[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)

hastalabyebye · 2013-01-18T21:31:22+00:00

Am I the only one who has a lot of problems with isolation? There didnt seem to be anything in either of the FAQs about it and a subreddit search turned up jack. This is a huge problem for me and is almost always the biggest obstacle in getting a girl to come back with me.

I'm a college student, for what it's worth.

PUAreadingmaterial · 2013-01-18T19:53:41+00:00

This seems to intertwine with Push-Pull theory a bit, but at what point (and rate) do you reveal details about yourself when asked? I know the underlying objective is to be mysterious and the target, but when do you stop withholding that information?

mypuaaccount1984 · 2013-01-18T21:22:46+00:00

Chick on OkC after a couple messages exchanged says "do you have fb? We should talk more." And gives me her name to find her on it. I feel friending girls on fb doesn't really help me, removes all the mystery. Any way to respond to turn that into something better? Seems a date might be premature as we've exchanged 2 messages only.

jros14 · 2013-01-18T21:10:02+00:00

I texted a girl asking if she was free tomorrow night, and she messaged me back with "I might be. I usually spend the weekends with my family but if I am, I'll let you know."

Honestly, I don't feel like waiting around for this girl to let me know if she's free or not. I'd rather just make other plans. But I do want to hang out with her some time. How can I go about responding to this?

nycprowl · 2013-01-18T19:27:16+00:00

In my experience, it seems like my quest for inner game has been a series of highs and lows.

How you gain some consistency and how do you push through the low points

Treyu2112 · 2013-01-18T20:13:59+00:00

In a college environment, how much does age actually matter?

puaCurveBall · 2013-01-18T20:39:55+00:00

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Howlinghound · 2013-01-18T23:04:28+00:00

I got her number. Do I call the next day, or text? If I text, what the hell do I say other than "GOOD TIMES LAST NIGHT!"?

Obviously I'm doing something wrong here as out of five girls giving me their number two nights ago, only one has responded to my text and now even that's died off. Where do I go from the gaining of the number? I figure I can't just ask them out on a date right off the bat.

Fire42uck · 2013-01-18T23:23:25+00:00

How come this post is a day late?

My real question: I have cold hands and it puts me off from doing any kino. Any advice?

steph33ndeboi · 2013-01-19T02:46:42+00:00

What are some good inner game practice for those with AA?

homerjaysimpleton · 2013-01-18T21:03:39+00:00

Sup dudes, I gave a public speaking presentation today, and had most of my points taken off from lack of eye contact and hand/face gestures. Did great otherwise and was actually complimented by a cute girl beside me. This is definitely my weakest area; what can I do to get better? Any tips?

Haha just read the op actually so this too.

How can I talk to that cute girl in my class?

fr0stsn0w · 2013-01-19T02:15:52+00:00

girl at my class, is it a good idea to ask her to be in my work team? if yes, what to say?

rockstaa · 2013-01-18T21:07:24+00:00

Co-workers, classmates, neighbors... good idea or bad idea when you see or can see someone regularly?

General_Awesome · 2013-01-18T21:29:13+00:00

I'm going skiing in a few weeks. Are there any special things I should consider doing? I was thinking of teasing them about their technique and stuff like that, maybe inviting them the day after to join me and my friends.

ThomasRoll · 2013-01-19T00:52:16+00:00

How do I get to put it in a girls butt?

Serious question.

petermtoneill1 · 2013-01-18T21:52:58+00:00

What would be your advice for k closing a girl from the dancefloor? Can it be done without talking or what do you guys recommend? I'm normally able to approach a girl at a bar etc but find it hard on a dancefloor Thanks

InquisitiveOne · 2013-01-18T22:16:04+00:00

I'm going to my first college party tonight. It'll be a bit smaller (about 50 people). And its not my college so I'll be meeting everyone with a fresh start. Any tips and reminders to pump me up?

