An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:

clairemaffeis · 2020-10-07T12:09:24+00:00

I used to be that girl-- and what did I get???

A slew of deadbeat, low effort, fake-deep pretentious LVMs gyrating around me. NOT WORTH IT, SIS.

VikingDotter · 2020-10-07T12:09:24+00:00

Warms your soul... Guys want to warm their dicks, that’s what they care about. They will take you anywhere as long as it’s cheaper than getting a prostitute 🙄

Elegant-Stop · 2020-10-07T12:21:40+00:00

“Fuck these expensive dates and shit”

-a woman who has never been taken on an expensive date

FleetingDaisy · 2020-10-07T12:12:57+00:00

This was posted below a meme showing a couple on a date inside of a literal truck parked somewhere with an ocean view, captioned as "no female today would be interested in this". I'm passively following the discussion, it's a parade of Pickmes, competing in who will get the most MaleAttention™ for the most I'm-so-low-maintenance comment.

TheFeministFox · 2020-10-07T12:17:58+00:00

I don't know what it is, but the fact that she's proclaiming to be an ~old soul~, which sounds so very esoteric and mythical, but then continues with "fuck these expensive dates and shit" really cracks me up. It's such a dichotomy.

PrayForEvenings-In · 2020-10-07T12:06:52+00:00

Lmao have fun “seeing more than money” when your LVM husband takes you to Applebee’s for your five year anniversary 😂

CatSweets · 2020-10-07T12:37:04+00:00

Girl YOU KNOW he's taking you to some field he knows after he reads that 😂

FleetingDaisy · 2020-10-07T13:33:58+00:00

A lot of time when a man truely loves you and values you, he will provide for you. I noticed even guys who have lack of money, when they truely love a woman will work hard for her and take her to expensive places and put alot of effort for her. I know some men who will risk their life to protect the women they love. Even if my dad wasn't a rich man, i know my dad worked really hard for my mum.

When this girl says, she has no standards, what she is asking for is men that will take her for granted. This is why you have to have standards. Men generally respect women with standards. Those who really value you will do what they can do meet those standards and put effort to keep you happy. Whereas men who dont care for you will half ass the relationship and put their worse foot forward.

Pahapan · 2020-10-07T13:22:30+00:00

Spoiler alert: the guys who don't want to put money into a date also don't want to put in time and effort.

I dated a broke asshole and he wouldn't even go on walks with me without complaining up a storm.

creamtart_ · 2020-10-07T12:52:29+00:00

Luxury goods are so warming they set my soul on fire.

eveninghope · 2020-10-07T13:43:30+00:00

Why does wanting time and effort substitute money? Like, all of the above pls?

DadaExperiment · 2020-10-07T14:35:34+00:00

And she'll still be emotionally and verbally abused, cheated on, negged, used, ignored, etc. This mentality is the biggest self own.

FleetingDaisy · 2020-10-07T14:42:22+00:00

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illusion_believe · 2020-10-07T15:00:52+00:00

One of my friends feel sad for men that pay on dates. She would even call me out for wanting a man with status.

Well, she ended up getting pregnant with a man who didn’t want to spend money on their first child and gave her 2 babies without being in love. They finally broke up and she wants him back

virginiadancer · 2020-10-07T13:47:18+00:00

Too bad their idea of beauty is a beer stained sofa with old Pringle chips hidden behind the seats in a mancave that smells like musty socks.

FleetingDaisy · 2020-10-07T15:14:40+00:00

Only immature and arrogant people call themselves 'old souls'. Enjoying simple things and being a little introspective doesn't make you special, it makes you perfectly ordinary.

Inspection-Critical · 2020-10-07T14:10:38+00:00

take me somewhere beautiful

I know this field...

gcfemtastic · 2020-10-07T16:01:54+00:00

The key words being "time and effort".

That's what's at stake.

If a man I'm already dating surprises me with a beautiful, well put together picnic in a scenic spot that's meaningful to him.....great!

If a man asks me to go on a walking "date" because he thinks all woman are gold diggers and he's too cheap and lazy to actually create an enjoyable date....pass. lol

PinkPetalCdistbeauty · 2020-10-07T15:41:35+00:00

Batshit crazy. “...show me something.... that makes your heart content ...” ...So she wants him to show her his dick while in a field?

bklyn4ever · 2020-10-07T19:04:25+00:00

Poor thing. I really wonder why so many women think the two ideals cant co-exist? Take me somewhere beautiful and still make an effort and if it involves loot so be it.

Its a sad state of affairs. So glad I know better.

2020-10-07T16:34:03+00:00

But time+effort= money? I appreciate money as a symbol of time and effort lol.

It’s my love language and they should respect that.

You know that romcom scene of the playboy who takes different girls to the same cafe, and the waiter lets the girl know?

That happens in real life lmao, life imitates art. These dudes!!! Will!!! Recycle!!! Dates!!! And pretend they are being sentimental when in reality they’re just being cheap and have ran this lap multiple times with multiple partners.

PollyAnnaSunshine · 2020-10-08T01:16:43+00:00

Pickmeisha wants that field date D....

let her have it!

An 'old soul' would know that a man in love strives to impress.

2020-10-07T16:39:12+00:00

Damn she is really dumb. Men are not romantic. Who raised her because they really let her down. Like a lamb to the slaughter. RIP

2020-10-07T17:16:48+00:00

She's assuming he has a soul to be warmed.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-10-08T23:17:32+00:00

We gotta start classifying pickmeishas the same way we name cancer.

"This is a malignant Stage IV, likely metastasized from the colon due to the level of anal desperation observed".

Title	An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:
Author	FleetingDaisy
Upvotes	176
Comments	71
Date	October 7, 2020 12:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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