Would your rather..?

GridReXX · 2015-12-15T15:40:48+00:00

I couldn't relate to the first three scenarios.

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

The kiss hands down.

I choose no sex over eh sex.

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

Be catcalled.

octopus_sushi · 2015-12-15T16:10:28+00:00

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

Neither? If I have to pick... assuming the sex is consensual, I think the first would be the lesser of two evils. It would really suck for a celeb to have to deal with that kind of rumor.

have sex with two 7s or have sex with one 10? (In b4 'There's no such thing as a 10', substitute 'That Girl', you know the one, the person you've always really wanted to bang.)

having sex with one 10, assuming the sex is consensual, etc, etc.

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

first

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

first

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

I'm already invisible and I would like it to stay that way.

GaiusScaevolus · 2015-12-15T20:23:55+00:00

Actually have sex. I don't think a guy actually gets much social proof from being 'that guy who f*cked Kate Upton' as you'd think. Plus, I think she'd be more useful to me if she thought of me as 'that cool guy who I can have fun with discretely' rather than 'that dude everyone thinks I banged'
I'd have sex with the 10. Never had a threesome, but I'm confident in my ability to make it happen down the line. I think it'll be much harder to get to a place where I can bang a girl I find visually perfect.
Toughest question on here. I'd rather be great at oral, okay at sex. Being great at sex is actually more appealing to me, but I can't bring myself to be bad at oral.
11/10 kiss. Women read so much into kissing, especially early on. A stellar kiss at the end of the first date practically assures she's cooking Sunday breakfast at the end of the second.
Catcalled daily. I think most young men know what the alternative is like, and it sucks. I'd rather be noticed too much/ by the wrong women than not be noticed.

EmpressofMars · 2015-12-15T15:47:34+00:00

Lol only the last one applies to me but I'd pick being invisible over being catcalled any day.

KelIy_C · 2015-12-15T19:57:40+00:00

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

My fiance is going to be a famous artist and/or rockstar and/or male supermodel so I don't have to pick on this one

have sex (a threesome) with two 7s or have sex with one 10? (In b4 'There's no such thing as a 10', substitute 'That Girl', you know the one, the person you've always really wanted to bang.)

My fiance is a 10 so this is easy, take that

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

The latter

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

My fiance is an 11/10 so I choose ending our dates with a kiss

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

be catcalled

Female, 20, rpw

cxj · 2015-12-16T04:44:19+00:00

Would you rather threads are fucking amazing and we should have them more often.

ozymandias271 · 2015-12-15T16:12:26+00:00

Basically female, 23, blue pill.

Secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity and no one will ever find out (...as frustrating as it would be not to get to brag about screwing Gerard Way).
Have sex with one 10, I can get sex with 7s whenever I like.
Be great at oral and okay at sex, sucking cock is my favorite thing in the whole entire world.
End a first date with an 11/10 kiss.
Be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make a first move, I have social phobia and catcalling gives me panic attacks.

fuckracismthrowaway · 2015-12-15T15:46:47+00:00

the latter.
the former. Theres nothing a 10 can do, that two 7s won't be able to do. The idea of a perfect 10 is stupid anyway.
the latter
the former
the former.

dundundundone · 2015-12-15T15:55:11+00:00

assuming i'm single in this hypothetical...

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

a.

have sex with two 7s or have sex with one 10? (In b4 'There's no such thing as a 10', substitute 'That Girl', you know the one, the person you've always really wanted to bang.)

a... ? i don't really rank people that way; i'm either attracted to them or i'm not, so this is hard to answer.

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

b.

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

a.

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

b.

late twenties, not red pill, woman.

bromance946 · 2015-12-15T15:59:51+00:00

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will

have sex with two 7s or have sex with one 10? (In b4 'There's no such thing as a 10', substitute 'That Girl', you know the one, the person you've always really wanted to bang.)

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move

your_mom_on_drugs · 2015-12-15T16:07:12+00:00

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

Horrible dilemma, actually break my marriage vows or have everyone (including my husband I presume) think I did? I guess I'd have to go with the second option, but :(

have sex with two 7s or have sex with one 10? (In b4 'There's no such thing as a 10', substitute 'That Girl', you know the one, the person you've always really wanted to bang.)

