I’ve been dating a girl for 11 months. Strong family values, smaller city in the Midwest, Christian, has a mix of secular and Christian friends, doesn’t party, never done drugs, n count of 1 before me, she’s 23. Doesn’t use social media much at all, doesn’t entertain any orbiters, she’s frugal and disciplined.

These factors I’m sure play a role. But, she’s never shit tested once in our relationship. She does whatever I want and sex is on tap. She was really in to me from the get go, and I think she saw me as out of her league from the start, which definitely helps the dynamic work in my favor like this in our relationship.

Of course, I’ve learned how to balance beta and alpha traits. I’m generally pretty sarcastic and non needy anyway, so that helps as well. But I’ve been waiting for the other shoe to drop, and it hasn’t. I believe she really is who I think she is. That being said, I’ve kept my oneitis in check, and if she leaves me tomorrow I’d be just fine in about a week. Objectively speaking she might be this hot submissive “unicorn” you all speak of. As for me, I’m not marriage or family inclined so eventually I will have to cut her loose so she can find her hubby.

I wanted to ask, what gives? Is it the case that, there’s a spectrum for AWALT and taking advantage of hypergamy that these girls are on?