I often converse with numerous young men who harbor grandiose expectations of what they desire their girlfriends to fulfill for them. A prevalent mantra in redpill is 'she's not yours, it's just your turn,' reflecting a cynical view of relationships. A more pragmatic mindset for men could be summarized as 'act today, for tomorrow may not come.' Delaying desires risks regrets, as women swiftly move forward. Seize the moment to engage her fully—challenge her, explore with her across diverse terrains.

Put this in your head: SHE WILL DO NOTHING FOR YOU, DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU DO FOR HER.

Gone are the days when a man’s castle and future plans could sway a woman’s heart. Today demands immediacy; it’s now or never. The dynamics have shifted; red pill philosophies wane as women gain financial independence and the ability to connect effortlessly online, diminishing traditional 'frame management' tactics. Legal and societal changes ensure women’s autonomy, mitigating threats to their reputation or social standing.

Men often fantasize about lifelong commitment with one woman, yet women’s romantic journeys often begin early, shaped by experiences that harden their views on relationships. The disparity is evident among even successful, high-earning men in tech (FAANG), some of whom, despite their wealth and status, struggle to find enduring relationships. Is it their demeanor, or could autism spectrum traits be a factor?

Recent insights gained while traveling shed light on the complexities faced by autistic, high IQ, and affluent men in relationships. Their belief in fairness and equality may hinder their success in a dating landscape where traditional dynamics persist. Expecting reciprocity in gestures or seeking balance in relationships often proves futile.

In relationships, symmetry remains elusive. This sentiment is encapsulated in a Persian poem:

'Your peace, my turmoil

Your life, my death

But you are mine'

Things will never be equal. Logics will never change her mind. Acting sad and unhappy or throwing tantrums because she isn't doing as much as you are doing for her will only push her away. She will do what she wants to do, nothing more nothing less, you might as well close your eyes let her piss on your head, and start believing it's raining.

The reality is stark: you get to keep her, but that’s the extent of it. Silicon Valley’s software engineers falter not due to lack of social skills, wealth, appearance, or physique, but because they view women through the lens of equality—a perspective that doesn’t always resonate in the competitive dating arena. Exceptions exist for those exceptionally attractive, popular, or possessing high status, where such beliefs may be indulged without consequence.

For vast majority of women, do not apply equality or seek reciprocity - even a woman who actually loves you will fail to register that in you with her actions. If she's with you-that's all you'll ever get.