Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?

Demasii · 2021-12-15T07:48:45+00:00

I married a man 7 years younger than me.

I didn't have a preference for younger or older men. I just found myself is a position where younger men were asking me out more than older men. Sorry if I do not fit the bill for this question.

The few older men who expressed interest were either divorced or had kids. That in it of itself was not a bad thing but they showed bitterness or had personal drama in their lives that they had a hard time managing.

I'm pretty difficult to date. Not due to being mean (bitch) but was told I'm hard to connect with. I do not give out compliments early. When I get compliments, I have a tendency to question them directly because it comes across insincere from older men. I did not make older men feel confident around me.

When younger men compliment me, the naive enthusiasm comes out and it's more genuine. There was no power struggle with younger men. It was either you liked each other or you didn't.

Older men with experience wanted more control over the situation and I felt constricted on what I can and cannot do.

merlinscalculator · 2021-12-15T05:50:46+00:00

I don’t want children and I’m good at making money so I don’t have to be practical when it comes to men. Younger men are fun and fit and porn hasn’t fucked them/their dicks up as badly. Also they’re wayyyy more receptive to tips in the bedroom.

My mother is older than my father, grandma was slightly older than grandpa, my brother has married an older woman and 3/4 of my LTRs plus all of the casual flings I’ve had have been with younger men. It hasn’t been intentional but I truly wonder if there is some random genetic component at play in my family.

stormcloakporn · 2021-12-15T09:29:33+00:00

Young Buck >>> Old Bull

nuff said

mistresswhat · 2021-12-15T06:27:19+00:00

I enjoy mother/son role play and it's harder to suspend disbelief when they're older than me. Lmao. That particular kink is actually a relatively recent addition but something about the older woman/younger man dynamic has always seemed very hot to me, even when I was myself a teenager. In high school my friends used to joke that I'd make a great cougar one day.

Interestingly, a lot of the men I've dated longterm who were close to me in age or a bit older had a history of dating older women. I think there's a personality type there that I like, regardless of their actual age. At any rate I don't think it's a non-factor that women who date younger are not just dating younger men, but are often specifically dating younger men who like older women. I'm wary of over-generalizing, but IME they seem to be after something interesting and non-traditional, and the qualities they value in women -- stuff like "directness" and "having her shit together" and "ability to carry a conversation" -- are often things women value about themselves.

I'd hook up with someone significantly younger than me but the gap I'm comfortable with for a serious relationship is definitely somewhat smaller. I dunno about an exact number. My boyfriend is five years younger than me but it doesn't feel like a big gap.

sweetvioletfluff · 2021-12-15T09:31:28+00:00

I’ve dated slightly younger men, because older men were mostly just never interested but younger men were. Not because I was looking out for them but those were the options. My husband is 4 years younger.

evanstown21 · 2021-12-15T06:20:54+00:00

Love younger men for casual stuff. For the record, I’m early/mid 20s, so not too young. Definitely over 18. But young, in-shape, naive, hot college himbos that look lost? I’m super into that. I like asking about their aspirations and I find their problems and anxieties very cute since I’m no longer in school. I like when they’re receptive to learning

lady_ven0m · 2021-12-15T16:36:53+00:00

I look a lot younger than I am, so I don’t know if that’s a factor. I find younger men more physically attractive, and in my experience they’re really sweet and endearing. They’re polite and respectful too. I’ve only had one experience where I felt the guy was a bit immature, but overall I really enjoy dating younger men. They’re really good in bed too. I think around 27 is probably the sweet spot for me. They’re established enough to have a job and are generally mature enough. I’m definitely not looking to be anyone’s sugar momma lol.

Men my age or older are either married, divorced (not a bad thing in itself but I’m going to need a detailed explanation), or don’t want kids and I think I’d like one or two more but that depends on many factors. There’s a wider and better selection of men if I go for slightly younger guys.

RaspberryJuiceBox · 2021-12-16T19:50:09+00:00

I don’t think a lot of women get with younger guys but I prefer them aesthetically as they are better looking and most likely would last longer in bed.

They also aren’t jaded and don’t have a sour attitude towards women the same way post-wall Richards do.

Educational-Cut4177 · 2021-12-15T06:27:53+00:00

This is hilarious! The base of the red pill ideology suggests that women prefer older guys, turns out a large portion of women are increasingly looking for young men. I say abso-fucking-lutely!

Professional-Key9862 · 2021-12-17T19:48:33+00:00

I usually end up dating slightly younger men because I find guys my age or older can be patronising and uptight. Maybe the good ones are taken. I'm 30.

thetruthishere_ · 2021-12-15T05:55:08+00:00

I like them a bit younger now that Im older. They are more my 'looks match' and have the same energy.

