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[–]verusckaFDS Newbie204 points205 points206 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I ignored this red flag in my last situationship. 😔
[–]skyerippaFDS Newbie68 points69 points70 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same then he left me for someone who he even deems “as crazier”
[–]winterTurnedmean3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me too 😔
[–]tumadre22FDS Newbie532 points533 points534 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
That reminds me of a comment made by Donald Glover (AKA Childish Gambino) in one of his stand-ups.
"The reason you don't hear about crazy ex boyfriends is because those women are already dead".
Sounds a bit off color but there's some truth behind it.
[–]FAT_WOMEN_ON_PLANESFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh absolutely. Back when being single used to bother me I would watch forensic files all the time. Being in a relationship can kill you.
[–]KrikrineekFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s certainly worthwhile to think about, and very true.
[–]outside-perceptionFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This got downvoted to fuck omg 🤭
[–]tumadre22FDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you search by "top", it is actually the top comment 🤔
[–]peachtartxFDS Newbie133 points134 points135 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When guys say they have a crazy ex girlfriend, they laugh it off and it’s usually not too serious. You don’t hear a lot of women say they have a crazy ex boyfriend because a lot of those women are probably dead, or at least abused and traumatized. But men don’t want to talk about that.
[–]CeriseNoireFDS Newbie80 points81 points82 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Every damn time this comes up I think of this donald glover stand up bit https://i.pinimg.com/564x/f5/dd/ff/f5ddff8f1335599aa144d4420e6bc3c8.jpg
"Remember Charlie? He used to shoot my dog. And then I moved to Florida, and...he found me. Now I'm in a wheelchair."
[–]ValentcatFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh my god - love this. Love Donald Glover!
[–]feminologie_FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is the first thing that came to mind when I saw this thread! Donald Glover perfectly explained it and it's hilarious too
[–]cloeedFDS Newbie222 points223 points224 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hate it too when pickmeishas proudly say they are crazy/psycho and that they need to “hide the crazy” when they first meet someone. They say that for the smallest things too. All this just encourages men to keep on calling women crazy, nonsense! But at least a man saying this is an easy red flag to spot early on
[–]BabaAuRhumOhlalaFDS Newbie21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And the crazy/psycho behaviour is: hey, we’ve been dating for 8 months, I think it would be nice to text each other good morning and goodnight, and I would appreciate if you stopped using tinder.
[–]DameTheoriesFDS Newbie180 points181 points182 points 3 years ago (33 children) | Copy Link
it's our time to create the crazy ex boyfriend trope
[–]DameTheoriesFDS Newbie223 points224 points225 points 3 years ago (28 children) | Copy Link
the stalker, the manipulator, the one obsessed with all your past relationships, the revenge porn one
[–][deleted] 126 points127 points128 points 3 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link
Exactly. The guys saying their ex’s are crazy are the ones with a diagnosable psychiatric illness. They are calling their ex crazy while stalking her social media and harassing her. They are calling her crazy so that the new girl won’t check in with her to find out the true story. Guys should have to supply references. I want to know from another woman what I’m getting myself into.
[–]DameTheoriesFDS Newbie72 points73 points74 points 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
also!! guys like that MAKE you crazy. you have no choice but to assert yourself and possibly lose your mind over these guys' ridiculous behavior!!
[–][deleted] 65 points66 points67 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Narcissists actively engage in a psychological manipulation tactic called crazy making so they can place all blame on you.
[–]BabaAuRhumOhlalaFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I had this happen to me. Him: makes a promise. A lot of time passes and he’s making other plans for himself, I ask him numerous times throughout the months what’s happening to the very important promise and he keeps wiggling out. Me: You have let me down for the Xth time. I cannot risk my mental and emotional health anymore. If you cannot keep promises, I refuse to be in the relationship anymore. I wish you well. Him: ABUSER!!! You‘re lowering my self esteem by calling me a letdown!! I am depressed and suicidal now because of you!! Why didn’t you ask me about the promise?? Now I won’t do it!! *blocks*
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just made a new post on the best strategy for this: silence. Just erase them from your life if you detect they are dishonest and manipulative. Don’t even given them the chance to explain. Your time is too precious to waste on hearing their lies. They will try desperately to get in contact with you, so you have to be firm. I don’t owe anyone the chance to tell me more lies.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
“Why Does He Do That?” By Lundy Bancroft illustrates this phenomenon.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank you for the reading reference.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are some free pdf versions online!
