I didn't know how else to title this but how I put it. When my ex left me she created this somewhat delusional sense of what happened. She also aired on all out on social media for everyone to see. We had our problems, I was in recovery for a few years when we split and there was trust issues etc. However, she made it out like I was a monster, she could never leave her room, I was abusive (not physically) and that we lost our house and were homeless amongst other things. This was posted all over social media. My stomach was in nots.

We had decided to move in with my parents for a year and save up for a house, it was a mutual decision and the best at that time, we were not homeless because of me. She was never locked in her room and that I was this monster to our family. Yes, we had issues but this was to far. It hurt my entire family because they did a lot for her. She left and never looked back. She blamed it on my addiction however I was in recovery for 4 years.

Anyone have any issues like this? Gaslighting, manipulation and slander? I was a good father and we tried at our marriage but there were issues on both ends. I always apologies and worked on myself but it was almost as if I was treated as a patient and not a man.