I never really felt lust toward a person so this question is really hard for me to understand. The people I think are most "hot" are women but I have no desire to sleep with a woman.

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

Bad at oral for sure.

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

First one, even that's a bit much. I don't like the saliva aspect of kissing much (my husband is used to that now). Peck on the cheek is fine.

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

Neither seems very desirable. But second one if I had to choose.

sunhappydc · 2015-12-15T16:23:58+00:00

Cis-gendered lady :D Age 27, red pill

former.
confused. does this mean two 7s at the same time or ONS with a 10?
given my current situation, the latter.
former
former. not all catcalls are bad.

wtknight · 2015-12-15T16:59:40+00:00

I'll have to play along as if I'm single... I am male/40's/non-Red Pill

secretly have sex with the gorgeous celebrity and nobody knows. I'm not into casual sex though so I'd probably want some kind of friendship/relationship with that celebrity as well.
At the same time? Have sex with the 10, even if it were a threesome with two 7's.
Great at sex and bad at oral.
I don't do first date sex, so the kiss.
Invisible until I make the first move. I don't like a lot of attention to myself.

am_thro_way · 2015-12-15T17:09:11+00:00

25/F/blue pill

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

The former

have sex with two 7s or have sex with one 10?

The latter

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

The former I guess. Tough choice though.

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

No strong preference either way, though I suppose it depends on what exactly you mean by "6/10 sex".

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

The latter

exit_sandman · 2015-12-15T17:18:59+00:00

Would the rumor "that's the guy Olivia Wilde had sex with" yield any real tangible benefit for me greater than actually having the (presumably enjoyable) experience of sleeping with her, like stellar preselection? If no, I'd rather pick "sleeping with Olivia Wilde".
Good question.
At the end of the day, being really great at sex is on some level better. I'd prefer that the woman I'm with would rather have sit on my dick than on my face.
Definitely the kiss with the Goddess. The kiss implies that the mutual attraction is there which bodes well for the prospect of having sex later anyway.
Being catcalled is the other side of the coin of having the upper hand when it comes to dating. I can live with that.

Wolfsouls · 2015-12-15T17:23:04+00:00

If I can't lock down the celebrity for commitment then it's useless. So I guess I'd take the second option and maybe get paid by a tabloid for the story.
I've already enjoyed a threesome before. I'll take the 10.
Great at oral.
Amazing kiss. Bad sex is a waste of time.
Both of these options suck. But I guess I'd rather be catcalled.

belletaco · 2015-12-15T17:33:17+00:00

1) everyone think it would be more beneficial to my career :)

2) good looks /= good sex. I'd prefer two 7s because I'd like to try a threesome

3) great at sex

4) 11/10 kiss

5) invisible.

scallopkid · 2015-12-15T17:41:45+00:00

F/22/Red

secretly
one 10
be great at oral but ok at sex (but I'd prefer the guy to have the other option)
11/10 kiss
if you mean invisible all the time then I'd rather be catcalled, if you only mean invisible in public/with strangers/at bars then I'd rather be invisible.

Katniss_Granger · 2015-12-15T18:00:25+00:00

Female/22/Reddishmostlyprobably

Answers in bolldddddddd

Would you rather... secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

have sex with two 7s or have sex with one 10?

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

Neither, i would like to be noticed and approached by only the guys who receive my telepathic communication that i think they're a hottie and should hit on me.

DaThrowaway808 · 2015-12-15T18:23:38+00:00

Male, 30s, Red

Celebrity - I don't care about rumors or status so I'd rather have the sex
Are both the 7s at the same time? If not, then sex with the 10.
Great at Oral and okay at sex - Sorry, I can't have a negative stat
Sex
Catcalled - cause that would lead to more sex

demerera · 2015-12-15T18:34:49+00:00

Secret sex with a celeb

One 10 over two 7s

Great at oral but not that bothered on this one

11/10 kiss

Catcalled daily

Sleela17 · 2015-12-15T18:36:43+00:00

28/F/BP. I'm answering these questions as if I were single.

