You know the type. I swear this may sound stereotypical, but if your date keeps on claiming that they have been used/betrayed by virtually all of their exes, that should make you at least wonder.

Of course, they could have been burned or taken for a ride once or twice.

But all of their LTR ended on bad terms? All of their exes were evil harpies or unreliable bastards who ''used'' them? Every single one of em?? Sure, lol.

It should at least make you reflect.

If all the world is against you, and everywhere, all people hate you, the problem is probably not them lol.

I don't know much about kinks, but persecution kink is not desirable at all, lmao.

Also, just try to find out what their attitude towards your gender is in general.

Avoid men who view womenkind with a sense of derision and resentment. Does he think all women are after his money? Just ask him what the hell is he even doing on a date with a woman then?

Or even better, ask him to date a man.

Avoid women who are distrustful and bitter about men. All men are Schrodinger's Rapist or fuckboys until proven innocent at their personal court? Ghost, ghost, ghost.

It's not your responsibility to 'prove them wrong.'