[–][deleted] 39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago* (9 children) | Copy Link
Except standing up for yourself isn’t crazy. But yes, they will drive you to a point of infuriation because they are such a plague on society.
[–]DameTheoriesFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
right? how are we supposed to keep our cool when our dignity, safety, and privacy are on the line!
[–][deleted] 29 points30 points31 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
🙌🏻 if you disrespect me, you better be prepared for my wrath. And these manchildren cannot handle it. All they know how to do is run away from their problems. So when you bring it to their doorstep, the look of terror on their face is priceless.
[–]KombuchaaddictFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hell has no fury like a woman scorned
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ideation without intent or plan is within the realm of normal psyche but I edited it.
[–]yumiiaFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don’t see anything wrong with what you’re saying personally. But the hate groups against us will take anything they can get.
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I agree we don’t need to give them more opportunities for gaslighting.
[–]yumiiaFDS Apprentice2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup thank you. I just deleted a inflammatory post they could against me. It’s annoying but must be careful since they are so hellbent on getting us banned.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice21 points22 points23 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, it's basically character assasination to cover their own asses.
[–]AnnieandFishFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Most abusers don’t have a diagnosable psychiatric illness. That would definitely worsen abuse, but one of the challenges abuse victims face is that abuse drives them crazy (PTSD, anxiety, and depression can result from abuse for sure), but abusers can be composed moments after the act. The crazy abuser narrative helps them avoid responsibility. They’re still awful, and doing awful shit, but try not to play into the narratives they use to avoid being held responsible by letting them plead insanity.
I’m not excusing the abuser’s behavior. The abuse is a choice and not excusable. A diagnosis doesn’t remove accountability. I’d say abusive men have personality disorders or at least traits, i.e. NPD, ASPD
[–]AnnieandFishFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don’t mean that you excuse abuse. I just mean that mental illness is a narrative that abusers use to avoid being considered responsible. Most abusers just aren’t mentally ill (According to Lundy Bancroft’s Why Does He Do That?, a book about various types of abuse in relationships). That does make abuse worse and more dangerous when they are, but it’s caused by attitudes of a partner having less worth as a person, and absolute entitlement in the abusive partner.
I completely get what you are saying, and agree. I think it’s mostly the semantics of mental illness that we are using differently. Abusers do not suffer from a mental illness that excuses their behavior or displaces their accountability. They may likely suffer from personality flaws that fall under a diagnosis, but they still know the difference between right and wrong and make choices they should be held accountable for.
Serial killers have ASPD; doesn’t mean they didn’t make choices. Deranged psychology doesn’t equal insanity. Insanity is not knowing the difference between right and wrong.
[–]CherryVermilion10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’d like to add The Ghoster - the one that just cant be bothered to communicate to you what they want. So you end up being the grown up and doing the emotional labour of “hang on, we were talking/dating/married and you’ve just upped and left and you haven’t got the confidence to owe me an explanation for your actions”.
[–]notbasic4karenFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The one obsessed with your past relationships=oh god YES. He was insecure that I went to college and he never did. He would constantly ask me about who I’d slept with and slut shame me. Plus he’d use the outdated and misogynistic term “co-ed” to refer to college-aged women like myself (at the time...I’m 32 now). Blocked his ass and never looked back.
[–]hello-bitchlasagna0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Mine was all of the above, what a breakup that was.
[–]a_throwawayy_At-Risk Pick Me Youth36 points37 points38 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's not even a trope, that's something probably most het women have experienced
[–]DameTheoriesFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you're not even wrong!
[–]MermaidCatgirlThrowaway Account-1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's just called a "boyfriend." The unicorn non-crazy bf is the one that might need to be created.
[–]PooPooMeeksFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
FACTS. My ex has a best friend that at one point told us that his girlfriend at the time broke a beer bottle over her head, talking about how crazy she was one night. Years later, I found out that he used to hit a lot of his girlfriends in the past. Alot of emotional and verbal abuse coming from him too. Saw it with my own eyes when he called his first baby momma “stupid” in front of all of us t the beach. She told me he hit her sometimes too. Anyways, all that made me realize that whether or not he was the one that hit that particular ex GF with a glass bottle or not, he indeed did some traumatizing stuff to make her end up harming herself 👍
[–]HaveNoIdeaWhatToPickFDS Newbie39 points40 points41 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"Behind every crazy woman there is a man that made her that way" - have no clue who originally invented that saying, but it's floating around the internet lately lol.
