What is your advice for hypergamous men?

CissyXS · 2026-03-18T23:35:52+00:00

Stay fit. Practice charm and social skills. Do some research on what places rich women visit and go there yourself. Bonus point, if you develop a fitting archetype.

oppositegeneva · 2026-03-18T22:44:29+00:00

Find a woman who really wants kids but also loves her career and be a SAHD who cooks and cleans

My sister is in this exact arrangement lol she’s taller than her husband as well.

Nellylocheadbean · 2026-03-18T22:53:12+00:00

Either earn more money

or

Get muscular and become extremely charismatic and charming. You basically light up the room when you walk in it.

ladybird_00 · 2026-03-18T22:17:36+00:00

Get jacked, stack cash

ResponsibilityAny217 · 2026-03-19T04:23:22+00:00

This is going to be hard.

You’re basically gonna have to date like a woman who is a gold digger would.

You’re gonna need to be on top of your looks and grooming all the time, playful / charming/ entertaining/ funny - cater to this woman, you’re gonna have to get hot or do something that makes you look special.

You might have to marry down looks wise/ up age wise maybe not because those women do tend to be in shape though .

Think celebrity women who married down financially, Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce, Vanessa Williams and actor husband, Cher and husband(?), Madonna and boyfriend

love_in_october · 2026-03-18T22:17:31+00:00

Be willing to do at least your share of housework and you're already doing better than most men and will make a high-status woman's life actually easier. Be prepared to go part time or on a work break when having children. Don't expect your partner to do things just because she's a woman, especially as these probably won't suit the ambitious, high-earning type.

icypiee · 2026-03-19T00:03:04+00:00

Give up

RelativeCondition915 · 2026-03-19T08:06:17+00:00

If you're not a main character in your own life, it's unrealistic for you to date a woman who is a main character in hers.

Idk man check out women's hypergamy content. I am under the impression hypergamy/sugar dating/dating up for women requires molding yourself into a courtesan-like creature capable of charming others, being physically attractive, and providing a wide range of intelligent and exciting topics. Providing positive emotional experiences is a must. You are not there to be Chad. You are a pet.

Lemon_gecko · 2026-03-18T23:01:00+00:00

be attractive to high status women or bring something valuable for them. I don't know because I'm not that woman, but you do need to find them and get to know them and then present yourself in a way that will be appealing for them.

AlmondMilkMaybe · 2026-03-19T06:35:03+00:00

Become very competent at sex/genuinely pleasuring a woman. It's so much rarer than men even know, and it goes a long way. I know a few successful hobo-sexuals, and this is literally all they "bring to the table."

Financial_Leave4411 · 2026-03-19T00:54:54+00:00

Advice to get women? None.

However I would suggest that man accept his twink status and watch videos on how to be an empowered ladyboy on YouTube then look for a provider man.

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Superb-Foundations · 2026-03-19T09:45:06+00:00

Find your looks match who has something in common with you and similar hobbies. If you are a 2 and she is an 8 you better have something going for you. 🤷

lesliecarbone · 2026-03-19T10:38:47+00:00

Be interesting.

Flimsy_Software8105 · 2026-03-19T14:00:02+00:00

If looks are your main priority, then you’re probably gonna have to sacrifice the socially impressive and ambition parts. If you’re below average looking and not super rich, I’d recommend looking for people who are slightly better looking than you and slightly worse off financially.

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2026-03-18T23:01:35+00:00

no such thing

Title	What is your advice for hypergamous men?
Author	Equivalent_Use_5024
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Comments	53
Date	March 18, 2026 9:49 PM UTC (4 months ago)
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