. I can assume you are not in a relationship with titles and the sex just happened. It probably does not have much meaning behind it. I met her afterwards and she said she had fun. I guess it wasn't bad sex. I can also guess that this may have been a one time thing or something that involves no strings. However, she mentioned a crush she has right now and how she got nervous while talking to him. She could be testing you or maybe she likes this person more than you. Does it m…
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:22 PM
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Anything that gets someone off of their computer and into the field is good. More experienced people will realize that this list is useless unless more direction on when to use the questions is given.
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:17 PM
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Point taken, and while I'm a firm believer in focusing on strengths over focusing on weaknesses (i.e. it's more valuable to improve a strength than a weakness), I think that conversation is table stakes - it's part of a wider net that you need to cast. You're meeting complete strangers...how are you able to get to know someone if the situation doesn't require much talking? So are you telling people that are weak with conversation to go on a date where they have to talk a lot? This will make the …
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:03 PM
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All information is useful information. Making intentions known is a very important thing in seduction. I believe most of these questions if not all could be applied to seduction. I feel that the list is setting someone up for failure, because if a person needs this list they will not know when to ask these questions.
/r/seduction03/10/16 01:39 PM
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I assume you have never been attracted to a woman that only wanted to be friends.
/r/seduction03/10/16 01:26 PM
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Now this is a true seduction question.
/r/seduction03/10/16 01:23 PM
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"the awkward silence" I actually believe most people do not know how to date. Most people think getting coffee is a date. I honestly believe if a person is not much of a talker, they should go on dates where they do not have to talk much. The thing is, you're skeptical about this list. If by this you mean that someone using this list as a memorized "cheat sheet" is going to fail? You're partially correct. If you're just ripping through these, then you look like a creep. If you pick a few that yo…
/r/seduction03/10/16 01:21 PM
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Well I believe anything is possible. I also believe in order to avoid the friendzone a person must avoid friendship. Thank you for answering my questions and commenting. I will put your questions to use.
/r/seduction03/10/16 01:11 PM
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Can't most of these questions be applied to friendship? Isn't the goal of seduction to move past friendship?
/r/seduction03/10/16 01:00 PM
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How do most of these questions relate to seduction?
/r/seduction03/10/16 12:31 PM
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This feels like an interview question list.
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:59 AM
4

I think you have to understand different cultures have different problems. You cannot define a woman by her country.
/r/seduction27/09/16 12:36 PM
1

I use text to speech(TTS) a lot.
/r/seduction26/09/16 11:05 AM
2

You define girlfriend. Girlfriend is whatever you make your relationship contract with.
/r/seduction23/09/16 03:44 PM
2

The only thing that gets easier is the thing that you make easier.
/r/seduction21/09/16 01:33 PM
3

Have you tried giving a field report? Some people don't learn well from books. Have you even read field reports from people? Game is a combination of things that people learn, acquire or naturally have to attract women or men.
/r/seduction21/09/16 10:11 AM
1

I learn new things in seduction everyday.
/r/seduction19/09/16 05:09 PM
2

This made my day.
/r/seduction19/09/16 04:54 PM
1

You cannot avoid weird or wrong in life. You just have to do and learn. It is often more important what you do after that matters.
/r/seduction19/09/16 01:09 PM
1

You will never know until you do it.
/r/seduction19/09/16 12:59 PM
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Make your own decision. If you want to do it, do it.
/r/seduction19/09/16 11:38 AM
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I didn't read the whole thing but I honestly think you need to work on your seduction skills.
/r/seduction18/09/16 11:05 AM
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I think you should just be honest with people and learn from your mistakes. Tell them how she was and how you were. I would then cut all contact with the female.
/r/seduction17/09/16 08:33 PM
1

What can you tell me about her personality? If you want to share any other details, just message me and I will help you to the best of my ability.
/r/seduction16/09/16 12:59 PM
1

