There is a huge emphasis on money and status for heterosexual men to be able to attract women. However, I never understood the logic behind this. We are told that women value a male partner who can be a good provider, but having money and status cannot buy genuine attraction. The question I have for RedPill men is, "Do you really want to be with a woman who is not truly attracted to you and is using you as a walking wallet?"

I am an ugly woman and I am a perfect example to illustrate my point. No matter what you say, no matter what kind of favors you do, no matter how stylish you are, you cannot buy genuine attraction.

I was friendzoned by men who used me for free labor. Never anymore. My stupid friends convinced me to offer my professional services for free for these men, and guess what? After they got what they wanted, they kicked me to the curb.

A distant relative of mine is unattractive. He married a woman who is not attracted to him. She is using him for the lifestyle he can provide. He is a good man for sure, but anyone from outside can tell that she is not genuinely attracted to him. We tried to warn him, but he wouldn't listen to us and he showers his wife with gifts and attention.

I think all of us, men or women, are better off alone than with a partner who is not genuinely attracted to us, yet people don't want to admit this to themselves and prefer to waste money on courses that will never buy attraction. Most women tend to agree with me on this, but most men think that if they are lacking in the looks department, they can compensate with money and status. Lots of older and unattractive men go to poor countries thinking that they'll magically become attractive. If I were a man, I would be devastated. I would castrate myself chemically, I would completely destroy my sex drive. I wouldn't be able to live with the fear that a woman is with me for my money and status.

Do men realize that with this line of thinking they are incentivizing dead bedrooms?

Look, I know tons of rich men who married gold-diggers and these women cheat on their rich husbands with the plumber or the gardener to whom they feel real attraction. Women open up to me and tell me they are not genuinely attracted to their husbands, but they still acknowledge that they are good men. Without even talking openly, I just observe women who are married to rich guys: they way they look at attractive men is palpable. There is an animalistic, raw, instinctual quality that no amount of money, game, confidence can by.