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i just had an epiphany after a blowjob

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antalvarez_
July 9, 2020
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I’ve been reading and learning about TRP for about a year now and for some reason after tonight everything just clicked..

I had this girl i met from tinder come over tonight she was on her period but all i wanted was a good dick sucking anyways after a long hard day at work.

I can’t lie and say it hasn’t been a while (I live in Florida covid is fucking everywhere and i didn’t rack up any plates beforehand) so i was pretty excited to get my dick sucked after a long hiatus.

She was a solid 6 and a half and the only reason I’m giving her the half was because she had huge knockers.

We talked in my car for like an hour (felt like eternity) she just rambled about her whole life story she kept telling me how nervous she was because she found me extremely attractive and whatnot but I didn’t feel the same about her i just thought she had amazing breasts and a cute face.

After motorboating her tits for 5 minutes straight and busting a fat load in her mouth i felt.. nothing. emptiness. Like i could have been doing better things. Don’t get me wrong busting a nut is a great feeling but after a minute of sitting there with my pants down i had this epiphany that women & sex are great but there’s so many more things in life that are just flat out better. Maybe i would have felt differently if she was a dime but all i could think about was every other feeling i found better than what i just felt.

Hitting my PR bench pressing was a better feeling.

Learning something new that benefited my life was a better feeling.

Getting my paycheck every week is a better feeling.

Idk guys but after that blowjob all i can think about and wanted to do was improve myself. The thought of that and the thought of the man that i can become is just way better than sex to me. As I stated before sex is great but it’s really not everything. It’s just a dessert to your meal. An icing on the cake. But it’s not everything. If she was a dime i honestly still think i would have felt the same way.


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Title i just had an epiphany after a blowjob
Author antalvarez_
Upvotes 793
Comments 221
Date 09 July 2020 05:22 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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[–]learnfemalenature309 points310 points  (15 children) | Copy

I feel ya. The more I fuck the more I desire and derive pleasure from having a purpose in life. Nothing wrong with pussy every now and then, but only when it’s chasing me. After I fuck or get a bj I don’t really have sex drive for days to a week or 2.

[–]futianze14 points15 points  (3 children) | Copy

Your sex drive probably falls out cuz of a lack of semen retention. The notion that guys need to jizz every sexual interaction is pretty damn stupid when you factor in the loss of energy from ejaculating. It takes a shit ton of blood and energy to create new sperm. That shit ain't free.

[–]learnfemalenature12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel that. I feel so much more ambitious when I’m not ejaculating.

[–]Antiqas860 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Phychologically speaking, after 3 days you're fully loaded tho...

[–]smeyster32 points33 points  (0 children) | Copy

Totally agree with everything you've said

[–][deleted] 478 points479 points  (44 children) | Copy

She was a fatty wasn’t she?

[–]Cha_Cha_cho197 points198 points  (11 children) | Copy

It’s the USA, 70% of women are obese so

[–]dopexile59 points60 points  (7 children) | Copy

The average woman age 20-39 weights 167 pounds in the US.

40-59 is 176. I guess once you hit the wall you make even less effort?

https://www.healthline.com/health/womens-health/average-weight-for-women

[–]1Ill_mumble_that52 points53 points  (2 children) | Copy

average height for women is 5'4".

167 is a shit ton for someone 5'4" with the muscle mass of an average woman.

[–]Pm_me_socks_at_night14 points15 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah it's a bmi of 29 (overweight) and about 5lbs from being clinically obese.

[–]ddelicia9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

god damn that's a landwhale

[–]wanderer7794 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

In the u.s. you gotta have what house flippers call 'vision'.

[–]Foend0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is the saddest thing I have seen.

[–]The-Real-Ivivik-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Holy shit I’m a really lean 19 year old (I’m guessing 10% body fat) and weigh 170lbs smh these women

[–]3LiveAFTSOV0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

USA, 70% of women

huge overstatememt. Stats say its 41 percent

[–]Think4Yoself17 points18 points  (0 children) | Copy

It's a misstatement not an overstatement. 41% are obese, another 27% are overweight, coming in right around the 70% that was stated.

[–]Stinger86136 points137 points  (1 child) | Copy

This man's asking the important questions.

[–]cat_magnet77 points78 points  (1 child) | Copy

That makes sense, I was wondering why a cute face and huge titties only earned a 6.5.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 34 points35 points  (14 children) | Copy

believe it or not she wasn’t a fatty maybe im just super picky and have been with way hotter than her but she was only 120lbs (told me her weight while she was rambling) my brother gave her a 7 i just felt like she was a 6 1/2 imo

[–]MarvelousWhale95 points96 points  (12 children) | Copy

If she said she's 120 she's 150

[–]antalvarez_[S] 26 points27 points  (5 children) | Copy

Yeah maybe she was lying but if she was she was probably 130 minimum her stomach wasn’t fat but her thighs were curvy i’v fucked 180 before and she wasn’t close to that i guess she was a 7 i just have a certain type

[–]Gskgsk65 points66 points  (4 children) | Copy

Detach your ego from her weight.

[–]theRJMurray67 points68 points  (2 children) | Copy

Attach her weight to a pulley.

[–]cloudspike7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol that’s an old callback well played

[–]wanderer779-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

give me a block and tackle with sufficient mechanical advantage, and I can move my wife - some american

[–]chomponthebit20 points21 points  (5 children) | Copy

“If he banged 100 women, it really means 25. And if he says she’s a 6, he banged a 2.”

Major twist: some bros in rp tell their closest approximation to the truth

[–]1Ill_mumble_that19 points20 points  (2 children) | Copy

I've banged a few 9.5s (there is no such thing as a 10 to all men)

There are only a few feelings in the world as good as fucking an ultra hot chick, speaking specifically of during said sex. But after....

But once it's all over, now you got this fucking hot chick there that you want to bang again, but it's just a pain in the ass to have to deal with her at this point. It's like "ok we've had sex, I want to hang out with my bros now, see ya" but then they are so damn hot that you also want to fuck them again regardless of if your refractory period is over.