Did you try searching the number on Facebook or other social media?
/r/seduction15/09/16 04:58 PM
1

But what about urine?
/r/seduction15/09/16 02:52 PM
1

This was a painful read. I felt like you didn't read the situation and got lucky. You got to understand that people give hints and that as a guy certain things are expected of you. People give hints until one of them makes an "out of the blue" moves. The hints tell you what you can and cannot do or at the least what you should try or not try. She flirted with me by telling me lewd stuff. Most girls tell you lewd stuff for a reason. Its your job to figure out why. She had the "reputation" to be a…
/r/seduction14/09/16 04:30 PM
1

If we are talking about common sense, do you apply seduction to your marriage?
/r/seduction14/09/16 03:24 PM
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I dont hit on a lot of girls because of this barrier. I think I understand you more now. There are unspoken rules in certain cultures and with women that are obvious to most people and not some. If I happen to meet a girl I think is cute, I talk to her for a bit. Do you dance with the girl at all? I do like everybody in clubs. I dont go there to pick up girls. A lot of guys go to the club to pick up girls. You are good at flirting, I just asked you to come back to my place because I was tired of…
/r/seduction14/09/16 03:23 PM
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Picking up women while married is way different from picking up women while you are single. The first thing a married person has to think about is the divorce. This is because depending on how long the marriage is, there may be a lot to lose or a bunch of problems ahead. If you are newly married with no children or investments then talking to other women is not much of a problem. I have actually been studying this subject for the last week and I find it very interesting.
/r/seduction14/09/16 03:09 PM
1

Are you married?
/r/seduction14/09/16 02:56 PM
1

If you are married and looking for tips on pickup, just ask. I am sure there is someone on this subreddit that can help you.
/r/seduction14/09/16 02:43 PM
2

There is so little information here that I find it impossible to answer properly. We don't talk a lot unless we're seated in class or forcibly stuck together in school or whatsoever I am going to guess you are in High School. Its hard to answer without knowing the environment. She's straight. So I guess you are a girl and you want advice on how to pick up a girl in high school. I will say you have to play to her curiosities. Women know women better than men. Get to know her and use that knowledg…
/r/seduction14/09/16 02:40 PM
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'm a very good at having funny/deep conversation. I often believe when people say they are good at having deep conversations is that they talk way too much. In short, talk less and do more. I have no fear when approcahing her and I come up with a funny thing to say to introduce myself. Now we are talking (random chatting, questions about her, jokes, banter, ...) and I can see she is interested. She smiles, enjoy the conversation, looks at me in the eyes, ... Do you ever ask yourself why people g…
/r/seduction14/09/16 02:30 PM
0

Its not as important as what you say or do after the approach.
/r/seduction13/09/16 04:26 PM
1

There are certain races in certain cultures where touching a woman's hair is wrong.
/r/seduction12/09/16 11:14 AM
4

I would start off with self improvement. After that, I would go around and start smiling at people and practice good eye contact. After that I would work my way up to talking. Then you can apply the same things that guys apply to women on guys. Seduction can be learned by anyone and any sex.
/r/seduction10/09/16 08:56 PM
1

This is not r/rateme or anything similar.
/r/seduction10/09/16 06:45 PM
1

This sounds like a rape speech.
/r/seduction10/09/16 04:45 PM
5

1 member of the sex you are trying to talk to.
/r/seduction10/09/16 04:43 PM
2

Stop thinking about the age.
/r/seduction10/09/16 10:56 AM
3

What if she just wants to study?
/r/seduction10/09/16 09:29 AM
1

I must defend myself here. Apparently we do not know about each others' "versions" of seduction we've learned You are right. I was taught by someone who was 30 years older than me. He taught me about the simple things such as temptation, pleasure, desire and overall thinking. He even showed me how it could be used in everyday life and relationships. There was never any talk of sleeping with as many people as possible. I will admit that the person you mentioned is more down to earth. Did you need…
/r/seduction09/09/16 05:08 PM
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Seduction has been around for a long time and the definition has changed over the years. Most people in this subreddit associate it with pickup artist. I will admit that pickup artist advertise to a certain crowd, but seduction is not about getting with as many women as possible. It is an art that involves temptation and so much more. It generally teaches you to get lots of girls but what next? The version of seduction you learned is about that. The version I learned is completely different. You…
/r/seduction09/09/16 04:33 PM
1

