Not believing body count?

passepar2t · 2021-04-16T19:47:59+00:00

Well I don't believe anyone's body count, including yours.

Christian_Kong · 2021-04-16T21:26:15+00:00

They don't believe it because your number is way lower than themselves and any other woman they know.

crookedsummer2019 · 2021-04-16T19:51:37+00:00

Why is a religious engaged to be married man talking to other women about his n count and discussing theirs??

HereForAllThePopcorn · 2021-04-16T20:09:25+00:00

You are 21. People come into their own sexually at different times, ages, and ways. You don’t owe anybody anything. The reason they don’t believe you is because many women hide their perceived promiscuity because it’s shameful. If you are being honest don’t let others make you feel a way about it.

Mihalann · 2021-04-16T19:44:43+00:00

> Pretty religious upbringing/lifestyle

> 21 with a body count of 3

Fuego213 · 2021-04-16T20:02:17+00:00

Lol dude who cares.

Why stress over determining factors to figure out something different than what someone told you or what you simply refuse to believe?

LowCreddit · 2021-04-16T20:12:13+00:00

Most people in this country don't realize that there is a minority of people living a completely different lifestyle. The idea of entire communities dating seriously, marrying by 23, and having children immediately is foreign to them.

rft24 · 2021-04-17T01:07:48+00:00

that’s happened to me too, from both guys and girls. they’d usually say they assume my n count would be higher because i’m conventionally attractive.

the assumption makes sense, since it seems like most people are open to casual sex. the more attractive the person is, the more options they have, so the more opportunities they have to have sex.

Laytheblameonluck · 2021-04-16T20:31:07+00:00

The reason why the women don't believe you is because the men they've slept with have had a higher body count than that.

It blows a lot of women's minds that the men they sleep with have much more sex than other men.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-04-16T20:06:28+00:00

I don't, especially these days that's part of why I don't get hung up on body count, you look at a subreddit like FDS which even encourages women to lie about their body count lol, but I always assume if a girl is attractive and especially if she went to college that she had her little phase of getting railed by members of various athletic teams or theater kids or whatever Club she was in, is that fair of me to assume so? Probably not but it is what it is, if a woman looks at you as a prize for whatever reason, she's not going to be 100% truthful about that body count🤷‍♂️

As far as guys, I've never believed another man's body count, when I was 15 and had been with one girl I told my friends it was four I hooked up with over the summer 😂😂😂😂, I don't think I stopped lying about that shit until my twenties lol

PoliticsIsBroken · 2021-04-16T19:53:42+00:00

For women multiply by 3-5, men divide by 1.5-2. This has been stunningly accurate in my experience.

2021-04-17T01:47:49+00:00

whether they seem sheltered or not. How phased are they by sexual attention? Do they drink or use drugs? Which ones? I'm not gonna believe an alcoholic is a virgin a lot of times because that's just not the life that person is likely to have lived. I was a virgin until my mid-20s for religious reasons, and I know what it's like to be sheltered. I didn't like sexual attention of any kind and I was uncomfortable with even women touching me.

NockerJoe · 2021-04-17T04:30:16+00:00

The deciding factor is less on you and more on them. You having a low count and finding a partner implies to them that you're somehow better than them by invisible social rules thst they'd say were bullshit but still believe on some level.

If you're lying, their ego is intact. If you aren't, you just won a game you probably had no interest in but matters to them.

mrcs84usn · 2021-04-16T19:52:03+00:00

I had a pretty low count early on in my life. I similarily found that women didn't believe me. They also felt that I was slut shaming by losing interest in women with high counts. I told them that I would feel lonely having sex with them as we would not be sharing the same experience; like going to a movie with someone who had seen it before. They didn't believe that either.

I think some people have very rigid views on sex in general. It has to be the way they feel about it. If you looked great and there wasn't anything awkward about you socially, then something just didn't compute. You didn't fit their worldview.

Bandit174 · 2021-04-16T22:39:02+00:00

What are their counts? If theirs are high they might find it hard to believe yours is low because they assume you are like them.

StarchRunner · 2021-04-16T20:35:49+00:00

Where did you bury them?

flapperfemmefatale · 2021-04-16T20:45:53+00:00

I've never asked for someone's body count. When they do tell me, whether or not I think it's true is irrelevant because I don't care.

Thatshygurl · 2021-04-17T01:52:15+00:00

This is honestly weird. I wouldn’t worry about those girls opinions, if they don’t believe you screw them 🤷🏻‍♀️. Also I’m 22 and only have a body count of 2, so I don’t know what those girls are on about

DushmanKushh · 2021-04-16T22:48:56+00:00

3 is very high for a 21 year old woman. Low quality

GrandRub · 2021-04-16T23:40:53+00:00

wow.. why should a 21 year old have a fiance? the usa is such a conservative religious country.

_Neon_Shadow_ · 2021-04-17T04:02:14+00:00

Everyone assumes women lie because women are liars. Nuff said.

alberto-hoff · 2021-04-16T20:35:37+00:00

Umm..ok?

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_lemazaki · 2021-04-16T19:57:31+00:00

They look your age, your looks and look for their own body count and do some kind of math.

"he is cute, I could even have sex with him ... and my n-count is 6 ... nah!! he is probably playing modest."

TheBookOfSeil · 2021-04-17T03:54:45+00:00

Sometimes you have to believe until you hear otherwise or the things they say later on aren't adding up.

2021-04-17T04:18:04+00:00

Usually dudes lie in the up direction, and girls in the down direction.

You are their friend (weird you talk about this with them), so they think yoi are a cool guy I assume. Maybe they think you deserve more.

Generally women and men are okay as long as they don't go over 5-6, after that, you could expect a lot of baggage and issues to deal with.

nerdypretty · 2021-04-17T04:28:13+00:00

I dont see why they wouldnt, I would think that's a fairly average or even slightly high count? I would think a 20 year old would've had like one or maybe two boyfriends if I had to guess. I'm 22 and only have had one. Well, 3 including girls, I guess that counts as well. But I would assume that's pretty average no?

2021-04-17T11:08:09+00:00

I don't find myself talking about body count with anyone 🙂

but innocent until proven guilty, or true until proven lie because going through life distrustful is sad

Trusting isn't naive. You trust while keeping yourself safe such that betrayal doesn't overwhelm you.

cowfishAreReal · 2021-04-17T12:03:22+00:00

Wait, are they assuming it's more than 3 or less than 3?

Stevefr0mYellowstone · 2021-04-17T17:02:25+00:00

Society and technology has hit a point where a 21 year old woman has typically already been in a spot for 5+ years where she could easily get sex from most men. Our society has become extremely hedonistic. Also women lie excessively about their body count. This has in turn screwed over a bit women with lower body counts because very few people will actually believe them that their body count is low.

Mexicola93 · 2021-04-17T19:55:39+00:00

Saying "body count" just sounds grim, like you are a hitman/woman.

Title	Not believing body count?
Author	earlymourningperson
Upvotes	6
Comments	189
Date	April 16, 2021 7:33 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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