As most of us are aware, Simping has become quite a pandemic. With the amount of guys glued on to porn, not interacting much with women, being desperate etc. its not surprising that a lot of these guys can only interact with women by pedestalizing them.

I mean the existence of onlyfans is proof of how much of an issue simping actually is. But here is why you should never associate with simps or even keep simping friends:

1) It lowers your value and status.

When you simp for a woman you are placing her on a pedestal above you. Idk how many guys know this but this is extremely unattracive to women. When you place a woman above you, all you do is shoot your own foot.

But its not enough to not simp, you need to not associate with people who do. If you have a simp friend or hang around people who do that and you agree even on some terms with them, you also look simpish by association. This guy places women and pedestal, and you are his friend? I guess you must look up to them as well rather than looking them in the eye.

Do not allow simp language to influence you either. When someone says something like "oh you are so lucky to be with this girl" take that as a lowkey insult. Whatever you do, do NOT agree with that statement. Ask them "why" and watch then stumble. If they make a coherent argument ask them "so?" :).

Or you can be an ass like me and just insult them back " no, YOU would be lucky. For me this is normal" :).

Have this attitude for a while and those people will automatically stay away from you and hate on you. Thats exactly what you WANT. Having simps hating on you has a direct correlation with your success with women.

2) It is unattractive to women

Simps think by agreeing with or by catering to women they look attractive or get into their good graces. They dont. Women dislike and distrust simps. Most of these guys who pedestalize women are also objectifying them and holding them to a standard that doesnt reflect who these women are. Women dont like that stuff. You put them on the spot and have expectations she has no interest meeting.

Therefore by acting like that you are not just communicating low value to her, but also turning her off completely. Even just hanging out with such people is not a good lool for you.

3) it pust you into a desperate mindset.

When you are simping or hanging around people with that mindset it will put your mind in a place where you have to validate yourself or prove yourself to get something. This is very unproductive and imo unhealthy.

You should always operate from a mindset of " i got this" instead of "i hope i get this/ i will be lucky to get this"