Are "marriageable" women truly rare today? Why or why not?

HighestTierMaslow · 2023-07-14T15:24:00+00:00

Marriageable PEOPLE are rare today. Due to the economy and plethora of common poor character traits revolving around self centeredness and lack of accountability/self awareness. The amount of people I interact with who have NO emotional intelligence is just astounding honestly.

All you guys on here complain "women dont find men attractive on OLD apps blah blah blah" and all I can think is "yeah, had no issues finding men on OLD apps that meet my threshold for looks, but GOOD LUCK finding a date who can 1) hold a conversation, just an actual conversation and 2) doesnt make everything about themselves"

It literally eliminates 75% of men on OLD apps, having those 2 criteria.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-07-14T14:46:47+00:00

According to the number of invites currently on my refrigerator, they aren’t that uncommon.

Both young men and young women are struggling in this economy though, as are some of the older folks. Younger people are waiting longer to get married, and that makes sense. No newlywed couple wants to spend their first year of marriage in their parents’ home.

Creation_Soul · 2023-07-14T15:47:59+00:00

they are not that rare, but they usually get paired up early, get broken up rarely and when they are single again they are hard find. In my social group, almost everyone married the person they were in a relationship with somewhere around 23-24.

OpticalEpilepsy · 2023-07-14T15:12:02+00:00

Yes its rare if you define marriageable in a way that limits it to a very low percentage to make a problem of nobody wanting you seem like its instead a problem of nobody is good enough for you

SillyMushroomTip · 2023-07-14T16:22:54+00:00

Marriage is dead.

Look what happened to Kevin Costner. Had a official prenup and it got thrown out in court. awarded 150k a month for "child support"

januaryphilosopher · 2023-07-14T16:23:35+00:00

Depends on what kind of woman you want to marry.

Filmguy000 · 2023-07-14T16:51:56+00:00

Sorry guys. Yes most women are NOT marriage material at all. They literally can't get married because they are all hooking up with me. I have three huge ranches out in Central Coast, California, the Midwest and another in the East Coast of Florida. I literally rotate my stays in each one every week. That way the drive/flights aren't so bad for the woman that come over.

All of my parties are 21+ minimum and I have a full time staff that confirms the ages of all my guests. So long story short, if you are currently in college, working and you have a wife or a girlfriend, chances are that she knows me. I am the reason that the red pill demonizes "girl's night out" or "girl trips". And there is a 96.7% chance that your woman has been to my house (my researchers confirmed this with many studies).

So no, women are not marriage material because they are mostly my women. And chances are that they are dating you/married to you so they have more money to send me a small percentage. I'm not a pimp. I'm an expensive lover. They keep loving me, paying me and I keep em' satisfied.

Long story short, stay away from my women. And to my women who are reading this, thank you and I hope to see you again soon.

mlo9109 · 2023-07-14T14:41:53+00:00

Marriageable people (regardless of gender) are rare today. Nobody wants a commitment anymore. Even within a committed relationship, people (of all genders) are cheaters, poly, addicted to porn, or just generally don't do commitment.

That's not even factoring in contributing to the partnership to keep up a home and family together (childcare, chores, etc.) As much as I'd like to find my person, as a straight woman, I'd rather not be stuck parenting a man baby who can't even wipe his own ass.

El_Don_94 · 2023-07-14T15:09:38+00:00

There is a phrase, when the student is ready the master will appear.

SierraMistSoda · 2023-07-14T14:40:51+00:00

Any women that wants to get married.

RP men definition, any women who is an adult yet has not lived as an adult, and doesn't understand she has adult rights

Feeling_Capital_8774 · 2023-07-14T15:17:27+00:00

Marriage is dead in the west, and the media claims women don't want it any way.

Besides, Marriage typically involved virgin men and women who were starting families, that essentially doesn't exist anymore. You wanna spend 40 years knowing that your wife got pipe from a dozen other men?

Wide-Illustrator2906 · 2023-07-14T15:54:09+00:00

They're readily available. Much like women, guys obsess over the minority of women. They want an 18-year old e-th0t virgin that releases their inner pron star JUST for them. Just like women want tall, dark, handsome, and wealthy. 0.02% of men. It's a figment of their imagination. Women 18-24 are having just as much trouble getting laid as guys are. There's just as many single women out there looking for love. People, guys AND women need to get over themselves. They aren't hot enough to be picky.

Nellylocheadbean · 2023-07-14T18:27:43+00:00

They’re typically already married. The way I see it is that most ppl that are “‘marriage material” are already married by age 25 and the ppl who are not are dating each other and having these dysfunctional relationships. They’re at the bottom scrambling to find a decent relationship, watching red pill, saying I’m independent and don’t need no man etc while the marriageable ppl are at the top happy in their relationships and don’t even know what the dating world is like. There’s a saying that if a woman isn’t married by 30 there’s something wrong with her & I believe it has some truth to it (obviously this is for women who want to be married).

Sophiatab · 2023-07-14T21:07:26+00:00

There are plenty of "marriage" women today, but they are not wanted by most men. Too many men want porn star looks (but an intact hymen) combined with complete domestic servitude while never expecting the men to contribute anything to the relationship.

