She's angry her baby daddy didn't marry her. She had his kids! He should marry her, right!? Waatgm?

AyyLmaoKekLols · 2022-01-21T17:19:09+00:00

Never stick your dick in crazy!

HolyGourdofJerusalem · 2022-01-21T17:31:17+00:00

Oh wow...she is completely unhinged.

Kudos to the guy for tolerating her B.S. to be a good dad to the kids and being there to raise them - sounds like they turned out reasonably OK, which is a miracle considering how obviously messed-up the mother is.

Hopefully his new wife doesn't pull the bait-and-switch once the novelty wears off.

Ok_Management4634 · 2022-01-21T17:34:42+00:00

Women can't handle the truth. She thinks it's the guy's fault, despite:

She put herself before her man and her kids, for 18 years.

She fights other women, and the cops need to be called.

She's offended that she's not invited to a wedding of her ex? Who does that? Seriously, not many men would invite ex-gf or ex-wife to their wedding.. Why would any man do that.

She's completely nuts, but in denial. Typical woman thinking.. "I'm right, the rest of the world is wrong, the world needs to bend to my desires".

NBA_MSG · 2022-01-21T17:45:46+00:00

"He even called the police on my because I tried to fight him and his new wife"

Sounds like not inviting you was the right decision

Overkillengine · 2022-01-21T17:34:18+00:00

And if one were to interview the man for his side of the story:

"Bitch be crazy"

Edit: And then he goes on with his life because he's got more important shit to do.

upsidedownbackwards · 2022-01-21T18:25:47+00:00

Gets upset that husband calls her a drama queen in the middle of a post where she's being a huge drama queen.

It must hurt to be that stupid/oblivious. If she had even a moment of clairity she might look at this as places she could improve herself. But instead she doubles down on it all with "He should have married me" rather than "I probably could have been a better mother/partner".

Now she's going to spend the rest of her life alone. Her kids already avoid talking to her more than they have to. They're old enough to know the game. They have to say the right things to keep from having to deal with a crazy breakdown. Once they're away from her completely she might get calls on the holidays. That's only if she doesn't freak out on them for not calling/caring enough about her.

She's been shown the hard, cold truth by her family but she's clinging to her fantasy so hard that she never stands a chance of improving. None of this was her fault, she just has some issues!

GrannyLesbian · 2022-01-21T18:06:38+00:00

I don't understand. He was an awful man and he is now married to a new woman why is she so upset? She should be happy this awful misogynistic toxic man has moved on.

HeelSteamboat · 2022-01-21T18:13:41+00:00

That guy is a champ. As a man and as a father.

That woman needed therapy a long time ago.

Impressive-Cricket-8 · 2022-01-21T17:51:40+00:00

But I am the mother of my kids.

Well, if I were the guy I'd have a few new questions for her.

chesty666 · 2022-01-21T17:30:53+00:00

That’s just incredible. Imagine the insanity inducing shit he probably had to put up with just to see his kids. It’s so bad the kids agree with the dad.

bilged · 2022-01-21T17:46:30+00:00

Shows up 4yrs later and tries to fight him and his new wife? Lol she crazy.

thefudmaster · 2022-01-21T18:07:30+00:00

She’s angry he called the cops on her when she tried to fight him and his spouse? Go figure.

Buster_Cherry92 · 2022-01-21T18:32:13+00:00

He had the audacity to say that I would not have been a good wife because I am a drama queen

In the same breath:

He called the police on me because I tried to fight him and his wife.

Ohh the irony honey...

user84893093748959 · 2022-01-21T17:49:23+00:00

RULE: Never date, commit, marry, or otherwise provide provisions to a single mother.

This rule stands whether she is never married or divorced. If the situation is that she is the mother of your children, this is NOT an exception to this rule. Widows are NOT an exception.

Any interaction with single mothers should be seen as an expense to sex - to sex that is satisfactory and, thus, definitely happening. I personally would not recommend even sexual interaction - you have been warned.

As described in the post, this man choose a certain behavior that he saw was "the only way he could have been apart of [their] kids' lives." I understand that feeling as I've lived through the hell of family courts and child support courts. However, as part of "staying with her", he rightly determined there was no reason to marry her, and he suffered her only as much to achieve his desired outcome.

windycityguy11 · 2022-01-21T18:12:20+00:00

“He said I was a drama queen” … proceeds to throw hands

SolidStateDynamite · 2022-01-21T18:19:37+00:00

I don't know what she's complaining about. She got pregnant, he stuck around to raise the kids, he intentionally didn't marry her because she wants to prioritize other things besides being a good wife and mom, she broke up with him when they were just about adults, and now she gets to put whatever she wants first. Which, judging by the fact that she kicked her kids out and attacked his wife, is herself.