TheUrgeToFap · 2013-01-18T22:48:25+00:00

My wife tells me I come across cute instead of sexy when I myself am trying to be sexy. She mentioned the push and pull but I have never been that type of person and I dont really know how I can be now that she is my wife... What can I do to be aggressive outside of the bedroom and invoke that push/pull mentality when we are married.

marcovirtual · 2013-01-18T23:07:19+00:00

I'm hanging out with this gorgeous girl who's crazy about me, but one of these days when she was kissing me she said I was kinda feminine, possibly because of the way I crossed my legs earlier. Her comment totally killed my boner and my state. How can I avoid looking feminine, and how not to let those kind of comments kill my state?

Idontlikekarmawhores · 2013-01-18T22:36:04+00:00

I need someone to explain me "Leading the girls " for beginners with examples that work. Seriously i just came from the gym and saw a girl who i ve been talking to in the past ( havent seen her in awhile) the first time we talked i did kino and i scalated alot, now i was having trouble leading her and the situation got a bit awkward :( And how to be more "fun" like simple jokes and things that i can so people would like to be around me ( girls)

2013-01-18T23:05:49+00:00

Tips on what to do to build attraction? Maybe some canned things just to help refresh my memory? I've been spending too much time in the "military life," so I've forgotten how the real world works.

the_brick_attack · 2013-01-19T00:18:53+00:00

Bad at escalation because I grew up very prude. What are some ways to get myself comfortable with escalation? Should I just be incredibly awkward with the first few women I practice escalating a lot the same night, or are there certain steps that help with making it simpler besides being fed to the wolves?

jadedice · 2013-01-19T02:50:19+00:00

Hey, I remember a post a few months about about a small talk game. I don't remeber the details but it was like where you could ask them a question and you say ask them why to one of their reponces or something. ring a bell to anyone?

226392 · 2013-01-19T06:31:50+00:00

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scoutly · 2013-01-19T06:40:14+00:00

I have class with this girl and I've known her for about 2 semesters or so. she sits right next to me in class and i make her laugh and flirt with her a lot. i have her added on Facebook, but i haven't got her # yet. how do i ask for it? she usually isn't ever alone when leaving class or anything so i could use some advice.

NeutralBias · 2013-01-19T18:05:20+00:00

A simple procedural question for the mods: do we prefer FRs to be all about success, or should we post our failures ans where we went wrong as well?

That might be too simple of a question...

yellowrubberduck · 2013-01-20T04:02:16+00:00

Okay guys, first some back story. Im a 19yo guy, kinda lost all my game when a serious relationship ended baddly. Had bad depression so I have no life anymore. I have an interesting job, professional entertainer (sounds better than birthday clown)

My question, where I live there isnt anything to do except get drunk, or go to the movies. What are some things I can do with girls other than bar/movies? I dont want to ask the girl to plan the date.

throwawaymac01 · 2013-01-18T22:59:11+00:00

I hope the people answering are still around, and I hope this question is simple enough!

I met some close friends of one of my very good [girl] friends a few weeks ago, and one has been throwing me IOIs for a while. While she is cute and all, I am far more attracted to another one of the friends. I have spent a few nights hanging out with all of them together, along with my friends. How do I make a move on the one I like without causing a conflict in the group? What should I avoid doing that would damage potential gaming of any of the girls in the group?

gordonthrows · 2013-01-18T23:20:49+00:00

I'm still not able to approach during the day.

I've made some approaches in parties, but I'm not exactly a party type of guy. I've been trying to do what the guys at http://www.youtube.com/user/daygametv and http://www.youtube.com/user/simplepickup do, but I just freeze when a hot girl passes by. I've been reading about the subject for a while (maybe I ever read too much), but still haven't put almost any of it to practice. I know you guys probably are sick of "How to get rid of anxiety" questions, but after walking my whole lunch break today just frozen in fear, I believe I need some help.

beiOnkelKoefteGrill · 2013-01-19T00:13:52+00:00

on a date I always aim to sit next to the girl, but if she ends up on the opposing side of the table what's a nonchalant way to start physical contact (that doesn't involve handreading) ?

charmingwit · 2013-01-19T00:49:13+00:00

everyone here tell you how to talk and be confident and which is great but for me the weak point and the peice of the puzzle I want to figure out is how to move from a number to getting a date to sex. I always seem to get numbers easily and some dates too but it usually don't proceed any forward than that.

