N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-09-29T09:59:33+00:00

I dont see sex as an act of service a woman does for me so she being "experienced" means absolutely jack shit to me, it adds absolutely no value to a relationship.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-09-27T23:07:40+00:00

Alright, it's official: Everyone's N-count has gone up by 1.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-27T22:22:15+00:00

Still no thread about anal? Okay, fine.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-27T15:29:00+00:00

Okay, let's play a hypothetical scenario.

Sexual past matters. What are women with sexual history supposed to do next?

She's single and looking to get married. What should she do to get married?

SlowEffective8146 · 2023-09-26T19:22:24+00:00

I like how the n count threads is just like 200 random dudes going "I don't like high n count women" and 1 singular woman going "nuh uh!"

Opening_Pattern_301 · 2023-09-26T10:55:02+00:00

The past does matter, my current partner and me discussed our pasts before moving forward and determined we were very compatible with each other since it proved our values aligned, i fail to see how your sexual past should be out of the table when you can determine a lot out of it, those people who say the past doesnt matters a 100% have loads of dirty rags they are trying to hide. Not for something it is always them sexually "liberated" value sucking parasytes trying to convince commited people who dont separate sex from love that the past doesnt matters when they realize a life of reckless shallow encounters only attracts shallow people.

BeReady6129 · 2023-09-26T06:04:44+00:00

The thing about the n count is that the dynamic for men and women is different. Men and Women have different view of sex. That is the reality.

Men will have sex with women what they perceive to be lower than their level or across from their level. Women tend to engage in sex with men they perceive equal or higher.

Men are more likely to engage in casual sex or fuckzone with a woman who they perceive to be lower than their level, we men tend to give relationship to the woman we perceive to be more valuable, and wife up the one we view as close to our own mate value.

The higher value she perceives the man to be the less investment she demands for sex.

So what does this has to do with N count? Like i mentioned in LTR men tend to reward the women we rate the highest we have been with. For women on the other hand that may not be the case, likely she has been with higher valued men.

No one likes being second choice, fallback option, or downright a sucker. we would like to commit to a women that also values us as we do them.

macone235 · 2023-09-26T05:42:29+00:00

Women hate on men liking women with low body counts, but how popular would DiCaprio be if he had married instead of being a high status womanizer? Women love men who sleep around just like men love women who don't.

Yuruyakatou · 2023-09-25T11:27:21+00:00

The only guaranteed way to get a wife with no bodycount is to go 2D.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-24T19:52:18+00:00

My sexual history has never prevented me from relationships, love, romance, being treated like a Queen, etc.

According to the lore here, you'd think that would be impossible.

Impossible things are happening every day.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-09-24T16:07:43+00:00

It is interesting to me, but high n count women are usually loved more, cherished, and treated better than low n count women. Irl, not on here.

So it's like. What's happening?

babazuki · 2023-09-24T10:56:50+00:00

I think women best understand the importance of their partner's sexual history if it includes homosexual activity on a man's part.

I wish I could find the clip from the fresh and fit podcast that made me think about this. It was like 10 women that got asked a hypothetical about finding out that their dream man had done some gay stuff in his past. The look of disgust and repulsion that fell over their faces when they considered it was insane.

The women had previously been saying all the regular things about body count; "The past shouldn't matter", "You shouldn't judge people for their past", "Women don't care about body count", "People can change"

When those statements got brought up in this scenario, the women shot them down instantly. "No, he's still gay", "No, he's not going to change", "He can't be my man"

The crazy thing is, I think if you asked a man how much he cares about how many women his gf or wife has slept with, he wouldn't care very much at all.

I'm starting to think women are less tolerant of sexual history than men are, it's just that no one cares how many women their partner has slept with, but everyone cares how many men their partner has slept with. But women require their partner to sleep with exactly 0 men and there's no negotiating.

Uglypostwall · 2023-09-24T06:04:40+00:00

I feel like killing myself over my n-count and age.I dont know how to live past through it

Some-Parsnip-1551 · 2023-09-23T23:22:30+00:00

As a male , very attractive, tall, muscular I always had girls ask me out and approach me. If I'm being honest I don't even think I ever asked a girl out. It was just always easy for me as a teen. Even my now wife asked me out.

As a "Chad" I always lied about my N count, always much lower. I played the woman's game with fudging the numbers. You know what, it worked. It made women feel special that with abundance of options I had, I chose them.

Majority of the women I slept with wanted a relationship/marriage with me. A select few wanted me to impregnate them!

I was 25 and wife 20 when first met. She was a virgin, hot, family orientated never been on a date and didn't drink or "club". Dream catch. I rejected many women for relationships even though they were worthy because of their n count.

IRL I'm nice, charming and funny coupled with looks and body - I basically commanded what I wanted in women. Secretly I despised women's slutty behaviour and I ended up destroying a few of their hearts. Deliberately make them fall in love with me and then break it off with them citing their past and me wanting to marry and have kids.