I've spent a whole day having sex with said hb9.5 about 11 times in a row with a food break in the middle, and it's definitely satisfying. But the next day I knew it wasn't something I'd want to do everyday. I feel like I wasted the day, which is okay for once in a while, but not something that I'd want to entertain on a regular basis. Because there is so much other shit to take care of.

The sex really should be though of as a mini vacation. Not a huge part of your life, just something you escape to from time to time for some bliss..

[–]chomponthebit19 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

Agreed. I was at a house party where top-level NHL players went ape over a girl with so much silicone in her tits and lips she looked like a goldfish Barbie. Meanwhile, I lucked out with the cute, au naturale, girl-next-door they ignored. The 10-scale is utterly subjective.

[–]MarvelousWhale7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

Major twist: I stopped counting after 7 or 8.

Once I had slept with three girls back to back (separate days unfortunately) that I felt "I could not possibly have the SMV to lay this bitch" and realized I could get bitches of this caliber, I decided the amount of women I've slept with is meaningless.

[–]Crespius660 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

it was a guy, and the large knockers are actually man boobs still got a blowjob tho

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Post a pic google image of a face and one of a physique that looks like her.

[–]Standgrounding2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I mean its better than nothing

[–]yourgirlfriendsdad229 points230 points  (8 children) | Copy

Dude you just channeled red pill perfectly in that post. Women are okay, but there are better things, alot of them. Red pill af.

[–]TexAs_sWag39 points40 points  (0 children) | Copy

While I agree, it’s much easier to see that perspective after hooking up with someone inferior. It’s closer to masturbating than an actual conquest. And when a guy becomes good at hooking up with hot women, then I’m sure even sex with the hotties starts to feel a little more like masturbating than a true conquest. In either case, the man starts to realize the much greater psychological value in a truly worthwhile conquest, like with career, fitness, hobbies, etc.

[–]xrKles34 points35 points  (0 children) | Copy

Some people see posts like this ( i see them a lot) and develop a mindset that spending time with women is worthless.

Well no fucking way you’ll feel like that, its that meaningless hookups are worthless. Might as well have sex with a blow up doll if you can’t sit in your car for an hour and talk to someone. I’m not saying what you’re doing is wrong, its just that the mindset going into the interaction is akin to masturbating (except ur using her as a tool to do it in this case). Of course you’re not gonna feel any different than if you just sat in your car and jacked off (because that will def. Make you feel like it was a waste if time)

I’m just trying to say that you can have meaningful interactions with women, but many guys start to think the contrary after they’re only interactions is getting pussy. This probably stems from a lot of guys thinking they’re only useful to get their dick wet. Women have pussies.. thats true, but there’s knowledge to be gained from genuinely talking with them as you would any other person. It might even help you understand them better. Some people are boring, so you still need to find those quality people to converse with (but give it a chance, its all in the mindset).

[–]smeyster6 points7 points  (5 children) | Copy

Totally agree. Unless you've found you're soulmate or someone that truly loves you and you them, you've got greater things to do

[–]MrDinkles77678 points9 points  (4 children) | Copy

There are no soulmates. That’s a myth perpetrated by women.

[–]throwaway_alt_slo0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy

Not soulmates, but people with integrity, values, common goals, people who are willing to fight and suffer for some time when life hits. Life ain't black and white, you know it, common.

The thought of cheating and urge to do so is natural yes, but doesn't mean it is certain it will happen if the oportunity arises. Life is complex af.

[–]MrDinkles77670 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Life is a gift and we are gifted with Free Will. This is a good thing, not a burden

[–]throwaway_alt_slo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Not really sure about the free will tbh. If anything it is heavily heavily influenced by sooo many factors. We both know it.

[–]L2diy73 points74 points  (3 children) | Copy

feels better with 9s/10s but still that's an important realization to reach. Abundance mentality is key.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 6 points7 points  (1 child) | Copy

I figured it probably would have felt a lot better if she was a dime but i guess my point was that there’s just so much more i realized i wanted to do with my life that’s just more important to me than sex.

[–]surethingjanet2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah it’s quite clear he’s never fucked a 9+ because I can guarantee the PNC hits radically different

[–]Sin-Silver[🍰] 68 points69 points  (1 child) | Copy

Sex is like air, You only miss it when you don’t have it.

You were probably really horny after a long Corvid Dry patch, but the moment you bust your load, you returned to normal.

[–]ComplexProjection194 points195 points  (8 children) | Copy

Stop fucking uglies, and you won't have to reevaluate your life every time.

[–]TheGreatConst44 points45 points  (7 children) | Copy

From his description, she sounds like a fatty with a nice face and boobs. If she wasn't fatty then her having good tits and cute was would be enough to at least be 7/10, lol. Fucking girls you consider hot and interesting is just a very different experience, especially with some proper roleplay, teasing, etc. Orgasm by itself isn't the core of sex, at least for men.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (6 children) | Copy

Fucking girls you consider hot and interesting is just a very different experience, especially with some proper roleplay, teasing, etc.

How is it very different? It's doesn't seem to be after you've nutted on enough on all kinds. Sometimes uglies try harder. Sometimes hotties are dead fish. Sometimes vice versa. They all tend to blend into one another after a while.

Orgasm by itself isn't the core of sex, at least for men.

Putting a bitch in her place is wonderful and all, but it always ends the same way. So what else are you referring to?

[–]throwawaycunt199715 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

Gaming a girl with just as good girl game, building up that tension, and the inevitable release after an intense build up is, in my experience, much better of an experience than having some random horn dog girl just jumping on your dick in an instant. It’s no fun if it’s just easy.

Unless you’re also some desperate horn dog.

[–]mexipill4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

They all tend to blend into one another after a while.

This fucked me up the most while growing up. Most women are basically the same person.

