Your most useful seduction tip?

Litenpes · 2025-09-10T17:39:14+00:00

The absolute best tip: Don’t come off as needy. If you feel like you’re ”leaning into” the conversation, stop.

It seems to work very well by not being try hard at all, just talk with girls how you talk with someone you’re not attracted too, but with a little banter/flirt

TeachMePersuasion · 2025-09-10T17:31:28+00:00

Tease

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-09-10T18:06:10+00:00

Always comment first when initiating and making the first approach.

This makes the interaction feel more organic and natural.

Never comment about her looks.

Comment about the situation,place, or something happening. This gives you both something to relate too and talk about.

Too many guys comment on her looks. Not only does it mean nothing and she's heard it a million times but the conversation just fades.

GO_Zark · 2025-09-10T18:56:19+00:00

Just one? Here's five.

Fucking go for it. Always be escalating.
Keep a journal of what worked, what didn't, and how you've improved your game over time. Inner game, outer game, frame control, go-to conversations, etc. Review it regularly, always be leveling up.
Control what you can control - be fit, well-dressed, and smell good. Keep eye contact with a smart grin. Show her your intent and your self-control at the same time. You can't just be thirsty all the time.
Girls just wanna have fun. Meet her at her energy level and lead both the conversation and the girl to where you want her to go.
Have other shit going for you in your life, not just chasing after skirts - leveling up in your job, volunteering, hobbies that you love and invest in, travel booked, learning languages, renovating your house, regularly interact with friends and family who love having you around / babysitting nieces&nephews, etc. Have an amazing life that she wants to slot herself into.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-09-10T17:55:52+00:00

Always have the next step in mind

You approach on the street? You already know a coffee place nearby you can take her for an instant date.

You are going on a first date? You have already cleaned your house and found a convenient way to get her home.

Meet her at a nightclub? You know a cool bar right around the corner where you can isolate her.

EvadingTaxes · 2025-09-10T18:01:46+00:00

Honestly? Eye contact. A lot of it. And sarcasm

CandidSubstance423 · 2025-09-10T19:08:44+00:00

Meet as much women as you can.

itsamatterofattitude · 2025-09-10T22:48:43+00:00

Make them want to.

The definition of seduction is getting someone to do what you want and making them feel like it's their idea.

So I want her contact info... so I'll make her want to give it to me.

I want to go out and get to know her... so I'll make her want to spend time with me.

I want to kiss her... so I'll make her want to kiss me.

I want to have sex with her... so I'll make her want to have sex with me.

Seduction is about leading someone somewhere they want to go. It's not about how many approaches you make, how many numbers you get, or how many ppl you sleep with. It's about understanding what the person sitting across from you wants, identifying whether or not it aligns with what you want, having the discipline and self control to walk away when it doesn't, and the understanding to make the journey to that destination as enjoyable and anticipated as possible for both of you.

So make them want to go to the place you want to take them.

rich_god · 2025-09-10T18:55:38+00:00

Honestly the best tip is that inner game will get you massive results in the long term.

Yamochao · 2025-09-10T18:24:38+00:00

Absolute most important: Gtfo this sub. Get a lucrative career, get fit, make friends, get educated, pursue your passions, be a good person and get some good photos taken. Sex follows success.

TotalFNEclipse · 2025-09-10T17:35:00+00:00

I tend to make eye contact and immediately flicker my tongue like a snake.

Works almost never. But feels better than rejection.

Multi_Trillionaire · 2025-09-10T20:00:19+00:00

If you approach with a smile and start talking with her and being light-hearted, and playful and teasing and not taking things too seriously.

The worst she CAN say is no, or I have a boyfriend.

If she insults you or mocks your height, your weight, how you're dressed or anything else, then she's the one who's being disrespectful and gonna look bad, not you.

Just don't be bitter or angry or react in any negative way if she does reject you.

Just smile and go " *Ah, that's too bad. Well..hope you have a good day in that case."

Then just walk backwards a step, turn around and leave.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-09-10T18:23:25+00:00

Use your brain to make decisions, not your wiener.

Rhino3750ss · 2025-09-10T17:57:52+00:00

Refraining from entering into "try hard" energy is the priority because it's incredibly easy to slip into without realizing it, especially when dealing with an 8,9, or 10.

The #1 trait that attracts women is preselection, trying too hard signals non-selection.

BeautifulFormal2172 · 2025-09-10T22:07:05+00:00

Smell good

n_Lakech · 2025-09-10T17:55:03+00:00

Elbynerual · 2025-09-10T18:32:04+00:00

Communicate with body language more than words

rallaqueso · 2025-09-11T04:45:42+00:00

pull and push, say something cool to her and then tease her and always be the one that speaks last

ChallengeSilly2170 · 2025-09-11T08:45:29+00:00

Act as if you do not need them. And if they leave, well, you can go on without them, just like you did all your life prior to meeting them.

TuxedoPinata · 2025-09-10T18:37:41+00:00

Success in this does not define your overall value as a human being.

BigBroYoshi · 2025-09-10T23:53:36+00:00

Understand there is no one tip that fits all. Try out different ways, be experimental, and don't be afraid to try something new in seduction.

spacemangoes · 2025-09-10T18:34:44+00:00

Tease, punish. Something like calling her out and the don’t apologize or budge. Stand your ground. She’ll come to your frame to appease you. If she doesn’t. After a while you can always curry her up with something but if she does, you can get away with a lot of things

Rocketustaad · 2025-09-10T19:48:56+00:00

Approaching is daily ego death if you cant accept that you probably shouldn’t be trying

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2025-09-10T20:59:53+00:00

Prepare in your mind before the main event. Work out every single scenario and have a good response ready.

PutOk1760 · 2025-09-11T04:43:14+00:00

I just lost a girl because of this very reason 😭 Guess 6-12 more months till another girl shows interest

Big_Earth_8717 · 2025-09-11T22:28:49+00:00

honestly the timing thing is so real... used to miss every window because i'd overthink it. now i just go for contact info when the conversation feels natural, not forced. like if we're talking about coffee shops ill just say "want to check out that place together sometime?" feels way less scary than making it this big moment

7Seas_ofRyhme · 2025-09-12T07:42:08+00:00

interesting

FlowSurferFromMars · 2025-09-12T10:50:21+00:00

Lead with having fun with the girl first before any sexual innuendo.

Ok_Investigator7568 · 2025-09-13T15:36:20+00:00

I had a formula that ended up with a 95% lay rate on 50+ dates on 1st or follow dates after learning on the go, but forgot it SMH. Things like speaking slowly, bringing up same dialogue, questioning techniques, escalation and bouncing to nearby locations. Now, starting slowly again

cjunc2013 · 2025-09-13T21:22:26+00:00

Be attractive

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-09-14T18:58:02+00:00

Go out lots and approach a lot

Awkward_Freedom_4551 · 2025-09-10T22:23:17+00:00

Learn and practice the fundamentals of good game.

Remote_Lettuce6249 · 2025-09-10T18:33:58+00:00

Let her make the first move.

ConjunctEon · 2025-09-10T19:17:27+00:00

Don’t let them find you creepy.

burncushlikewood · 2025-09-11T00:18:59+00:00

Be yourself and pay attention to your body language, makes a huge difference

Title	Your most useful seduction tip?
Author	Ryan_the_Scion
Upvotes	332
Comments	119
Date	September 10, 2025 5:27 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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