Another man gets a jagged red pill forcefully shoved up his ass without lube.... ? | WhereAllTheGoodMenAre

loneliness-inc · 2021-10-18T02:43:04+00:00

Gentlemen,

The 5 stages of grief are well known. They are: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance.

When it comes to jagged red pills being shoved up our ass without lube, these 5 stages (briefly) are:

Denial - wymyns can't really be this way. Maybe you just picked the wrong one. Maybe it's because you weren't a good enough hubsend. Maybe it's this, maybe it's that, maybe it's something else. Anything to preserve the idea that wymyns are sugar and spice and everything nice.

Anger - okay, certain things have become undeniable and that pisses you off!!! It's so unfair, so engaging and why didn't anyone warn you about it???

Bargaining - okay, that was a giant waste of energy that accomplished nothing. Now that you calmed down from your anger, you start trying to come up with solutions to what you perceive to be the problem.

Depression - you realize that you can't change wymyns. You can't negotiate and you can't bargain. You become depressed because you still hold on to the fairytale dreams and you realize that these dreams will never be realized. That's very depressing.

Acceptance - you accept wymyns for what they are and you don't expect anything from them that isn't in line with their nature. You make life choices based on your newfound understanding and acceptance. You make choices with your eyes wide open.

Why do I bring this up?

Because in these comments, you will find all 5 stages of grief.

The purpose of this post was to demonstrate how fucked up the system is and how stacked it is against men.

She can start a relationSHIT based on lies and little to no consequences will come her way.
She can sperm-jack him without consequence.
People will still expect him to "man up" and be a father figure to the children + pay for their needs, even if it's revealed that they aren't his!
If the kids aren't his, she defrauded him of tens of thousands of dollars!!! Nevertheless, nothing will happen to her and he will still be expected to pay up!
If he fails to live up to this societal expectation, the long arm of the law will force it on him. He might even go to prison while being shamed as a deadbeat dad.
If he was married to her, she'd walk away with half his shit + all kinds of additional payments of alimony, child support etc.

I can go on and on, but I won't. I'll refer you to the men's rights forums and websites for the millions of details on how this disgusting shit stinks.

So, what's the point in all this?

The point is: if you're commenting to say how he should have done this or he should do that: you missed the point!

If you're commenting to flex your muscles and denigrate him for being weak: we will ban your pathetic, disgusting ass.

The point is that our current societal expectations and laws, will screw you over 6 ways to Sunday if you're a man. If you're a wymyns, it will empower you to screw over the man.

Everything else is superfluous commentary.

No one cares what the specific law is in your jurisdiction, that allows this guy to spend thousands of dollars in legal bills to have less damage inflicted upon him. When you focus on that, you're ignoring the fact that our system is one of injustice.

To all of you still in the first 4 stages of grief, please contemplate on the stage you're in and whether you're able to move to the next stage.

One day, you too will reach acceptance. You too will be able to point out the actual problems while displaying those who propagate said problems.

After all, that's what we're here to do 🙂

Cheers!

Alarmed_Mechanic_403 · 2021-10-15T13:03:29+00:00

As cruel as this is going to sound: He should abandon ship, INCLUDING the daughters. Even though he is invested in them, the trauma will never go away.

Break it all off. Start anew. Otherwise, your life will be pain and sorrow throughout.

NoonTimeHoopsMVP · 2021-10-15T13:50:43+00:00

That was brutal to read.

If the DNA tests come back and say that he isn't their father, he should cut bait immediately. There is nothing there for him except his money being leeched away. The fact that he even threatened to leave is enough for his ex-fiancé to spin a tale about how he is the bad guy.

"Despite using birth control, she got pregnant."

That was the warning sign there.

neveler310 · 2021-10-15T13:00:20+00:00

Just another whore

Aldabruzzo · 2021-10-15T13:34:24+00:00

This story has played out over and over. Don't ever think that your girlfriend or fiancee or wife hasn't gotten fucked like this before just because you haven't seen photos or video. She has. They are all sluts. All of them. Either the pictorial proof doesn't exist, or you just haven't seen it. The fact remains that she's gotten fucked like this before.