I don't really like either of these options, but I guess the first one.
Two sevens.
This is really hard. I think the second one.
Kiss.
This is a tough one too, but I really hate initiating social contact so I'd probably take being catcalled. That said, catcalling isn't really a thing where I live and I can't say I've ever experienced it, so maybe it's worse than it seems.

mr_nate_ · 2015-12-15T19:41:19+00:00

Identity: Male/18/Red Pill

1. I would rather have everyone THINK I had sex with the hot celebrity — this would directly raise my sexual market value, meaning girls would subconsciously see me as more desirable. This is similar to investing for a greater outcome later on.

2. I'd rather have the one HB10, I'm not into threesomes and I only have one dick to use at a time.

3. Be great at sex but bad at oral — Giving oral does not make me orgasm because of simply male anatomy. But if I'm good at sex (aka coitus) I would be both pleasing myself and my partner at once. I kill two birds with one stone.

4. End the first date with 6/10 sex — the 11/10 would probably never see me as having true sexual potential, she'd think of me as a provider she can keep in orbit. It's all hypothetical, but I guess I like my reward immediately in this sense.

5. Be invisible unless I made the first move. Catcalling's annoying, I feel for the girls walking down the street. Plus, as a guy, it's expected that I make the first move anyways.

wub1234 · 2015-12-15T19:51:16+00:00

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

Secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of my choice.

have sex (a threesome) with two 7s or have sex with one 10? (In b4 'There's no such thing as a 10', substitute 'That Girl', you know the one, the person you've always really wanted to bang.)

I have had a threesome, whereas I don't think I've ever had sex with a 10, nor am I ever likely to do so unless I hire a hooker, so it would definitely be the latter.

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

You can't be great at sex if you're not great at oral.

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

11/10 kiss.

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

This is totally irrelevant to men because it can't possibly happen, but I could easily cope with being catcalled daily.

Leinadro · 2015-12-15T20:37:14+00:00

• secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

Secret sex. I would rather do it and it be a permanant secret than to have people going on about something that didnt happen.

• have sex (a threesome) with two 7s or have sex with one 10? (In b4 'There's no such thing as a 10', substitute 'That Girl', you know the one, the person you've always really wanted to bang.)

I rather be with one 10. Frankly because I dont think I could realisticallt satisfy 2 women at once.

• be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

Im actually great at oral and only so so at sex and I think Ill keep it that way because I have to admit my wife really fucking loves direct stimulation and my only othe sexual encounter before her was with a woman where our time together was nothing but me going down on her and she enjoyed it a lot.

• end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

The kiss because I would be so nervous about first date sex Id probably be terrible.

• be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

Invisible. Because despite wanting that kind of attention Im sure id get bored or aggravated by constant cat calling.

35/male/no pill alignment

MagicGainbow · 2015-12-15T20:37:55+00:00

Male/24/purple-red leaning

Former,latter,latter,latter,former.

worldtraveler1234 · 2015-12-15T21:00:38+00:00

"Be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move."

LOL, men are anything but invisible to women. I love it when a guy I like asks me out.

nemma88 · 2015-12-15T21:09:05+00:00

F /27 /Black.

Secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out
have sex with one 10
be great at oral and okay at sex.
end a first date with an 11/10 kiss [nb. Scales here are rather irrelevant to me. There are people I am not attracted to and people I am attracted to, I am attracted to so few people I don't tend to scale like that.]
be catcalled daily. I'm terrible at making the first move.

CreepyPsychoStalker · 2015-12-15T21:14:44+00:00

Secret sex
Not a 10 but there is someone I've always wanted to try having sex with
Great at sex but bad at oral, I like having sex more than giving BJs
The kiss, I can get 8/10 sex easily, I don't get many amazing kisses
Invisible, I've approached a guy before and gotten amazing sex out of it, being catcalled is just annoying

female/23/blue

OlBastard · 2015-12-15T21:32:25+00:00

Build my rep by having everyone know.
Kinky sex with one 10. Or the two 7s. Whichever likes it my flavor of rough.
Great at sex, bad at oral.
Kiss the 11/10
Cat-called daily.

