Applies to generic white males

thowawaywookie · 2020-11-06T13:31:26+00:00

There is also this idea that women from non western countries are more feminine and submissive because their isn't feminism there. They think all western women are femi nazis and brain washed to be too masculine and are therefore unattractive. Thats why they fetisize women from different countries because they think they are submissive.

Thattonertho · 2020-11-06T11:07:56+00:00

I saw a bio on tinder that read "if it ain't foreign it's borin"

Actually gags

cherriesandmilk · 2020-11-06T15:43:36+00:00

Black men do this too, a lot.

mimiandthekeyboard · 2020-11-06T16:25:49+00:00

I had a guy call me his "persian princess" before.......dude......I'm from Egypt......

laserkatze · 2020-11-06T14:58:52+00:00

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lilithdianara · 2020-11-06T12:53:38+00:00

Exactly. Exotic isn’t a compliment at all.

Sincerely, a WOC.

tauruspiscescancer · 2020-11-06T13:23:35+00:00

As a Black woman, I’ve been fetishized by anyone not Black lol. It’s been especially bad with the white men, but Asian and (white) Hispanic men have definitely seen me as “exotic” before as well.

Journalist_Full · 2020-11-06T15:29:17+00:00

I am from south US and even I, a white person get called exotic and its creepy. Makes my skin crawl. Those guys are usually the creepiest and most concerning as far as safety goes.

I have thick eyebrows, yellow/olive undertones, I speak 3 languages and my accent is a bit different. They even do this shit to other white people down here its bothersome.

Women just get fetishized no matter what we do :(

CatlovesMoca · 2020-11-06T16:57:38+00:00

Especially guys who want to "try" to be with a woman of color.

If he starts saying things like "I've never been with a ..." Or "Have you ever dated a ..." run!

tiavarga · 2020-11-06T17:48:05+00:00

If I hear anything about a “spicy Latina” (I’m not a salsa) or a mention that they love to dance Salsa, I’m out.

_fuyumi · 2020-11-06T11:42:34+00:00

The only thing that should be referred to as exotic is food, spices and music “How pleasantly exotic!”

Gambit12345 · 2020-11-06T14:21:04+00:00

My ex is white and I’m Hispanic. He used to call me his black girlfriend because my skin is tan. He didn’t acknowledge my culture at all except for a Spanish word here and there. He also said I wasn’t Hispanic that I was american. It was weird, I don’t think he ever saw me as Hispanic. I’m weary of ever dating any man of a different background who won’t acknowledge or attempt to understand my culture

Hmtnsw · 2020-11-06T16:54:39+00:00

I'm a white Latina whose Latina side gets dismissed because I'm very white passing. I get told I'm lying about being Hispanic.

I prefer non-white men when dating/finding men attractive and it is crazy because I'm told I have a fetish for Asian and Latin men. But it's ok for white men to make fun and turn around and claim how every man wants to fuck an Asian woman/they are the best to fuck and women who have "Jungle Fever" for black men is OK and hot but if you "Yellow Fever" you need to leave Asian men alone and stick to your own because Asians "can't satisfy you like you deserve" like they [white & black men] have had sex with Asian men and know their dick game. And if you have sex with a Latino it's just "why you fucking a Mexican?"

🙄

Shit gets on my nerves.

amievenreal99 · 2020-11-06T12:15:35+00:00

I'm living in Germany. My parents are of middle eastern descent.

Whenever I meet new people, I get hit with the "Where are you from?". Of course, I tell my hometown, but they won't stop. "No, where are you really from? Where are your parents from? What country did your parents come from? Come on, tell us. Why are you hiding it? I really want to know".

As you might guess, it's mostly men. It's not that they don't know it makes me uncomfortable. They enjoy humiliating women.

mscristalconnors · 2020-11-07T01:49:21+00:00

Men love that I’m Latina but HATE my temper. I’m not a fetish sir, I’m a whole ass woman. 🤪

cremebruleecakes · 2020-11-06T17:18:41+00:00

Can confirm:

"Hey Jenny (not rlly my name), my exotic beauty"

This, from a white guy I was talking to for months already. I just replied, "welp" (pre-FDS) out of disappointment. Should've just blocked.

2020-11-06T21:25:29+00:00

I have a foreign name but all parts or my family have been here since the 1800's. I had a guy reach out to me and ask me 'where are you from.?' When I answered my state, he unmatched me. Apparently, being American isn't unique enough.

2020-11-07T00:57:48+00:00

Or talks about how chocolate your skin is while breathing heavily because his porn-addicted butt is too lazy to work out and eats too much fast food. I had a white Hispanic guy I dated continuously talk about his "light-skin ex" like he's trying to prove he's dated a black woman and therefore is attractive to women of my race. Yet she left him so must not have been that great and gave him the most BS excuse and I don't even think he knows it. Why he kept mentioning her skin tone, IDK, but it's so weird to hear a white person call a black person "light skin". lol.

InayahDaneen · 2020-11-07T07:39:27+00:00

That’s a big red flag ! Brown girl of Mid East/central asian bg here, even brown men have this strange view towards non-brown women or women of different cultures. They fetishize white and black western women as some easy lay. They also spout off nonsense like “a fob wife will be submissive, don’t get a brown girl from the west since she’s infected with feminism”. I avoid such men now.

Ni-You · 2020-11-06T13:07:15+00:00

I am sick and tired of being called exotic by white people who are so bland they can't handle spice levels higher than peanut butter.

waddamelone · 2020-11-06T11:22:40+00:00

Aint this the muhf*cking truth!

Street_Narwhal_3361 · 2020-11-06T19:25:32+00:00

I had an ex with a semi hostile mom who’d ask me pointed questions. It did she not like it when I pointed out I’ve got Native blood and that because we lived in the Southwest it’s was her red head ass that was exotic. Lady I’m common AF where I’m from and it’s you that sticks out, colonizer.

CrazyPaine · 2020-11-06T12:00:20+00:00

😬😬😬😬😬 OH NAW.

Charming_Mix7930 · 2020-11-06T16:15:03+00:00

As a whie passing woman with "exotic features" (dad is half brown with brown skin and my great grand parents are like the UN) it is a constant pain. Why do they think that could ever be a compliment?

wayward_woman · 2020-11-07T05:24:05+00:00

Yes. But I'd say that any man of any race that fetishizes women of other races is gross.

werker115 · 2020-11-07T01:56:42+00:00

Where do we draw the line? I do not like men who immediately ask about my ethnic background based on my appearance- I tell them I am American (regardless of where my parents are from). But at the same time I have a foreign name, and sometimes guys won’t even inquire about my name or where it’s from. It really is a name I am sure they have never heard of and would be unable to place (my parents are from a tiny, obscure country).

So sometimes I get annoyed by being “othered” but then other times I question a mans interest in me if he never even asks about my name or it’s background.

busk15 · 2020-11-08T08:54:39+00:00

I think it applies to all males, tbh.

2020-11-08T13:15:39+00:00

The only thing that should be termed as "exotic" is an invasive plant species - and even then, we need to change the terminology instead of being complacent. Jfc, I know white women have it bad, but LVM just keep dehumanizing WOC, don't they?

Title	Applies to generic white males
Author	AlienUtterings
Upvotes	1141
Comments	75
Date	November 6, 2020 10:50 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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