[–]Wiggy_BopFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s a spin on “Behind ever great man is a greater woman.”
‘Tis true. The number of men who dump the woman who scraped, worked shit jobs, put her education/career on hold to pick up the slack for her “brilliant” husband/boyfriend is sickening. I can’t even image the manipulations they work up to justify leaving.
Been there, done that, and there wasn’t even a damn t-shirt at the end. 🤨
[–]madamejesaistoutFDS Newbie76 points77 points78 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I know people have problems with the show How I Met Your Mother, but I really liked one episode towards the end of the series where the main character has a "crazy" girlfriend, but then they revisit different parts of his story and realize he was saying stuff to make her crazy. Like he didn't actually break up with her he just kind of chickened out and lied to her. Her behavior wasn't so crazy when you saw it in the context of how he made promises he wasn't keeping.
[–]Wiggy_BopFDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So they finally made a film about my ex. His dream came true, lol
[–]swedishblueberries0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What episode was it?
[–]madamejesaistoutFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't remember exactly, I think it was in the second to last (penultimate) season.
[–]thxmeatcat0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She was a recurring character in the last 2 seasons
[–]AmEx08FDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Never date a guy with a “crazy ex” because you’ll be the crazy ex to his next girlfriend. I don’t trust those kind of men
[–]mars888999FDS Newbie176 points177 points178 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
And any guy who says his ex was crazy probably put her there.
[–]cloeedFDS Newbie85 points86 points87 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s almost like they love to brag about it too!
[–]PR0N0IAFDS Newbie52 points53 points54 points 3 years ago* (5 children) | Copy Link
My HVM husband legit has a crazy ex but he is hesitant to call her that (he’s never actually said she’s crazy— I’m the one who calls her that).
She is diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. He dated her in high school & early college. He spent quite a few years single to work on himself and the trauma she caused him before we met. He’s even got scars where she physically abused him. Only reason we found out about the BPD is her husband is divorcing her and reached out to him to see if my husband would corroborate that she is an abusive partner in their divorce to help him get primary custody of his kids.
Edit to add: her mother also is diagnosed with BPD & has abusive tendencies so it seems to run in her family.
[–]BennettistFDS Newbie75 points76 points77 points 3 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
This proves the point. He's not going around calling a woman he dated crazy.
[–]PR0N0IAFDS Newbie20 points21 points22 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly
[–]BerryCocoLoveFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I sympathize because I had a BPD roommate. It was horrible living with her and she always painted the guys she stalked as “mean” or “fuckboys”. I literally watched her threaten a guy but then she’d turn around and say that men were trash. I’m sorry that your husband had to go through that!
[–]chaostrulyreignsFDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Did he get custody?
[–]WillingBeingFDS Newbie55 points56 points57 points 3 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
The “crazy ex” trope is pure projection.
In the U.S., per the CDC, half of all female homicide victims are killed by intimate partners. Add to that all the non-lethal stalking, domestic violence, and emotional abuse that men put women through and it’s clear who the real psychos are.
[–]HaveNoIdeaWhatToPickFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes, but when you dare to mention it, you are normally called an "evil/crazy feminist" lol. We can't even share actual data, because it somehow makes us crazy/evil. It's so pathetic it almost feels like talking to a toddler everytime they throw such names at us.
[–]Wiggy_BopFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Yer a Man Hater!”
[–]flowers4uFDS Newbie51 points52 points53 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes! I’ve always said this! Granted sometimes people (both men and women) go crazy out of “nowhere”, but from a females perspective there is always always a reason!
[–]iwishiwereaduck7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember one time telling my friends how I felt like I had gone “crazy” on the guy I was seeing and one of them instantly stopped me and said “but what did he do? There is always a reason.” And after explaining what happened she pretty much validated my feelings and both of my friends said they would have probably reacted the same way. And they totally called him out on his manipulative bullshit. Having HVW as friends is a blessing.