[–]TheGreatConst-2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy

Have you ever actually gamed girls, flirted hard, made them mad/obsessed with you? Have you tried slave/master roleplay, hardcore domination, making her beg for your cock? Have you ever made a girl cum 10 times in one session? How long is your sex usually lasts, have you ever fucked a girl for hours until she is completely exhausted? There are all sorts of ways to make sex more emotional, to add variety. Of course, in the end, you'll still get tired from it after doing it many times (like, for years), but this is why you need to change girls and, sometimes, make few-months-long breaks to forget about girls at all. The real sex is the same as porn - you'll get tired from usual stuff in a couple of years.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yes to most of those. Might be in a slump, or jaded, but my most recent self-imposed break has been about three months because all those different methods and more just aren't as appealing right now. Might have fried my dopamine receptors.

[–]throwaway_alt_slo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Have you ever actually gamed girls

Yes, to no awail.

flirted hard

Yupp, again to no awail.

Have you tried slave/master roleplay

Nope she ain't into dat.

hardcore domination

Not hardcore hardcore, but let's say somewhat.

making her beg for your cock?

Yeah, no shit.

Have you ever made a girl cum 10 times in one session?

24, And its not a humblebrag. It depends on girl, how sensitive she is. So it doesn't say much. I bet you could fuck a particular girl better than every other so far and she wouldn't cum because it's just the way it is.

How long is your sex usually lasts, have you ever fucked a girl for hours until she is completely exhausted?

Yes for an hour at least. It isn't hard imo, you just need to be in somewhat shape and cum already a few times. Ez. And shes sore and can't do it anymore. Its a nice feeling yeah.

There are all sorts of ways to make sex more emotional, to add variety. Of course, in the end, you'll still get tired from it after doing it many times (like, for years), but this is why you need to change girls and, sometimes, make few-months-long breaks to forget about girls at all. The real sex is the same as porn - you'll get tired from usual stuff in a couple of years.

With that i could agree pretty much yeah.

[–]acoltismypassport30 points31 points  (0 children) | Copy

For a man having sex, it becomes 1% of his life. For the man not having sex, it becomes 99% of his life.

[–]ShuckLuck26 points27 points  (2 children) | Copy

The Japanese call this moment of post-nut clarity kenjataimu (wise man time)

[–]stevecapw33 points34 points  (0 children) | Copy

Gonna have to get a bonsai tree for the nightstand now. After I bust a nut, I'll put on a kimono and tend to the tree, while a plate is laying there wanting to cuddle.

[–]bjcm589128 points29 points  (3 children) | Copy

I hear you on this. I recall a winter where I was in a drought. Then out one evening I met a cougar (late 40's, long hair, twinkling eyes, sexy hippy MILF vibes) and she suggested I come over the next day for a good time. I'd always wanted to bag a cougar and here was my shot. So the next day I met her for coffee, then we rode back to hers and yeah...she was the best b/j I've ever had and she was eager to please. Yet-

After it was all over, I immediately wondered what my boys were doing back at our place? Probably toking up, listening to tunes and playing video games and chatting shit- and I wanted to be back there. Because when all you have in common with a female is sexual tension and then (for lack of a better term) you get that load off...you're reminded that you are just two different people. If all you're chasing is a fun way to bust a nut, you can deal with that in 10 minutes or less and then go back to other stuff you'd rather be doing.

Thing is, when you're a younger guy you keep thinking when you finally nail THAT girl on your to-do list (double D's/ great arse/ fresh 18 y/o cutie/ redhead/ latina/ cougar/ Asian etc etc etc) that's when it'll be something special. Then you get it and you realise quickly that it didn't change your life. Without the drunkenness of lust, she's just another girl with different packaging.

Instead of spending so much time thinking about who you'd love to fuck, get an idea of the kind of girls you can stand being around for longer periods of time, get on with the other stuff you care about in your life and rest takes care of itself.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

100 percent brother but nowadays with girls being addicted to social media they have no personality and are straight up boring as hell. They care more about validation than actually improving themselves and being interesting.

[–]throwaway_alt_slo1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Probably toking up

Well call me addicted but getting stoned after some time with boys is better than having sex.

[–]bjcm58910 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Getting stoned and having sex wasn't as great as I'd imagined it would be. Just felt like banging in a semi-lucid dream.

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[–]volvostupidshit94 points95 points  (5 children) | Copy

The only difference is that most girls don't do anything to fix their problems. They just wait for someone to save them.

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[–]Just_Another_Wookie5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Next time I find myself in an LTR (I know, I know...), I'm going to coyly stipulate that I require a sandwich and a foot massage before "bedtime", and then retire with a sudden "headache".

[–]BriefcaseHead2-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Well said. I haven't ever seen a woman with a self improvement mindset

[–]AceMav2115 points16 points  (1 child) | Copy

Waking up half drunk at 3am and drinking Ice Water.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

Lol nothing better than that

[–]Keith_Valentine60 points61 points  (35 children) | Copy

I wish prostitution were legal, for so many reasons. Society would be a much happier place if we could all fuck and get on with our lives without the bullshit.

[–]TRP VanguardHumanSockPuppet25 points26 points  (2 children) | Copy

This is precisely why prostitution is illegal.

If you could get your rocks off and think clearly for a negotiable price, then women would lose all their opportunities for free shit by stringing you along.

[–]Keith_Valentine8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yea, they would lose a ton of power. It would be pretty funny tbh.

[–]throwaway_alt_slo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is precisely why prostitution is illegal

Not in all countries.

And even if it is legal Its somewhat demeaning to your ego as in 'i payed to fuck her? I wanna do it for free' along with "I wonder how many disgusting fatsoes before me have been plunging her just today?"

[–]Rexai0345 points46 points  (15 children) | Copy

Coming from a country, where it is legal, let me say this:

It is easy to just go and fuck a hot girl for 30€, clear your head and get on with your life.

Brings a few other problems with it as well, though. (mostly monetary 😂)

[–]Keith_Valentine56 points57 points  (12 children) | Copy

Thats how i feel , yea. Men want it, women want it. What the fuck are we doing? Im American btw. I dont see any downside at all.

It would lure the losers out of the basement too, theyd be knocking each other over to get a job and buy some pussy. Thats real economic stimulus. And theyd realize its just a thing and move on with actually developing as people.

