Do you experience post nut clarity? How does your mood change after sex?

KrispyMcSockington · 2019-05-25T06:52:18+00:00

Brain before a nut: sex! sex! sexy sex!!

Brain after a nut: I should learn how to code....

It's also called "cumming to your senses" hehe

Is this because one orgasm is enough for guys to be down and out, and clear the sexual fog out of their head?

Sometimes one isn't enough. If you can ~~squirt~~ ~~squeeze~~ get another one or two out, why not? There's also a prostate orgasm very patient men could try. You can have a few of those.

Also do you ever feel like a different person after sex? Like your hormones contaminated your higher thinking, but now you are free, yet only until the oxytocin wears off?

I don't feel different. When I was a teen I felt guilty for rubbing one out but these days I'm the same after. I know some guys lose complete interest in sex or the woman, but I'm down for post coital cuddles. But cleanup is priority so immediately afterwards it's more like "oh shit, there's some dripping and leaking. Where are the tissues?! Why the fuck are they so far away?!"

Sex is messy fun.

MGTOWKapow3 · 2019-05-25T11:26:44+00:00

The answers from women here are telling.

No, there is no PNC in women.

Lordb0lton · 2019-05-25T03:23:48+00:00

Also do you ever feel like a different person after sex? Like your hormones contaminated your higher thinking, but now you are free, yet only until the oxytocin wears off?

Yeah sometimes basically immediately. And occassionally even so far as disgusted depending on how sweaty things get lol....arousal suppresses the disgust it turns out.

It's like what was all that for?!

life036 · 2019-05-25T07:42:19+00:00

I call this the "Quantcum Leap", cause it's like that show where every episode he wakes up in someone else's body thinking WTF am I doing here.

tylmin · 2019-05-25T07:52:44+00:00

Interestingly enough I only hear dudes talking about this. Is this because one orgasm is enough for guys to be down and out, and clear the sexual fog out of their head? Whereas women don't really reach their orgasm limits as often as men? i.e the orgasm gap?

Personally, I have a refractory period like most men do. I don't have this "multiple orgasm" feature that some women seem to.

I don't have an particular clarity, but if I was distracted by sexual thoughts prior to orgasm, then those are certainly gone afterwards.

I suspect maybe the difference is that men spend more time before orgasm distracted by sexual thoughts, whereas maybe women don't as much, so the difference isn't so stark,

Willow-girl · 2019-05-25T19:50:19+00:00

I usually get an adrenaline rush that makes me want to get up and clean the whole house while my man lays there whimpering.

Texastentialism · 2019-05-25T03:17:51+00:00

I experience a sort of "high" after orgasm. Like a sudden burst of energy. My whole body feels sensitive and my senses are heightened. My husband and I have a pretty solid routine down where we get me off before piv, so while we're actually having sex I'm riding that post-orgasm high and a good time is had by all.

After 10-15 minutes I just get really sleepy.

madmadG · 2019-05-25T12:31:57+00:00

It’s an entirely different world. Before and after is cloud vs clarity. It’s animal mode vs philosopher mode. It’s like a switch. It turns me into a fully functioning human.

We should all be having more sex, and women should never deny men (when in a committed relationship). Sex for the man makes everything better for everyone.

PennnyLame · 2019-05-25T22:35:26+00:00

No. Once I have an orgasm, I want another orgasm. This can lead to a lot of wasted time by myself. With my husband, it’s nice that him finishing sorta gives me a sense of an “end” to the activity.

MoodyBrizo · 2019-05-25T03:25:26+00:00

There's a french phrase for it too: "La petite mort". The little death.

Zippo-Cat · 2019-05-25T04:20:32+00:00

You should have tagged this as Question for Men because apparently the she-males of PPD don't know what "nutting" means.

MercedesBenzoAMG · 2019-05-25T07:46:57+00:00

Sage time is what I'm gonna call it now haha. There ought to be an English word for this.

But yeah this is just a normal thing for guys, usually my interest in anything sexual just drops off and I feel relaxed and tired.

I don't feel guilty or anything though unless I got off to some fucked up shit.

Also sometimes I feel like just listening to music after. Dunno why. But I'm used to having music always playing anyway.

How fast my interest comes back depends on how horny I was to begin with. On opiate withdrawals I was ready to go again instantly because my drive was rushing back haha.

[deleted] · 2019-05-25T10:54:54+00:00

When I was a teenager I would feel disgusted after masturbating. Now I still do sometimes depending on what I was watching. It is for this reason that I don't think sex is that important. It is just a biological urge that can be resolved in several minutes. Besides I always feel very tired and sleepy after orgasm. I never get the "women have multiple orgasm" thing.