-colors · 2013-01-19T01:57:01+00:00

How do you isolate one girl in a set of two without a wingman?

carpetmug · 2013-01-19T02:10:53+00:00

I got what I consider might be a date in a few days. I hit a cute girl in my science class the other day and I mentioned I had 2 hours to kill since I have gaps between my classes. She told me she works in the coffee shop on campus and will be there on Sunday doing paperwork or some shit and I should show up if I have time to kill on Sunday. I can tell she likes me. What do I do? I live off campus and my lazy ass is considering not even driving over there. I'm creating reasons I shouldn't go like if things don't go well it will be obvious that I drove all the way over there just to see her and this will make me look bad or something. What do I do? How should I escalate? What should I do if she isn't a great conversationalist? She seemed kinda socially awkward when I talked to her briefly. Maybe that's why I want her. I feel like a lion attacking a gazelle with three legs that still looks damn good. She has both of her legs, she just seemed a little lets say unique. She's pretty. I didn't get her number but I'm confident I could have if I asked. Advice? Funny thing is a year ago I was the most shy, depressed, high, and socially awkward person around and after reading a few books, lurking on this sub for a while, making new friends, and initiating conversations I've managed to become a bit of a character. I still have AA, but I nut up and overcome it a lot more than I used to. I still puss out too much. I have charisma, dress better, and have a lot less fear. I smile constantly now, something I never used to do. I'm a pretty good-looking guy and get told I'm cute fairly regularly. I don't know where I'm going with this. I'm already thinking "what if she's crazy, a drug addict, and OOG type person, etc.?" I don't have my own place so I can't bring her home. Some advice would be greatly appreciated.

Klinger_ · 2013-01-19T10:44:09+00:00

After getting a number from facebook event what am I supposed to do with it? should I just try to meet her more often and go for a different type of close or ask her out personally?

CallMeMoo · 2013-01-19T13:38:43+00:00

I understand the "going up and picking chicks up" part. I don't know what to say to lead to that number. Help?

adiyo011 · 2013-01-19T14:51:23+00:00

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dooit · 2013-01-19T17:19:39+00:00

How do I become interesting to 20 something women? They don't want to hear about sports or cars, I've read I'm supposed to talk about their interests but I feel like I'm interrogating them and getting simple answers back.

ThePhychoKid · 2013-01-19T23:12:39+00:00

Im not sure if this goes here, but I cant move on. I dated a girl a year ago, and she was perfect. She broke up with me because I was "clingy". I may have been, but nothing compared to her boyfriends after me. Im always thinking about her, and I have tried everything to stop. Ive dated other girls, and even stopped texting her for about a month, but it just made it worse. I'm crazy into this girl, and she's dating a complete douche, who suckered her into dating him with "mommy problems". I either want to date her, or get over her. What do I do and how do I do it? Sorry if my spelling and grammar sucks. Im on my mobile.

MrNutty · 2013-01-20T00:36:40+00:00

Two question:

I am not the type of person to goes out alone, and so usually I want to go out with friends, to have fun and enjoy their company, but during the times they cannot make it, what can I do to improve my game?
Kind of connecting with the above, how can I help me friend from stop having AA and not caring about his ego and just go and get rejected or succeed? Sometimes his mood and AA kills the fun vibe when we go out

dreamatoriumx · 2013-01-19T05:38:30+00:00

I see allot of of acronyms and slang in the posts. Can some one create a guide so those of us who haven't been around long could understand what is going on? If one exists I'd appreciate a link and apologize for my useless banter.

danielkruczek · 2013-01-19T12:52:59+00:00

What population is the HBx scale used on? The whole female population? Girls within the creepyness age scale?

Title	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/18/13 (please upvote - zero karma)
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Date	January 18, 2013 7:22 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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