Imagine society just bombarding you with sex like US culture does. Then not letting you buy it, and meanwhile you gotta deal with some woman who may or may not traumatize you. Fuckin shits rigged imo.

[–]jaznex11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy

for me is a problem because now I avoid talking with girls and try something because I always have this backup, €30 and 20 girls to chose from. i don't like it anymore but still doing it. one in ten girls are really nice and make you feel desired but the rest are like robots...

[–]TheGreatConst6 points7 points  (2 children) | Copy

Guys miss the fact that there is quality for sex as well and it isn't even only about looks. When you have a "vibe" with a girl, sex is just way better, especially if it is kinky and to your taste. When you get laid naturally then it is easier to create the right vibe and atmosphere than when you just bang a hooker. Though some prostitutes can be great as you said, usually they take more money as well and it depends on if you are her type.

[–]TheGweatandTewwible0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

Also agree with this. Sometimes you just want to bust in something wet, though, but natural sex is 100 times better.

[–]throwaway_alt_slo0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

something wet,

Its not. You have to wear a condom.

[–]neverendingplush8 points9 points  (3 children) | Copy

For real, America has got to be one of the most sexually frustrating places in the world. I moved to Germany and women are so much more chill about hanging out and fucking, it's just simply not a big deal and I really noticed a lack of bs and games. I remember going out to bars and clubs in America and I swear to God I'd ask myself sometimes why even bother with the head games, and when I was getting laid it was cool, but at the same time left me wondering as to why they thought their pussies were worth putting up such a guard.

[–]Keith_Valentine2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

It is bizarre. Average women here think they are queens that deserve a king, shits dumb.

[–]fodi123450 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yes bro... I'm in Germany...all of my german friends are banging girls from India... My country... India ... These girls are aall sure that they will get blue card... PR in Germany through marriage..... BUT MY GERMAN FRIENDS ARE ALL RED PILL 😂😂

[–]ncrnewbie0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Would you recommend moving to another country, partly for this reason?

Similar story of hostile chicks here in Canada.

[–]tyrryt1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

society just bombarding you with sex like US culture does. Then not letting you buy it,

That's the point. If you could just buy it, it wouldn't have the same value as an advertising tool.

[–]Keith_Valentine1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

You think its a capitalist conspiracy?

[–]tyrryt1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

No, the reason they use it for advertising is because there's demand and it's scarce. If it were easy to access or plentiful, they wouldn't use it for marketing reasons.

As for why prostitution is illegal, try looking at why family courts are rigged 100% against fathers, or why men live under perpetual fear of "sexual harassment" claims destroying their lives.

[–]Keith_Valentine0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I dunno man. Even back when Americans were having more sex before all this feminist bullshit sank in, beautiful women and sex were still a hot commodity. I dont think anything will change that.

What the Hell does family court have to do with prostitution being illegal?

[–]throwaway_alt_slo0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy

It is easy to just go and fuck a hot girl for 30€

Wow, thats pretty cheap, which country tho? I'm slovenian and here its 80-120€/h but prostitution is deciminalized here not legal or illegal.

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points  (7 children) | Copy

I havnt been laid for 17 years and it just got so long the anxiety around trying for it is a mental block. I wish prostitution was legal in the US so I could use it as fucking therapy and get some self confidence back.

[–]Keith_Valentine7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yep, I know exactly what you mean. Like why should there be prerequisites to have sex? Trp for example, you gotta lift, nice clothes, good hair etc. Its a lot of investment to get your goal, which is sex and however much attention you are seeking from women. And thats fine. But there should be another option.

Some men have demanding careers and social obligations. So on top of that, they have to study "game" and dress up and trick some bitch into screwing you to get a nut? After which the alpha will proly emotionally damage the ho when he nexts her ass, now she goes on the warpath on innocent betas. Pfft, fuck that. Legalize prostitution so those of us that have full lives can pay good money, fuck some betty a couple times a week or whatever, and go play playstation 4 if we feel like it. Health and growth is wonderful, but sex workers are equal opportunity. In 2020 there is no reason for this to be an issue. And meanwhile theyre actively Arresting average men for trying to screw prostitutes, and dressing up lady cops as whores to entrap people. What the FUCK is that?! Makes me mad . one of you dudes with a clean record needs to run for political office on a platform of pro prostitution. You will win in a landslide.

[–]Korrangar0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yep, I know exactly what you mean. Like why should there be prerequisites to have sex? Trp for example, you gotta lift, nice clothes, good hair etc. Its a lot of investment to get your goal, which is sex and however much attention you are seeking from women

Sex is one of the goal. Maybe the main if you struggle to get laid but once you get sex frequently it just feels nice to be a better man everyday, gain respect from your peers maybe inspire them to follow your exemple

[–]Senior Contributoradam-l1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

How far is Mexico?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I'd like to keep my kidneys. And, far. Canada is closer but I don't know if it's legal up there.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

You're obviously not using your money for anything besides supporting your lonely boring existence. Might as well buy a plane ticket. Same ol shit or change it up.

[–]Gabi13519 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

Gorvernment: ''NOOO YOU CANT DO THAT IT INSULT THE WOMEN PRIDE OR HOW THE FUCK TO SAAAYYY NYAAAA''

Also the government: haha,, pornhub go scuick scuick.

[–]Senior Contributordr_warlock0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Government makes it legal for police to fuck prostitutes during investigations. They don't care about women's pride. Women are just cash cows, sex, and a vehicle to oppress the real threat (men).

[–]cat_magnet4 points5 points  (3 children) | Copy

It's legal where I am and it feels like 3d porn. It feels quite clinical and methodical in most pay to play cases.

[–]Keith_Valentine9 points10 points  (2 children) | Copy

What do you expect, love? Its a whore dude. Fuck her and go play pool or something.

[–]cat_magnet5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Haha. Your first comment insinuates that it's a substitute for sex with a girl that actually wants to fuck you and I am saying it's not.

[–]Keith_Valentine-2 points-1 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pfft. Thats not what i meant at all. I dont give a crap if a whore wants to fuck me, its a business transaction.

