I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trash

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bmcapers · 2024-07-15T08:02:20+00:00

I don’t use it.

Quick-Supermarket671 · 2024-07-15T08:16:18+00:00

You should maximise every aspect of your tinder account especially the pictures.

Nice pictures made by a photographer
1 picture of your hobby
1 picture with your face and a nice smile
1 picture with an animal
1 picture with others people where you have fun

If you do that you will have more likes for sure

pissshitfuckcuntcock · 2024-07-15T10:12:32+00:00

I’ve had about 9 dates off Tinder. 3 of them were fatfishes, but other than that the rest were a fun time at worst, and a great time at best. Met one genuinely wonderful person, which i’ll be forever grateful for Tinder for.

ryux999 · 2024-07-15T08:51:35+00:00

are you mad you just can't get matches...

sexygorilla1 · 2024-07-15T08:02:51+00:00

Because it works...Your experience does not reflect others. Maximise every aspects of your looks and archetype you are going for, and get professionally photographed by a reputed dating photographer.

Independent-Sub · 2024-07-15T11:10:58+00:00

I mean…. If all you’re looking for is something to cum inside of, use Grindr. 🤷🏽‍♂️ plenty of holes to use on there.

rojowro86 · 2024-07-15T14:37:45+00:00

Nobody talking about the non-photo aspects of this guys profile. If any of the whiney victim mentality from this post is shining through, no wonder he’s struggling.

Not to mention his other attributes. Fitness? Good job? Clever? Interesting? He may need to make himself more desirable IRL.

KingOnixTheThird · 2024-07-15T15:11:27+00:00

The truth is that what works for one guy, won't necessarily work for another guy.

Shaquille O'Neal is very good down low in the paint but if you asked Shaq to play guard and shoot 3-pointers he would completely suck.

What I am trying to say is just like there's multiple ways to succeed at basketball, there's multiple ways to succeed at dating but in order to succeed, you have to play to your strengths.

If you're not the most attractive man, then maybe Tinder isn't for you.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-07-15T08:07:44+00:00

If you suck at dating apps - don't give advice about dating apps. Tinder has been the way I get the most dates by a long mile

DeepHouseDJ007 · 2024-07-15T09:52:47+00:00

“Buying”? I’ve never paid for tinder and it works just fine for me.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-07-15T10:13:03+00:00

This dude blames his lack of success on anyone but himself. His previous greatest hit was bitching that women want a successful man rather than an unsuccessful man.

Odd-Yak4551 · 2024-07-15T08:43:24+00:00

That’s true the worst part is getting blue balls

Aromatic_Note8944 · 2024-07-15T09:49:54+00:00

I met my boyfriend on there. We’re coming up on 3 years!

Sharp-Safety-9260 · 2024-07-15T09:08:41+00:00

These dating apps have so many in built mechanics to make sure you don’t succeed without payment.

They will push you to the top of the queue when you first start to get you hooked. You will have a lot of matches. Then these will dwindle because your profile is buried (most girls haven’t even seen your profile to swipe on).

To get pushed back to the top you need to buy tindrs premium but now that there’s so many people on the premium even those guys are getting their profiled buried.

Tindr also monitors conversations. If they see that two people will genuinely fall in love instead of hooking up, they will unmatch those two individuals.

Tindr is not a viable means of finding love. The statistics show it, and the information on the app’s mechanics does too.

GymBroTRT · 2024-07-15T10:11:22+00:00

If you don’t understand why the dork in the video didn’t get any matches, than you are beyond help.

jjboy91 · 2024-07-15T11:38:03+00:00

It's frustrating when it's not working in your favor. I see my attractive friends scoring 99+ likes without problems because they fit beauty standards and I took their pictures

mojoo222 · 2024-07-15T08:27:44+00:00

I use it and I am having a good time with it mostly

earthyearth · 2024-07-15T08:38:33+00:00

It's great

Reno0vacio · 2024-07-15T09:27:24+00:00

Another angry little boy who is angry at the world.

Do you think the average person who doesn't spend their days here knows another solution? This is easier and simpler for many. Frankly, most people (I think) are more introverted and online is easier for them.

refreshingface · 2024-07-15T08:30:01+00:00

yeah but do you know how much it costs to get headshots, they are like 300 bucks

ToxicM1ndfulness · 2024-07-15T09:18:45+00:00

Dating is a numbers game, more prospects more chances, = more dates

GovernorGoat · 2024-07-15T10:40:56+00:00

It works occasionally. I only ever got a few dates on it but it's also how I met my wife.

Let it be known I am not a part of this subreddit but this postnwas recommended to me lol

ZenoGeno · 2024-07-15T10:52:03+00:00

It's true for the average person they do suck, I guess you can maximize your success by giving money for professional pics and maybe if you have interesting hobbies, for me my hardest thing was pictures, like even with a professional taking them I just looked bad, I am the complete opposite of photogenic I swear, and taking 100 pictures to find 1 is just so tiresome and I don't have the money to give for photos again and again.

FindingE-Username · 2024-07-15T12:20:46+00:00

I commented something similar the other day somewhere else but I met my bf on tinder, as did one of my friends and other people I know... none of them were your stereotypical 'chads' either

Really cringe that you say you don't want to look at profiles at all, no wonder you're doing terribly. Firstly if you're matching everyone even people you're not really into then what's the point? Your desperation will be immediately sensed. Also, when people swipe on everyone, Tinder assumes you're not highly rated and stops showing your profile to people lol, it rewards you for being more picky and actually reading profiles and matching with people you like

Love_JWZ · 2024-07-15T11:43:26+00:00

It allows me to hit on girls without them noticing I am not wearing pants nor I am being sober.

