So we have on both sides of the fence problems, one is that women want/need some sort of provider a man that earns more than them, also if the women choose to become feminine and gives up her career and the man leaves her, that makes her also vulnarable.

But man of course fear childcare and alimony and the general divorce rape. So the classical solutions are either from feminists are man should just all be mr. Perfect and suck up the sexism against them, the traditionalists would say just role back the laws to 1950 about marriage and get back what worked better back then, at least children had it better back then.

I think it's unlikely that we can go back in time, but I think we need changes sure we can wait till sex robots completely replace the need of man of women, and they rather invest a few thousend dollars in them, or we can look how prostitution booms and with it probably STDs will go through the roof, I would assume that eventually the women's suicide rates will go up they are on lot's of meds already...

But back to my proposed solution, a UBI, women would not risk to fall into total disaster if they quit their jobs for man, and man that are not succesful are still "stable" because some women don't want the 6 figures but want the man to at least care for themself. Also with a UBI all man could live outside their parents, also a reason women tend to not accept them as partners or sleep with them, man could marry because divorce would not completely ruin them, because the childcare would be paid by the state. In fact you would not even have to marry because the women is save to get children out of wedlock and the state would not subsidide marriages by reducing taxes but pay UBIs to children instead.

Women would stop using children as way to blackmail the man in pay more money. They would maybe resent them less, because a seperation does not mean for them getting economically hurt that much.

We could get to a new peace deal between the sexes and stop the current "war" we are in.