I said people would be happier if they could just fuck someone and go about their business. And then pointed out its annoying that to have sex you usually have to deal with a girl and date them, listen to them, all that crap. Some people dont feel like doing that and tbh they shouldnt have to.

[–]TheGweatandTewwible0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Can't help but agree. Would've saved me hours of my time when I was 17-19 and I couldn't get laid to save my life lol thank god I found TRP

[–]HJGamer26 points27 points  (0 children) | Copy

You almost said it yourself.

You need emotional connection, otherwise plates aren’t fulfilling in the long run.

[–]Gawernator31 points32 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah sex with a committed and great LTR is infinitely better than a random hookup.

[–]INNASKILLZ2K1810 points11 points  (0 children) | Copy

With Dime pieces is better, and I find if I have some sort of connection with the girl it's much better.

Some 6 off Tinder ain't really going to do it.

[–]xlr8edmayhem16 points17 points  (6 children) | Copy

I've....never quite grasped...the..what would you call it, need people have for hook ups?

Like people in these comments keep empathizing and saying it makes them feel empty when they're done and I'm just sitting here like "Stop....doing it???"

If you want sex well damn...there's your motivation to go find a girl you actually care about.

Maybe it is just down to me being a traditionalist....but even then, traditionalist or not...I'm not understanding how you can be like

here's a thing that makes me feel empty.

I am also going to keep doing the damn thing.

Like....im sorry....what?

[–]RedGille12 points13 points  (1 child) | Copy

coz they think caring for some girl is so blue.

omg actually having feeling for someone else? it might make me a beta...

I discovered OP's emptiness on first time sex, and since then I try not to fuck anyone that i don't care for. Never been to a hooker for that reason.

In fact, I treat my women like princesses. Yeah... I just wrote it and no lightning hit me.

And they love it. Of course.

So why am I not a BP guy? coz they know, the minute they leave, I'll be treating ANOTHER girl like a princess. I do it coz I like to do that.

TRP doesn't say "find a random pussy and fuck it". It's not part of the theory.

And yes, sex is empty as a fart when it's meaningless.

[–]noNooodleArms9 points10 points  (0 children) | Copy

In fact, I treat my women like princesses. Yeah... I just wrote it and no lightning hit me.

And they love it. Of course.

So why am I not a BP guy? coz they know, the minute they leave, I'll be treating ANOTHER girl like a princess. I do it coz I like to do that.

Nice. Sounds like you're doing it right.

[–]throwawaycunt19975 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

Some these girls be worse in bed than my own hand and a mirror

[–]throwaway_alt_slo1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

hand and a mirror

I see, you too are a man of class

[–]Kizzou3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Like people in these comments keep empathizing and saying it makes them feel empty when they're done and I'm just sitting here like "Stop....doing it???"

For me I had to go through the hook up trap of constantly going out every weekend and chasing to see how empty it made me feel.

Yea i was getting laid but when I compare that to girlfriends I've had or a consistent fwb, the random thot chase just doesnt compare to a genuine emotional connection

[–]KIsarek4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Personally, I think it's due to shit not being equal when it comes to feelings. Like me, for example, I liked a couple girls in HS and tried hard to get with them. They would string me along sure, because who doesn't like the feeling of a handsome guy being into them? But then they would turn around and fuck the very first Chad to make them smile, while I'm left with empty pockets, an empty stomach, and a heavy heart. Why the hell would I ever let any woman have my heart after that? Why should I struggle and claw my way into their heart, when I can just smooth talk my way into their bed like the dozen other guys that came before me?

Edit: I guess what I'm trying to say is that a traditional relationship isn't worth it these days when the woman has probably let guys fuck her without even mentioning the word "relationship" to them. It sucks but this is where we are as a species.

[–]AlexCarlin36 points37 points  (1 child) | Copy

This was post nut clarity. The fact that you’re calling her a 6.5 means she was probably a 4-5 in reality. It probably wouldn’t have felt this way with a dime

[–]antalvarez_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah i agree i guess i just value improving myself more over fucking bitches atm i just wanted to bust a nut because it’s been a while it definitely would have felt better if she was a dime but i’d still rather be self-improving.

[–]JustASimulation016 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy

I think OP needs to look at himself and his life. He's right in the sense a meaningless orgasm with someone you aren't seriously attracted to, is a waste of time, and a mild hassle. (I've had way better wanks, than some of my sexual conquests). However...... when you're seriously hot for someone, and you have the chase, the seduction, the foreplay.... that's one of life's great pleasures. Sex is great when it's fun for both, and there's chemistry. But pursuing sex and the orgasm for the sake of it... then yeah, obviously, a worthless nut, is a waste of time.

[–]Schhwing11 points12 points  (3 children) | Copy

You’re just spewing out redpill teachings. Sex isn’t the peak of human experience but you probably didn’t like the girl. What about laughing contentedly after sex with someone you have true chemistry with. That’s a good feeling. Sex for sex’s sake isn’t satisfying. When you really want the girl it is

[–]antalvarez_[S] -1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

I agree with that i think i’m just in a point of my life where i value improving myself over building chemistry with a girl I actually like because there’s so many things i want to improve on that will give me absolutely no time to even game a girl because i work a 9-5 and the time im not at work im working on myself at home or at the gym (a reason why i used tinder was because i barley have time). If i had the time to improve myself and build a solid connection with a girl then hopefully i can feel that good feeling you’re talking about.

[–]Schhwing1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

It shouldn’t be a chore. If it feels mechanical or forced then there’s something lacking in the mix. I’m sure you’ve had experiences where things felt right when you seduced a girl/she seduces you. Reflect on that experience and seek out more like that. Don’t waste time on notches on the belt, unless you get satisfaction out of that.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I have had that experience and I can’t lie and say I didn’t enjoy it because i did. I also agree and appreciate the advice.

[–]ClassyFussy8 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

You've grown as a person and as a male I guess. Sex ain't a pinnacle of your life and this is the great thing to realise; there is so much more to experience, to uncover, to see and to feel. Me being shorter that average, I used to be subbed on r-short. Damnnn, this place is crawled with thirsty species. They think that getting laid is the only thing that matters, the ultimate goal, the thing that defines you as an individual (heck it does not). To be able to purge your thirst is the first thing you ought to accomplish in these guys' cases. Nice post bro, thanks for sharing.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Absolutely brother & I appreciate it man i hope it sheds some light on anyone who was valuing pussy over self-improvement.