The point is not to make sure she avoids it. You can't do that. The only thing you can do is make sure you don't pay for it.

This man has the chance to escape financial responsibility. He isn't married to this woman. The children aren't his, or at least there's doubt. Here's what this man should do, and here's what YOU should do if this ever happens to you:

--cut ties with this woman immediately. Sever all financial, emotional, and living entanglements without delay. This woman gets not one more dime of your money.

--review the children's situation. Regardless of anything else, get DNA tests on the kids. If you put your name on their BCs as the father, and you've been supporting these kids, well, you're fucked. You ARE the father, even if you're not. But if you don't support them and your name isn't on the BC, there's a chance. Get the DNA tests and a lawyer. File a lawsuit to establish nonpaternity. Name the mother. Drag her name in public. Shame her relentlessly. Tell anyone who will listen what she did.

--get back to that laptop and download the videos and pics. Find all you can. Keep them. Make sure she knows you have them in safe locations.

--tell everyone why your relationship is over. Pull no punches. Tell everyone who will listen. Sit her parents down and explain it all to them. Show them the video. Show them stillshots from the video.

Shame this woman from top to bottom, from east to west. Make sure everyone in her life knows why her idyllic life has come crashing down. Because she's a liar, a cheat, and a whore.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2021-10-15T13:39:11+00:00

Documenting a complete record of her escapades on video was truly her most cunning ploy.

Me, I've gone my entire life without filming my illicit orgies of debauchery. What have I been missing?

Ok-Adeptness4906 · 2021-10-15T16:11:36+00:00

He made a HUGE mistake moving out of the home - that he bought. NEVER move out of the home - make HER move out of the home.

michael1962-01 · 2021-10-15T13:30:07+00:00

He is in a lot of legal trouble as he signed the paternity - lesson learned: never ever without DNS test YOU organize and do.

Best he could do is extract as much value and cash as possible. Go into the ofshore industrie change name and ghost.

ogrilla99 · 2021-10-15T14:47:26+00:00

Unfortunately, married or not, this guy is fucked. The only thing is that (assuming common law marriage isn't a thing in his state) he won't have to divide his assets.

But legally he is the father to those daughters, whether it's biologically true or not. But unless the mother is a drug addict or violent, she will gain primary custody. Doesn't matter how good a father he is.

At that point, he will be turning over half his paycheck. I'll try to find it again but there's a great website run by a divorce lawyer who advocates for men's rights where he analyzes divorce decisions in each state. The bottomline is this: regardless of the law, and whether you call it alimony or child support, judges like to award half your income to your spouse. They think that's "fair" and adjust things to meet that regardless of what the law states. If no alimony is due, they merely adjust child support up to be half your income. And if alimony is due but no children, then they set alimony at half. It doesn't really matter what you end up calling it but half your paycheck is hers. He found this held to a remarkable extent regardless of individual circumstances, law, or how hard fought the divorce was.

Which means this guy will hopefully be able to keep his assets, but will be paying half his income to his ex for the next 16 years (until the youngest turns 18). And of course, if he remains in their life and loves them, he'll probably be paying for their college, etc because colleges consider both parents' income when calculating financial aid.

At least he keeps his house but it sounds like he just recently bought it (a few years ago) so probably doesn't have much equity in it anyway. He's also pretty young. So I'm guessing there aren't that many assets yet to split. And paying half his salary will mean his ability to accumulate assets over the rest of his life will ben severely diminished.

Plus, god help him if oil prices nosedive again and he loses his job or if he gets injured and has to take a lower paying job (oil field jobs have incredibly high rates of injury; hence the high salary). He'll still be on the hook for child support and will be thrown in jail if he can't pay it.

Imagine that: you throw out our back servicing a rig and have to go on disability which pays you only a fraction of your original salary. And then you end up in jail because you can't keep up with child support. Meanwhile, your ex lives in a house (he says her family is rich so they'll probably buy her one) with her new boyfriend(s). They all eat steak dinners every week using your "child support" payments that you paid for with your health, while you rot in jail and your kids go without new shoes or clothes or textbooks for school.

