So for those who have been following me I have an update. My wife of 6.5 years and her two kids moved out this weekend. It was a bit shocking to come home to a half-empty house. I admit I lost it a couple times. Even though she didn't treat me all that well I still have a big sense of loss and sadness. Sometimes I think I miss the life we had more than the actual person. Or at least the person I first met before things went sour a couple years ago.
At this point she wants space and doesn't want to give an answer on if or when she'll be back. She doesn't want to lose me and asked me not to see other people and she is doing the same.
Part of me wants to work on things and part of me wants to just move on.
My next decision will be how long to wait before filing for divorce.
I did tell her I'm putting a time limit on the separation. I'm not going to be living in limbo. She complained that I'm pressuring her and giving her an ultimatum.
So my question is, how do I get over her as fast as possible and kill the loss, sadness, and angry in it's tracks?