[–]MerryVegetableGarden4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Post-nut clarity. If evolution didn’t strap men with perpetual horniness, we’d have developed FTL capabilities by now long before our sun goes nova and obliterates everything in a one billion kilometer radius.

[–]pukima_sial4 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah, all my bitches love me, and I love all my bitches
But it's like as soon as I cum, I come to my senses

[–]Endorsed ContributorMetalgear2224 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy

Totally normal. Women are largely a waste of time but fun to have around from time to time. Most people come to TRP desperate for pussy and the successful ones leave hardly caring for it.

Focus your purpose and mission boys

[–]BriefcaseHead20 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Well said. I honestly feel like one of those men now. I came here at 18 years old like I was starving without pussy. Then I started getting pussy. Honestly a lot of it. Then I stopped the effort to get that pussy, half of it disappeared but now it slowly falls into my lap without much extra time and effort from me. And I'm making so much progress in the things I care about that I genuinely feel like a happy person 24/7. I owe that to you boys in this sub who kept pushing the importance of self importance.

[–]arakouzo5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

Sex is more of a physical need than it is a sense of accomplishment. Think of it more like eating. Getting a blowjob from a woman off of Tinder is like stopping for a quick bite on the way home from work so you are not hungry. You do not feel as though you accomplished anything. You just had a hamburger. After fulfilling your needs, you can focus on better things to do at home.

It is okay to enjoy the hamburger for what it is. But it is just a hamburger. You need to eat and should enjoy it, but it is not what any of us live to do.

[–]DTron23324 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly, infact when I was fucking the most is when I would feel the most empty, and drained after. I would get so horny and worked up, but after I came I would get a feeling of emptiness as well, a bit of disappointment. The next day I’d have very little energy, and I’d be down a bit. It was empty meaningless sex. But one night I had sex with a girl(who’s now my LTR) and we talked and clicked for 6 hours straight first time meeting.. we had 4 rounds and it only made me feel like wanting more. I did not feel like shit this time, so I figured I might as well come see here again since she was very attractive, and very pleasant and affectionate to be around. There was a instant connection between us, it will be night I’ll always remember. It was on my birthday as well.

Stick with your passions, and your goals in life. Saying this will happen to you, but the reason you feel the way you do is because there’s a lack of meaningful connection between the two of you . At that point it’s just masterbation, and we as men sometimes don’t learn from our mistakes.

[–]siccbubblegum3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

That’s called post nut clarity. I had the same feeling after a hookup with a classmate I wasn’t attracted to, which resulted in having a semi the entire time. Didn’t even bust but overall I could of been doing way more useful things in that time.

[–]recursoinominado3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel you, bro.

The last year was full of insights like those you had. Especially when the post-nut clarity kicks in, I always thought to myself something like: that was a waste of time/(sexual) energy, I could be using it to do something way more productive than to use some girl's body to stimulate my dick into ejaculation.

NoFap and MGTOW is the path, brother.

Next time you met some chick, try to take your time and save your semen, try to have slow tantric sex without the ejaculation part, this way you won't regret after.

[–]Sake992 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

All pussy and tits feel the same, sex is overrated. Eventual purpose is to continue mankind, not the end in itself.

[–]FinallyRed3 points4 points  (1 child) | Copy

All sex can provide beyond the same sinking feeling you get after jerking yourself off is either some connection to a girl you care about beyond the nut or validation. A tinder quickie provides neither.

Clearly you hunger for a greater feeling of self worth. Obviously the usual lifting, learning, making more money, etc applies but when you want some entertainment actually play the game and seduce hot girls in person. Don't kid yourself that tinder rises much above fapping.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Completely agree i should have racked up plates before covid hit

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[–]TheGreatConst5 points6 points  (1 child) | Copy

It isn't exactly a lottery because results aren't completely random.

[–]Rackbone14 points15 points  (1 child) | Copy

A girl bought me an uber to her place last weekend. When I got there I was kinda feeling her but also like whatever. Ended up facefuckin her and cumming in her mouth and IMMEDIATELY just didnt want to be there or around her. Gamed her down and got her to get me an uber home too lmao. Old me would of felt bad but once youre redpilled you just cant feel bad anymore. Ill leave the simping to the other lames who are texting her and trying to get to know her and all that wack shit.

But its an empty feeling. I skeeted and was just DONE. Was basically masturbation with extra steps.

[–]BriefcaseHead24 points5 points  (0 children) | Copy

Good man. This is how I've always dealt with the post nut clarity. Sometimes you actually vibe with them and we'll chill for a bit sucking on some ice lollies and listening to music. Other times you wanna get the fuck out. You're a man. Listen to your thoughts and get the fuck out quick, back to the things that give you fulfilment.

[–]Zech4riah8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

That's why you should only have sex with women you are actually attracted to. It greatly reduces that feeling of "emptiness".

[–]Neo_0072 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

"Self improvement is masturbation" Tyler Durden

[–]Thebropill2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel you on this, I have been in the game since 18 fucked somewhere in the region of 30-40 girls and I don't feel any better for it.I would rather hit a bench pr then bang a chick at this point been stuck on 125kg for too long now aha.

[–]diejager2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

After motorboating her tits for 5 minutes straight and busting a fat load in her mouth i felt.. nothing. emptiness. Like i could have been doing better things. Don’t get me wrong busting a nut is a great feeling but after a minute of sitting there with my pants down i had this epiphany that women & sex are great but there’s so many more things in life that are just flat out better. Maybe i would have felt differently if she was a dime but all i could think about was every other feeling i found better than what i just felt.

Exactly.

Everything in life is vanity. You are the one that gives meaning to it. Orgasm is great, but lasts a minute or two. Achieving your goals provide a much long lasting pleasure than any orgasm. For instance, when I landed a nice job last year, it felt much better than any passionate sex that I had with my ex in the past 2 years prior.

