Their opinions change depending on how it benefits them

painmakesyoustronger · 2020-07-30T18:53:17+00:00

ALSO MEN: Leave me and I’ll make you seem like an unfit parent in court, get sole custody AND get child support from you because I physically abused you and you divorced me for it. And then I’ll abuse our daughter as an outlet for my rage. /my dad

hilariouslystated · 2020-07-31T04:27:08+00:00

In my college, I had a friend who got pregnant by her then boyfriend who was also pretty toxic. He convinced her to abort. They continued their toxic relationship for a few more years after we graduated but he'd constantly throw in her face that she'd gotten the abortion...which he'd begged her for in the first place. Men are so disgusting and I feel like we're better off without them sometimes.

CatlovesMoca · 2020-07-30T18:52:53+00:00

This is so true and beyond awful.

I can't personally ever date a guy who is anti-choice. Guys can decide not to be parents by just abandoning their kids but they have so much to say.

EDIT: Thank you for the award!

NoThisIs-Patrick · 2020-07-30T19:21:37+00:00

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photography1987 · 2020-07-30T20:06:36+00:00

My daughter’s father was the “You have to abort, I’m not ready to be a father” except he was particularly cruel about his choice of words.

8 years later and now I have the most beautiful daughter in the world. ❤️

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-07-30T21:11:47+00:00

Don’t forget it’s also the woman’s fault if the man doesn’t stick around to be a parent. No blame for the deadbeat dad (he should have the right to opt out and not pay child support if he tells her he doesn’t want it) but she’s a POS for getting pregnant with someone who doesn’t stick around.

Madholley · 2020-07-30T18:47:23+00:00

This is true and PAINFUL

babe__ruthless · 2020-07-31T05:29:38+00:00

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Fitncurly · 2020-07-30T19:27:57+00:00

Where’s the lie? Men 🙄

Allaboutb1 · 2020-07-31T11:32:58+00:00

They see it as their right to inseminate (ejaculate inside) a woman because it feels good. This right must be free from consequences.

2020-07-30T22:14:10+00:00

Men are so fucked up. Literally so fucked up.

Myplummms · 2020-07-30T23:04:20+00:00

This should be a pinned post.

kaitybubbly · 2020-07-31T03:19:39+00:00

One of the reasons why I refuse to have children, especially with men.

ProfessionalExpert7 · 2020-07-30T19:36:00+00:00

So true.

grand_tiremaster · 2020-07-31T15:51:39+00:00

I actually had the opposite problem:( my mom is the one who convinced me to abort 4 years ago. She pretty much told me that she wouldn't help me at all, whether that be driving to dr. appointments or helping with the baby care, and anything inbetween. Basically being a single mom was the worst decision possible, and aborting it would be better for me. It made me feel so shitty because my friend got pregnant that year and even though her and her family were dirt poor, the women in her family (her mom, sisters, aunts, grandmothers) all got together and threw her a baby shower. They showed her real support and they love her daughter. My friend was a single mom too for a time until she found her fiance :/ I dunno, I just think it's weird that my mom wouldn't be ecstatic to meet her grandchild.. I have regretted my decision ever since. My bf understands my pain and after we marry he said we can start trying for a baby right away. I want nothing more tbh.

MilitantPERF · 2020-07-31T11:12:33+00:00

Males are fucking tyrannical hypocrites. This is all proof of that, because that's exactly how they think!

TokiMarvel · 2020-07-31T18:24:17+00:00

And those joint custody or sole custody men, we need to watch. Their moms, sisters, aunts, or new gf/wife ends up taking care of their child(ren). No CS and a built in babysitter.

xHouse_of_Hornetsx · 2020-07-31T02:46:28+00:00

My boyfriend: doesn't want babies and is buying me an IUD because he knows he doesn't want to be responsible for an unwanted baby. Has suggested i deserve a man who will give me a baby but after hearing nonstop baby daddy horror stories i think im gonna stick with my man who knows what he wants and just accept a child free life

LCM75360 · 2020-07-30T21:10:59+00:00

Well this is just so horribly true it's disgusting.

blaquevenus · 2020-07-30T22:10:10+00:00

Dang wish I could upvote 10,000,000 times!

AfraidofFollowers · 2020-08-01T20:24:41+00:00

Also men: “not ready to wear a condom”

Also men: sitting on their jobless ass all day and don’t left a dish or finger.

Also men: liars

Also men: muh dick

Also men: you work three jobs and com home tired to a dirty house and I bathed children who are wide awake. Then they still want to masturbate with your body and wonder why you show them no love or interest in sex.

Wait, that was just my marriage. There’s worse out there.

helppleasekk · 2020-07-31T00:04:20+00:00

LITERALLY THO

_T_S · 2020-07-30T20:31:29+00:00

I mean, those are different men. Not like they're contradicting themselves. Just contradicting each other.

But yes, I agree that each of those are very real and very shitty opinions.

Elegant-Stop · 2020-08-01T08:15:41+00:00

Also men: abandons children they forced into this world

Thegrassisgreenerrr · 2020-07-31T03:31:32+00:00

So frustrating.

theloveofgreyskull · 2020-07-31T03:45:58+00:00

ALSO MEN: This child isn’t biologically mine but I will raise and love it as if it were.

Title	Their opinions change depending on how it benefits them
Author	babe__ruthless
Upvotes	1771
Comments	68
Date	July 30, 2020 6:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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