I keep having to delete posts I make on other subs because creeps look through comment history and find out I'm on FDS.

whiskey_and_oreos · 2021-09-17T20:52:59+00:00

Yeah you need to use one account for FDS only and make another for the rest of Reddit. It's much safer that way.

preppykat3 · 2021-09-17T22:23:19+00:00

I’m proud of this sub. They can bring it up all they want.

LR_today · 2021-09-17T22:23:43+00:00

Constantly have this issue. I either am banned from commenting entirely (much like this sub does for actual bad ones) or have people comment something stupid like "don't worry about her she's a FDS f€mc€l" or other such nonsense.

Whatever I just ignore them all, men are just big mad they can't post here and reddit is like 70% men.

AHAHAHAHA just got called "femcel0us" in a DM, I like that one! I always accept chats to see what pathetic things they say.

Spittens · 2021-09-17T21:01:45+00:00

Most people here have an account they only use for FDS, and they keep their main for the rest of reddit for this reason. It's just easier than having to deal with the bullshit from men doing their damndest to doxx us in any way possible.

I mean, there's a reason we haven't been banned ; WE AREN'T A HATE SUB (as much as they like to claim we are, lol). But Reddit is 75% male and most of those are a certain type of male .... AKA the ones that know we wouldn't touch them if we were drowning and they had the only life preserver /cough cough incels/trp/pua/gamers

It's unfortunate, but that's the reality of being a woman with standards. Nothing hate wanks harder than a male redditor with an axe to grind cause he can't trick some unfortunate girl into touching his penis.

glendoraza · 2021-09-17T21:02:18+00:00

I’m an ex Muslim so I use that sub as well. I got death and hell threats. So I use Reddit purely for fds and ex Muslim for the most part because they’re two very stigmatized groups.

Muslims are marginalized. Now take me who is an ex Muslim. That’s makes me an even more marginalized group inside another. People hear my experiences with fds and say I’m sexist pfft and then call me an Islamaphobe for criticizing religion

FDSfollower1 · 2021-09-17T21:23:33+00:00

Use one account for FDS subs and other accounts for the rest.

the-worst- · 2021-09-17T22:02:02+00:00

This is why it's suggested in the rules/handbook to use one account for fds only and another for general reddit use.

shockingupdate · 2021-09-17T23:30:05+00:00

Unfortunately, you've got to use a throwaway or burner account for FDS as Reddit is almost entirely redpilled and sees subs that empower women as "hate groups." I think it's in the handbook, but if it isn't it should be!

eveloe · 2021-09-18T08:46:28+00:00

Ah man. When people say “you sound like you’re from FDS” on my main account, I usually feign ignorance and do a subtle bit of advertising for the sub at the same time for the audience.

Like “oh, I went there and the top post of all time is about someone finding a pedo sub and reporting it to the FBI. Is that what you’re upset about?”

“It looks like they help women escape abuse?”

CrazyPaine · 2021-09-18T00:58:11+00:00

I got banned from a dating sub because of FDS being a Incel or hate sub

Shot_Presence_8382 · 2021-09-18T01:47:18+00:00

I just lurk on other subs and never comment because I don't want anyone seeing I regularly comment in FDS. I only comment on this sub. It's a shame we as women have to do that...men don't have to fear which subs they have joined and can freely be on any sub, many of them absolutely disgusting, without harassment, being banned, under scrutiny, etc, but a woman can't talk about women's issues and opinions without an angry man stalking her post history and snooping around. Exactly why FDS is important 🌹

Okami-Sama19 · 2021-09-17T21:21:14+00:00

Yeah. I usually keep my comments deleted cause freaks have harassed me in the past too

TriggeredQuilt · 2021-09-18T06:36:56+00:00

I’m not bothered I like this account and FDS scotes can stay mad if they want.

AmeliaEmiliaEmma · 2021-09-18T10:24:12+00:00

I’ve decided to use this account ONLY on FDS. Once, someone asked for recommendations for subreddits that boost women’s confidence etc, and I recommended FDS. Dear lord! Someone even said “FDS actually hates women and feminism, it’s a toxic sub full of hate…” I was threatened to be banned, and it was on some women’s only subreddit. The insanity!

comet2004 · 2021-09-18T02:57:49+00:00

Separate account. Messages off. For this exact reason.

HamburgerFries8 · 2021-09-18T02:47:12+00:00

It hasn't happened yet but I don't doubt that it could. I want to make a new account just for this place but I always thought that a new account posting here doesn't look legit until it's earned its proper flair. Maybe I'm wrong? I don't know.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-09-18T02:02:00+00:00

I post and comment wherever I want. If they message me I report their message as sending child porn. It would be safer though to use a separate profile for FDS. It's in the handbook to do so.

CoconutJasmineBombe · 2021-09-18T01:42:08+00:00

Make an alt

East-Willingness513 · 2021-09-18T09:46:28+00:00

I commented on a male decor post that had a guy in his living room sitting in a gaming chair with his computer and.... nothing else so I commented “this is embarrassing” and a guy called me an asshole because I follow FDS, not even because of my comment lol

OptionalCookie · 2021-09-18T09:03:32+00:00

Shreddit.

I set the program to run and delete my comments up to the last 30 days.

If you really want to creep, you are going to have to work for it.

WestAtmosphere · 2021-09-18T17:18:00+00:00

Keep accounts on different browsers is easiest. Also I keep a different account on my phone for general browsing (not posting).

You are most likely to get banned from other big political / movement type subreddits. Majority of other's don't really care.

aquietsword · 2021-09-19T08:17:16+00:00

I would make another account but I just don't use the rest of reddit all that much

dancedancedance7 · 2021-09-19T08:19:14+00:00

Definitely make a dedicated FDS account. I honestly didn't think it was such a big deal, but you can get doxxed and stalked. At the very least it'll be an unpleasant experience, most dangerous if you don't.

Ellenchus · 2021-09-18T08:04:28+00:00

Make a separate account. This is what I did (this one being my alt account). Never had any issues.

Only annoying part is when I want to comment I have to switch between them and forrage for the post that caught my eye

MyLifeIsWandsXIII · 2021-09-18T18:51:04+00:00

Read this post I wrote a while ago on how to keep yourself safer on here

Title	I keep having to delete posts I make on other subs because creeps look through comment history and find out I'm on FDS.
Author	mothboon
Upvotes	412
Comments	45
Date	September 17, 2021 8:48 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pq8gn6/i_keep_having_to_delete_posts_i_make_on_other/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/i-keep-having-to-delete-posts-i-make-on-other-subs.1075883 https://theredarchive.com/post/1075883

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