Q4WOMEN: What do you want in a male partner?

Women and BP men here keep getting upset at RP's audacity to assume they know female psychology better than women.

Well, here's a chance to set the record straight. Women, what qualities do you want in a man? What do you expect in a man in order to date or hook up with him?

Please try to be exhaustive and paint as complete a picture as possible. Don't just say something like "not RP" or "not a misogynist".

Have you ever thought about patterns underlying your attraction, or do you just go with the gut feeling without thinking about it?