Husband sues wife for every penny he spent on child he found out isn't his

unpopopinx · 2019-07-03T16:43:21+00:00

He should win

Citizen_Karma · 2019-07-03T16:45:13+00:00

Sad thing is, he won't win.

teamshred · 2019-07-03T18:02:04+00:00

The actual father should probably start paying for his kid, so her naming him is only fair. Also the kid deserves to know his biological father if only to get his family medical history.

Great_Sandwich · 2019-07-03T17:58:54+00:00

If you want yet another example of "toxic femininity", look no further than this. Right out of the playbook.

3: "Tell a man the child you're carrying is his, so that he will take on the financial burden of helping you raise it."

donttellmywife666 · 2019-07-03T18:10:38+00:00

The sad thing is her "pussy pass", didn't just hurt the husband. It just ruined her poor child's life. Poor kid.

bluerazballs · 2019-07-03T17:40:45+00:00

It’s fucked up that he probably won’t win. And my girlfriend asks why I’m terrified of marriage, lmao

superstar9976 · 2019-07-03T17:56:43+00:00

Feel bad for the dad, he got cucked. Also feel bad for the kid, he just lost the guy he called Dad and he'll eventually internalize once he's older that his mom's a whore

Press F for our bois

probablynotapreacher · 2019-07-03T18:22:45+00:00

That poor kid. Sorry your mom is a hoe and your dad isn't your dad.

Freeiheit · 2019-07-03T20:34:21+00:00

If Someone scam you out of $100k+, they’ll go to prison for years and have to pay back all the money they stole. But if they do it in a way that inflicts extreme emotional distress and tears a family apart, not only will they get off Scott free, but the government will often help them continue their fraud against you. Truly disgusting

carl0071 · 2019-07-03T19:26:38+00:00

Paternity fraud should be a specific crime

TheNiggerWord · 2019-07-03T17:30:57+00:00

He should be suing her for the money he spent on her as well.

beowulfunchained · 2019-07-03T18:35:25+00:00

the woman was 'full of remorse'.

Where was this whore's remorse for the past 8 years?

It is funny though. She is remorseful only because she was caught.

r/MGTOW

guylostintheuniverse · 2019-07-03T23:17:50+00:00

Why isnt the DNA of every child checked against their parents at birth?

SonyToyo · 2019-07-04T02:26:36+00:00

ITT: People still defending the woman and attacking the man.

Guys, being a cuck isn’t “respectable”. Stop it.

LizurdsAreBlue · 2019-07-03T18:22:38+00:00

I love how all the women are saying the man in vindictive and how he needs to take care of the child. How could he walk away when he loved the kid for 8 years. He needs to be the bigger man and forgive her and take care of the kid. Ive also seen several comments saying how its none of his business to know the bio fathers name.

He raised someone else's kid for 8 years, he sure as fuck deserves to know.

2019-07-03T20:27:20+00:00

Why do people think that men should just throw their lives away when their SO has a baby from another person. Like yes, I would love to drop all my hopes and dreams because some other dude knocked you up. How rude of me to even think about the fact that you lied to me, slept with someone else, and expected me to raise your lie for 18 years or speak out against you at all. I'm just a worthless male, right?

Abra_Kebabra · 2019-07-03T22:32:58+00:00

This is so sad. Had a guy I was dating find out that the child he was visiting and paying child support for wasn’t his after 2 years, turns out the girl had around 4 men to chose from that could’ve been the father and just picked him because she knew he would be a good dad. They gave him the option of suing her to get the money back but the mother had never worked and he couldn’t bring himself to take what little money they had away from this kid. It was devastating to watch, some women are disgusting.

CantBanFacts · 2019-07-03T18:31:33+00:00

Imagine that I had medical technology that allowed me to impregnate a woman with a fertilized ova from my sperm and another woman's egg during otherwise completely normal copulation.

Now imagine I do this to my wife. I'd get fucking LIFE IN PRISON for this shit. This woman should go to prison for the rest of her life.

Evil_Cushion · 2019-07-03T18:18:22+00:00

Even if you trust your wife completely, demand a paternity test for every child claimed to be yours.

Druiced · 2019-07-03T20:40:48+00:00

Mandatory DNA testing for all newborns to drive what is printed on a birth certificate will solve this overnight.

EvilDog77 · 2019-07-03T19:21:06+00:00

"Sorry kid, I'm not your dad. I'll be needing that Playstation back now."

