Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective.

NockerJoe · 2023-05-12T20:22:25+00:00

Are you seriously asking why people who want to have sex and then just have sex immediately with a mutual understanding of how their sexuality works don't build up resentment over not having sex?

belachewhm · 2023-05-12T21:25:21+00:00

Respect is earned. You sound entitled or maybe you think you should be respected just because you’re a woman. Treat people with respect and you’ll get it back

TheSongsInYourHead · 2023-05-13T00:49:38+00:00

I have a bi friend in his late 20s that has never successfully courted a woman, but is currently seeing 3 men casually.

Women are just more difficult and frustrating to date.

Women are pickier, more easily offended, more demanding and they're afraid of men.

The mutual understanding that gay guys have for each other isn’t much different than heterosexual guys that have buddies..

Exactly. If me and my friends were gay I could just straight up ask one of them for sex. If they were down we'd have sex, if not they'd say no and we'd move on.

I also cannot see a man being as high strung about cold approaches as women are.

"If I'm at the supermarket I'm on a mission. I'm not trying to date"

You can talk to men anytime, anywhere, they don't care.

In summary it's cause women make dating hard.

Professional-Ant8445 · 2023-05-12T19:24:22+00:00

No one resents attractive women more than other women...

Reptheft · 2023-05-12T20:19:49+00:00

On top of being easier gay men are a lot more upfront and honest about what they want. They'll tell you outright if they want a big strong daddy or an obedient little twink, and don't get offended when they hear what the other dude wants. Dialogue's more open and there's less BS to sort through.

Specialist-Action-33 · 2023-05-12T21:19:08+00:00

Gay men really don't have such standards as straight women do. Not often are gay men looking for tall men with 6+ inches like women are, plus its hella painful. Most gay men are looking for partners from certain categories like femboys or bears for satisfaction. Add the fact that men's sexuality is different than a woman's, you can have sex as a gay man much easier than a straight man. Just go to any gay club and see how easy it is to get laid with little or no effort.

TurtleDickSlap · 2023-05-13T00:46:15+00:00

You know why gay men are much happier?

They don't deal with women.

Edit: being gay makes you gay. Lol get it?

All snark aside, it's that men communicate with men much easier than with women. If a man wants something, he says it or just goes for it. Gay men don't have to play the stupid games that straight men have to play to get what they want.

Physically, men are far more accepting of male body types than women are of men. I tell my friends "if you want to experience what it's like to be desirable, get on Grindr and go to gay bars." It gives stunning insight into how much nicer it is to be in a sexual market of true equals (as opposed to the heterosexual dynamic where men are expected, by default, to make all the overtures and effort to attract and please women). Approaching, being approached, rejection, and rejecting are vastly different in gay male spaces.

Chemical_Major_1403 · 2023-05-12T21:27:13+00:00

That just prove that women control the sexual market and it's working on their pace and favor

jay10033 · 2023-05-12T19:26:37+00:00

Women disrespect and have vitriol for other women at a level that men will never ever reach in generations.

Separate-Ground3196 · 2023-05-12T22:14:11+00:00

straight women seem to be the most resented of any gender or sexuality group

Glad to hear that homophobia doesn’t exist anymore. Heterophobia is in now.

UpstairsValue6799 · 2023-05-13T08:04:15+00:00

NGL you come of at best as a Man hating liberal, all men including gays, or worse, an OG conservative.

Secondly, women do a piss poor job of showing that they even like average men. If more bisexual men go for men, its simply because women look and behave as if they dont need men.

Gay men have a plethora of terminology where they describe the various archetypes they find attractive - Hunk, bear, otter, twink etc. They by their description of each other show the wide variety of men in their culture that there is someone out there who loves their body as they are.

Women by contrast seem mildly repulsed my men. They will put up with our sexuality for a relationship and maybe for provider abilities, but never truly desire intimacy fro m us. That is reserved fror the upper echelons of men who bring about a sexual reaction in them.

Believe me, If I could suck a dick without feeling dysphoria overit, I would switch teams ina aheart beat, not because men make it so ease but because women make it easy to not engage with them

Relative_Bee8356 · 2023-05-12T22:26:42+00:00

It's because all the stuff you've ever read about the "women are wonderful" effect was total bullshit. Women are very harshly judged for all kinda of shit and a lot of men don't really comprehend us as full human beings.

KayRay1994 · 2023-05-12T22:03:29+00:00

cause male attraction in itself is far less complex and more flexible - think of how straight men find over half the women they walk past attractive - gay men have it a very similar way as such they’re in a bit of a feedback loop of that element being the dominant aspect of gay attraction - as a bi man who relates to feminine attraction more, i found this to be quite frustrating and only when opening my dating apps (tinder, hinge) to men and women, did i truly realize how boring a lot of these profiles are - now, they may not be boring people - but given that we’re going by profiles alone, most of these men (like we’re talking 9/10) didn’t do it for me. They would be physically attractive, yes, but you can only scroll through so many profiles that do the exact same thing before getting bored (and sure, lots of women do the same, but where as it is 9/10 men, its more 6-7/10 women)

dag44 · 2023-05-12T19:22:09+00:00

Gay men are still men, and any man can be a misogynist.

Safinated · 2023-05-12T19:31:25+00:00

Women aren’t as indiscriminately horny as men, and are thus resented for it. They are also weaker and thus seen as inferior possessions that are owned. I don’t know why this is so difficult to grasp

I daresay gay men could be as possessive as straight men, but they can’t physically and mentally dominate a man like they can a woman, partially due to the closet and feminism

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Conscious_Ad_6572 · 2023-05-12T21:42:54+00:00

Maybe your problem is you think guys only think about sex.

Seriously traditional woman rocks

Outside_Ad8196 · 2023-05-13T08:46:39+00:00

I’m a bi guy - actually, the correct label for my sexuality would be “femininity regardless of sex” so I thought my insight would be relevant.

Even I would not pick a woman over a guy, granted they both fit my taste. I dated women more, because obviously 80% of women are feminine enough for me while maybe 1% of men.

I will pick who’s the best match for me. If the guy is a better fit in terms of personality, lifestyle etc I will pick him 100%. I don’t know where you got that from ?

Title	Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective.
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Date	May 12, 2023 7:20 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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