I thought this belonged here.

Platipus6 · 2020-10-30T12:03:20+00:00

"Waaah my plan was for HER to be the struggling single parent!"

eat shit

GIfuckingJane · 2020-10-30T11:32:18+00:00

She's a deadbeat mom!?

ahsiemkcip · 2020-10-30T12:06:35+00:00

I love how much he got roasted in the comments for that post.

royaldetour · 2020-10-30T12:21:18+00:00

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thrway01010 · 2020-10-30T12:26:55+00:00

Poor kid, his dad is so fucking dumb. "This woman wasted 9 months of her life solely for me because I wanted this kid, I should be able to force her look after the kid she didn't want because I'm tired now." You know this is how it would end with majority of the guys who are so upset when their SO aborts their kid. They think it's going to be so great to be a daddy and when it's not? In the end it's always the woman who needs to deal with it no matter how tired she is. And he's sooo salty about her living her best life lmao.

GrapeJuiceEnthusiast · 2020-10-30T11:46:00+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. You made her stay pregnant thinking you'd get a stay at home wife/bangmaid who would do 99% of the childcare and it backfired. You didn't want an abortion so deal with it.

cupittycakes · 2020-10-30T13:02:48+00:00

He's mad he didn't get to trap her. He resents the child because he thought it would make her stick around.

balladwilds · 2020-10-30T12:07:22+00:00

LMFAOOO you get what you deserve huh

rf-elaine · 2020-10-30T12:13:18+00:00

Someone call the doctor, my justice boner has lasted more than 8 hours.

azureangel35 · 2020-10-30T12:11:04+00:00

I saw this a while ago b/c I'm in some childfree groups. Fair is fair-you wanted it, you deal with it. He's lucky she even kept it imo. So many women get naively trapped into life with an abusive LVM by getting prego. They have a fantasy white picket fence life in mind. No, sis. It will be you putting up with his bullshit, as he devalues you in every way, just now with a screaming child around your neck. (no offense to anyone who chooses motherhood for herself. But so many have NO idea what it actually entails, especially with a NVM partner.)

Adawritesrules · 2020-10-30T12:59:36+00:00

How dare she not take care of the kid that I forced her to have and pay for?

Rasaya87 · 2020-10-30T13:29:02+00:00

Well well well, if it isn't the consequences of my own actions. 😹🤦‍♀️ I feel for that woman. Didn't want the kid, selfish father did, and now he's shock Pikachu faced that she doesn't want to be in the kids life? Not to mention, she OVER pays on child support. It's rare a guy pays full court ordered child support when it's the other way around, no?

Also, lol, I guess he now knows how single mothers feel too. Nvm idiot.

moxymoxalone · 2020-10-30T13:41:27+00:00

Just....what version of reality are these men living in? I swear it's like they're not even from earth. Edit: Ah I figured it out, he lives in the reality where "women don't know what they want and will change their minds because uhhhh hOrMOnEs"

"I never thought that she could turn her back on her own child. I honestly thought she would bond during the pregnancy and would eventually change her mind. Even if she turned down my offer to be in a relationship I never thought she would actually abandon him without a thought and without seeing him or even trying to know his name or sex. She was so drugged up during the birth that I don't even think she knows if he was born before or after midnight. I didn't expect it to go like this to be honest."

BOND DURING THE PREGNANCY AND CHANGE HER MIND LMAO.

asteria2002 · 2020-10-30T13:44:01+00:00

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virginiagirl27 · 2020-10-30T14:02:37+00:00

It’s almost like single moms......do this all the time and the male species is getting a taste of their own medicine.

temporarylibrarian · 2020-10-30T12:58:31+00:00

The second paragraph reads exactly like the type of thing you would read from a single mother venting about the deadbeat dad who bailed on her. This is a rare case of a man facing the consequences of reproduction and the women freeing herself. Good for her, he sucks.