Male - 25 - Red

latercrow · 2015-12-15T22:35:01+00:00

The second for an interesting story. I'm not good at lying but the rumor would be more amusing.
The first. I'm not that picky about looks so I don't really have an ideal 10.
The first. Not very interested in PIV.
The first.
The second. I don't like a lot of attention. I don't get catcalled and wouldn't like to be.

F/21/Purple

MorpheusGodOfDreams · 2015-12-15T23:57:23+00:00

this is exactly the type of fun question that really delves into TRP. There is a reason that comedians can spout Red Pill ideas without being crucified.

I would definitely want people to THINK that I had slept with a hot celebrity like ScarJo. Women care a lot about status, and this would be helpful for any future engagements.

I would definitely choose a 3some because 2 girls are more fun than 1.

I would rather be terrible at oral and great at sex. For a man, receiving oral is much more important than giving it because of that Eye Contact.

I'd much rather end the first date with the kiss, this leaves the woman weak at the knees and begging for more, which adds up to better sex the next time. I would not take a ONS or tinder girl on a date to being with.

I would love to be catcalled daily, I would reciprocate all the time and make more friends. If it got boring I would wear earphones.

Great post, by the way. We need a lot more like this one to help people understand the differences between the sexes.

impossibleworlds · 2015-12-16T00:07:21+00:00

Former
Latter
Former
Former
Former

wattwatty · 2015-12-16T03:13:21+00:00

secret sex - easy choice
threesome with 7's - easy choice
great at sex - not so easy a choice
6/10 sex - easy choice
catcalled - easiest choice here!

M/Red/45

teeay · 2015-12-16T07:01:40+00:00

OK.

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

Have the sex.

have sex (a threesome) with two 7s or have sex with one 10?

The 10.

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

Oral is sex, but I assume you mean penetrative. Great at sex.

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

The kiss, it's just a first date.

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

Am male, no idea what this catcalling shit is about. And already have to make the first move.

Oh, and M/Old/reddish.

3dbattleship · 2015-12-17T18:14:36+00:00

F/25/unaligned

Ideally neither, because I think sex with strangers is gross. If I had to choose, I'd pick option B because then I wouldn't have to deal with the actual grossness- but the reputational damage would still suck.
Well, option A is immediately out because I have zero interest in threesomes. But 10s also generally aren't my thing- maybe I get intimidated. I like to be the pretty one in my relationships. Can I have one 7 who really loves me?
Definitely great at oral. There's nothing that gives me a greater sense of power than having someone squirming with their pleasure entirely under my control.
11/10 kiss, not even a question. I wouldn't have sex on a first date, and I don't want 6/10 sex.
Definitely B. I like making the first move because that means I'm doing the selection. Of course that means I also get rejected sometimes, which sucks, but it's worth it to me for the choice.

BelleFlower420 · 2015-12-15T15:55:29+00:00

secretly have sex with a gorgeous celebrity of your choice and no one will ever find out or have everyone think you had sex with said gorgeous celebrity even though you didn’t and never will?

Secretly have sex with celebrity and have no one find out.

have sex with two 7s or have sex with one 10? (In b4 'There's no such thing as a 10', substitute 'That Girl', you know the one, the person you've always really wanted to bang.)

One ten for sure.

be great at oral and okay at sex or great at sex but bad at oral?

Great at sex, bad at oral.

end a first date with an 11/10 kiss or end a first date with 6/10 sex?

11/10 kiss!

be catcalled daily or be invisible to the opposite sex unless you make the first move?

Invisible to opposite sex.

BenGunnSilver · 2015-12-15T19:18:17+00:00

What do you mean there are no 10s? What about women who pose naked for magazines?

Title	Would your rather..?
Author	GaiusScaevolus
Upvotes	7
Comments	94
Date	December 15, 2015 3:33 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3wy6x9/would_your_rather/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/PurplePillDebate/would-your-rather.277874 https://theredarchive.com/post/277874

Comments