I'm sure this question has been posted before, mainly on other subreddits, but either gets swarmed by men claiming (whether true or not) that going down on women is like their favourite thing, to farm karma, or it's posted on feminist groups that don't exacty view men in a positive light in general.

From anecdotes, I've spoken to a fair few women friends (avoiding the term 'female' as people often mistake a man referring to women as 'female' as sexist online, like incel talk) who claim barely maybe 50% of men go down on them, and those 50% of men very rarely put in the effort or enthusiasm. I come from a relatively sex positive country and background too, one with good rights for women overall (Australia) so it's not a country or religious specific issue here either.

Is this true to the women's experience in this group? Also, what do you define as a man who is good at going down on a woman?