2020-10-30T13:35:13+00:00

This woman's power >

cattimusrex · 2020-10-30T13:42:46+00:00

Mad fucking props to this lady right here. While she did carry the child for him, she made her boundaries clear and enforced them, even with this scrote trying to trap her.

schaden-freud3 · 2020-10-30T13:44:19+00:00

sounds like the same kinda guy that would abandon a girl saying “well i did tell you to get an abortion and wouldn’t be involved”....and still not feel like he has to pay child support

SayNad · 2020-10-30T14:42:36+00:00

Reminds me of a video about a single blind father taking care of his blind infant - the mother left soon after birth because she could not accept the situation (maybe postpartum depression). And all he ever said about the mother when asked is that he wishes her happiness. The son, despite being blind grows up to be an excellent student and a responsible son.

The difference between and HVM and LVM is like night and day.

entpgirl415 · 2020-10-30T14:07:34+00:00

I know this post is talking shit about the guy making her have the baby, and i get how he shouldnt have done that but this whole situation sucks for that child so much! I feel so bad that the son has to grow up like that :/

asteria2002 · 2020-10-30T14:46:33+00:00

He should have known better, it his own fault😌. And he is getting CHILD SUPPORT!! That poor lady is wageslaving for him, she should stop financing his life style and let him raise the child, He WANTED all alone😠. She should get paper abortion . Men are soo ungrateful scrotes. Very unlogical being, this why they shouldn't have rights😠./s or not🤭

2020-10-30T14:30:58+00:00

She needs to not look back.

Bex_The_Hex · 2020-10-30T14:21:38+00:00

I remember reading this. He got roasted HARD by every commenter. I think he had originally posted in r/relationships, where he explained that he had thought she would come around and want to be a mother and they could be together. It was pretty fucking deluded.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-30T14:12:50+00:00

The old classic!

asteria2002 · 2020-10-30T14:52:20+00:00

Single fathers are a cancer to this world, look how bitter they are, with a choice they made/s

This how men talk about single mothers, while the poor single mothers are not even getting child support this men is getting 25% child support extra.

groserogorra · 2020-10-30T14:46:40+00:00

/r/iamatotalpieceofshit

Summerisle7 · 2020-10-30T14:41:33+00:00

Haha I remember this one from a year or so ago. A true case of justice served! She’s paying child support, he can’t do shit!

flowers4u · 2020-10-30T15:01:40+00:00

Wow it’s from three years ago! Hope the kid is doing ok. Anyone know the legal ramifications of paying more child support than she is supposed to? Can she get that back down the line?

moxymoxalone · 2020-10-30T15:33:30+00:00

On the bright side, having to care for a child full time when he’s not at work will keep him from going out and making any more unwanted children with some unsuspecting women.

Softrito · 2020-10-30T15:24:08+00:00

He didn't want the child, he wanted leverage over her and she did a reversed uno on him.

engg_girl · 2020-10-30T15:32:01+00:00

I found the comments pretty uplifting. Everyone was happy to point out that he abused his ex, and that deadbeats don't pay child support every month.

karichar · 2020-10-30T15:39:05+00:00

IIRC, he said something in the comments about how he thought her motherly instincts were going to kick in...boy how stupid do you have to believe that a woman who is actively telling you she wants to abort is going to develop motherly instincts

imho this scrote got everything he deserved but I feel bad for the kid

bob_dabuilda · 2020-10-30T15:50:07+00:00

What I'm about to say may seem dark, but this is why some women should just secretly get abortions instead of involving the opinion of others. Especially if the man is controlling, harassing, or abusive in any way.

If she didnt want the child and wanted an abortion, just get one and don't say anything to the guy. Hes now trying to force her into parenthood and be controlling.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2020-10-30T15:50:22+00:00

She's not a deadbeat mom. She simply wants nothing to do with the baby she never wanted and with the LVM that got her pregnant she has standards and boundaries. Men have to do a lot less than she does to be called dadbeat dads. She does everything as per the court order. She's just reinforcing her boundaries. He's pissed because she isn't there to change nappies.

2020-10-30T15:49:37+00:00

Oh wow, I’ve never heard of a man wanting a child with a woman he was never with and take care of it.

Title	I thought this belonged here.
Author	Raccoon328
Upvotes	207
Comments	77
Date	October 30, 2020 11:22 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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