a majority of men in this sub post about wives who gain weight after getting married, women cheating, women using them for their money, women who they've never talked to theoretically rejecting them, and so on.

Ignoring the fact that men do all the same things- These might all be real world issues but NOT for most of the people POSTING here.

  • How are you worried about your wife gaining weight when you don't have a wife?

  • If you do have a wife, why are you worried about other women being hypergamous?

  • If your wife hasn't cheated on you, why are you so concerned about other women cheating?

  • If your wife has cheated on you, what does that have to do with all other women on the planet?

  • If you aren't wealthy, why are you concerned about women using you for your money?

What benefit do you get from spending time theorizing about imaginary issues you could have in an alternate universe?

It must make you feel good, give you some sense of righteous anger, a dopamine hit, or something else. But what?

If it doesn't make you feel better to judge all women as a monolith and worry about problems that aren't an issue for you, then why do it? Wouldn't your time be better spent growing as a person so that you have something to offer the women you are interested in, then actually meeting women irl?

Isn't it possible that you are creating a self-fulfilling prophesy?

Has it occurred to the men here that they may be actively repulsing women because they are dripping in obvious disdain for them? Women don't tend to find men who actively hate 100% of their gender-- very attractive. If you spend enough time focusing on judgement, jealousy, fear, and rage aimed at women, it becomes easy to sense on you.