Ok-Expression7575 · 2023-07-14T17:46:19+00:00

They either marry very early <21 or mature into it ~30

NeveruseTren · 2023-07-14T15:45:41+00:00

Men protecting and providing for a woman in exchange for sex is already an unfair unequal exchange in favor of the woman. Doesn’t matter where you go in the world. Of course the extreme end is in the west the laws and behaviors of women are so awful that even though men who historically take that bad unfair deal refuse to at this point. I would say most women in the west don’t deserve to be wives. A lot more worthy women in poorer countries untouched by feminism.

keenenandraz · 2023-07-14T16:15:30+00:00

Well, first, we have to define marriageable. I'm assuming you mean women most men would deem having the traits of a good wife. What are those triats? Well, let's look at what men have mostly vetted for in the past few hundred years.

Beauty - I think most meet that requirement nowadays.

Modesty - Those thotting it up on IG, TikTok, and OF will likely be disqualified here.

Loyalty - How many have a history of monogamous relationships? How many divorce and leave their men despite vows? What's the current rate of cheating and paternity fraud?

Reputation - Men across the globe have always taken into account the reputation of a woman. So much so, that the male relatives of women whose reputation was compromised in a way that could affect their marriage prospects would duel other men to the death. They knew a tarnished reputation would greatly affect the number of men who would pursue and commit to her. This is still true today. And women know this, which is why they constantly try to push the idea that the past and their reputation shouldn't matter.

Nurturing - How many are empathetic and put the good of family above themselves? How many are willing to destroy the family for their own personal happiness?

Respect - How many respect their boyfriend's/husband's opinion, when he tells them that he doesn't like something or has a boundary? If he says he doesn't like something she wears or certain individuals she hands out with, is she going to hear him out or complain and do it anyway?

Value - How many provide value to their men or have even thought about how they can provide value? Vs those that only think about what men can do for them and never what they can reciprocate? Who is an asset vs a liability?

Peace - How many are agreeable vs argumentative? How many have baggage from past relationships making them hard to deal with? How many have mental issues? How many find instability exciting and stability boring? How many are bringing kids from a sketchy baby daddy to the party?

Those were the main ones I could think of, but taking those primary standards into account, how many modern women are marriageable do you think?

John_Oakman · 2023-07-14T14:15:03+00:00

Depending on what type of marriage of course (whether it be traditional, progressive, modern, or just the bare legal minimum). If just going by the bare legal minimum notional existence of an individual is enough (gender is mostly irrelevant in this case even). Progressive/modern any functional adult is enough. For traditional... we don't talk about the oppression of women by the patriarchy in polite liberal society.

lolthankstinder · 2023-07-14T15:49:21+00:00

Marriageability depends on standards. Also, being marriageable doesn’t ensure mutual marriageability. Far less women than men are willing to marry a partner that just eats healthy and exercises regularly. Thus, overall marriageable women are not rare, but mutually marriageable women aka marriageable women to whom you are also marriageable may be exceedingly rare.

zoxzoxzo · 2023-07-14T16:59:25+00:00

I guess it depends on what you consider "marriageable" and also in which part of the world you live in, because there is a huge difference between western and eastern women for example.

MountainDangerous404 · 2023-07-14T17:12:44+00:00

If your goal or baseline standard is something fairly inflexible like a virgin then yes.

Let's be realistic here though. Enormous numbers of women get married in a short space of time in their 30s because they wake up one morning and get desperate. I don't see this sort of marriage, which is becoming more common, as durable and resilient, or desirable for anyone really.

I actually respect women who stay single in their 30s out of choice more. The metamorphosis from former party/promiscuous girl to pretend Hausfrau is just weird on some level to me. It feels surreal. Like something from a Borges or Fowles novel.

I'll always defend honest "sluts" before ersatz domesticity (tradcon women for example).

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2023-07-14T17:00:02+00:00

The problem is people can change so who might have been a good catch now doesn’t mean they’ll stay that way forever.

If you want to get a decent idea of how she’ll be in the future, pay attention to her relationship with her dad. If he’s not in the picture then that’s not necessarily good or bad but it depends on why he’s not there. Barring that, observe how her mom is and if she’s not there, then you’ll have to just pay close attention to her behavior around other people and any other family members she does have.

2023-07-14T18:56:39+00:00

Yes.

And what is even considered a "marriageable" woman in the first place?

Usually women who dont seem like a full on disaster to be around.

2023-07-14T21:59:23+00:00

nooo we wanna get married don’t believe that hype!!

Comfortable-Dare-307 · 2023-07-15T19:09:53+00:00

Doesn't matter if they are. Women will still divorce you for some lame excuse like another man, or they just get bored. Women today don't know how to be loyal. They all are liars and cheats.

CloudsTasteGeometric · 2023-07-16T02:14:05+00:00

Not particularly. There has definitely been a downtick due to the rise of OnlyFans as a side hustle and sugar dating.

But it's been accompanied by an uptick as more women are going to college and earning better salaries, which is a big point in their favor.

There's a massive shortage of marriageable MEN though. Men aren't graduating college and when they are they aren't making nearly enough money. Granted that's more a systemic issue. Mental health issues in men are also skyrocketing, which are instant dealbreakers. Less systemic is the rise of TRP and Manosphere obsessed guys, which is a great way for a man to manually remove himself from the dating pool.

FigSubstantial2175 · 2023-07-16T16:20:01+00:00

Over 10 life-time sexual partners and cheating is pretty much guaranteed. So yeah, they're all hoes

Agreeable-Front4808 · 2023-09-24T06:14:35+00:00

It’s rare especially for a woman my age (24), lots of women nowadays are chasing their careers and have extremely unrealistic expectations. I grew up in a traditional values in rural area of the Philippines . I was thought to date for marriage very early on .

Title	Are "marriageable" women truly rare today? Why or why not?
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Date	July 14, 2023 8:37 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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