I was going to title this, 'Forgive me father for I have sinned.'.

This is, simply the most evil I have ever seen in the Mens movement spectrum. My wife and I (well my wife really, they were her friends..) have some friends. They were married. They bought a house, then divorced. Then got back together. Then divorced.

I have now moved her out of his house twice now. Yesterday was the worst. She is a monster.

He has 2 kids from a previous marriage. I am not crystal clear on if he pays child support for both. One might have aged out. But without a doubt he pays on at least one. Plus, he has a kid between him and her. ALL of the debt is in his name. When they were married it was structured that way. I forget the reasoning at the time. Maybe she had credit problems in the past? Maybe she was being proactive?

But the result is kind of chilling. She walks away from the marriage with there daughter. When she walked out of that house she has ZERO debt. The house is in his name. The old credit card debt is in his name. So before I say anything else the situation is already not balanced.

(before I go any farther, they are both factory workers. He makes more then she does, but I find it hard to believe it is a lot more then she does, I mean, it is factory work for both of them. How much more can he possibly make?)

Anyways. My task for yesterday was to help her move all her shit out of his garage.
My wife and I get there and the first thing she says, I mean the very first thing is 'You know, his child support has been upped to 60%. Pa upped it statewide!'.

All I could think was, 'before or after taxes? Holy fuck. How could I live on 40% of my check?'. Then she says the real shocker, 'Oh then there is the alimony too.'.

I don't know how much she is getting. To be honest, if I had asked I am not sure I could have contained myself. But 60% of a factory workers check + alimony .... guys, this chick is employed. She doesn't need the alimony. Remember what I said about debt?

Then she says, 'And there is the IRA that asshole tried to hide from me. $60,000. Everyone is telling me that I have no right to it, but I don't care. Even if I can only get $500 that is $500 he won't get!'.

Then there is this, this was just great, 'And the house. He is probably going to loose the house. But that is fine. It won't hurt me. My name isn't on anything and both of our lawyers agree that I won't be affected if he looses the house.'. (20 minutes or so goes by) 'I hope he sells the house. Cause I am gonna take all the profit from it.'.

I got nothing. There is a part of me that is kind of ashamed that I didn't walk away in the morning. When she started with this shit I was pretty pissed. I can't help it, I like the guy. She has been raking him over the coals for years now.

And my wife. My wife is great. She doesn't want to fight with her either. But as soon as we were alone my wife told me how much of an ass her friend was. My wife said they both fucked up that relationship pretty equally and he does not deserve to be treated like this.