RProgrammerMan · 2024-07-15T11:49:49+00:00

Makes them feel like they are doing something without leaving the basement

ChuckXZ_ · 2024-07-15T12:18:37+00:00

You cab always make a bot that autoswipes in python like I did. I have it left swipe 1/7 profiles just so it doesnt look like a bot. I also use ChatGPT api to auto message all my matches. I take in the match's name and bio and have ChatGPT make a greeting based on that and it auto sends it.

Pat_VeiledIntentions · 2024-07-15T13:52:43+00:00

Because it works. ALSO FOR AVERAGE GUYS as you can perfectly see here https://youtu.be/JfupKALNuY0?si=EAPHz-HtlexE111k

Holiday_Treacle6350 · 2024-07-15T14:33:12+00:00

Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge have done wonders for me. Also, seeking arrangements (ifykyk). In fact, I'd argue why anyone would wanna go to a bar / club for night-game. Or on the streets for daygame. The chances of success are so low. This is coming from someone who did daygame and nightgame for one year 4 times a week.

Old-Entrepreneur7120 · 2024-07-15T14:43:29+00:00

is it weird i get overwhelmed with tinder matches hardly ever reply

baby_oil773 · 2024-07-15T14:46:04+00:00

As long as men like women, these apps will be used

nexus3210 · 2024-07-15T14:50:34+00:00

I never get matches on tinder no matter what image I use.

Whole_Narwhal4410 · 2024-07-15T14:54:51+00:00

Wheat waffles is cringe

KingOnixTheThird · 2024-07-15T15:05:31+00:00

Tinder was better 10 years ago.

Back in 2014/2015, even decent looking guys could get dates back then. You didn't have to be a 10, but as long as you were at least a 6/10 and had decent text game, you could get a date.

I used Tinder back in 2015 and could never get a date, but that's just because I was scrawny and below average looking at the time. But I had buddies who were average and slightly above average respectively who could get dates on the regular. One of my friends was getting dates once per week or two and he wasn't even super attractive; he had an looking average face but he was tall and he'd always run this text game to make girls laugh and keep girls interested.

Nowadays, Tinder is so bad that even my buddy would struggle to get a date.

LordPoopyIV · 2024-07-15T15:21:53+00:00

I use it and it hasn't paid of the last 2 years. I don't know why i still have hope either. I think I've had 7 chances to say something without a response in that time, and like another 7 being extremely offended i opened with a 'hey how are you' and ranting and blocking me.

I think tinder is now a place for lesbian feminists to lash out at white men, but you never know, a cute normal girl might show up one day, I'll give it some more shots

Miserable-Swing9275 · 2024-07-15T15:31:43+00:00

What a bitch fest by OP

Sandvicheater · 2024-07-15T15:44:43+00:00

Here's the another analogy what's the first company you think of when unknown women sell their titty and coochie pics online for cash? Onlyfans right?

Well what's the first company you think of when you think of online dating? Tinder of course.

Imagine you spent 50% of that effort energy you spent on tinder instead on real life. I bet you have couple of number and bed close stories to share here vs the 1 lousy date on Tinder that went nowhere.

nineinchflaco · 2024-07-15T16:04:10+00:00

Works for me

hoangkelvin · 2024-07-15T16:10:05+00:00

Online dating works. It just requires work!

Epiphanic_Eros · 2024-07-15T11:13:48+00:00

Unless you look like a model, you should be wholly focused on meeting women in the real world. And even if you look like a model, that’s what you should do. It’s so much easier, better, and more fun

funnybitcreator · 2024-07-15T12:08:51+00:00

There is a lot of negative things I can say about Tinder, but the fact is I can easily get a date or two every week all year, and I am just a normal guy. On average I would say 50% lead to sex. Sometimes it's just a date, sometimes for we see each other for a few months, then you finally meet someone where everything clicks and you get a girlfriend.

I have had several long term relationships thanks to tinder and I know a lot of people that have meet their girlfriends that way. At least 10 of my friends have girlfriends they meet on tinder, 4 of them have children now and are happily married. I am seeing a girl now that I meet through Hinge and have deleted the app.. I mean, it works, and it has worked for almost everyone I know.. That's how everyone meet now days

I read "The Game" again recently and what I realize is that a lot of people are getting laid, just as much as Style and Mystery now, thanks to Tinder. I mean, it works..

Soupblime · 2024-07-15T16:03:08+00:00

I met my current gf on dating app and before that I had good success

lord_khadgar05 · 2024-07-15T09:56:43+00:00

Having photos taken by a professional looks lazy. This is Tinder we’re talking about, not a theatre audition.

You should have photos of yourself doing interesting things.

I have those, unfortunately my friends and family have the habit of taking photos of me that aren’t that flattering. But professional headshots will make me seem like I don’t have hobbies or interests. It won’t entice excitement out of women on online dating.

OWSucks · 2024-07-15T11:40:30+00:00

Look at mr. Big in the video with his 3% match rate.

Title	I really don't understand why tinder is still so popular and why men keep using this trash
Author	orangee09
Upvotes	157
Comments	115
Date	July 15, 2024 7:56 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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