Im 50 and the average 50 year old man I come across looks Way older and acts way older so say... the 43 year old man is more my 'match'. I look more late 30's to early 40's.

I still date closer in age as I have my whole life but I do tend to be attracted to a bit younger now. Not that I wont date a 55 year old if we work/the attraction is there.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2021-12-15T14:46:47+00:00

What do I like about young guys?

Solid, rock hard boners. And fucking hair. They have hair literally on their heads. Terms and conditions apply for that “hair” for men over 30.

Their cocks are like pieces of metal, barely sheathed in a combination of skin and veins.

Magnificent fucking cocks. Thick ones, too.

It literally hurts so good when they shove it in. You gasp when he tries to shove it in.

The English language has FAILED to provide me with words to describe what it feels like to have your pussy stretched out. Like what is that? Woo! That’s what it is.

Even when they’re trying to be gentle.

You can only fuck them 7, 10 times max per day because your vagina will literally be sore. You’ll need to take a break and masturbate, clitorally. The vagina is out of order due to soreness, chafing, and the creampieS he left in there.

And when they cum , it literally flies out, with such force! spurting all over the place, and it tastes great going down your throat. It’s easy to swallow.

“God” bless the prostaglandins in sperm! You have harder orgasms for the following 16 hours.

God I’m getting horny just thinking about it.

I maybe harsh on men but god I love their penises.

Edit; wait the op said to talk about shit OTHER than sex and I was too horny and failed the assignment

skon7 · 2021-12-15T07:56:18+00:00

Personally 5 years isn’t an age gap but anymore than that and then it is, and I would be reluctant to go down further

Over_Noise3530 · 2021-12-15T23:36:48+00:00

I date young guys because they have more hair on their head and less on their face. They can still get an erection. They're less likely to want marriage. They smell better. Less tattoos and less STDs

vivvienne · 2021-12-16T11:11:29+00:00

Married a guy 3 years younger than me. I also strangely know more than a few women who married younger men as well.

I didn't prefer younger men because they usually don't know what they want in life so when I met hubs I didn't expect him to be ready for commitment (not that I expect a ring but no cheating). He typically isn't the type to eagerly settle down either but we clicked and he decided I was the one.

The reason why it worked is because hubs had a few things going for him. He is the oldest of 4 and had to grow up quickly. He never went to college because he couldn't afford it so he was in the military making friends with people my age. He didn't have a problem with dating, in fact he's had young waitresses inquire if he's single, but his experiences made him desire certain values he wasn't finding in most women he dated.

As for me I was just pleasantly surprised with hub's maturity level. There is something delightful about not taking a person seriously only to have them show you up, especially as you're dating. I expected the naivete of a college kid when I met him but turns out hubs was in the workforce for several years already.

LiftSushiDallas · 2021-12-15T14:05:43+00:00

Younger men like me 😁. I just seem to match with younger men more because I don't search for men older than me when I'm single and doing online dating. I don't WANT a daddy figure.

Every guy I dated in the last ~10 years was younger. My ex was 8 years younger and my current boyfriend is 2 years younger.

I don't see it as a big deal and unlike the men on here bragging about dating younger, it's not a badge I wear.

I just don't relate to men older than me (more than 5 years). Plus I don't want to date a man who has kids.

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Superfluous_Toast · 2021-12-15T23:43:45+00:00

I don't really have a preference for younger men, just a range of dating age I'm willing to consider.

My current SO is 5 years younger than I am, which neither enticed nor deterred me, clearly.

TheElusivePeacock · 2021-12-17T07:30:33+00:00

Younger men are more attractive, better in bed, and more fun. They’re better for casual, they’re more open sexually, better stamina, pretty much everything. I’m in my 30s, and despite what the men of PPD think, men my age are desperate to settle down and start a family. I don’t want marriage or kids, so they have nothing to offer me, but a life of fucking the same person over and over, working and cooking and cleaning and shoving out kids. I can be stressed and unhappy with a man my age, or I can be pleased sexually have fun dates with younger men.

chickenrichmess · 2021-12-18T21:36:59+00:00

I'm a very very independent 40-year old grown woman I pit on my big girl panties and shit kicker boots everyday . Turning 40 this year , I'm like I'm prime of my life I have so much more self confidence , self worth, and I I feel so much better now at 40 than I do 20 years ago at 20. I prefer younger men respectively no more than 12 years younger than me Relationship I more casual and serious together. However I let the guy know up front that my baby days are over way over having 18 year old son I'm good I'm done I've got little nieces and nephews if I want to go get a baby. And my marriage days are over been there done that didn't work don't want to do it again. The majority of the younger man over 29 yes.old I have dated in the past are okay with that they have no problem with that they prefer the child free.
My son's younger friends call me the cougar mom LOL

wtknight · 2021-12-15T06:00:03+00:00

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