ABadManInLondon · 2019-07-03T18:03:22+00:00

The reason the court cannot let him win is that 10% of children born in a stable relationship are NOT the children of the husband/boyfriend. 10%. It's too big a can of worms so the court will claim that it is not in the public interest for the claim to succeed.

I'd love to be wrong though

BaddTuna · 2019-07-03T20:00:28+00:00

Fuck yeah she should pay!!!

Seeker_Of_Defeat · 2019-07-03T22:06:32+00:00

Wasn't there a guy who started paying, and when he found out, he was forced to keep paying even though it wasn't his?

sonickid101 · 2019-07-03T21:38:01+00:00

Paternity tests should be mandatory and standard practice for all pregnancies. Prevent this stuff from happening altogether.

rebelauthor · 2019-07-03T22:31:07+00:00

Fuck that bitch. At least now she is a single mother with a crumbsnatcher. Get ready for a hard life as a poor whore. By the way.. Dont get married fellas. If you do, that's your own funeral. Dont expect anyone to feel sorry for you when she takes you for everything youre worth.

Radrobe · 2019-07-03T22:41:42+00:00

Mr Justice Cohen said the woman was 'full of remorse'.

The only remorse this sociopathic bitch has is getting caught. Obviously the judge is giving her a pussy pass if he publicly said that about her.

DAM92 · 2019-07-04T00:37:23+00:00

Fucking whore, pay it all back you scummy grub bitch.

GuitarKev · 2019-07-04T02:50:34+00:00

This isn’t PPD until he wins.

blove135 · 2019-07-04T04:57:52+00:00

DNA tests at birth should be standard with an opt out option.

Drum_Stick_Ninja · 2019-07-03T20:22:27+00:00

It seems kinda weird but honestly that's the fucked up part. Why the fuck do I feel weird for her major mistake and this poor guy being fucked over by his wife. Fuck her, he's right. The boy deserves to know who the father is and the father should be a father to the child. I assume he's getting a divorce and I would absolutely grant him the win here if I were judge.

M4sterDis4ster · 2019-07-03T20:22:34+00:00

He will lose court battle. I think you have 4 years at maximum to find out a child is not yours. After that, no DNA analysis can help you.

Second problem is that countries are looking to minimize "bastard" children at the expense of the individuals. No government wants kids with bad financial upbringing. Basically, if mother doesnt know a biological fathers name, it is plus to her, because child could lose financial support on two fronts.

Very sad indeed, how can someones selfishness destroy many lives.

repete85 · 2019-07-03T23:30:38+00:00

Actual father and mother should pay soon to be ex-husband...

2019-07-04T01:43:44+00:00

“On his 18th Birthday, he found out it wasn’t his. Now I ain’t sayin’ she a gold digger, but she ain’t messin’ with no broke”

2019-07-04T03:41:28+00:00

Mr Justice Cohen said the woman was 'full of remorse'.

He's not winning because of that alone.

JadedGoth · 2019-07-04T06:47:30+00:00

This is like those two Black Mirror episodes where I rely so bad for the men; absolutely hate stories, and women, like this. Women like this give us a bad name.

I don’t understand why women on twitter choose to ignore this reality and instead focus on the “mEn aRe TrAsH” narrative, which might be true in most instances but, seriously, women can be utter trash too.

Tailtappin · 2019-07-04T12:36:18+00:00

And, of course, the women are chiming in with the usual "But it doesn't matter who the boy's father is! Don't you love the boy!?!?!?!"

I fucking HATE hearing that bullshit excuse for an argument. What is it that they just can't understand? Why do they fucking think men should be proud to raise some other asshole's kid? Furthermore, if the money isn't important compared to a child's love then why does that mean the real father can't pay for his own fucking kid?

And why do judges agree with this bullshit argument? Because the government doesn't want to pay for the kid and currently they have some other poor schmuck to do it for them. Everything about these cases is pure bullshit. He'll lose, of course because it would be too much justice if he won.

Cjae15 · 2019-07-03T22:13:05+00:00

He probably won’t win tho... Pussypassaccepted

AlpineAvalanche · 2019-07-03T22:47:22+00:00

Poor kid. I am so thankful my parents were solid. That said we still don't know where my hair color came from ...

castlefrankie · 2019-07-04T00:03:41+00:00

He needs to identify as a black, female, muslim and then go to court.

Iconoficons · 2019-07-04T02:47:35+00:00

Lots of cuckolds ITT apparently,

W8ting2di3 · 2019-07-04T03:03:51+00:00

Mandatory dna at birth. Fuck these cows.