Oh yeah, and to throw salt in the wound, society considers you a deadbeat dad and your ex an noble single mother trying her best to raise 2 daughters, alone through no fault of her own.

braucifur · 2021-10-15T16:43:29+00:00

"Despite her using birth control, she got pregnant"

Guys if this ever happens to you this is a huge red flag that this is not an honest woman. Missing one day of the BC pill isn't enough to get pregnant it's a hormonal pill that takes time to build up in the bloodstream and time to dissipate. He should've went looking for other clues as to her dishonesty the moment she announced she was the 1% where the BC didn't work on. For the BC bill to have a 1% failure rate somehow around 30% of women who claim to be on it wind up in that 1%. Guys wake the fuck up.

molded_bread · 2021-10-15T16:56:51+00:00

I'll never forget the day a cousin of mine showed me a video of him fucking this girl in his place as she was on the phone talking to her boyfriend and him saying how much he loved her and missed her. That was painful to see.

Sluts will be sluts.

GundamZero83 · 2021-10-15T13:51:45+00:00

Treachery, thy name is woman.

vegasbadboy702 · 2021-10-15T14:15:27+00:00

I feel for this guy as that is just disgusting. I love how it always goes from “how dare you invade my privacy” to the “begging for forgiveness”. The depravity can summed up at by her acknowledgment that she was seeing another guy right from the time they were dating. So much for that engagement. Those “tears” she is shedding is because of the loss of the money provider nothing more.

He is fortunate he didn’t actually marry her with the potential of asset splitting and alimony off the table. Situations like these are proof there needs to be an elimination of no fault divorce. Imagine if he had married her. It will never happen as the state and women have too much to gain by making marriages easy to break up (child support, alimony, welfare paid). But in cases where a spouse like that IS at clear fault, it should impact custody, alimony, etc. She left her kids at her parents so she could go get tag teamed by dudes. She belongs to the streets.

RealMcGonzo · 2021-10-15T19:05:50+00:00

Getting in a threesome just once is a big enough red flag to make a woman non-marriable all by itself in my book. Repeatedly banging two other guys at once while engaged with kids? That's some horrorshow shit right there.

deckran · 2021-10-15T14:46:42+00:00

Damn, i really feel for the guy. I wonder if him having a shitty childhood made him instinctually not wanting to turn like his father so he ended up overlooking the girl's red flags. The getting pregnant while on pill may have been an indication that something's not exactly right. And these sheltered women often times end up having an overlong rebellious phase way past their usual in their teenage years and destroy their lives as a result.

CriticalEscapeBike · 2021-10-15T16:45:33+00:00

Those girls are very probably not yours.

"I'm not sure" means...."they're not yours".

It also means, of her available options, you were the most likely to be the best provider.

Start the motions of walking away and watch the candy store explode with offerings.

CriticalEscapeBike · 2021-10-15T16:49:01+00:00

OP, if you're still monitoring this post...don't try to get the files. Just grab the entire laptop. The sooner the better.

Even if she has deleted the files, they are retrievable.

It won't take more than a few clicks online to find someone local who can help you.

drakehfh · 2021-10-15T16:00:28+00:00

The big red flag here is her mother wanting to introduce her to him.

DefiantFlatworm4833 · 2021-10-15T16:56:03+00:00

This is why I shit test women with my friends! Half of my buddies are alpha type Chads. When things have potential of getting serious I’ll have one of them flirt with her and try to get to cheat!

velvetunderground111 · 2021-10-16T05:24:35+00:00

Guys tend to think the "pull yourself up by the bootstraps" story should end with the girl. But this guy found out the hard way he was better off being a bachelor. I feel for him: I had a pregnancy scare at around 23 and later found out the girl had been cheating behind my back. She was going to keep the kid and had it not been a false alarm, I might have been stuck raising a child that was not mine. The girl Red Pilled me more than anything and I have been on guard with women ever since. Sad world.