She came out ahead in every aspect of her life. Isn't that the best outcome she could ask for?

OathXIIIK · 2022-01-21T18:31:01+00:00

You’re not entitled to marriage sweaty. 💅

p3ngwin · 2022-01-21T20:04:34+00:00

I broke up with my ex of 17 years....

We have two children 18 and ....

Wait a damned minute o.O

KurtWagnersBamfSmoke · 2022-01-21T20:06:33+00:00

This is why I tell women "Do not have his children until he marries you! No ring, no kids!"

manfrom-nantucket · 2022-01-21T19:17:32+00:00

What the fuck am I reading here?

He had the audacity to say that I would not have been a good wife because I am a drama queen

followed by

I tried to fight him and his wife.

CreepyAssPenis · 2022-01-21T18:38:24+00:00

She broke up with him? Was he supposed to just curl up & die? This woman is oblivious to the wide world that exists outside of her own

One-Move · 2022-01-21T18:14:23+00:00

I get that I stayed w my crazy (clinically diagnosed) wife for the sake of my kids, but she left, kids grew up w me happy. I still have to thank her, I am dating 20 years younger now 😂

incarnate1 · 2022-01-21T19:11:47+00:00

When some women think having kids entitles you to marriage, not being a peaceful, kind, loyal, healthy woman. SMH.

ZarBandit · 2022-01-21T21:50:14+00:00

Oh she wanted to attend alright. So she could ruin it in every way possible.

You could just imagine how it would go. She'd wear something inappropriate for her age and trashy. She tut and talk shit to herself during the ceremony. She'd work her hamster up into a tizzy, telling herself:

"She's (bride) not good enough for him" "That should be me standing up there" "Our kids would be better off with us, not her" "Who does she think she is" Etc etc

Until it reaches a fever pitch and the hamster falls out of the wheel smoking on the cage floor, and either she storms out in a public huff or starts heckling and screaming at them at the alter until she's dragged out.

Joaquino7997 · 2022-01-21T18:38:52+00:00

Anyone - any sane person, anyway - reading this article would agree that this man did the right thing.

Yes I have my issues.

Her statement is vague on purpose. We're not EVEN gonna go down that rabbit hole!

He should have married me.

The fact that her own kids kept this from her speaks volumes to her and her character.

How do I get over this hurt and pain that I feel?

Well, now that she's kicked her kids out, she's an empty-nester now. She could get some fish. At least they'll be submerged underwater and won't have to hear her cry her eyes out over single-handedly pushing her family away.

wtbrift · 2022-01-21T18:22:04+00:00

I really hate it when people are the type to "come and showed out".

betabucks666 · 2022-01-21T19:44:53+00:00

I broke up with my ex

I feel betrayed

pick both

The-truth-hurts1 · 2022-01-21T20:52:57+00:00

I think Kevin Samuels has a saying “You don’t carry before you marry”.. literally you shouldn’t have a kid until you are married.. the issue is to “keep” men, women baby trap them.. they then stick around for the kids … case in point.. if this woman didn’t have kids she would have been sent back to the gutter many years ago.. The issue is her, not him.. and as the old saying goes.. men have sex with who the can because the woman is the gatekeeper of sex.. women marry who they can because the men are the gatekeeper of marriage

giantgladiator · 2022-01-21T21:23:46+00:00

I am the mother of my kids

Yeah that says a lot

umockdev · 2022-01-21T21:51:32+00:00

Him saying he doesn't want to marry her because she is a drama queen and her proving his statement by literally creating drama as a response is truly poetic.

Profitglutton · 2022-01-21T22:34:58+00:00

Sounds like she’s just mad she wasn’t able to divorce rape him.

smokedspirit · 2022-01-21T19:41:25+00:00

Gotta give it to the dad there! Stayed till the kids could see for themselves what their mother was like.

The fact they knew they had to hide it from her knew she was unhinged.

He's raised his kids right. Let's hope he's has a happy married life now

panzer22222 · 2022-01-22T01:42:59+00:00

lol, she literally proved everything he said about her being a bad mum and drama queen. She put her own kids out (16 and 18) for not telling her, goes over to the ex and tries and start a fight with him and his wife.