DennisQuaaludes · 2019-07-04T03:49:28+00:00

Men have Zero reproductive rights.

2019-07-04T05:33:47+00:00

This is a true test if equality for men is actually true.

ABadManInLondon · 2019-07-04T08:20:14+00:00

This is why you DNA test the kid after birth no matter how sure you are. Do not sign the birth certificate until this is done. There is no legal requirement to sign birth certificates no matter how hard the hospital or your wife push you to. Once you sign the certificate then you're legally responsible. Pay the small price for a test now for a potential lifetime of savings.

2019-07-04T13:24:53+00:00

Alas, the court will likely force child support payments on him.

SarahBeth90 · 2019-07-05T04:20:24+00:00

Full of remorse my ass. She's full of remorse that she got caught. Women who do this shit should be charged with some sort of fraud.

j8w2 · 2019-07-03T20:28:56+00:00

dailymail.co.uk is impossible. Way too many ads.

prinzklaus · 2019-07-03T20:47:09+00:00

Sad thing is he won't win. So this is no ppd.

2019-07-03T21:17:56+00:00

Too bad this isn't possible in the USA.

Schnaithman · 2019-07-03T21:32:03+00:00

This isnt really PPD though. Its ongoing and he likely wont win. Right??

Nathan380 · 2019-07-03T22:32:23+00:00

!RemindMe 3 days

666sixsixsix666666 · 2019-07-03T22:35:08+00:00

In the U. S the father has to pay child support even if he proves the child isn’t his. I’m not sure how it is elsewhere, but it’s like that here.

Too_witty · 2019-07-03T23:13:47+00:00

I would have requested a itemized receipt just to make her life even worse.

zelfone85 · 2019-07-04T00:21:29+00:00

Ive heard of a man getting restitution payments from a colombian woman who falsely claimed the child was his for 6 years, and his lawyer fought tooth and nail in Boston. Finally he was not only off the hook, but receiving money he paid over the years that he shouldn’t have. I think from how it was told to me, given the right judge, if it can be proved that the mother new the baby was not his then it’s possible the judge will rule in favor of the man.

ttamttamttamttam · 2019-07-04T07:20:43+00:00

Poor kid

Iconoficons · 2019-07-04T08:37:02+00:00

It’s an interesting civil case. I think he should win. Dude assumed the kid was his. He spent money on the kid = actually gave money away to another household. There is an argument for due reimbursement if he can prove that his wife acted in bad faith.

Now, it’s up to the court to make the call what constitutes bad faith. We can all assume that if she KNEW the kid wasn’t his, that’s bad faith, but it is almost impossible to prove, unless she did a DNA test and then not told him.

The interesting part is will the court judge that having an affair shortly before finding out you’re pregnant and then NOT doing a DNA test / not telling about an affair is acting in bad faith?

What do you guys think?

First_Child_of_Atom · 2019-07-04T12:13:29+00:00

This sucks for the kid. Hope the husband gets his stuff back, but this must be devastating for the kid

--shaunoftheliving · 2019-07-04T13:07:00+00:00

This would be real justice

AustinVawter · 2019-07-05T03:53:58+00:00

I understand his anger, and I’d be pissed too, but if I spent 8 years raising a kid I thought was mine, it’s not like I’d stop loving them the minute I find out it wasn’t. I’d be pissed as hell too, but when you’re 8 years in, he is the father of that child at this point. I don’t think I could just walk out and ask for my money back at that point. You don’t need DNA to be a father. That being said, still this mom is an asshole.

Edit: put 9 instead of 8 years at first

fingerblast69 · 2019-07-03T19:12:42+00:00

The child is going to be paying the biggest price here. They’re going to lose their Dad.

It’s crazy how wild some people can be. I know this girl from high school who just had a baby but wasn’t sure who the dad was. She had a bf she’s been with for years but was bangin his best friend on the side and some third guy too...

xDGx · 2019-07-04T03:59:26+00:00

You can’t trust 99% of women today to be faithful

9991115552223 · 2019-07-03T17:03:07+00:00

r/Kanye

Ashewastaken · 2019-07-03T20:26:24+00:00

Poor kid.

2019-07-03T21:05:00+00:00

It’s the daily mail, so I won’t read the article. But it’s definitely called for

thenoblitt · 2019-07-03T21:30:32+00:00

Imagine being 8 years old and the man that raised you thinking he was your dad leaves and sues your mom.

