Ex sent me this tonight

intherapy007 · 2024-09-22T18:55:02+00:00

Just curious what about this warrants needing to be on a co-parenting app? I'm wondering if I'm missing something. My ex has texted me much worse things. My ex told me we were done and was acting very amicable, until I found out about her other relationship. Then I became the worst human being on the face of the earth to her. I've gotten the hateful angry texts that go along with those hateful feelings. I don't engage when I get those messages, but I'm wondering if I need to be on an app to protect myself.

fewdo · 2024-09-22T17:13:48+00:00

This sounds like she heard something from a third party about what your said and she's grumpy about it

JimboTheManTheLegend · 2024-09-22T14:50:10+00:00

Use a co-parenting app 1000%. If she keeps it up only reply on the app and ask that she does as well with an attached screen shot of the text messages on the parenting app. Apply for an order against harassment should she keep this up.

AppClose is a great and free one.

Long-Review-1861 · 2024-09-22T12:03:29+00:00

Oh look another ex wife taking zero responsibility and essentially placing all the blame on the husband

techrmd3 · 2024-09-22T02:40:25+00:00

its normal to feel this way, most men are very confused by women's actions and messages post filing for divorce and final decree

I am see how some can divorce their husbands and put any animosity aside and continue to work with the husband and coparent well. But some can just continually make that very difficult. I think some women realize that they will never be completely separated from their exhusband and that they might as well make the best of it.

But some mystify me, the seem to not get past all of the things that contributed to the end of the marriage. And ignore the reality that marriages and funerals will be in the future for both.

NetherworldMuse · 2024-09-22T00:41:04+00:00

Just hit her with the 👍 or “ok” and move on; ignore her rant.

brightongulls · 2024-09-22T00:40:38+00:00

I felt like my ex-wife expected our co-parenting relationship to be like holding hands in a circle and jumping joyfully around a campfire. Life isnt all butterflies and pixies, she decided to leave and rip my heart out and decided to fuck over the kids too and have them confused as to what’s going on at such a young age.

deconblues1160 · 2024-09-22T00:18:03+00:00

Just use a coparenting app. She wants to bring the drama, you don’t need that in your life. Just move forward.

AffectionateAd6060 · 2024-09-21T23:57:54+00:00

Honestly this seems like a pretty standard divorce text if it is still pretty fresh. No big deal. Yawn, roll your eyes, carry on as usual.

pardon_me_while_i · 2024-09-21T23:00:59+00:00

Co parenting apps don’t work.

CulturedGentleman921 · 2024-09-21T22:48:27+00:00

You should insist on the coparenting app.

6-demon-bag808 · 2024-09-21T22:18:54+00:00

After almost nine months of this BS, I refuse to use the co-parenting app. She can be an adult and do what's best for the kids or I can disappear. I'm not paying for an app to text about my own effing children.

A difference though may be that I didn't want the divorce and it has ruined my entire life, but I still love her and am absolutely desperate to talk to her.

Several-Eagle4141 · 2024-09-21T20:39:41+00:00

Was she expecting you to be there?

Lumptbuttcat · 2024-09-21T18:48:16+00:00

Probably what she has concocted in her head about what co-parenting should look like. Below are examples of what set these delusional women off-

She saw a divorced couple sitting together. You should have sat next to her.

You walked past her and didn’t acknowledge.

She saw you talking and laughing with other people.

Yea it’s that simple and that shallow. Get an app and communicate that way or learn to ignore.

silmarp · 2024-09-21T18:15:55+00:00

Yep. Tell her you will only talk through Talking Parents.

Bretweir_jerky · 2024-09-21T17:53:35+00:00

Even in her attempt to talk to you she accuses you, blames you then insinuates that the kids are in some sort of mess. That is a total head case. Block and ignore unless it’s in a co parenting app and see if you can increase your custody

Miserable_Ad_1172 · 2024-09-21T17:04:59+00:00

What could of brought this on dude ? Curious what happened ? It’s hard I know. Mine wants to be best buds but I’m just like “I wanted to be your best friend,lover and husband”

I’m not being friends with her, I’m friendly and kind.

How do you feel man ?

Title	Ex sent me this tonight
Author	bananap33
Upvotes	20
Comments	42
Date	September 21, 2024 4:20 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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