Accept no excuses for aggressive behaviour from men. There are no excuses for a man to even raise his voice at you. Ever. My partner never did once, not even when he was dying from cancer.

My partner was a kind and gentle man. He passed away in my arms a few weeks ago. Most of his last words were asking if the people around him were OK or telling people he loved them. This man barely had the strength to breathe and he wanted to make sure I was alright. All through his illness he never raised his voice or got grumpy or demanding. He never stopped thanking me and showing his appreciation.

He spent the last of his energy making I would be provided for and would be comfortable.

Even when he was delirious with the illness he never once raised his voice to me. He never got angry or aggressive. He was always gentle.

He was going through the most horrific thing any of us can imagine and still maintained his compassion and consideration for all the people around him.

There is no excuses. If a man says its because he is stressed or because he is in pain or because he is ill. That is complete nonsense. There is no excuses. Ever.

Accept no aggression at all. Not even a raised voice. There is no excuses. Ever.

Edit: Thank you sisters for the wonderful messages of support. I appreciate it very much. Love and respect to you all ♥️♥️♥️