What do you think is the most important part of a relationship and what is your leaning?

CFinCanada · 2021-12-13T12:34:10+00:00

Companionship and loyalty. Being best friends who have each other's backs no matter what, who are each other's rocks, that's the most important thing. It is what will still be the most important thing when both have dentures and neithers genitals are much interested in doing stuff anymore.

That being said, this is extremely rare because people are extremely selfish and debased, by nature.

I am a blue/black pill hybrid.

NarniaFox · 2021-12-13T12:32:35+00:00

Partnership and compatibility.

If you want a bit more detailed answer - actually liking each other, enjoying your time together, having similar/compatible values and plans. There's no much sense in relationships if you don't have one of these imv. You're free to disagree of course.

Edit: I'm leaning blue.

mackenzie013_02 · 2021-12-13T12:46:24+00:00

Partnership, companionship, love, and sex.

I don’t have a pill other than lithium.

wtknight · 2021-12-13T12:59:44+00:00

Being able to compromise is the most important part. I’m blue-pill leaning.

marshmallowmeringue · 2021-12-13T13:14:51+00:00

Affection, loyalty, commitment, chemistry, honesty, care, equal effort from both parties. I’m blue-leaning.

yo_dwayne · 2021-12-13T13:51:47+00:00

I think loyalty is #1. Mostly because loyalty to your SO will lead you to do all of the right things

deste_eloise · 2021-12-13T14:16:41+00:00

adventure, loyalty, best kind of friendship, sex.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-12-13T14:20:27+00:00

Compatibility and genuinely caring about each other

As far as my leaning I was always a fan of the Green Ranger more than any of them

Orange_Paisley · 2021-12-13T12:48:10+00:00

Being a team. It shouldn’t be you and your partner against each other - it should be the two of you against the world.

Mobrowncheeks · 2021-12-13T13:51:44+00:00

Her self worth and discipline. Having a high sense of self esteem and discipline solved almost all of the relationship issues from cheating, to money management, to presentation , and general plan and family building

cccccclairee · 2021-12-13T16:13:33+00:00

Compatibility in finances, sex, family and hobbies. You need to genuinely like each other and want to spend time together.

No pill really. If I have to pick, blue I guess.

tonyghow · 2021-12-13T16:22:41+00:00

Companionship, shared activities, shared goals and passions, all with a strong undercurrent of sexuality.

sarkington · 2021-12-13T17:35:21+00:00

Can you stand to be around this person more than anyone else and still like them ?

IsItMeta · 2021-12-14T08:39:40+00:00

Conversation, honestly most of a relationship is talking so they better not be a bore and understand sarcasm

creekcrystall · 2021-12-13T12:24:17+00:00

Money.

Green money pill.

Edit: his money 😉💰

mbrseb · 2021-12-13T12:26:58+00:00

As a man I feel that the most part of relationship for those that have children is the children. If there are not children involved then I think the most important part is partnership…overcoming challenges in life together.

Sex is what wraps the entire relationship and makes it work. The short answer is just sex.

I am no pill. I think TRP is a dysfunctional ideology filled full of wannabes. I think the blue pill is what started the downward spiral of hetero relationships. The blue pill started fucking it up and the TRP came like an austitic kid throwing a tantrum and made it worse

midwestufohunter · 2021-12-13T15:16:05+00:00

Having the freedom to be a human being, fds

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-12-13T16:33:15+00:00

I don't consider myself any pill.

I don't think you can have a good relationship with someone who isn't also a friend.

XtoDoubt · 2021-12-13T12:13:55+00:00

Sex.

michael1962-01 · 2021-12-13T15:35:27+00:00

Sex. Sex. Sex.

First go the blowjobs. Then goes the relationship....

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heyitsjeape · 2021-12-13T15:04:05+00:00

I’ve never had one so I don’t know from experience. I’d think one has to be somewhat subservient to the other - either side can be and this pendulum could swing back and forth - but not much beyond that.

Willow-girl · 2021-12-14T00:39:58+00:00

The most important part of a relationship is having a rip-your-clothes-off, instinctual sexual attraction to your partner. Without that, you're not gonna get very far.

Beyond that, you need to ascertain if your partner is of good character and capable of working with you in good faith. It helps if you have some shared interests or goals, or a willingness to at least help the other achieve his/her goals.

Me: RP.

mbrseb · 2021-12-13T12:31:10+00:00

Honesty and children.

Sex, orgasm, love, endorphines all just exist to have children.

When one partner wants children and the other does not, people must break up immediately. Wanting a different amount of children is the most often recited reason why relationships fail.

Being together with degenerate big city women who expect their husband to be their slave and think that being childless is a luxury is the worst kind of relationship one can have.

Also being together with a woman that is richer than oneself sucks

One should always make sure that the woman is poorer and still healthy and smart and one should not wait too long to have children

Being together for 5 years without having children is dumb as a man, even if it feels good to provide value but so does it feel good for a bird to put worms into a beak dummy, although it is an evolutionary trap

Being together with a rich woman who is 34 is a trap. The older a woman, the more DNA damage in her oocytes thanks to background radiation. At age 45, the DNA damages are so severe that 1/3 of every child born will have trisomy.

Since the uvp of women is an uterus and healthy oocytes (men can do everything else maybe even better than women), no man should stay together with a woman for some other reason

Since big city women have often been raised to be degenerate, she might complain: you just see me only as a child bearing machine. If this happens, say: I love you and the biggest symbol of love is a baby. I want another little person in my life that is exactly like you. I love you so much that one instance of your genetic makeup is not enough for me.

Also rub her belly if she has her period and go together to the doctor with her (if she goes to the dentist etc, if she agrees) so she knows that she can also rely on you when she is pregnant

Zerofication · 2021-12-13T13:14:27+00:00

Submission.

ItWasBrokenAlready · 2021-12-13T18:28:53+00:00

Attraction and respect.

No pill? But I'm one of those terrible egalitarian romantics.

Title	What do you think is the most important part of a relationship and what is your leaning?
Author	boofthegirl
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Comments	105
Date	December 13, 2021 11:32 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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