Having realised this there was no way I would settle for anything less than a virgin ala my wife. I can tell you from experience, this type of woman is the ultimate. My life is soo easy and blissful.

In retrospect I know what I've done to the women I've been with sexually in the bedroom and how they acted. I feel for the poor souls who go on to fall in love with these women. I for one would never marry a woman who has been absolutely blasted by a guy like me.

Icy_Ordinary2025 · 2023-09-23T23:05:49+00:00

People are always concerned about the mythical woman with 100+ sexual partners.

Always afraid of the boogeyman.

Funny enough, they'll have sex with a promiscuous woman and still look at her with disgust. It's easier to view the woman as disgusting than to view yourself as disgusting for using someone/doing something that didn't fill the emptiness inside.

synaps-bro · 2023-09-23T19:43:57+00:00

Body count shouldn't be the topic of discussion here it's more about having similar cultural values on sexuality. It really depends if she sees sex as a romantic activity exclusively and if she buys into the one night stand and FWB culture. If she had sex in committed relationship I wouldn't be bothered although I prefer virgin because I am a virgin myself. It all comes down to cultural values not numbers.

armpitpics · 2023-09-23T19:03:49+00:00

When is the anal sex weekly discussion thread?

Rainbowdark96 · 2023-09-23T18:00:37+00:00

What's "normal" body count for 28-30 years old woman? Also what counts as a body count? For example if penetrative sex didn't happen and all the story is foreplay?

flakybottom · 2023-09-23T17:23:26+00:00

To the people who say that n-count doesnt matter: Do you think that n-count indicates anything about the person?

Imagine 3 average people who have a n-count of 0, 1, and 100+. What, if anything, does that indicate to you about that person?

antisplatter · 2023-09-23T17:19:22+00:00

all dating and sex stats are bullshit. Everyone lies. We will never know what the average n count is.

obviousredflag · 2023-09-23T16:53:27+00:00

A common way to reject survey about n counts of women is: they lie. They correct their n count downwards to be more socially acceptable.

What nobody addresses is: the n count men state is corroborating that of women as being close to the true value. And men are said to correct their n count upwards. So there is no way women are having way more bodies on average than what the surveys confirm time and time again.

There are distribution graphs for female n counts and it's heavily right skewed, meaning most women have bodycounts lower than the mean value. It also shows how very few women have 20+ body counts and the "cock carousel" isn't happening. AT ALL.

For a community that is driven to find truth by science, i am really shocked at how red pill is actually more an ideology where people believe rather than a truth.

dishonouronmycow · 2023-09-23T16:45:16+00:00

towerofcheeeeza · 2023-09-23T16:44:14+00:00

It's probably been done before but we should do a poll of n-counts of users on this subreddit. I wanna see the distribution.

Final_Water2412 · 2023-09-23T16:30:15+00:00

Whenever I see comments and posts about how it is unfair for men to not want to be with promiscuous women I commonly see two arguments.

(1) That the man is insecure

Okay let say this is true. This argument never states why it is morally unethical for an insecure man to not want to be with a promiscuous women.

It is completely fair for a man who has not had a lot of success with women to be insecure. Men are generally valued based on how many partners they can get. How many women they sleep with. I don't see how it is incorrect or morally unethical to be insecure, when society full on shames them for their lack of sexual success. In fact, the main insults directed are men are things like "virgin", "incel", "no women".

To me it makes complete sense for a man to feel insecure if he lacked success with women. I don't see how their feelings are invalid. If they don't want to be with a promiscuous woman for that reason, that is their prerogative.

Additionally, by being with promiscuous women they're conforming. We live in a culture where women are sexualized heavily, whereas men are not. Women are generally able to sleep around whenever they want. While men do not get the same opportunity. Why would a man conform to a culture that does not value them (sexually) and give them equal opportunity? -- Especially if women can do so without repercussion.

By being with a promiscuous women they're conforming to a culture that undervalues them.

(2) That the man is hypocritical

If a promiscuous man does not want to be with a promiscuous woman that is completely fair (and vice versa). It is completely reasonable for a man to expect something from a partner that they themselves do not possess.

Men and women value different things in a partner. There are so many standards that women have for their partners that they do not meet themselves.

- Women want their partners to take the lead. T

- Women often want their man to be the provider

- Women want their partners to be taller than them.

- Women are much more biphobic even when they themselves engage in bisexual behavior. Very hypocritical, similar to men not wanting high N partners, even if they have it.

All these expectations that women have for their partners that they do not possess which is completely fair. So how is it unfair for a man to expect their partner to be more chaste?

From my perspective it is normal for men and women to value different things and expect things from a partner that they themselves don't.

mrcs84usn · 2023-09-23T16:30:08+00:00

If she’s been to college, just assume her N-count is no lower than 7.

sine120 · 2023-09-23T16:13:48+00:00

Again? That's it, everyone's count is going up by one as punishment.

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