Dear Straight Men, Take a deep breath and keep breathing as you read because what you are about to read might be a shock to your system. Just like the average woman, you have a physical prime/ peak attractiveness and it’s usually aged 18-30.

Seriously though, you have been lied to by the media, which is controlled by old men with money who only have access to beautiful women because of their money. Most women do not prefer men 6+ years older.🤯 We like men 3-4 years older not 10+ years older. And even this dramatically shifts as women hit 40 and see that the majority of men 35+ have let themselves go.

Think about it. Do the women who profess to love older men go for broke men that are over 40? No. And if a 25 year old woman can choose between a man around her age with resources vs a 40 year old man with resources, she goes for the younger man.

Women do tend to prefer men that have resources and older men have simply had more time to accumulate resources. So if you are hoping to always attract women aged 18-30 then you had better work on fattening your wallet. And if all you have to offer is money than you cannot complain that you only attract gold diggers. If you are going to use a woman for her youth and beauty than you cannot resent her for using you for your money.

Before you insult my looks or say that I’m bitter, really look at the media you have a lifetime of watching. Even if you are born in 2021, it’s not even 50% of the time being written, directed or distributed by women so you have only learned about what women’s desires are THROUGH OTHER MEN.

Women are just as visual as men but most straight men do not put near as much effort into maintaining their physical appearance as women do. And women are shamed into giving chances to men to whom they do not feel attraction. This rarely works out. These men will complain about a dead bedroom or feel resentful that his wife is never in the mood. Or she cheats and he is too ashamed for anyone to know it.

My number 1 tip for men that want to meet and have success with women is to improve your physical appearance. It’s not my intention to be harsh but it’s a bit bizarre that I’m considered “cruel” for saying this when every single woman I know has had to listen to men who aren’t even that good looking tell us all of the requirements that they have for their partners. Every single woman I know understands that her physical appearance affects her ability to meet men. (But love is a different story.)

I’m exhausted at having to live within the delusions of old white man who lie to younger men about their desirability. Especially because the same men turn around and try to scare me about my own desirability.