Hey, I'm posting this as a fellow Redditor mentioned this would be a good subreddit. I am scared shitless. Here's what my original post contained (apologies if I am spamming as I honestly do not know how reposts or link posts work).

Hello Reddit,

I've been contemplating for the past 12h what to do and how to handle this situation. It was my fault for having unprotected sex and being promiscuous, and I get that. The woman told me when we were together it was impossible for her to get pregnant, we had fun for a few days and I had not thought much about it. I am now notified that she is pregnant 2 months later and that she wants to keep the baby. She told me that she is totally flexible to whatever I wanted to do since I never planned to have a kid. If I was to infer, I think she wants a kid and had told me she had a couple miscarriages before.

I think I had the closest thing to having a panic attack. Part of me wishes this had never happened as this wasn't planned. Idk if or how to break it to my parents the possibility of having a kid with someone I've only met a couple of times and whom I do not really know. Coming from an Asian immigrant household, I don't know how my mom would take it. I feel like my life is over. I'm turning to Reddit as it's the only way I can possibly talk about my feelings at the moment. I can already imagine all the judgement coming from friends and family. I feel so scared and alone right now. It's been hard to think about anything else at the moment and I've been holed up in my room.

I honestly don't know what to do, and am looking for any sort of advice.

update1: Thanks for all the replies, I will first request a paternity test before anything else and will update

update2: I'm still new to all this and am looking how soon a test can be taken

update3: I'm going to take a break for a few hours