[–]mr_Tobbor30 points31 points  (6 children) | Copy

I am a chad because of lifting and genes. I have a lot of matches on Tinder. So I dated her yesterday. She was a virgin but accepted anal sex and I flood her anus. I am very happy having casual sex with chicks. I don't want to do other stuff. Life is beautiful. What, no?

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[–]neverendingplush3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

Describing yourself as a Chad is kind of a bit odd

[–]Keith_Valentine1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I expected a Rick Roll.

That guy has gotta be kidding though.

[–]yourgirlfriendsdad8 points9 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is hilarious how red pilled this is

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[–]curvedbymykind1 point2 points  (3 children) | Copy

I have this all the time. I took a month off from blowjobs and have been making great gains on my life

[–]WhiteGhosts11 points12 points  (2 children) | Copy

How many did you suck every month

[–]Kn311 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

99% of the time after a bang, I dip or kick her out.

[–]MagnumBurrito1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

This is the post nut truth. Some chicks you want to run from. Some you like hanging with and want to fuck again. The game of it is you're not sure which kind of chick she is until you bust.

[–]beardestbird1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

You think the feeling would be the same if she was an 8.5? Serious question

I’ve definitely had that feeling with uglier women. This just means you need to improve yourself more and get hotter chicks

[–]antalvarez_[S] 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

Yes & no because if she was a 9/10 yeah i might have gotten an ego boost and enjoyed it more but at the end of the day i could have been self improving. It’s nice to have a cheat meal and enjoy yourself from time to time but the end goal still remains the same. Be better than you were yesterday.

[–]beardestbird2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy

I understand but personally I haven’t had my period of banging lots of women yet. Cant even say I’ve smashed a 10. Maybe only one 9. I’m still trying to improve myself.

You sound like you’ve had a decent amount of sex. Might be older than me. That’s probably why you feel that way. But i still see the sentiment.

[–]el_salik1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Post nut clarity... also your testosterone drops off after ejaculation and rises again steadily

[–]drv120211 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

boom op you are now gay. Jk, I'm glad that you found the urge to pursuit something more than physical being.

[–]JjLri1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel you buddy , that happened to me too and yeah it's feels like you are wasting your time

[–]thatalexfellah1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I feel the same way bro I used to be with a 6 myself this girl would suck a golf ball through a garden hose I could literally skull fuck this bitch...i duno man but I just snapped out of it one day I realise sex is just an accessory to life in general it is not everything, bettering yourself is key

[–]35T3B4N19901 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Honestly if you even got to fuck a 8+ smv girl, would you still even feel the same? Maybe not immediately but eventually the emptiness will return. Tell me about your stories guys, how does it feel before and after.b

I just got banned from off my chest for posting here wow

[–]1meerita1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Every time I dumped i feel like "bitch don't bother me anymore" and they are just starting do cuddle and asking romantic shit or talking non stop, "please shut the fuck up" is my main though and if i am at her home, i go to sleep fast or leave. If it is my place, i tell them i will go to play some before sleep.

[–]SpiralingNacho1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Makes sense.

Why would you value something that occurred so easily.

[–]vintagepillars1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

have yall at least tried fkin dudes

[–]TheGweatandTewwible1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Pussy (or in this case, a mouth) isn't all it's cracked up to be. Surprise surprise. Having sex eventually becomes something like eating junk food. It's good and it fills you up but it's not giving you any nutritional value. Stay on your purpose, my dude and godspeed.

[–]Flesh_Pillow53 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy

You're not wrong in your analysis. You are very much correct.

[–]DrunkOldBear2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy

All this 'after I fucked this rich pageant model and her twin sister in all positions and they said I was a love god with my nine inches rod and my chiseled abs I felt empty and wanted to something useful like lifting' shit is only EXCESS OF PROLACTIN IN YOUR SYSTEMS. Don't think of yourselves that high guys. It's not you are redpilled, it's you are mammals.

It's been smelling like vanilla here in the last few weeks.

[–]ebaymasochist1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

empty and wanted to something useful like lifting' shit is only EXCESS OF PROLACTIN IN YOUR SYSTEMS. Don't think of yourselves that high guys. It's not you are redpilled,

Finally someone said it. 180° hormonal shift. Your brain thinks that you might have just produced a child! So it switches to "dude you better get your shit together right now, cause you have to protect and provide for your kid".

[–]codeofsilence1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Jesus this post is garbage and so are the replies. This is no epiphany. Unless you are 14 years old.

Sex for the sake of sex is meaningless, and someone talked about prostitution below, and it might as well be that. If you want a handjob from a hot girl, go pay for it. Or whatever. But it will always be empty, and if it isn't, you probably don't know what real sex is.

I want to say that I am amazed, but I am not amazed really.

Having sex with someone you have a real connection with is intense, amazing, and mind blowing. Having sex with a hot chick you don't know, that's just sex. And if you are just wanting to go around getting your dick wet, do it however, but don't talk about epiphanies for godssakes.

[–]BigBoiBahmani1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Exactly ! Welcome to the brotherhood.

[–]Zemtex1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You did it! I agree. Many men does not see this and keep chasing something for nothing. Great post.

[–]SmokingRabbit131 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Every successful man encounters this epiphany at some point on the journey to becoming successful.

[–]TheOnePucnhMan1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Post nut clarity hits hard

[–]theguytheguy10001 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I've had that same feeling after fucking even hot ass girls. that's the game.

I thought with really hot girls it would he different. it wasn't.

external stimulation provides pleasure but it don't make you happy.

[–]TheGreatConst1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

While I agree with that you said, boring vanilla sex is vastly inferior to proper sex session with foreplay and roleplay, when the girl submits to you completely, when it hits all your fetishes and preferences. The orgasm itself is just a small part of enjoying sex and the so-called "emotional connection" isn't something that only girls need and I don't mean here sharing your feelings or "vulnerability", but having fun and experience emotions together. It is one thing to bang a hooker or tinderslut without even talking to her. And it is the other thing to fuck a girl with whom you have a great vibe, who isn't only hot, but also fun to be around.