[–]KombuchaaddictFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Facts
[–]glj901FDS Newbie17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THIS.
[–]sjefsiljuuusFDS Newbie37 points38 points39 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I may be crazy in my ex boyfriends eyes, but at least, I am not a rapist like he is. Wouldnt had ended up "crazy" if he just knew how to behave with women in general and not rape them because his needs are more important than the womans well being.
[–]idonthavearedditnow3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Same girl!! Trauma reactions are real.
[–]sjefsiljuuusFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I know. If he wants to say that being crazy means lifelong PTSD diagnosis because of what he did, then sure I am crazy. However, I wonder who is more crazy between me and him, because when I confronted him with that he had raped and abused me, he tried to hit me with his car on purpose - it was just pure luck he didnt, because I was so close to getting hitted with his car. And the speed he had would have killed me. But yeah, I am the crazy one, no doubt about that, right? (sarcasm if anyone wondered)
[–]ValentcatFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen. The show is so f*cking good, though.
[–]ThrowawayLeavingNarc12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I always think of Parks and Rec when Lucy breaks up with Tom. He says, “She broke up with me, didn’t really tell me why. Luckily when you’re the guy you can just tell people she’s crazy. ‘Hey Tom, heard you and Lucy broke up’. ‘Yeah man, turns out she’s crazy’. That’s what they always do on Entourage”.
[–]LionorasFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Being a great movie/general story enthusiast, I think it's actually very fascinating to look at "crazy girl" tropes in movies/ general media and how men either depict, or react to them.
Most of the one I noticed, fall into one of these categories:
1.) The "eccentric crazy girl"Starting with the easiest one, this girl is not crazy in our definition, but more...eccentric. Like, Wonderland eccentric, wears a shoe as a hat eccentric etc.Odd but harmless, basically.
Most men (btw. I take all information through a mixture of my own experiences & info from the web, aka forums) seem to either ignore them ("The only eccentric one in my life I need is me!"), see them as "adult children", or are interested in their "weirdness", though I don't know what exactly.
From my personal experience, growing up as an "eccentric girl" (ASD y'know), I remember being either called "crazy", a nutcase or not taken as a "girl" at all. The only roses I got on Valentine were either from my few female friends, or from guys that dared each other to send the "crazy girl" a form of affection. Afterwards I only had one guy who pretended to like my persona and he turned out to be a highly porn-addicted, sex/touch starved guy who tried to woo me - an underage girl who was 8years younger then him - into a relationship with him.
Characters I can name from movies would be Luna Lovegood, Alice in Wonderland (including Tim Burton adaptation)
2.) The "crazy girl" that's actually a threat to men
Not in the physical sense, I mean in the way that she knows who she is and doesn't hold back.
Be it throught outperforming guys, sassing them into Oblivion, or just...being a person you know you shouldn't try to hurt, I've seen a lot of men call them crazy because in some way they felt threatend by them.
Characters I can name, would be:Wendsday from Addams Family("What would you do if you had a guy who'd adore you? Who'd do anything for you? Who'd be your devoted slave?" "I'd pity him."), Daria Morgendorffer ("Daria"), Miranda Priestly ("The devil wears prada") and Minerva McGonagall ("Harry Potter")
Partially from my own experience + experience from others, LVM either feel mocked, put down, challenged or even insulted by a woman which is "too strong", followed mostly by vice versa insults & jokes about them being prudes, girls who play hard to get, or the usual "What? Does she think she's somehow better then me?"
3.) The mentally ill girl that get's used.
Aka, the poor girl that has issues, but instead of getting help, it get's the attention of some shitty company.
Characters can range from more or less "harmless" - Carry only fully snapped after a guy cut the cord on the blood bucket, while his gf that started the shit actually felt bad and wanted to not go through with it in the book - to full blown psycho -aka Alex from Fatal Attraction, which developed a sick obsession with the guy who had an affair with her.
Mind you; I'm not excusing the characters actions in general, even when they were influenced by bad men / turned that way because of bad men. Carrie murdered many people in her blind rage, as well did Alex.