Let me guess the first kid was an 'accident', 'oh honey, no idea how I fell pregnant...lets marry'.

Even her own kids agree with the dad.

Profitglutton · 2022-01-21T22:28:35+00:00

She called her ex a good man and is one of the few who actually admitted to having issues. Which tells me the true issues is that she was crazier than a bunch of rocks.

SCCock · 2022-01-21T19:42:50+00:00

Gets called a drama queen, then acts like a drama queen.

NoonTimeHoopsMVP · 2022-01-22T15:52:49+00:00

Marry before you carry!

Old_snowboarder · 2022-01-22T18:30:14+00:00

Women could fix this problem so easy - have kids after you're married. I suppose the terrible lack of freely available contraception in third world countries like the USA might also be an issue.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-01-21T18:07:15+00:00

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AmbitiousHornet · 2022-01-21T18:21:05+00:00

This is just absolutely laughable.

LotBuilder · 2022-01-21T20:01:55+00:00

Is this a joke or is she that blind?

Daman_1985 · 2022-01-21T21:05:23+00:00

Respect for the man that stay in that marriage only for his kids.

The other way around, probably it would be hard for him to meet his children.

DecimatingDarkDeceit · 2022-01-21T22:14:21+00:00

'' put my kids out '' - translation: I kinda - tehcnically abandoned ' em (!)

Hy3w_mong0u5 · 2022-01-22T06:20:49+00:00

Ex bf gets married

Ex gf GOES TO HIS HOUSE TO GO FULL KAREN ON HIM TO THE POINT WHERE THE POLICE ARE CALLED

Yeah, I think he's nailed it with the drama queen accusation, honey.

kidruhil · 2022-01-21T23:52:50+00:00

Lmao just wow

ATHdelphinos · 2022-01-22T01:43:54+00:00

she tried to fight them lmao

CryingMadGirl · 2022-01-22T02:44:13+00:00

Good for him for leaving. Sadly he had to stay or this crazy woman would have taken his kids away from him

I-am-the-lul · 2022-01-22T07:22:38+00:00

I am glad that the kids were on the man's side in all of this, this indicates that she was so messed up that even they figured out correctly whose side they should be on.

LordFlakkko · 2022-01-22T07:46:19+00:00

This guy did it right. No child support no alimony stuck around and gave his kids a good life even with his bitch baby momma and now he found a real woman to marry. Good for him

Av8ist · 2022-01-22T10:10:10+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 he called the police on me because I tried to fight him and his wife...

_No-Waifu-No-Laifu_ · 2022-01-22T20:56:08+00:00

Whoa lady sounds like he has you pegged perfectly considering you kicked your kids out and tried to fight a stranger lmao.

MIL2017sti · 2022-01-23T18:26:40+00:00

My guy served a prison sentence.. geez

damn_montana · 2022-01-21T17:57:26+00:00

Laughs in Waluigi*

C20H25N3O-C21H30O2 · 2022-01-21T20:21:31+00:00

Good dad. Completely reasonable and logical argument on his side.

ProfitHour4768 · 2022-01-21T20:53:04+00:00

Tell her to go seek therapy

SpiritualEnema · 2022-01-21T22:28:18+00:00

She seems fun

NoFaithInThisSub · 2022-01-21T22:43:02+00:00

bloody drama queens.

Horneyj · 2022-01-22T01:15:21+00:00

"would have not been a good wife because i was a drama queen"

"he even called the police on me because i tried to fight him and his wife .

Totally oblivious.

ThatGuyNicho · 2022-01-22T08:24:19+00:00

audacity

What a very interesting word choice. He had the AUDACITY to think she would not have been a good wife. He! Having a negative opinion about HER? Well that just, it just is wrong. It's crazy! It's not allowed! System error!

ElJJTP · 2022-01-22T09:33:08+00:00

Sounds like he dodge a bullet to me.

Sagefullygood · 2022-01-22T13:14:15+00:00

God what a psycho

Obnoxiousjimmyjames · 2022-01-22T16:59:53+00:00

Women are self destructing.

Rayzor_debiker · 2022-01-24T09:27:31+00:00

She admits he is a good man.

So the obvious problem is her.

gwizz006 · 2022-01-21T22:08:06+00:00

2022-01-22T00:20:04+00:00

"they said I would have came and showed out"

"I got so angry I put my kids out for not telling me"

"He even called the police on me because I tried to fight him and his wife"

Yeah, I fucking wonder why everyone thinks you're crazy...