HiImIncel · 2019-05-25T12:42:28+00:00

Well that's a word I didn't even know existed..... LOL

Also. Yes.

CyJackX · 2019-05-25T14:49:14+00:00

Kinda of informs me how I feel about the girl.

If I really like her, I will want to continue being physical. If it's more casual, I'll just feel like small talk and leaving.

PMmeareasontolive · 2019-05-27T21:04:24+00:00

What if it's actually the opposite and your horny state interprets reality clearly and "post nut clarity" is the illusion? Ooooooooo

PaintingOfJoan · 2019-05-25T03:20:26+00:00

Everywhere on my body feels super sensitive after I get an orgasm, then when it wears off I feel sleepy.

diffdedbed · 2019-05-25T03:34:04+00:00

My brain having and after sex.

sex sex sex sex.......food

Pastelitomaracucho · 2019-05-25T06:20:32+00:00

Depends on the experience.

If I'm having sex with someone I love, post orgasm feels like being high. My brain starts playing some relaxing, beautiful songs I know for a while.

If I'm not in love with the person and I'm just watching some whatever porn, then brain fog clears and I just want to get out of there.

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We_Are_Legion · 2019-05-25T10:56:46+00:00

I got super sleepy. My gf does not appreciate it haha

poquitobalofao · 2019-05-25T13:39:12+00:00

Not sure. I feel calm and less anxious but I don’t know if I’d call it clarity. But I’ve never felt guilty, which a lot of people seem to have.

GridReXX · 2019-05-25T14:19:49+00:00

Is this a thing for women?

I will say that I’ve gone home and used my vibrator to avoid drunk dialing someone I shouldn’t. It usually works. But sometimes it doesn’t because I actually crave the cuddling. I don’t rely on PIV for orgasms.

kandyapplez · 2019-05-25T15:21:42+00:00

im a girl and i get thsi depending on the how freaky we got during sex and how well i know the guy

the freakier we got the less i know him the more disgusted i feel after sex lol

poppy_blu · 2019-05-25T19:31:00+00:00

Sometimes I dislike sex threads because of the level of ignorance they reveal in a significant proportion of the PPD population.

oneprettycoolcat · 2019-05-25T21:25:25+00:00

Yep. I immediately lose all desire to see the woman ever again.

dicklord_airplane · 2019-05-26T13:54:37+00:00

Yes, this is real. I often masturbate just so i can concentrate more clearly. I actually think, "whew, its nice to have all that sex off my mind so i can think about something else."

marriage_is_hell · 2019-05-26T14:06:42+00:00

After I orgasm, I feel like a huge black cloud has lifted from my brain. Out of nowhere I think "why do I waste so much time debating gender shit on the internet? Women are mostly the same as us, and even where they're different, that doesn't mean they're worse. I should find something better to do with my time." I feel a kind of compassion for all living things creep into my breast, and start seeing tons of ways I could be improving my life or community or uplifting my family. There's that one app I had an idea for, that community service project I saw posted on the bulletin board last week, that class I wanted to take last summer but couldn't find time. There IS time, I just didn't want to MAKE time. And my wife! God, how I've misunderstood and mistreated her. All I needed to do was be kinder and more patient and set a good example and been more of a man and everything would've been solved... I could start tomorrow. I will start tomorrow. Enough with this obsessing and bemoaning my sex life. There's so many opportunities and things to do, I just need to reach out and grab them.

...2 minutes later I'm back to normal.

[deleted] · 2019-06-03T00:35:14+00:00

Yes. When I jizz in my hand, I feel like I can conquer the world and slay as many women as possible. Then I jerk off again. And again. And again. And I fall asleep, and this drive is lost.

Oh right, this is about sex. One time I nutted inside and felt disconnected from the woman. My buisiness was done. I handed her the money and took a coffee with a croissant. I felt relieved of a huge burden and boss as fuck. How paradoxal to the jerking off experience.

decoy88 · 2019-05-25T06:59:39+00:00

Yeah I get it. But since I maintain orgasm frequency pretty consistently (3 times a day AT MINIMUM), both from self-love and regular sex. I feel I'm majority in that 'clarity' frame of mind.

I've advised female friends to wank when struggling over a decision, but they always say I'm chatting shit the advice has to be nonsense. They don't actually try, just write it off. Then end up making the same damn mistakes with fuck boys

Title	Do you experience post nut clarity? How does your mood change after sex?
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Date	May 25, 2019 3:09 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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