BluepillProfessor · 2021-10-15T14:49:56+00:00

Sorry brah. The good news is you dodged a bullet to the skull, even if you don't know it right now. You have no responsibility to this woman or her demon spawn. Eject brother. Eject.

gfgdhj5784yu8 · 2021-10-15T15:56:55+00:00

He needs to order up a couple DNA tests ASAP. Even if they come back not his, he will probably still be on the line for child support if his name is on the birth certificates.

I read these things and just don't understand how a guy can handle a situation like that and where he gets all the extra time to deal with all that drama. I would be curious as to how he manages his day.

You younger guys need to take heed to all the time and assets these women will drain from you if you get them pregnant. I have been fortunate to have had a number of attractive longer term girlfriends that I was careful not to get pregnant. I have discovered that even though I am constantly bothered by a never ending sex drive itch..... a peaceful, drama free life devoted to my interests, hobbies and business is much more fulfilling. The itch gets easy to ignore after a while and articles like this seal the deal for me. That and I have yet to come across a truly happy long term married couple in real life. Just date a woman for half a year and you have experienced the best she has to offer without destroying your life and finances.

KoloGupta · 2021-10-16T03:55:35+00:00

Despite being on birth control, she got pregnant, immediately moved in with him, then got pregnant again.

Women don't get pregnant by accident. If your woman is supposedly on birth control then "accidentally" gets pregnant, you are in trouble. It means she she neither gives a toss about nor respects you. It'll be the first of many unpleasant surprises to come.

For sure, those kids are not his. The older kid is from the side dude. The father of the younger one is a toss up. She'll need an "I be the pappy" comparison side by side with the two spit roasters, like in the movie Life.

RealJoeDee · 2021-10-16T05:05:13+00:00

ALWAYS GET A PATERNITY TEST

This non-negotiable. If she balks at you doing so, then it tells you everything you need to know.

Mark_Freed · 2021-10-15T14:29:48+00:00

damn these stories need to be heard. To stay optimistic in spite of all this negativity is the real challenge.

daryl_feral · 2021-10-15T18:21:53+00:00

God God...

That's horrifying...

ahmad91201 · 2021-10-15T18:05:15+00:00

It is risky for many men to get involved with women, especially with so much false information and harmful conditioning out there that sets up many men to be used and abused by women.

I would advise getting a paternity test before signing birth certificates. If you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to worry about. After all, airport security exists not because all passengers are terrorists but because one terrorist getting through to a flight would be a tragedy, the same is true for women who lie about paternity.

kingcheezit · 2021-10-15T18:38:48+00:00

I would empty the bank account, put the house up for sale and bounce.

Leave that cheating cunt out on the street.

Leave the bitch to prove the kids are mine, and if not, enjoy the rest of the my life.

Revenge_best_served · 2021-10-16T06:05:58+00:00

Sever all ties with that woman and her children, if they are yours or not doesn't matter , she will always use them to hurt you, leave the state or country for a while and tell no one if and when you return, do not financially reward her actions.

ZZoMBiEXIII · 2021-10-15T18:08:56+00:00

Man, this one really makes me sad. Poor guy.

His fiancee has earned a special hotter spot in Hell as far as I'm concerned. What a waste of oxygen is she.

I do feel bad for his kids. Sounds like mommies selfishness will cost them the most.

Harry_Teak · 2021-10-16T01:09:25+00:00

Yet another sad story, but he violated the most important rule: be alert and aware enough to actually know which side of the AF/BB fence you're on with a woman. If your situation seems too good to be true, it probably is.

It's nice to see a young man escape the trailer park and make somewhat of a success of himself. But all is for naught if one doesn't learn early on that 'fairy tale endings' are for Disney flicks, not real life. It too often turns out that Beauty is the Beast.

Goldmansachs3030 · 2021-10-15T19:59:46+00:00

PEDOPHILES(Male and Female)- The children are going to suffer at their hands and become victims. Nobody talks about how women let these men/women into houses and then they, in some cases, actively support the dehumanising of their daughters and sons, creating households that create once again such people.Instead of repenting and putting their should and life into making their lives beautiful, they make them rot.