Last question. What is your endgame?
/r/seduction09/09/16 03:27 PM
1

I have some rated R content in there and do not want it taken down. But if you request to join, I will approve so you can view the material :) I like to keep my identity a secret and my facebook has a lot of friends and family on it. I do not associate my reddit with my facebook. Sorry, but I will not join. As a coach, you should have something public and safe for people to actually view. Something I have not accomplished yet is sleeping with a celebrity or someone famous. I will admit, we all h…
/r/seduction09/09/16 03:20 PM
1

Your facebook group is closed and not available to the public. What is something that you have not accomplished in the Game?
/r/seduction09/09/16 02:59 PM
4

I am going to be honest with you and say that you have to be careful what you do. You can develop bad habits and addictions. I feeled empowered and much more confident. This should not come from the game. If it does, this could lead to sex addiction, short relationships and all kinds of problems. The problem with a drug is that after a while you get use to it and you need more to feel the way you use to feel. For most people, they will never feel the same. They will only come close. After a year…
/r/seduction09/09/16 02:54 PM
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The people who are missing out are the men and women who are in a relationship or are looking for a relationship but have problems with love, dating, relationships and/or sex. They often look at cosmopolitan or yourtango.com. Stuff like that. These sites don't give any good information Don't you study how the media affects people? Do you even look at cultures and the many parts of the world? Almost everyone has a relationship problems. A good portion of marriages end in divorce. There is no real…
/r/seduction09/09/16 02:39 PM
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My problem is that this subs goal does not align with mine, yet the information is often useful. What are your goals? People are missing out because of the most notable goal here, because of the different target group it focuses on. A good majority of the people who post here do not read the sidebar. Are you sure you understand how relationships and people work? If it makes you feel better, I am a Psychology major that is less than a year away from getting my Bachelors. That's nothing against th…
/r/seduction09/09/16 02:05 PM
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I have no problems finding information. So basically the problem is that the information on sex, relationships etc are hard to find in good quality. I don't think this true. If you know how to look, you can find anything. What does this have to do with seduction?
/r/seduction09/09/16 01:32 PM
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I don't understand him either. Here take my upvote.
/r/seduction09/09/16 10:17 AM
2

This question may be better in r/sex and if I may ask, how old are you?
/r/seduction08/09/16 03:36 PM
1

Order something from China.
/r/seduction08/09/16 11:11 AM
1

If you have self improvement down, start approaching and getting to know women.
/r/seduction07/09/16 03:43 PM
1

I am going to guess, but are you a member of r/theredpill. First lets be honest and say that women dress like other women. This means in order to be accepted into certain social circles you have to dress a certain way. In some countries, states and even cities showing skin is not a taboo. The human body is actually natural and there are people who prefer to be nude. Often for some women, what they wear isn't really decided by them. I should also mention that women tan and they hate tan lines. Th…
/r/seduction07/09/16 03:25 PM
1

I recommend working on self improvement. While doing that I would learn to approach or start approaching women.
/r/seduction07/09/16 03:10 PM
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Sometime common sense is not common. You have to understand that not all women are the same. There are reasons women go out and each generation dresses different. You cannot limit yourself to a one size fits all answer. When you do that you limit yourself. I hate to break it to you, but when some women dress up and go out it has nothing to do with males.
/r/seduction07/09/16 03:04 PM
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This may be true for some, but it is not true for all of them. I would be careful with negative thoughts, it can hurt your game. Also, all people are not the same.
/r/seduction07/09/16 02:02 PM
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