Someone recommended me to this sub. Not sure if its okay to talk about my problems on here. So about a month ago my wife said she needed space. We have been having money problems this entire year along with other bs. We have 4 kids between us both. 2 of the children are our own as we both had 1 from previous. She said the other day we should take a break. I dont understand because i dont believe in any of this. I married because we said we aren’t going to leave each other yadda yadda yadda. Now sge done switched up and is saying this. I get it why she wants some space. I feel like we can get past anything. We both agreed divorce isn’t an option. Right now I feel trapped as we just moved into her moms house because we don’t have the money to get a new place. We had to move because of roaches from previous family that just moved in. We have no money, I lost my job last week because her and the kids was sick as hell. She lost her job before that. She doesn’t want me to go stay somewhere else. She said shes scared she wouldnt be able to handle the children when they are with her. I told her I have a room at my brothers i can stay but she won’t let me have my babies over there. So i feel completely trapped here. Im constantly thinking about all of this. She knows i cant go anywhere and im sure shes probably talking to someone or people. I feel like i am living in hell right now. I wanted this to work soooooooo bad and wish it could still work, but i feel like we have to get a divorce. If i dont it is bound to happen i think as this may not work. Is it better to file first our just wait it out. Idk what to do or how to approach life moving forward…. Thank you anyone that reads this