Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym

The gym is a fantastic place to hit on women -- and here's the truth: When women say they don't like being approached by men in the gym, they are really saying that they hate getting hit on by losers who are not socially calibrated and can't take a hint. They do not dislike attention from attractive men who are attractive, built, well groomed, and socially calibrated

You can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely will come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places.

I don't go to bars or nightclubs, so the gym is literally where I have dated the majority of women in my life.

Obviously being strong and in good shape is going to allow you to put your foot in the door more. Be direct or indirect with your opener, be playful and fun during the conversation so an emotional impact can be made so she will want to go out with you, have social skills to know when she is indirectly rejecting you so you don't get creep status and reported to gym staff.

Things to look out for :

• You have to protect your reputation by not hitting on new women in front of women you have approached before.
• when she indirectly rejects you, do not try to build more attraction and still try to pull her because you will get creep status and reported to gym staff
• When she rejects you, just say "okay well it was nice to meet you" or "okay, i'll see you around" do not try and continue to game her. This is how you get creep status.
• if she leaves both headphones in while talking to you, it's a bad sign and you are 99% of the time going to take an L.
• If she rejects you and she sees you again, don't try and converse with her, just give a polite smile and nod.
• When a girl indirectly (or very rarely directly) rejects you, she will most avoid looking directly at you or even in your direction. This is her way of communicating that she does not have any interest in you.
• If she's not asking you any questions during the conversation (meaning it's one sided) you're most likely taking the L and time to move on.

If she says or does any of the following, move on:

• She has a boyfriend or husbands
• She doesn't want to give her number but will offer social media - move on (there are exceptions to this, obviously, but the majority of the time if a chick is feeling you she will give her number
• She's talking to someone else
• Leaves both of her headphones in

How women indirectly reject you in the gym

• If she says "it was good talking to you/ good seeing you" that's her way of saying I no longer want to talk to you
• If she says "well, I'm going to get back to my workout" she's saying she no longer wants to talk
• If she continues working out while you are talking to her, she's indirectly saying she doesn't want you to talk to her
• If she puts her earbuds in while talking to you

In essence, women will do almost everything but directly say they don't want you to talk to them.

Remember: you are only a creep if you can't take a hint when a woman is indirectly rejecting you. There is nothing wrong with approaching women in the gym as long as you have the social intelligence to take hint

This article goes into more detail about how to approach women in the gym: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-at-the-gym?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web