My mind is constantly being blown.

Guys who are almost impossible to converse with ( and I considered myself to be a strong conversationalist who can talk to pretty much anyone of any background) and who cant look you in the eye, who give you second hang cringe just being near them, who couldn’t be charming or smooth if their life depended upon it and yet turn out to have a partner who is comparatively normal even attractive.

Maybe they just threw shit at the wall until it stuck but they don’t seem outgoing enough to be approaching women so it’s mysterious to me.

Or perhaps more insane is the really really dysfunctional folks, addicts and the mentally ill who cannot even care for themselves yet are somehow managing to hold down a relationship.

These aren’t necessarily bad people or unworthy of love, and I’m not sure how healthy their relationships are (probably not very healthy in the case of dysfunctional people) or maybe their partners are enablers or nutcases in their own right but the mere fact they oftentimes even have partners when conventional wisdom tells you that they wouldn’t even be a blip on the radar of the opposite sex, goes to show that most folks here are being WAY too harsh on themselves.