Still, if the character isn't directly a "Misery" like threat to the guy, many men seem to actually be turned on by a slightly crazy girl.Especially in the Anime scene the "Yandere Personality" type is very popular
For all who are not familiar with Anime; a "Yandere" is basically a person (mostly a woman) who is so obsessed with her love interest, that she even murders rivals and commits suicide in the name of "her love". This trend even glorifies actual/ attempted murderers, like the case of the woman Yuka Takaoka.
4.) The crazy girl that was turned crazy by a man
Again, not excusing the actions of the characters, but still a sad tale.
From the famous Harley Quinn which was manipulated into a toxic & abusive relationship by/with the joker (and a life of crime) to victims like Kayako from Ju-On: The Grudge, which were literally turned into a vengeful spirit after being murdered by their brutal husband (who also murdered her little son & house cat) -there are a lot of examples of women who were in one or another way "turned crazy".
In these cases LVM mostly push away the idea of their background and focus on eitherA.) a way to sexualise them (fun fact: the original movie Harley Quinn didn't wear sexy shorts and tatoos, but was covered from head to toe in costum. Riddle who changed that?)
orB.) point out how gruesome that woman is.
Now, okay, regarding 2.), it's pretty hard to ignore that characters like Kayako don't murder / harm people left and right, but in other cases like with the female prota of Gone Girl, where Amy talks about the idea of "Cool Girl" (aka being a pickmeisha) many men are ready to dismiss her ideas as crazy because, well, she's crazy. "Look at what she did to poor Nick!" etc.
5.) The actual crazy woman.
The best person to fit this category would be "she" herself: Misery from Stephen King.
A woman who is batshit insane, accidentally rescues her favourite author. After she learns that his new manuscript features her favourite hero dying, she starts torturing him mentally & physically to get what she wants.
In her case, as well as some others (f.ex. Carrie's over-religious mother, Pamela Vorhees or a lot of bad step-mothers in fairy tales), these women are -in reality at least - very rare, but still a big trope in the west.
According to the author Belinda Morissey in her book "When Women Kill", the crazy woman is the embodiment of some of Western hetereopatriarchy's greatest fears", which is a fascinating way to look at this trope
Have you watched the show crazy ex girlfriend? I love it so much
[–]sophrosyne2189FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Back when my situationship ended and I was hurting and obsessing about it a lot to the point that I thought I was slowly becoming crazy, friend recommended this show for me to watch. I didn't after watching the trailers on YouTube. Told her I was afraid it would confirm my suspicions that I was a crazy girl hankering over a guy, a person I've never wanted to be in my life.
She replied back with a thoughtful comment that's actually used in the show, "It's actually more nuanced than that." And now I agree.
[–]soundslikeautumnFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Anytime I here a man say "All of my ex girlfriends were crazy!" all I think is "I doubt it. Sound like you're the problem and not them if they were ALL crazy".
[–]spidermom44 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And any time a girl finally convinces her friend to break up with her toxic abusive boyfriend, he goes around and tells everyone the friend was crazy and jealous of what they had. And sometimes even convinces the girlfriend of this and manipulates her to take him back.
[–]abwphotography4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ex used to call his ex girlfriend crazy. I tried to break up with him, but he begged and cried for me to stay so I (foolishly) said I would give it another try. The next evening he had his father break up with me. And I’m sure he’s out there telling his new girlfriend that I’m crazy.
[–]MoshPitsNArmPits5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Spot on. My ex bf called his ex before me crazy. Of course, I believed him. After the way he treated me, I wonder if she was the crazy one after all, or just didn’t put up with his bullshit.
[–]snoreweezyFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
GIRL THIS 100% 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
[–]medicait3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This!!! It makes me so sad to see when women internalize this and start constantly questioning everything they do.
[–]soundsandsitesFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hate that I was so afraid to be called crazy that I was never myself in a relationship for years
[–]chorussaurusFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Boys need to understand this.
[–]Dxactivatxd1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean, there’s also Crazy Ex Boyfriend but uh, you don’t really hear those stories.......
[–]rinny978FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Factssss
[–]outcasted_lambasted1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
BOOM Thank you!!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What about lesbians crazy ex girlfriends? They're the rowdiest of them all imo and usually no males or trauma involved. My friend is an absolute gem and treats me like a princess when ever we spend the night together but that didn't stop her ex from breaking one of her ribs and robbing her blind when she broke up with her.
[–]shirtlesssleeves0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is entirely too accurate
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