I remember one such case in Britain, where the lady went into a bar, invited the man into the house and then the man , after satiating her lust, R*PED the little boy and girl.He was later caught, with a body in trunk. I was already confused, (yeah, not all of you, i was new), that why western people have this romantic notion of meeting their wife in a bar, when they do not barely know anything about the other person and VICE-VERSA. I mean that girl, after having sex could very well do anything.Could use anything. Desperate, if you have been towards anything, like hunger(like real desperate for food, i have been at a period of time, i knew others could very well have this same emotion, but not towards hunger, but other things as well), you know some will do whatever it takes.The world is that much deranged,

peguy2000 · 2021-10-16T08:29:28+00:00

Reason not to date #754337775

HLFML · 2021-10-15T23:34:14+00:00

Best case scenario here is they are his kids and he goes for full custody.

newyorkloser45 · 2021-10-16T00:57:13+00:00

Wow, his wife is a genuinely awful waste of oxygen human filth.

PirateDocBrown · 2021-10-16T09:05:17+00:00

He loves the kids, and doesn't want to give them up. TRP notwithstanding, that's entirely his choice. The easy way for him would be to get full physical custody. Find a way to pressure her into signing away her parental rights. Maybe threaten to expose her to her family. It's evil, but not as evil as what was done to him, by a long shot.

Corn_in_your_pussy · 2021-10-16T18:01:30+00:00

If you live long enough as a man, you will eventually take the red pill. The only question is how will you take it?

Will you take it when a man offers it to you and explains the choice in front of you? Or rather, will you take it when a woman jams it up your ass?

creepyhardwood · 2021-10-15T18:34:14+00:00

welp. he might be in luck if one or both the kids are not his, he got the proof she cheated. Now he just hast to go about getting her evicted out of the house because he left.... then get a good lawyer and hope he will not be made the presumed father, and thank what ever god he did not marry her

Saianna · 2021-10-15T21:56:11+00:00

i think i know the sub it came from. I was banned there after bunch of "fem, I and naz" decied i need to be cancelled because of my hard and throbbing patriarchy. I'm still butthurt about it.

About the guy.. God damn. Not just any cheating but threesome.. and that ultimate hoe even made videos... And didn't evn hide them. Good lord..

I hope there will be an update to the story where she'll get wrecked by her family and shunted for that "stunt".

HephaestusRuin · 2021-10-15T23:53:29+00:00

I genuinely sympathize with this guy, this terrible, horrible person has knowingly deceived him into caring about those kids, but now he maybe has to deal with his own caring about them though they may not be his.

I can't say what I would do or feel in that situation--I know my kids are mine, but if I found out they weren't...I don't know. But, he absolutely should get a lawyer and fight paternity if he is not their father, even if--no, ESPECIALLY if--he decides to continue to have a relationship with them/continue to support them/love them. Otherwise, it's allowing the irrational and capricious people with guns (the State) to control his relationship (including financial) with the kids, in addition to the terrible person, instead of just the terrible person. Nothing's stopping him from giving money to them directly after an Order of Non-Paternity, but Child Support is just money-laundered Alimony at the point of a gun.

Fairwareprovidence · 2021-10-16T01:46:37+00:00

He has to push for sole custody of the kids in order to not pay child support, regardless of who they came from. It sucks, but don't downplay that a lot of men do see themselves as a father figure and like that role. It happens. And it'd happen better without the harpy.

alienmuseum · 2021-10-16T06:00:05+00:00

It's just the way they like it. Dry and no lube. They had no idea that their gf/wives/fiancees are the town's bicycle.

justhereforgaemes · 2021-10-15T22:30:39+00:00

That's fucking depressing

Marko_From_Tropoja_ · 2021-10-17T02:54:26+00:00

Sorry am I in the wrong that if these kids weren’t mine I would be done? Like i wouldn’t be able to look at them again…

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-10-15T17:01:30+00:00

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Scantraxx12 · 2021-10-19T13:07:22+00:00

You know how you prevent these kind of things, you pay attention to your girlfriend (wife) and her actions. Oh she wants to go out on a girls night? Man code: shes looking for sexual attention and validation. I could never imagine having kids and the wife is "being young" and going out. It's all code for the same thing. They are fishing for sexual attention. This means that your in danger....