CANDY-Heyyyy · 2019-07-03T22:14:38+00:00

Can you pls update when more happens

2019-07-03T22:54:20+00:00

This is great news.. let’s follow to conclusion

Horskr · 2019-07-04T01:17:52+00:00

Mr Justice Cohen

Wait is the Judge's first name Justice or are the British so British that they use two titles? Either way is hilarious (sans the story..)

1usko · 2019-07-04T07:21:02+00:00

Fcking unreal. I hope I don't be in a situation like this.

Sawyers_gunstash · 2019-07-04T08:05:14+00:00

Good, cuckoldry is wrong.

trapsaregaydontatme · 2019-07-04T08:41:58+00:00

Fair enough

Pikachu_Palace · 2019-07-06T02:56:20+00:00

This comment section is blowing my mind.

2019-07-11T17:49:00+00:00

Do a paternity test bitches

aidenboyjon · 2019-08-10T16:39:55+00:00

full of remorse after getting caught and losing all that cashola, bitch please. crocodile tears.

2019-07-03T18:49:46+00:00

I feel bad for the kid :/

TheciphRED · 2019-07-03T18:28:21+00:00

Approximately 30% of fathers are taking care of child(ren) that are not his. This is why women shouldn't have rights. They destroy families.

Mr8bitraw · 2019-07-03T18:59:40+00:00

My nibba...

teqnor · 2019-07-03T22:18:54+00:00

Poor kid, he didn't do anything wrong.

Next time he should go home earlier from work when the wife was pregnant, to see if the neighbor was rubbing her belly...

cat_prophecy · 2019-07-04T04:22:38+00:00

Pretty shitty thing to do to a kid you thought was yours and loved as if they were. It's not the kid's fault his mother is unfaithful.

indie_universe · 2019-07-03T21:56:18+00:00

I vote for Reddit doing a mental health assessment before letting people create an account. I thought the trolls were left on Twitter lol

smacksaw · 2019-07-03T21:37:16+00:00

If he's raised this child?

Fuck off.

If he's not a part of the child's life?

Fuck her.

Simple as that.

crunchywetleaves · 2019-07-04T00:43:49+00:00

Unpopular opinion.

It doesn't matter who the biological father is. What matters is that you're the FATHER.

Yes, his wife cheating is a problem, and should be dealt with maturely.

Fucking up your sons life, YES ITS HIS SON, is not cool.

Percevalve · 2019-07-04T05:55:00+00:00

That kid is basically his at this point. The way the husband is acting is hurting the kid.

birthdayboy6969 · 2019-07-03T23:51:56+00:00

I can see why he's angry but fuck this guy for putting his money over the kid and the 8 year relationship they developed

JihadiJustice · 2019-07-03T21:34:43+00:00

This is barely an article. How long have they been separated? How long was the boy in his life?

It's not the kids fault he was born to shitty people. Without many details it seems like this can only cause damage to the child.

DiabetesCOLE · 2019-07-03T23:48:02+00:00

I’m literally not trying to “save face” I’m literally shaming the dude who was shaming women and telling people not to get married. You’re a troglodyte.

rocketwrench · 2019-07-03T20:47:31+00:00

What about the kid in all of this! That sort of man can turn his heart off for the child he has raised?

Snaggled-Sabre-Tooth · 2019-07-03T22:23:19+00:00

I feel so bad for the kid though in this situation, sure it is absolutely shitty of the mom to have done this and she should have her own consequences. But could you imagine being raised by a man for 8 years of your life and the moment he finds out you're not his sperm, he flips the fuck out and beyond wants nothing to do with you, wants everything he gave back too? These are both shitty parents.

Thatsyourissue · 2019-07-03T19:53:11+00:00

Yeah there’s a way to go about doing this without damaging the kid at eight years old. It’s in papers everyone the worlds going to know. And after years he doesn’t want to be this kids dad? I get wanting to probably leave the wife but wow

dgblarge · 2019-07-03T21:07:21+00:00

Much as though I understand his anger and sense of betrayal the paramount concern here must be the welfare of the child. The court case is likely to be bitter and protracted with everyone losing except the lawyers. This may give the man some satisfaction but it will inevitably be damaging to the child. The innocent child.

Title	Husband sues wife for every penny he spent on child he found out isn't his
Author	TaintStubble
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Comments	474
Date	July 3, 2019 4:40 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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3: "Tell a man the child you're carrying is his, so that he will take on the financial burden of helping you raise it."