UpsettingFeverSeven · 2022-01-22T01:04:26+00:00

If this was on the aita sub everyone would be on her bucket

lurkdontpost1 · 2022-01-22T01:37:41+00:00

I wouldn't invite my ex to my wedding either. Whys she so surprised lol

Lord_Kano · 2022-01-22T04:13:07+00:00

Her reaction and unwillingness to accept accountability tells me that he was right.
Her kids knew it too.

Radamus1976 · 2022-01-22T05:38:28+00:00

He dodged a bullet and he knew it. He was also smart enough to stick around long enough so that he wouldn't have to deal with her drama that she would cause with "visitation" of his children.

She surely needs to take a long walk off a short pier.

JayMeadows · 2022-01-22T06:27:16+00:00

He literally JUST. TOLD YOU.

Damn, lady...

MrHistoryLesson · 2022-01-22T08:25:40+00:00

Imagine being such a fucked up screw-up, sometimes i really feel like there should be a way for these people to press a button and re-do the shit they fucked up - but lets be serious, the woman here would never done any better a second time around, same goes for 99,99%, of all people like her.

Imagine believing you own someone because you birthed their kid...

withrowsprings · 2022-01-22T15:37:32+00:00

She watched the preview, know the ratings and word-of-mouth talks...

Now she complains the movie sucks

Yllo_yllo · 2022-01-22T01:04:27+00:00

"....because I'm a drama queen.. " No shit. You proved yourself completely with your visit, attacking them both. The guy was brave and committed to stay as long as he did.

YesYesYesVeryGood · 2022-01-22T04:19:30+00:00

2018 minus 17 is like they got together in 2001.

I mean, when she was trying to fight his new wife, was she into Street Fighter 2 style fighting or Mortal Kombat? Meh, I'll also accept Mario Kart as an answer if it is a better analogy.

Flesh_Pillow5 · 2022-01-29T11:11:36+00:00

So he did a prison sentence essentially. Not all prisons are the same. She should get help and get over idiocy

Beneficial-Shower-42 · 2022-01-30T00:58:06+00:00

Date someone for 17 years? WTF did you think was going to happen?

iamfab69 · 2022-02-03T16:45:15+00:00

damn

NeverIncelAgain · 2022-01-22T16:54:06+00:00

Actually, I will probably get shunned for saying this, but I can relate. In a different way though.

In my case, it wasn't just a matter of a guy not marrying me (but yes that's part of it too), but it was also a matter of a guy not giving me a baby after a few years together but then giving an AP/mistress a baby instead in one case, and a matter of a guy not giving me BF/GF status after many months together yet giving that to a AP/mistress only 1 month after meeting her in another case. And now most recently, a guy who wouldn't even so much as have sex with me after a few months of seeing me, now bragging to me about 2 girls he was f-ing the whole time he saw me, including earlier the same day that he then visited me and had me kiss him.
It hurts. A lot. In the first example involving the affair baby, I found out the same way as OP...through Facebook. None of our mutual "friends" ever alerted me beforehand. Only notification I got was a sister (who no longer speaks to me) and a cousin each asking me "he has a kid???!!!!" a month or so after I found out, which just served to embarrass me more about the whole situation. My experiences made me feel devalued because here I was, the nice girl who bided my time, just to end up having my time royally wasted, while the same time-waster gave a girl what I wanted but in much, much less time. It feels like the ultimate ripoff. People call her "crazy", but truth is, I can see why she would be upset. If anything, being treated like that is enough to drive ANYONE to sound "crazy" or "drama-queen". Hiding a wedding is another type of betrayal in and of itself. I still resent my cousin for getting married years back and literally EVERYONE in my family keeping her wedding secret from me, because, as it turns out, I was not included in the invite, unlike all my other family members. I also deeply resent my family for then keeping her pregnancy a secret from me, and fake "friends" for keeping 2 different friends' pregnancies secret from me too, as if I'm some kind of small mentally challenged child who isn't ready to understand the birds and the bees. At least in this girl's case, she got kids to show for it. I never did.

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She's angry her baby daddy didn't marry her. She had his kids! He should marry her, right!? Waatgm?

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Title	She's angry her baby daddy didn't marry her. She had his kids! He should marry her, right!? Waatgm?
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Date	January 21, 2022 5:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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