[–]Extremely_Photogenic0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

When I was virign getting laid was like the only thing in life that matter. Now, any time I have sex with someone I'm not really into as soon as I'm done it feels like ,get the fuck out I want to be alone. Kinda weird.

[–]Per_Horses60 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I feel you. Post nut clarity is real. I think there’s nothing wrong with sex, it feels amazing. It’s just not something us men should prioritize and chase as much as our goals. It’s all that - a by product of success and hard work. That’s when getting head/ fucked feels the best imo.

[–]grigor470 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Standards are key, you should work to improve yourself and find a girl that you actively want to be with. Not settling for what's available, which while immediately satisfying tends to come with regret ...nothing of value comes easy

[–]brennyflocko0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Damn bro that’s too bad I had sex yesterday and it rocked

[–]XxPegasusxX0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Post nut clarity hits hard

[–]BriefcaseHead20 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Women are one of the rewards from a life of self improvement. I completely feel you. I bet you were obsessed with pussy just a few years ago? And now you contemplate if its even worth meeting a girl because that'll take 2-3 hours out of your day you could have been working on that business idea, doing extra cardio and leaning down, reading etc.

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I'm glad I did enough fucking at age 19-22 to finally realise that even sex isn't that great. It's only important when you don't have it. And when you have it consistently, its like having a cheat meal all the time. It loses its excitement and you get fat.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy

Bingo. I used to be obsessed until i started getting some and realized it’s nothing crazy and i could have been doing better things.

[–]BriefcaseHead21 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy

I'm saving your post to reread every now and then. Thank you for sharing and writing this out. I actually think this is a very important part of our development as men. Put that some energy we had for the hunt onto things that are more fruitful than just busting your nut. And it seems like those things actually end up in busting more nuts because we get more confident, more wealth etc from focusing on improving valuable things.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I appreciate it man i’m glad it helped you out if it wasn’t for RP I’d still be putting women on a pedestal i’ve learned a lot from this sub

[–]MuleFool420 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Post nut clarity is a thing.

[–]shaggy14520 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Post nut clarity is too real

[–]LeTimJames0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The post nut emptiness is a real thing, especially if you're not into her. Of course self improvement or a personal milestone will feel better than nutting in a 6.5

[–]ditenado0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

post nut clarity saves lives

[–]I_miss_0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

The Japanese have a word for this.

けんじゃタイム kenjataimu. noun. period after orgasm when a man is free from sexual desire and can think clearly.

[–]mandathor0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Once you can get some, some of the magic is lost. Also, I can feel bad busting a nut by myself sometimes, probably related to shame and wasting time. The sex could also be boring, because of mood. Realizing the effort and time you sometimes spend to get some pussy just makes me go "its not worth it", I'm not gonna chase it, I'll just gonna wait for a better opportunity because what I can get out of the time I sometimes spend trying to get it is more fun or more worthwhile than the sex...

[–]1DubbleFUPAwitCheez0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

That "emptiness" is what contentment feels like. When you totally feel the urge for nothing you are content. I remember it was after one of the best blowjobs I ever got that I felt content for about 5 seconds. I just sat there staring at the wall. For a moment the whole world as far as I was concerned stood still. Kinda underwhelming huh? But that's it.

[–]ynedlog0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

This is great. if any of you are interested in pornfreemen. It is only for men

[–]Senior Contributoradam-l0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Men's sex drive shares common brain circuits with hunger. (Women's doesn't).

[–]pmtiggobitties0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Post-nut clarity is real bro.

[–]unamins0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You feels like that because you was not in control, you was not dominant. She kept you 1 hour talking about her shit and you was impotent about that, you stayed there and suffered from the idea that you will lose her if you would do glue you would want.

I feel the same with prostitutes, I know that I cannot force her to do what I want so I don't feel a lot of pleasure.

It's not about her physical appearance.

I can feel more pressure from a 6 that I use as my fucktoy than not a 9 that put a lot of resistance and is not submissive.

[–]EqualFaithlessness0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

You have reached Red Pill enlightenment 😌

[–]throwawayforerab0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

I feel nothing after I get my paycheck. Getting my dick sucks by a chick with huge titties is way better.

[–]TaCTurnus0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Lol, dont all man think this after sex? Nothing new here, no offense

[–]sorearm-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Congratulations on your next stage of evolution

[–]theredsperg-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

that's called shooting your load. you're not gonna be searching for the next hole

stop putting pussy on pedestal

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

you kinda sound superficial, if i do say so myself...and tbh, what i get from here is that you need to see women as human beings too...they are not some other wordly thing you use and dispose...and its not about me trying to be an annying feminist, bc the same goes for men..people are people and people have feelings and therefor, long for conection...sex is nothing compared to intimacy

[–]cootershooter420-1 points0 points  (6 children) | Copy

its not that deep bro, she just wasnt hot.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy

Everyone commenting about her looks are not getting the big picture. Lets say she was a dime. Would it have been better? Absolutely. Regardless of how much better it could have been I still would have felt the same after nutting. I still would want to improve and be better than i was yesterday. I still think hitting my PR bench pressing is a better feeling. None of that changes because of her looks.

[–]cootershooter4201 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

I disagree, there is no shame in fucking a 6. But I am disinterested immediately afterwards. Having a hot girl in your bed after you just smashed is a nice feeling, but a not hot girl is just a nuisance. Respect to the bench comment, I would rather fuck a hot girl but more power to you brother.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Brother that’s the whole point to my post. You admit that smashing a hot girl is a nice feeling but you also agree that hitting your PR bench pressing is a better feeling. That’s literally my whole point. That’s theres other things in life that’s better than sex.

[–]LukePranay0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Bro, I'm telling ya', it massively depends on the attraction/appreciation/resonance/relation you have to that woman, and the kind of sex that you have with her..

[–]cootershooter420-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

We don't agree, I would rather smash a hot girl. The girl you smashed was not hot. Big difference in post nut feels.

[–]antalvarez_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re clearly still confused and not grasping my point all good man agree to disagree



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