Like seriously even when I was in a drought or had little options I wasn’t broadcasting it all over my social media accounts I endured in private and worked on improving my life so that I could get to the point that I have more options on a regular basis. But instead I see people I know and friends do this all the time. One friend I literally had to message him in private and tell him to cut that shit out and delete it before any of the women he’s attracted to sees because he was on there sulking about being lonely and looking bad. That doesn’t need to be shared with everyone I’m sorry. As a matter of fact it does the exact opposite of what you want. Hypergamy rules that you look desperate and have no options so women won’t really want you because “if nobody else does why would I?” Mentality. And from a girls perspective you may get a guy that’s willing to pump and dump you seeing that you’re potentially vulnerable but by no means will he settle down with you even though you probably wanted someone for long term.