I know because I experienced everything in a relationship that left me broken for a couple years. But guess what, I'm a little older, have a little more experience, and I can smell bullshit from a mile away. Doesn't matter if your dating or in a relationship, female nature is the same. The only thing you can do is mitigate and prevent this kind of stuff from happening. Experience is truly the best teacher, and not only that, but now I have control over who I want to be with versus being a horny bastard (my problem being young).

Then you got the law. That's when your truly fucked, which is why you should pay attention to rule #1 HER ACTIONS. Dating, married, or divorced, you can tell someone's next move by their actions. So pay attention and set boundaries.

NoNameAvailableSee · 2021-10-15T14:19:23+00:00

There’s no going back. Threesome going on for 4 years. She’s gone.

Seek full custody of the kids. No DNA test. These kids are yours, and you are their father. Why second guess it?

Public shame is ok… but not permanent online posting stuff the kids will find years from now.

HungryBrain1 · 2021-10-15T21:07:09+00:00

What a nightmare. Marry a virgin who is clear from the beginning that she is your property or don’t marry at all. Nothing else works.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-10-17T07:25:42+00:00

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meerita · 2021-10-17T18:19:00+00:00

"despise being on birth control, she got pregnant" = Tyrone's daughter. Man, another dude who will be redpilled forever.

Ancient-Length8844 · 2021-10-19T13:39:44+00:00

Dissappear dude. Sell the house or kick her ass to the curb. Omg

asdf333aza · 2021-10-19T21:15:01+00:00

I can vouche for this kinda stuff. I have a few photos and videos of girls on my phone who have done the exact same thing.

They will be in a committed relationship with some dude who they are showing off on social media. Calling him their "rock" and their "lover and friend" and blah blah blah.

Meanwhile, they're hooking up with me (and probably other dudes too). And when girls cheat they are ridiculously reckless. They let me raw dog them and finish inside, get videos and photos and they say the craziest and freakiest things possible. Like when girls cheat, the do so recklessly. They are very likely letting the other dude/ affair partner hit it raw without question.

I have never shared these videos or sent them out. But for the most part I just keep them to myself. Most of these girls never gave me a reason to expose them. But I'm sure I'm not the only one with a cluster of videos and photos sitting around that could ruin these girl's future.

coloradocaniac · 2021-10-23T17:34:09+00:00

Every day is more proof hermit mode is best. That poor guy.

vanillapopsicle · 2021-10-29T07:32:47+00:00

This is a type of evil I can’t even comprehend. Imagine disrespecting marriage vows and your husband this much.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-10-15T20:10:15+00:00

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Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-10-16T15:27:58+00:00

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Buchwild · 2021-10-17T06:18:04+00:00

I'm a bit curious, if youre in a situation where your spouse has data on their laptop which would be useful to have would it be illegal to just take the laptop so a backup copy would be made and then return it?

icehand1212 · 2021-10-17T16:30:23+00:00

I just had to read the title to come to a conclusion. LEAVE

moorekom · 2021-10-15T15:07:06+00:00

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Another man gets a jagged red pill forcefully shoved up his ass without lube.... ? | WhereAllTheGoodMenAre

The point is that our current societal expectations and laws, will screw you over 6 ways to Sunday if you're a man. If you're a wymyns, it will empower you to screw over the man.

The problem here is the broken system that enables wymyns to be cunts like this, without consequences.

Even if they are proven to not be his!

IT DOESN'T MATTER!!!

He can get raped on child support alone!

OK!!!!!!!!!

👍🏻

ARE THEY EVEN HIS KIDS?!?!?!?!?!

Title	Another man gets a jagged red pill forcefully shoved up his ass without lube.... ? \| WhereAllTheGoodMenAre
Author	loneliness-inc
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Date	October 15, 2021 12:56 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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