These dudes get it

sadpourtoujours · 2020-02-10T21:24:28+00:00

Passionate, “vanilla” sex is THE fucking SHIT! When you both are respecting each other’s bodies, focusing on mutual pleasure, making out passionately while fucking, in tune with one another, etc. There is nothing better than that!

Ms_Tilly · 2020-02-10T20:58:38+00:00

My porn watching ex liked porn and was annoyed I mostly liked missionary sex the most. Idk if he was an addict but he wanted me to do stuff I didn’t like and I honestly just like plain vanilla missionary sex. I don’t want to do a split on a guys dick as he chokes me. I hate all of that.

modernmedusaa · 2020-02-10T22:17:43+00:00

Hahaha these corny people gotta hang themselves from a noose in the ceiling just to feel some spice in the bedroom

binbeenbetter · 2020-02-10T22:13:43+00:00

I remember seeing this on the front page and immediately thinking “porn sick, limp dick.”

Do you have a link to that comment?

randomgirlimok · 2020-02-11T00:12:26+00:00

I had sex with my porn addicted ex husband after being split up for a year. He STILL had ED

2020-02-10T21:45:33+00:00

Siiiiiigh.

daddyario · 2020-02-11T04:19:12+00:00

Ex would rather watch porn than have sex with me because he hated the idea of vanilla sex. Glad I got out of there before we did anything. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

bluelightsonblkgirls · 2020-02-10T21:13:15+00:00

What, exactly, constitutes “vanilla sex” to FDS?

I feel like vanilla sex is one of those terms (like hooking up, for example) that means different things to different people.

ivy176 · 2020-02-11T11:27:20+00:00

I like vanilla sex and I also like a bit of domination/submission and roleplaying. If my man found normal passionate sex boring then I couldn't tolerate it. My ex struggled to cum at all unless it was anal. He said he wanted more freaky shit, however he'd freak out and reject me if I dressed up and did something freaky. So... men don't know what they want.

dalia-chan · 2020-02-10T23:11:15+00:00

when I was a pre-teen who likes to catfish peoples online to pass time, I noticed that the confident fuckboys and the players ( you know... they’re not HVM but they’re not perverted sickfucks either, they’re decent looking, and don’t have a hard time to get laid ) , were actually more healthy minded, than the n Incels . For example most of them, were more likely to be turned off, when I propose a creepy role play, like incest or rape, and call me a sickfuck when I would call them Papa, ( it was an experiment tho lol) or they would tell me that I was too young when I will tell them my real age, I would be 13 and they were 18, and then I will have, a normal conversation with them, and some of them actually became my online friends and talked to me Like their little sister, or when i will tell that I was 9, they would give me a big lecture about the dangers of the internet 😂

On the other hand, the Introverted Incels, were actually the one that will propose me, fucked up shits, and when I will say that I am 13 or pretend to be 9 they be like: mmmmhh.. yes. ( even if they’re 35, yikes)

Jennwah · 2020-02-10T22:25:59+00:00

"enduced"

logician01 · 2020-02-11T06:04:30+00:00

Cross posting this on r/PornFreeRelationships

Please join our sister sub that is run my a radfem mod team

Women share their experiences and the trauma they went through with porn users.

CyanCayenne · 2020-02-11T04:33:26+00:00

What is this sense-making.

Title	These dudes get it
Author	RadioactiveJoy
Upvotes	750
Comments	109
Date	February 10, 2020 8:43 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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