No fighting. No arguing. No screaming. No yelling. No sarcasm. No disrespect. No requests for change. No suggestions. No mention of any wants. No mention of any needs. No mention of any desires. No warning.

Wife made me breakfast, a cup of coffee, and kissed me goodbye.

Came home to a house in shambles with furniture gone, broken glass, security cameras ripped out, my cat gone.

Then, I send the first angry text of my LIFE to her! No threats. Just angry asking how the f*ck someone could treat a spouse like this. I said, “This is not how we were supposed to end.”

She shows that text to a judge and twists the meaning into a murder/suicide death threat and demands a restraining order.

Temporary restraining order granted.

No answers. No explanations. No closure.

Divorce papers. Court battles. (I win after $85K when judge drops it.) Finances destroyed. Career lost.

WHY DO I FEEL GUILTY AND LIKE A LOSER!